can love develop after marriage?
Marriage
Anonymous Jan 4, 05:35 PM

can love develop after marriage? 0

I mean can I marry someone I am not inlove with. wanda zai aure ni shi yana sona amma wlhi ni bana jin sonshi a raina though bamu fi 2 to 3 months ba yanzu shi yanaso ya turo ayi maganan aure amma na kasa bashi baki saboda bana son ayi abinda zai sani damuwa. please a piece of advice 😩🙏🏻
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Anonymous #1 Jan 4, 05:42 PM
pls if he has a good character wlhi ki aureshi..kece zakiji dadi nan gaba..gwara ki auri Wanda yakesonki Dan ki auriWanda ke kikeso
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Seeyermerh Jan 4, 06:08 PM
kiyi ta addua ai daman gwara k auri wanda yake sonka zaki sosa
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Zuwaira Yusuf Jan 5, 07:36 AM
of course, you can love after marriage, love is not a joke and it's not something that develops overnight it needs nurturing to stay, and just because you only know him for 2 months doesn't mean you can't love him after knowing him for a time if he has good characteristics then go for it and what's more, don't forget you said he loves you
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Anonymous #2 Jan 5, 09:00 AM
Dear poster, please take your time and decide if you'll be able to be a good wife to him, if not, don't marry him no matter how good he is. I am telling you this from experience, I married someone I didn't love, it's been five years and I still don't love him, infact I despise him, I feel suffocated. I regret it! your case might be different, but it's a big risk if you're willing to take. I'd advise you to perform istikhara and pray a lot. I also did istikhara and prayed a lot. though it never felt right, I listened to people and I married him. now I live a miserable life. If you think you'll be able to discharge your duties as a wife, you are good to go, if not you'll need to put yourself first in this situation and not do anything that'll compromise your relationship with your creator, your first and foremost duty. Ina miki fatan alkhairi and may you not make a decision that you'll regret.
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Anonymous Jan 6, 10:02 AM

I think I will just let him be gaskia coz Allah yasan baya burge ni and nidin inada wahala in banason mutun bana son inje inyi auren da zai kaini wuta. zanyi yita adua in sha Allah thank you 🙏🏻
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Safiyya Suleiman Gachi Jan 9, 04:53 AM

gaskiya ki hakuri. idan bakya son mutum ko hannunki ya taba zakiji kamar an watsa miki wuta,bakya iya masa wani abu da zai faranta ransa,sai dai in akwai tausayi a tsakani,kinsan in mutum ya mutu kanka kai kuma baka jinsa wlh tausayi yake baka musamman in yana kokarin kyautata maka sosai.Da ki cuta masa ko ku cuta ma juna gara ki hakura,babu wannan bond din tsakani,Allah zai kawo miki wanda kike so kika natsu da shi
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