My co wife finally is pregnant and i'm not, i need advice
Marriage
Anonymous Sep 25, 09:32 PM

My co wife finally is pregnant and i'm not, i need advice 2

Assalamu Alaikum. Please I need help and advice am a married woman that got married last year, Amma mijina yanada mata. Basu taba haihuwa ba mukayi aure. I was here some months back about the issue of I had a delayed period and my husband thought I was pregnant, so I use the advice given and overcome it. Now his wife is pregnant and we live together wallahi kusan kullum shaidan na hanyan zugani na dinga jin haushin ciki I never attempt harming her or the pregnancy but wlhi I don't know why nake kishi sosai da Wani lokacin bana iya boyewa, I also want to be pregnant but I know it will be difficult for me, because I have irregular periods and I have make research about it, it means a woman is not ovulating if she's having an irregular periods and again namijin dare but for that alhamdulillah na dage da azkhar bacci da alola and sleeping with recitation of baqarah so I don't do that one sai mafarkin ruwa kawai. Please I need help and advice wlhi Ina cikin damuwa I also want to be pregnant I know it's just jealousy that's disturbing me but please don't judge me
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AnDex_Blaq Sep 25, 09:40 PM
Please, for the sake of Allah and the afterlife, control your jealousy and don’t harm your mate, yours will come too. She also waited this long before she became pregnant, treat her in a good way as prescribed by Islam to always treat other people right, and InShaa Allah keep making duas, yours will come.
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Habeebarty Sep 25, 10:08 PM
ki dage da addu'a control your jealous ki tayata farin ciki da xuciya daya sae Allah ya dubeki ya baki naki rabon she have been waiting for long
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Xara Sep 25, 10:41 PM

and let her just know that komai nada lokacin shi, the God that prevented your Co-wife pregnancy is the same God that made it possible for it now, poster yours is also coming at it's destined time, just have faith in your lord.
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Ibrahim 1 Sep 26, 12:41 AM
everything you have written so far I didn't understand..English with another language is very difficult for me to figure it out... God will help you.... in any situation you are going true is only God that can help you ask for help from allah. and will help you
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Anonymous #1 Sep 26, 07:10 AM
and medically those aren't enough reason not to get pregnant... Kawai Allah ne bai Kawo ba mai Miki ba....
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N F Sep 26, 09:46 AM
Why not go to a fertility clinic, irregular periods is enough reason for you to go see a doctor. Kishi is normal but pray over it so it doesn't make you do anything bad. try and enjoy your marriage as you do other things.
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Anonymous #2 Sep 26, 06:32 PM
Allah Ya baki ikon controlling kanki, Allah Ya baki mai albarka
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Anonymous #3 Sep 27, 06:35 AM
Having kids is not the end of the world, Madam!!! infact what is the big deal in that? You are just worrying yourself over things that are rather complex and unpredictable. Careful what you wish for yourself on the basis of comparing yourself to others
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Safiya yakubu Sep 27, 07:33 PM
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Anonymous #4 Oct 16, 06:34 AM
you need to be hardworking sister
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