Please help a friend
Marriage
Anonymous Oct 23, 10:06 PM

Please help a friend 1

Salam ma/sir A friend of mine ask me to advice her on this issue She is married with 3 kids but her husband has never come to her or ask her for sex unless if she go to him and most time he push her away, she said that she only have sex maybe once in 3 or four month that if he didn't turn her down.she was a very beautiful lady before marriage fine shape but she has added weight due to child birth Now she is tired of marriage and she want to leave,Please is that enough reason for her to leave the marriage or she should work on her body because he once told her back then that his attracted to slim girls
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Hameerah Oct 23, 10:25 PM
First of all let her work on her body. coz separation might not be a solution and the devil you know is better than the angel u don't plus islamically ma ba a son mutuwar auren what some scholars are saying shine inde zata iya haquri ta jure knowing that hakan baze sa ta fada yin zina ba tho most likely is she should be patient ta cigaba da zama da shi but if she can't be then she can go for divorce. May Allah choose what is the best for us
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Abdulmajeed A Oct 24, 07:44 AM
First and foremost, she need to engage her husband to know if he still loves her or not and he does and she do love him too, then they both need to work on their relationship to keep the marriage. Secondly, she needs to also work on herself, giving birth is not an excuse for her beauty🤗.. It's understandable that she's going through all this because of the fact that her husband is not treating her well expecially for not making her feel like a woman for denying her sex which is her right without begging for it.. Sex is part of what keeps marriage and if not taken seriously could lead collapse of marriage. All these can cause mental illness and lots more for and make her depressed too.. Finally, if the husband is not ready to listen to her to make ammendments, then she should speak out or further seek divorce to save her from this situation.
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Hauwau Sulaiman Lere Oct 24, 11:38 AM
Let her work on her body and they should talk one on one if it takes to talk with the parent which am sure the husband will not want that to happen so Insha Allah he will change. if he is not enjoying her ne toh she should know. amma maza ma I don't see why u will deny ur wife sex idan da matsala matar ka ce tell her sai ta gyara. Allah yasa mu dace
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Haidar Aliyu Nov 5, 09:57 AM
Tell her go to their parents for advice
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