should i marry now or after im done with school?
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Anonymous Aug 29, 06:05 PM

should i marry now or after im done with school? 0

so I Met one guy in school when I went for exams and the guy has been stalking me since ,he chatted me one day on WhatsApp ,he introduced himself as my coursemate and I recognized him and saved his contact since then this guys usually chat me up but I usually give him a reply I don't return the vibes (because I didn't notice he's into me ) then one I posted a video of my self saying something and he commented on it since then I understand that he's really good in islam I start liking him so this guy sha this guy proposed to me and I accepted him oo and now after like three weeks of knowing each other he said he want to send his people and I'm scared of getting married now I'm young to get married now and I'm not yet done with school kuma he's also a student in the school kuma a semester ahead of me he said he want his wife to wear hijab all the time and a housewife not going to work she's going to do her business at home we barely know each other kuma fah just three weeks fah kuma he want children fah and he's doesn't want to wait for like a year or two before im done with school .he said he want a child after we are married fah im Just 18
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Meenah2 Aug 29, 06:15 PM
ikon Allah...well poster 2 things ar involve here s either u get married tunda ai anayin karatu da aure nd 18 yrs suna aure ai..or ki haqura da auren ki cigaba da karatunki har kisamu wnda ra'ayinku yazo daya Dan na lura dis guy ra'ayinku baizo daya ba Kinga akwai problem kenan
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AnDex_Blaq Aug 29, 06:48 PM
3 weeks is too short to know important stuffs about a person, pertaining his/her characters, your choices and how you see life and everything, do you guys even know each other’s genotype, blood group and health status, you should tell him to take it slow so your guys will understand if you really want each other before involving parents on officially meeting each other.
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Anonymous #1 Aug 29, 09:30 PM
Sending his people Nah but he can see your Daddy and ask for permission for zance and for your Dad to do some background checks on him. Then his people can come blah blah marriage 😂
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AnDex_Blaq Aug 29, 09:41 PM

Tell him you guys need to take it slow, then inform him to personally come and meet your dad to give him permission to court you, then also do a lot of bincike, because honestly just meeting someone and in 3 weeks pushing for marriage is a bit scary, that’s my personal opinion though.
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Anonymous #2 Aug 29, 11:41 PM

Tell him to give you at least 3 to 6 months to get to know him. You can't just accept his marriage proposal without you two knowing each other and knowing if you two are compatible. If you and your parents are okay with marriage while schooling, then why not. It's nice. And if he can take up the responsibilities of being married or his parents will support. Las las sha it all comes down to what you're comfortable with. Don't forget istikhara, surest solution.
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Ahmad Aysha Aug 30, 10:48 AM
This guy is funny shaaa, my be prayerful, and takes things slow especially if your opinions are not the same, tell him to go and ask permission from ur dad first.
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Al-ameen Abdullah Sep 2, 12:01 PM
hmm ikon Allah wasu suna samun dama amma suna Allah kasheni Kinga na fadamiki gsky duk abinda Allah yaza6a miki shi zai faru amma kiyi aurenki zaifi
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Al-ameen Abdullah Sep 2, 12:04 PM

ammafa anawa hangen bansan me take jira ba tunda itama tace mutum ne Mai addini indai ba kuma tana ganin akwai maysala b
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Ahmad Aysha Sep 2, 02:14 PM

I'm a lady too so this girl is complaining indirectly, if she wants to be with him she won't ask for others' opinion, I think he should see her parents first.
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