"Ciwon 'ya mace na 'ya mace ne"?

bawani abu bane, Dan saurayi ya auri bazawara, amma kunsan su iyayenmu, musanman mata suna kallon abubuwa da yawwa a zaman auren wanda ba daidai bane su kalla hakan, saidai Allah yasa mudace

kuma wannan yafi faruwa a Arewa a cikin hausawa kuma wai suna iƙirarin cewa su musulmai ne na gari ai iyaye mata na kuskure ta wannan fanni

Ai dane ciwon ya mace na ya mace ne ba yanxu ba

Ameen ya Rabb

Sosai fa. inada cousin da mamanshi ta hanashi auren bazawara

Nidai Honestly speaking bazan iya auran Bazawara ba As a first wife, and i have my different reasons, zan iya aura as second wife depending on Things I don't knw for now, maybe idan bata taba haihuwa ba, Las las kowa nada opinion dinshi, but I don't give a damn if a lady is a virgin or not, I jst won't marry someone that have a bad reputation. I come in Peace 🕊️✌️

Oga sir what are the reasons please? And what do you mean by "someone that have a bad reputation"?

I will go out of line if i speak my mind, and what i mean by bad reputation is, i wouldn't want to marry a lady that makes name for being a bad girl, E.G a lady that sleep around with jst any nonsense guy..

Ok, understood😅

hmmm

There is the story of Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him), whose father had died, leaving him with sisters. In his case it would not have been suitable for him to marry a virgin who was young like them. So he wanted to marry a woman who had been previously married, who could take care of them and look after them, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) approved of his decision. It was narrated that Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with them both) said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) asked me, ‘Have you got married?’ I said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘A virgin or a previously-married woman?’ I said, ‘A previously-married woman.’ He said, ‘Why not a young girl, whom you could play with and she could play with you?’ I said, ‘I have sisters and I wanted to marry a woman who could gather them together and comb their hair and take care of them.’ He said: ‘You will reach, so when you have arrived (at home), I advise you to associate with your wife (that you may have an intelligent son).’”

I still prefer to go for Bazaura if she's of good character than wanda ba Auren tayi ba but have been engaged with multiple men.

just like how I don’t want to marry wanda ya taba aure🤮🤮🤮 ko yake da aure

Its ur opinion and i respect ur decision, Afterall kece zaki zauna dashi so it is very important to follow your heart at all times

I said my mind 🕊️

Allah ya sa mu dace amma yanzu mace ko 20yrs take in dai ta taɓa aure da wahala ki ga ta auri saurayi