im broken guys
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Anonymous Dec 13, 05:28 PM

im broken guys 0

Salm everyone so I'm in pain and tears I haven't been able to sleep properly for the past few days in my life my heart is heavy so i made a post previously so the thing that my boyfriend that we met in uni that has gotten someone now the thing is we talked on everything about what is happening on how to solve the problem the thing now he said he doesn't know what to do about the situation because the other lady has informed her parents about him kuma he was going to go and see them he said he doesn't know what to tell her now the things this guy is contemplating with between me and her now because now I told him I'm ready to get married to him Now Wlh I love this guy so much than anything in this life I'm ready to make this thing work Wlh like I don't want to lose him I want him to be mine forever I got attached to him because of how religious he's and I really see a lot of changes in life when he came into my life now I dont what to do kuma I don't want to force the relationship because if I do it might not end well
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Deejangala Dec 13, 05:51 PM
Did you guys break up and then he moved on?
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Anonymous Dec 13, 05:53 PM

Noo it's not like that we are dating each other and he wanted to see my family and I told him I'm not ready till I'm done with school and I asked him to have another girlfriend since I'm not ready I don't to waste his time kuma I love him so much
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Anonymous #2 Dec 13, 07:10 PM
you already made a mistake from the beginning by approving to your boyfriend to go and look for another girlfriend. but we man sometimes we are dynamic in making decisions. just pray the feeling is having for the second girlfriend didn't pass your own. if not he will still choose the second girlfriend
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Deejangala Dec 13, 09:41 PM

Honestly speaking, you chasing him now is not fair both for him and the girl in question. You had your chance but you misused it. If it is possible for you to move on then please do and let them be. I believe if you had met someone better than him you wouldn't be here.
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Abdulwaliyyu Dec 13, 09:46 PM
you've made a grave mistake and believe when it comes to making a choice between you and the other person he's most likely to choose her cus you've already created that uncertainty towards yourself.
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Anonymous #1 Dec 14, 04:56 AM
I’m in the same boat with my fiancee. I hope she doesn’t regret it too. I’d like to keep her as my second wife though even if I found someone else. She’s someone I wouldn’t wanna lose to any man. If your bf is financially stable and can be fair, he should marry yall both.
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Deejangala Dec 14, 07:30 AM

If that's the case, then pray fervently and if he is the best for you Allah will send him your way. Just play it cool and classy, hold on to tahajjud, recite these du'as with a clean heart frequently. Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer and Allahumma iyyaka na'abudu wa iyyaka nasta'een. All the best
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