I want my parents to reconcile, life has been really difficult living with separated parents
Anonymous Mar 23, 07:29 PM

I want my parents to reconcile, life has been really difficult living with separated parents 0

my parents have been separated for 8years our father made us stay with him without asking what we wanted for the past 8years I and my siblings have not been happy with things my dad always gets a chance to insult my mother in our presence saying so much rubbish things just to make us dislike her. He later got married and his wife is doing the same thing we had to run away from the house to our mother place. We have been patient thinking everything will be fine one day when we are patient and quite but still things haven't changed yet we tried talking to our father but all he says Is he will send us to her without any trouble but we should forget we have a father he does that and manipulate us to stay with him and his wife unwillingly. He really has never asked us what we want because he knows what his doing isn't right we just want him to bring our mother back to us or let us stay with her she's working and is not Married and he should do the necessary(school fees, food, and Co. )but he is not understanding and is not listening to anyone in the family. I just want to be connected to a very known mallam or advicer or anyone that can talk to my father and bring the end of our problems. People have tried talking to him but he never listens or even agree to meet up all my maternal family have tried he also don't want us to relate to any family of my mother please help me get a person that can do our family a favour my mum's isn't married and she loves our father still we also want her to be back his the only one being stubborn.
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Ramatu salihu Mar 23, 08:06 PM
just pray because Allah is d all doing use dis holy month to pray to Allah and if it is alkairi Allah ya sa a dace
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Mai Nama Kano Mar 23, 08:12 PM
Cigaba da addu'a, mu namu divorced for more than 20yrs, ya zamar mn jiki ma zaman hk
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MuhammadS Mar 23, 10:53 PM
complicated
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Anonymous #2 Mar 24, 04:31 PM
O Allah! Reconcile our hearts, amend what is between us, guide us to the paths of peace, save us from the darkness [and admit us] to light, and save us from obscenities, inwardly or outwardly, and bless our hearing, seeing, hearts, spouses and offspring. And accept our repentance, indeed You are the Ever Accepting of Repentance, the Merciful, and make us thankful for Your favours. All praise is due to You. Accept our good deeds and complete them for us. [Abu Dawood No. 969, Al-Hakim No. 977 
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Anonymous #1 Mar 29, 11:44 PM
My parent have also been separated since 2008, it's not easy growing up among separated parents. My advice is all you can do is pray for the best and make sure you don't produce a separated home. Wallahi watarana rabuwan shine mafi Alkhairi. For us, we were opportune to be staying with our mother and Alhsmdulillah she sacrificed everything for us. All of us are graduate with masters at tender age and Alhamdulillah duk mun sauke qurani.
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