Dilemma
Marriage
Anonymous Dec 29, 10:25 PM

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is it a crime if you wish to marry someone who is confortable and up to your standard. I'm not from a rich family, but due to my hard work I made it in life, Alhmdlillah. I earn half a million every month, but find it difficult to settle down because I'm over 30yrs. what else do they want from a lady?
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Msahyus Dec 29, 10:37 PM
your solution is with your rabb as you are earning good earn your lords favor connect back to him more Sabr and lots of prayer barema in today’s world kina da Dan abun hannu. ur rabb,ur rabb,I repeat ur rabb ALLAH y yi jagora 🤲🏻
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Deejah Almustapha Dec 29, 10:59 PM
well.... from my own point of view it’s ya “AGE” sorry to say kinsan wasu mazan basa son mace mai shekaru dayawa while some don’t really cares about it despite ya good earning don’t you be desperate about it God’s time is the best. i wish you all the very best of life.
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Anonymous #4 Dec 29, 11:19 PM
why worry a sister of mine find love at the age of 38 and alhamdulillah she is happly married with kids now some times jinkiri alheri neh and is better to marry late than to marry wrong keep praying dear inshallah 2023 will be your year 🥰🥰🥰
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Mmi Dec 29, 11:20 PM
Age shouldn't make you feel inferior or less of yourself pls, you deserve the best and it's ok to set a 'considerable standard'. Make sure the benchmark you set is not that exuberant to make you lose a deserving partner. Sometimes also, in as much as men desire financially stable women, they still feel intimidated by ladies who earn more than or close to their earnings. I feel you should turn to ur Rabb and pray for a righteous partner who'll wholeheartedly love and cherish you.. Allah yasa adace Best wishes.....
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Yazeed Dec 30, 03:57 AM
ur not late sister keep on praying age is just a number insha Allahu 2023 will be ur year
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Anonymous #1 Dec 30, 05:04 AM
keep money aside.she should be kind beautiful and willing to respect her husband.
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Bafferh Dec 30, 05:45 AM
It's not bad to marry someone you're having dsame economic status with or someone hu has better than you.. Its not a crime either.. But you need to sit down yourself and ask.. These people am hoping to marry.. Will they marry me? Like will they truly love n respect me?.. You'll give yourself an answer. Age is not on your side as many rich guys will prefer younger ones. After all, the most important thing is to have peace in your home.. Weather you marry rich, poor, someone earning below you or someone earning higher.. Don't b deceived by d money you earn... Look for a pious partner n enjoy your union.
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Anonymous #2 Dec 30, 08:25 AM
Assalaamu alaykum. I don't mind the age as I refer to younger naive en mata'n as "en shila" because I can't and won't tolerate their modern bs. I'm over 30 myself. I earn more or less 1/3 of what you earn. If you're willing to give it a try, notify me so I drop my email.
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Sadeeqsak Dec 30, 09:49 AM
ai kudin nan naki ne ke basu tsoro kamar bazasu iya samun soyayyarki ba. Amma ki bi duniya a sannu, InshaAllah the right person would come
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Anonymous #2 Dec 30, 10:14 AM

Ohkay. What's her name on the app so I look for her? Poster what's your name on the app? Although that's if you've registered which I hope you have.
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Anonymous Dec 30, 10:37 PM

you can just leave your profile too, for others who are interested to check you up on the app. it looks like the poster is not interested
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Anonymous Dec 31, 07:44 PM
she is on the platform.
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Anonymous Jan 14, 07:56 AM

just seeing this, already in the platform. but I don't know how to get in touch with you as displaying my name here will trigger so many things. @arewaup kindly help in this situation
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