marriage and virgin issues.. very important
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Anonymous Nov 25, 08:52 AM

marriage and virgin issues.. very important 0

To begin with, I am a guy.. so I wonder why a lot of people talk about virgins a lot or say they only want virgins... and if she is not ballagaza ce ta zubar da kanta let me crack it up wai maza su kam ba su zama disvirgined ne.. ko dai su an yafe musu. so even if a guy is not a virgin... wato shi bai zubar da kanshi ba kenan..... guys go about sleeping with ladies and even getting some disvirgined... guys do it at their own will..... But wallahi most ladies were either forced or fell in the hands of wrong people who came for love....... women can do anything for love...... I have seen good hearted people that very wise educated , ga hankali ga addini..... but not a virgin..... does that makes her any less of good person...... Na San cewa mace Tana da daraja in ta Kai budurci gidan miji....... so hakan na nufin ba ta da daraja kenan idan ba ta Kai ba.......... mace ce kadai ake so ta zamo Mai daraja..... ai har da shi ma namijin ai... what hurt me most ma...... ya gama cewa virgin zai aura.... bayan anyi auren shi kuma ya fara fita.. don shi na miji ne.....ko kuma bayan aure ya yi disvirgining in ki ya zo ya ce zai kara auren wata virgin din...... last last............. Wanda ya fi wani shine wanda ya fi tsoron Allah..... ba wai Wanda shi ne virgin ko ba virgin ba...... ladies got this post.......maza ku yi hakuri.... Amma gaskiya daya a fade ta
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Darma Sadiq Nov 25, 09:17 AM
well said bro… and as a matter of fact even if she takes her virginity to her husbands house… it no only last for one day… so guys please let this sink… Allah ya hada kowa da daidai shi
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Abu-Bakr Nov 25, 09:41 AM
walahi wannan maganar gaskiya sai kaga namiji Shiba virgin ba Amma yace Wai sai virgin zai aura
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Abu-Bakr Nov 25, 09:42 AM
There are some ways in which a lady can knw if he's a virgin or nt
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Ize Nov 25, 10:39 AM

tell us please
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Abu-Bakr Nov 25, 11:12 AM

My gender bazasu ji Dadi ba
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Aminatuuuh Nov 25, 02:39 PM

dakwai one thing dake raina shine,wasu mazan sun kasa gane cewan virginity doesn't make a good wife, wata takai virginity din amma auren beyi lasting ba sbd batada hali mai kyau, and wata batakaiba sai muga auren da ake cewa takalmin kaza ♾ is better someone prayed for a righteous spouse both ladies and the gentlemans sai addua
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Anonymous #3 Nov 25, 10:20 PM
well said
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Anonymous #1 Nov 26, 09:57 AM
Nice take, but it's not a matter of showing preference akan virgins, akwai wadanda they were raped, circumstances, wasu kuma fell into the trap of someone they truly loved, irin wadannan it was against their will and they deserve good husbands too. A nawa ganin, the demand for virgins will reduce immortality and zina, wasu matan iskanci ne sorry to say, some do it for the money, they want to feel among. If men keep demanding for virgins, a lady that knows bazata auru ba will preserve her chastity and virginity till marriage kaga an rage zina, halaka da yaduwar zunubi cikin alumma..
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Darma Sadiq Nov 26, 12:04 PM

that's it, some think they re wise after mingling with different ladies up/ down, influencing some innocent among them and later on when getting married they will be concerned about virginity issues... Ae ba'ayi ma Allah wayo
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Halima Ibrahim Abdullahi Nov 26, 05:17 PM
BaarakaAllahu 👏fikh for this excellent post, Allah ya ganar da masu yi ya shiryemu baki daya,Ameen.
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Anonymous Nov 26, 07:04 PM

I am the poster, what am trying to say is it's not only about the ladies guys too ai su ma suna loosing virginity din su........ let's look at it from both ends
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Darma Sadiq Nov 26, 11:21 PM

Yea... But it surely gonna backfire someday... Amin thumma Amin
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Mimi durlin Nov 27, 05:40 PM
well said
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Las fille aux habit blanc Dec 1, 12:32 AM
I haven’t read something heart felt like this in a long time. we need great minds like yours.
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Anonymous #4 Dec 1, 01:53 PM

don't mind them please
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Viperrr Dec 3, 06:38 AM
Toh ni de i have to say my mind. I take virginity seriously. I'm in my early 30s, and have never had sex. I've had lots of chances to do dat(ps: I'm a lecturer) but gani nike nà cuci wife dina idan nayi(my view). I'm single for that matter 😂. Kuma lafiyata lau wollah. Sometimes the shaidan in me tells me to go and do it but hometraining and religious consciousness stops me from doing that. Tbvh yadda na kàme kaina, i would love to have a lady thats also like me.. I don't think I can forgive my wife if I find her to not to be a Virgin, if u've endulged in sexual activities b4 our marriage JUST DON'T TELL ME kazantar da baka gani ba tsapta ce. if molested or raped, wannan kuma is understandable. So bà wai na dauki issue din virginity da wani girma bane. You know there are people that'll just be kuku checking, looking for it on daren farko, if she's Virgin or not, I'm not that type. Kawai de i just want a clean chaste spouse.
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Muhammad Jeedderh Dec 16, 01:41 PM
well said dear🥰🙏
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Fatima Zarah Dec 16, 06:59 PM
Allah ya biyaka brother. Sometimes wllhi wata disvirgin inma tafi virgin in hankali da tarbiya. Bakasan inda khair inka yake bah.... Most of the people who are disvirgined are either forced or fell in the hands of the wrong people as you said. No girl or lady will let her self dignity go astray.
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Thamarah Dec 24, 07:18 PM

pls share with us
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Meeno S Dec 26, 09:11 PM
Maasha Allaah well said
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