"Ciwon 'ya mace na 'ya mace ne"?
Marriage
Anonymous Mar 27, 01:33 PM

"Ciwon 'ya mace na 'ya mace ne"? 0

We are quite often been told that all women (virgin or nonvirgin) are the same when it comes to marriage, right? But why is it that most mothers are highly against their sons (first marriage) marrying a woman that has been married before? Is there a reason? What happened to "ciwon 'ya mace na 'ya mace ne"?
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Mohammadou Mar 27, 02:39 PM
bawani abu bane, Dan saurayi ya auri bazawara, amma kunsan su iyayenmu, musanman mata suna kallon abubuwa da yawwa a zaman auren wanda ba daidai bane su kalla hakan, saidai Allah yasa mudace
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UmmuIslam Mar 27, 05:28 PM
kuma wannan yafi faruwa a Arewa a cikin hausawa kuma wai suna iƙirarin cewa su musulmai ne na gari ai iyaye mata na kuskure ta wannan fanni
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Abu-Bakr Mar 28, 02:40 AM
Ai dane ciwon ya mace na ya mace ne ba yanxu ba
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Nasssss9 Mar 28, 03:47 AM
Nidai Honestly speaking bazan iya auran Bazawara ba As a first wife, and i have my different reasons, zan iya aura as second wife depending on Things I don't knw for now, maybe idan bata taba haihuwa ba, Las las kowa nada opinion dinshi, but I don't give a damn if a lady is a virgin or not, I jst won't marry someone that have a bad reputation. I come in Peace 🕊️✌️
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Nasssss9 Mar 28, 01:56 PM

I will go out of line if i speak my mind, and what i mean by bad reputation is, i wouldn't want to marry a lady that makes name for being a bad girl, E.G a lady that sleep around with jst any nonsense guy..
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Bulama A Mar 30, 08:57 AM
There is the story of Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him), whose father had died, leaving him with sisters. In his case it would not have been suitable for him to marry a virgin who was young like them. So he wanted to marry a woman who had been previously married, who could take care of them and look after them, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) approved of his decision. It was narrated that Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with them both) said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) asked me, ‘Have you got married?’ I said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘A virgin or a previously-married woman?’ I said, ‘A previously-married woman.’ He said, ‘Why not a young girl, whom you could play with and she could play with you?’ I said, ‘I have sisters and I wanted to marry a woman who could gather them together and comb their hair and take care of them.’ He said: ‘You will reach, so when you have arrived (at home), I advise you to associate with your wife (that you may have an intelligent son).’”
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Anonymous #2 Mar 30, 08:59 AM

I still prefer to go for Bazaura if she's of good character than wanda ba Auren tayi ba but have been engaged with multiple men.
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Nasssss9 Mar 30, 09:14 PM

Its ur opinion and i respect ur decision, Afterall kece zaki zauna dashi so it is very important to follow your heart at all times
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Nasssss9 Mar 30, 09:15 PM

I said my mind 🕊️
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UmmuIslam Mar 31, 03:18 AM

Allah ya sa mu dace amma yanzu mace ko 20yrs take in dai ta taɓa aure da wahala ki ga ta auri saurayi
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