So I am getting married next month, based on our culture in Arewa? what are general expectations from both sides, husband and wife.
From, emotional, financial, welfare and all
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first of all don't expect perfection from her, know that she is weak and I mean very weak, first expression last longer inji masu iya magana, but sincerely duk yanda kayi tolerating ɗinta for now (from the beginning) shi zata ci gaba da zama dakai akai, be very serious in terms of religious matters first 👌 take this in mind is ur responsibility to monitor and teach her in this, and is the first thing that can grant a happy living don't play with it, respect her, be friends with her, involve her in decision making, support her even before she ask, most importantly show her Love and frequently remind her of ur love for her and let her do the same to you( be like a teacher in this, assume u will teach her everything from the beginning)
how about when it comes to finances?
A tsarin musulunci you should make sure zka iya taking equal responsibility or higher than abinda iyeyenta suke mata before ta aure ka.
idan tuwo da miyan kuka take ci ba'a so ka Rika bata tukurkusu, Anfi son ka bata tuwon shinkafa ko shinkafa
idan atamfa na 10k ake Siya mata ba'a so ka Siya mata na 5k sedai 11k.
so tsarin musulunci ba'a so kayi downgrading na yanayin da yarinya ta taso
Kuma a adalci Koda Matanka 2 waccan na farkon abincin masu kudi take ci waccan ta biyu na talakawa a adalci ko wace abinda ta Saba zaka bata sedai idan da dama ka dai-daita abinci sbd adalci na zamantaewa
Allah shi ne masani. Allah ya bamu ikon kyautatawa matayen mu.
Maganarki haka take yar'uwa... Allah yakara basira
Dan uwa dai
Yace dan uwa dai 😂😂
eh mana 😂
be open to her, let her know when you have and when you're not financially stable
Hakane yi hakuri
yes komai a Bude bbu boyo. shi ysa I don't live a life that I can't afford.
😂😂tom
Remember that your wife will turn out to be what you train her to be. Treat her with love and respect, but do not give away your self respect.
Allah Ya sa albarka
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