Wednesday last week na bude whatsapp dinta naga chat din su da wani guy har yana turo mata hearts da love words ni kuma abin ya bani haushi da na tambaye ta she tried to defend the cheating and i slapped her out of anger, sai thursday kafin in dawo da yamma ashe har ta hada kayanta ta tafi se dai nazo kawai naga letter then i called her to apologize ni ma banji dadin marin da nayi mata ba gaskiya, na bata hakuri amma tace wai se na zo gidan iyayen ta anyi wata magana, nace mata there is no need bazan sake ba to har yanzu taki dawo wa, jiya nace mata zan zo tace a'a wai sunyi tafiya sai thursday zan iya zuwa ni na ji zaman gidan ma babu dadi i really missed her kuma nayi alkawari bazan sake ba. so yanzu not knowing what she told her family da har suka barta ta dade haka kuma banyi magana da su ba ya kuke ganin ya kamata inyi handling abin?
Da farko dai bata kyautaba but kai kuma laifinka biyu saurin hann baikamata kayi mariba sannan kuma bai kamata kabar issue din yayi nisa hakaba yakamata kaje ku sasanta tunda wuri kaja mata kunnen kada takara ka nuna mata illar abinda tayi a musulunce da al'adance tun kafin third party su shiga lamarin kunaji kuna gani su rabaku kuna son juna bayadda kuka iya. Bissalam
Gaskiya abinda tayi tayi babbar kuskure bai kamata ace matar aure da ita tana hira da wanda ba muharraminta ba. Kuma kaima kayi kuskure da ka mareta. Duk wani abu da zakayi kadinga controlling temper dinka. Yanxu da ta koma gdansu kabari sai thursday din kaje idan kaje sai kaji abinda iyayen nata zasu fada maka, daga nan sai kayi musu bayanin abinda ya faru from A to Z, am very sure iyayenta ba karamin fada zasuyi mata kuma hakan shi zaisa ta natsu idan ta dawo.
Allah ya daidaita tsakaninku.. Amma gaskiya Marin dakaa mata bai dace ba... Kuma ya kamata Ku zauna Ku sasanta kanku... Ita ma abunda tayi bai dace ba..
Ni fa banga laifin ta ba Kuma i think there is more to this story, what did she write in the letter that you didn't explain here Kuma how can you slap someone ai wannan cin mutunci ne wallahi, mari fa? haba. Amma tunda you have realized your mistake and apologized you should call her and settle first before going to the house so that everything will move smoothly idan kaje. Allah yasa ku dace, Kuma you should focus more on why she is chatting with someone Kila akwai abunda yake Mata da ba ka Mata, irin romantic conversations and showing care find out why and how to keep her satisfied with your company then she won't be looking for that from another man. fighting is the last solution.
Excuse me ✋🏿!!
Kwata-kwata baiyi dai dai ba daya mareta. Amman there’s no reason whatsoever dazaisa take chatting haka da wani bayan tana cikin igiyar aure, ai bama wannan maganar.
eh ai kamata yayi suyi resolving like civilized people. as people in this modern age we should be able to talk to each other and not turn to violence. haba se kace wasu barbarians instead of him to confront her and discuss the issue sensibly kawai se ya mare ta kila ma be barta tayi mai bayani ba. Mari fa cin mutunci ne. its better da ta kare mutunci ta by going to her parents home.
Thank you all for the replies we have resolved it. Yanzu komai lafiya tsakanin mu kuma mun fahimci juna. Alhamdulillah
Masha Allah haka akeso Allah yatsare nagaba ana hakuri da juna
There is no such thing as a mistake in slapping your wife. Haven't heard what the propjet said about the rights of the wife onw of which is you should never hoit her on the face. Also, you seem to have anger issues where you lack self control. I doubt you go about slapping your friends when they make you angry.
Both of you should repent and perhaps you need to take some anger management lessons on how to handle emotional situations without resorting to violence.
Bisslam
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