don't shame arewa women

assalamu alaikum brothers and sisters in Islam I'm so pissed off I read a recent post that states that arewa women don't know how to be good in bed pls what manner of disrespect is that? and the person saying this was an arewa man in a world full of biased people and disunity you should love and support your women we the arewa women where born and brought up in absolute modesty we where thought to dress modest and keep close until our wedding night which is why most of us are shy pies but that doesn't hide the fact that one day we will get married and definitely open our legs for another man and nobody is running away from that if only they know how bad we learn about sex education they won't say that trash I personally met an older woman who said idan de har kinyi aure ki zama karuwa(ashawo) a gidan mijin ki it was all good and funny but don't shame arewa women you can go ahead and marry other people we don't mind but pls let us be. but note if we get married we are opened to learning new things this might not apply to every woman but mata ba wuya an sha kan su and to tell you that if you stay virgin you have won everything in life you have won your husband you have won respect from people you have won as a woman and the society as a whole don't let a man deceive you to do zina in the name trend or prove a point stay modesty sister idan maza sukayi ado ne a wajen su( wannan kuma su da Allah) but you as a lady it will destroy your life and future.