How should one feel after her husband finds out she's not a virgin?
Marriage
Anonymous Dec 20, 06:41 PM

How should one feel after her husband finds out she's not a virgin? 1

Salam, As amarya how do you feel after your first night knowing fully your husband finds out you are not a virgin? As ango how do you feel finding your wife isn't a virgin?
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Jibril saeed Dec 20, 06:44 PM
I never marry yet.
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Saudat abbas Dec 20, 06:59 PM
randa nayi aure insha Allah I will answer ur tmby😊
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Anonymous #1 Dec 20, 07:00 PM

🤣🤣🤣. In advance how would you feel?
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Jibril saeed Dec 20, 07:04 PM

it'll not happen like that insha Allah, am the one to open it brand new.🙏
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Anonymous #2 Dec 20, 07:36 PM

we hope so if u didn't open another girl own b4 dt time
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Nasssss9 Dec 20, 07:52 PM
I will ask her to tell me everything about herself before getting married so as to avoid any surprises, i don't really care if she's a virgin or not, the only thing that matters is if she's not the type that is very bad and has a bad reputation, To Me a woman with a good heart matters more...it is my opinion!!
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Anonymous #6 Dec 20, 08:01 PM
if I truly love him wlh I will feel guilty gsky coz bedace ba kuma Abin ba girmamawa a chikin Ta but may that never happen to us ya Allah 🙏🏽🙏🏽
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Anonymous #7 Dec 20, 08:12 PM
Kai to taya ake ganewa to
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Anonymous #8 Dec 20, 08:37 PM
subhanallah she'll not be surprised because she already known that she's not a virgin but she'll be ashamed
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Anonymous #5 Dec 20, 10:05 PM
Well, from my own experience. I can say that taking your virginity ‘home’ earns you a whole lot of respect from the husband. And I’d say if it’s the other way round, you won’t get as much probably. But still, I feel if you know you aren’t a virgin, please don’t tell him anything. Don’t!! Allah Ya ce ka suturta zunubin ka. As for now, just abstain. Abstinence for a long time makes it hard for them to notice you ain’t a virgin. And bleeding doesn’t signify virginity.
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Trustee Dec 21, 04:30 AM
Ya kuwa zakai...Take hrt and embrace it.. kaga mu baza muce ka sake ta ba niether do we advice u kai mata wani abun.. Btw how do u know ma she is not vagin......Vaginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage Alhaji.
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Jibril saeed Dec 21, 05:30 AM

so you Don dey suspect me say I knack?
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Anonymous #2 Dec 21, 07:34 AM

u never can tell🤷‍♀️
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Meenerh MG Dec 21, 08:56 AM
marriage means rayuwa ta har abada da dadi ko ba dadi.. you should have been sincere to him since the beginning to avoid the matsala…. Gaskiya shi yake determining zaman aure .. ynxu ze yi wuya ya qara yarda da ke
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Anonymous #3 Dec 21, 09:38 AM
chabb Chamwakiya kenan uh people dakuke cewa virginity isn't matters karya kuke wlh sai dai idan bakwaso ku auri mumina saboda duk wnda ko wacce tayi zina topha sai ansamu cikin yaranta wnda shima xaiyi xinan. Toh dai Allah yabamu mata nagari
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Anonymous #4 Dec 21, 10:00 AM

Wallahi wannan gaskia ne, there is this woman in our area her first daughter was caught with a container in their room with sand, she used it to spit, her Aunty suspected that she is pregnant, so they took her for test and comfirmed she is 4 months pregnant, wallahi when the investigation started, it was revealed that even her mom was pregnant and aborted the pregnancy before marrying her father, it was there the father collapsed. May Allah protects us from zina, and provides us with pious women, that why it's part of the right of of a child over his father to choose a pious mother for him. There is this saying in Hausa nemar wa Da uwa ta gari tun baka ganshi ba
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Nyla Aliyu Dec 21, 10:29 AM
Allah ya shirya
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Jibril saeed Dec 21, 11:56 AM

I no do at all.
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Abu-Bakr Dec 21, 12:25 PM
I will nt feel anything marriage is nt all about virginity
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Nasssss9 Dec 21, 12:47 PM

I won't argue with you about this, amma meyasa bakwa ma kanku adalci, ku maza kun yarda kuyi roaming around with all sort of women, how many men do u knw that are not virgins, u will see a man that have been with morethan 100 different ladies and yet if his woman isn't a virgin then shikenan, Saidai a rabu and so on, mu dinga ma mata adalci faa
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Sadeeqsak Dec 22, 05:21 AM
Yo wai ama ganewa ne?
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Ibraheem khaleel Dec 22, 05:41 AM

If he know virgin pa or ready yanaxuwa yasani sai dai kawai may be he can't tell her that some reason Amma yanzu dawuya kiga wanda bai san virgin ba
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Anonymous #10 Jan 17, 11:31 PM

well personal behaviors are not hereditary it's a conscious choice made due to environment influence or social media influence
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