I know this is very long bcuz I didn't notice the length until I finished. I visited like four of my married friends and wallahi all their complaints idan muna hira is da sunsani da basuyi aure ba kuma the annoying fact is that one of them ma Malami ne fa ...ayi ma other two din uzuri, wannan malami ne kuma ma yana koyarda matan aure amman duk da haka yana musguna wa matan shi a gida. Wallahi banida mashinshini amman duk da haka sun tsoratani akan harkan aure. Nasan it's not pure happiness cause rayuwa zomu saba zomu sapa ne. Wallahi ni shaida ce lokacin dayazo mata da maganan soyyayya, Yabi duka kaidan which gaskiya abin burgewa ne cause only a few ask for permission at home daga haduwa, ya nuna mata tsantsan soyayya mu kuma muna can muna God whennnn amman yanzu abin ba'a magana. Mazaa wallahi kuji tsoron Allah, menene ke sawa ku canza idan anyi auren, mezai hana kanuna mata yanda kake instead of yaudara, wallahi akwai hakkin ta akanku kuma ranan gobe qiyama sai Allah Ya tambaye ku. Mata dazaran sunyi aure wlhii iya kokarin su suke kawai suga sun burge miji, komai da zasuyi saboda farin cikin ka ne amman sai kuga mazan suna wulakantardasu just because they feel they are the bosses now. On social media, y'all show cewa kunsan right and wrongs dinku, kunsan hakkin matarku akan ku amman a badini ba haka kuke aikatawa ba. We all need to work on ourselves!!! let it not be one sided, da zaran anyi aure mu saka a ranmu cewa mutukaraba ne let's try to correct ourselves instead of just going out. Maza karku manta, mu mata ku kadai ne damu amman ku fah kuna da ikon samu har kala hudu, wannan kadai bai isa ya sa ku tausaya muna ba, aii wlhi albarkacin kaikadai zamu zauna da yaci ace kun girmama wannan. The main reason why i came here to pour my heart out is because wallahi i want change😭😭😭. Alamarin Auren da tsoro wallahi, its not all about the instagram reels we see. Nasan mazan ma ana ce musu suyi hakuri amman wallahi the ratio of hakurin maza to that of mata is 1:4, sai kaji wasu matan nacewa wallahi zaman yayana nikeyi😭😭😭💔💔💔 wato abubuwan da yakeyimata ne yasa taji zaman ya fita ranta amman ya ta iya💔 shi kuma fahh, at anytime sai yazo yace shi aure zaiyi kuma bbu abin da ta isa tayi mishi💔 Kai Rayuwa, Allah Yasa mugama da rayuwarmu lafiya, mu rabu da iyayen mu lafiya, wadanda suka rigamu gidan gaskiya Allahu Rabbi Ya Kai Rahama garesu, muma idan namu yazo yasa mu cika da kyau da Imani Kuma yabamu masoyan da zasu kaunacemu su kuma somu, su daraja mu su kuma ji tausayin mu. Allahumma Ameen🤲🏻✨