Meyasa ake yin lefen aure? Dole ne?
Marriage
Anonymous Dec 15, 08:44 PM

Meyasa ake yin lefen aure? Dole ne? 1

Because of this, wasu har suna tunani lefe addini ne. not knowing culture ne kawai, beda hada komai ba da addini. meyasa mu hausawa muka maida abin big deal?
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Anonymous #1 Jan 6, 12:10 AM
Let me ask you a question in return. Yin kayan daki dole ne? Gara ma dole ne?
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Zahra'u Muhammad Jan 6, 07:49 PM

Haka shima lefe ba dole ba ne. But lets look at the good side of yin kayan lefe. Lefen nan pa in kayi kai za ayi wa kwalliya dashi kuma in tayi ka yaba sai ku dukan ku samu lada. It's not ibada but its a path for ibada. Men should stop complaining about yin lefe. Sun manta da ita amarya ita zata kawata maka gd from your kitchen to your bedroom, tazo da gara to feed you for some months. Duk total din kudin abubuwan nan can pay the rent of your house (if haya ne) and do biki da lefe.
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Hamis Ahmad Jan 6, 11:52 PM

You are somehow right. Culture ne kawai. i think the poster is trying to say mutane su dauke shi as Al'ada not something compulsory
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MsDiyajo Nov 17, 02:17 PM
fine granted… ba Sai anyi lefe ba…. shebi you go provide clothes for her!!! as a man who is marrying her and paying her dowry it’s YOUR responsibility to feed shelter CLOTH protect defend maintain and care for her health….. now tell me…. where in this is written or stated “kayan daki” for the bride? if anyone is to complain it’s the brides side… please know what the deen said with regards to how you are to Islamically marry your spouse…. just because it’s in our culture and Islam accommodates it…. that doesn’t mean it’s okay for you to say what’s the need… now if you had said it’s inappropriate to ask for the size of her underwear’s that would’ve been a different thing… Allah ya mana mai kyau
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