Abubakar Usman
May 25, 03:37 PM
My Opinion on Courtship
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Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi I hope and pray everyone on this platform and beyond are all doing fine Alhamdulillah.
There are a lot of unserious people with unpure emotional intentions when it comes to marriage this days, this maybe due to the window given by social media for both genders to scaout and preview multiple potential persons as options for courtship. that had led the few serious ones to either have negative thought when starting a new courtship or be in a defend mode, especially for our sisters. such negative thoughts had made most courtships uncomfortable and unserious.
At this point, I can only talk to my fellow brothers because I don't know exactly what ladies are facing. I believe the most effective way to either marry to the lady you love is simply go straight to her parents Wallahi...
YES! just go straight to her parents bro... with or without her consent (I prefer without her consent) nobody will beat you up for doing that and if you are accepted by both the lady and her parents, then wa'lillaahil hamd the courtship will become more serious, more respectful, more blessed, more enthusiastic, more fruitful, more fovarable and pounded yam will always remain more delicious 😋...
on the other hand, if she's not interested in you, then your time and emotion is simply not wasted my brother.
If you meet her parents they will call for her attention and ask her questions and set her mind straight to reality of life and not fantasies as some ladies do. then both parents can take their time and make a research on each others origin because most ladies can easily be influenced by friends or bad guys (same goes to guys too).
see, we all need someone to tell us the truth about life, whom could be better than our beloved parents?
May Almighty Allah with HIS infinite mercy guide and protect us, may Allah extend the life of our parents and may Allah lighten the grave of our deseased parents and Aljannatul Firdausi be their finally destination bi rahmatika ya arhamal rahimiin. Ameen 🙏
remain bless 🤗 ❤️ 😎
