You have 1000 naira to spend on your ideal partner pick wisely ---------------------------------------------------------- For the women 🧍‍♂️ Build Your Man – You Have ₦1000 Only 1. Pays Bills Without Complaining – ₦500 2. Extremely Faithful – ₦400 3. Funny & Playful – ₦300 4. Emotionally Available – ₦300 5. Helps with House Chores – ₦200 6. Ambitious with Clear Goals – ₦400 7. God-Fearing – ₦300 --------------------------------------------------------- For the men 🧍‍♀️ Build Your Woman – You Have ₦1000 Only 1. Submissive & Respectful – ₦400 2. Good Cook – ₦350 3. Naturally Beautiful – ₦300 4. Peaceful (No drama) – ₦400 5. Financially Independent – ₦350 No ₦1100 spending here Choose your ideal partner carefully and let's see who you’d build.

You have 1000 naira to spend on your ideal partner. Pick wisely. For the women 🧍‍♂️ Build Your Man – You Have ₦1000 Only 1. Pays Bills Without Complaining – ₦500 2. Extremely Faithful – ₦400 3. Funny & Playful – ₦300 4. Emotionally Available – ₦300 5. Helps with House Chores – ₦200 6. Ambitious with Clear Goals – ₦400 7. God-Fearing – ₦300 --- For the men 🧍‍♀️ Build Your Woman – You Have ₦1000 Only 1. Submissive & Respectful – ₦400 2. Good Cook – ₦350 3. Naturally Beautiful – ₦300 4. Peaceful (No drama) – ₦400 5. Financially Independent – ₦350 No ₦1100 spending here Choose your ideal partner carefully and let's see who you’d build.

Salam...good afternoon everyone ya aiki da qoqari, Allah ya temaka ameen. Please I'm a Biology graduate about to complete my Master’s degree at BUK, Kano. I volunteered with UNICEF working as a Ward Supervisor since 2023,facilitating social and behavioral change mobilization, resolving non compliance, community dialogues, microcensus, and antenatal/immunization data collection and transmission. Our work was recently terminated as majority of the wards were declared free of those issues, or so we were told. I’m now looking for any NGO or organization in need of volunteers please in Kano. I have a strong passion for community work especially in health sector as kano still faces challenges in maternal and child health, low immunization rates and poor antenatal care. Some communities still struggle with health misinformation and poor services. I want to contribute towards improving access to quality health care services kn underserved communities as i have plenty of time. I also run a business that sustains me so salary isn’t a must. I just want to learn, connect, and serve humanity.

Assalamu alaikum good evening pls I need advice from you and yan aji A marriage proposal came to my dad seeking for my hand in marriage but I have a boyfriend even though the boyfriend isn't ready to marry me even in the next 2year to come🥲 I'm 24 years old I love my boyfriend I really do but I don't know what to do, my father didn't tell me he asked my mother if I'm seeing someone and she told him "yes" but the problem here is if I'll tell my dad that my current bf isn't ready to marry me he'll get really furious Bcox my dad isn't the type that force his children into something they don't want to especially important things like marriage but what he hates the most is rejecting marriage proposals. I don't know what to do I don't want to disappoint my father by telling him my bf isn't ready to marry me. what should I do pls🥲💔

Assalam Alaikum I don't know why it's so hard for me to make friends,not even friends alone I don't even have a boyfriend, Maybe I'm not doing something right, But I don't really see myself like I'm a bad person I've good relationships with my family But when it comes to having friends ,I don't know why it doesn't work I'm a female tho🤧

Dan Allah this istikhara da akesa mallami yayiwa mutum akan aure, is it good or can it be part of shirk?

Hello Everyone, Anyi sallah lafiya, Allah ya maimaita mana. Ameen Anyone willing to lend me a listening ear😩? i have so many things that i need to say and i got no one to say to. ps i am a girl.

Shin Islam ya haramta aure tsakanin Dan Izala da darika? give reference please

Assalamualaikum arewa up family. there is something that has being bothering me. there is this girl we meet few days a go. we are getting to know each other but this girl keeps talking about marriage is like she is desperate to get marriage she never cares about love discussion like if I talk to how about how much she loves me and other important things about our future she never reply or she would gives an incomplete reply she would not shows interest about the conversation but when it comes to marriage she'll be nagging asking when I'm I coming to see her parents what year is going to be our marriage and stuffs like that. and she told me early that her dad Is trying to give her out to a already married person if she didn't provide someone. and she said she doesn't like him. I'm afraid this girl never loves me she is only trying to escape marrying that elderly man. I'm afraid of marriage without love. I'm afraid of being trapped in a home where love doesn't exist where issues will be raising due to absence of love pls I'm seeking for advice on this I'm totally confused but I still truly loved her just that I'm doubting her love towards me

Assalamu alaikum! 👋 lately on social media you would notice high rate of divorce mostly on norther part of Nigeria and most genders, (both male & female) stupidly (with all due respect 😊) blame each other, insult each other, and disrespect each other, and talk about solution that dose not reflect on themselves... even though most of us know that this is part of signs of the end days ☀️ but we have let our guards down so low to the extent that our Islamic knowledge is subconsciously fading and hardly reflects in our daily lives. so why is this happening???? well, there are various factors but the most terrible ones are our: 1- our ego 2- our stupidity 3- our environment 4- being disrespect from this point, I am going to use this platform to talk to my comrades (males AKA guys AKA men AKA boys) what ever you want to call it... I, personally blame men for causing most divorces (not all) because the act of divorce can only be executed by a man. as a man, we should be able to protect ourselves from allowing a female's natural instincts from leading displeasing Allah SWT both in action and in words. we should almost not react to all misbehaviors caused by a lady... that's their nature, the are created to behave in an unstable way. Abu'Huraira R.A clearly stated it in one of his Hadith that a female is like a rib born and can never be straighten even when you try otherwise it will break. another Hadith I can remember who narrated it: that the Prophet of Allah PBUH told one of his companions (whose wife was late) to marry a lady. He did and spent years with her treating her well with love and respect, when she passed away, it was revealed that he never loved her nor has feelings for her but yet that dose not stop him from treating her well. and all her thought was that he loved her so much. Guys what exactly am I saying here? you should marry someone you don't love? no not at all, love is part of the Islamic conditions to marry a lady but not the most important aspect nor is it what holds marriage together. so what exactly I am saying here if love is not the key to ever lasting marriage? just hold on a bit, I will soon tell you. another point, that is noteworthy, we, the men, we need to know that find a lady that will love you for sake of Allah is a privilege given only by SWT and not everyone man has or is destined to receive such privilege, but you could if you pray for it sincerely... Then what is the solution to this? what exactly I am holding from you my guys? The answer will be on chapter #2 of this eye opening secret for me I n which insha Allah I will post soon... believe me guys, what I'm about to tell you on the next chapter will totally change the way you think about marriage, I promise 😊 meanwhile, let's have an open discussion on the comment section to prepare ourselves in the best form before meeting our Creator. with heart full of love and respect for the Muslim brothers and sisters on this platform: Eid Mubaraq, Takabballalhu minna wa'minkum 😊 bissalam. @atta et ul

I'm an emotionally complex person, I've never had a serious relationship until I finished higher institution. Girls do ask me out right from secondary school down to higher institution but I've noticed once such occurs, i lose interest in them.... I might be crushing on you but once you make the first move, i withdraw. At some point, i felt i was cursed... Till i met two ladies. I love both of them and I'm not a fan of polygamy but if i was given a choice between them i wouldn't be able to choose. The first one, we connect on okay level, she loves me so much and gives me her time.... This has me drawn to her... I had to leave due to her anger issues, I can't even express myself for fear of getting into a quarrel. The second person, she's everything i could ever wanted, we connect well, we love each other but.... She's always busy as she's a nurse. I met her parents and talks about marriage were on ground.... At first i tried to tolerate her work load, but as time went on i wasn't happy, we would go for weeks without talking on the phone, we were having a conversation one time and she asked me to promise to never ask her to choose between her marriage and her work... Because she wouldn't be able to choose. I had to withdraw... It was very painful because i still love her but i had to do it for our own good. She hates me now but i tell myself it's better than for her to hate me when we are married... I don't want to be that husband who squashes his wife's dream. Ever since then i lost interest, i find dating stressful, whenever i meet any lady and we start to talk, there's this feeling that comes to my mind that says this lady doesn't love you she's just desperate to get married. And i believe it to be true. Most of the ladies i meet don't care if I'm a good person or not. Once we talk and they know I'm single and working. The next conversation is come and meet my father. There's this lady i met, we've been talking for 3 days only and the next question i received was when are you coming to greet my parents. I was shocked. You don't know me, what if I'm a woman beater? Etc... Sometimes... I berate myself for pushing all these people away, I'd like to think maybe I'm being too picky or maybe my intentions are right? What are your frank assessment of me?

Guys Am I D Only One Facing This ? I'm a Graduate, Currently serving,Smart And a Great Sense of Humor. Fair ,Tall Good looking And I have A Great Body Cox I Gym. Am Not So Rich But Alhamdulillah I Have A Smoth Life. Most people Mistake Me For Ajeboh But am Not. So Here Is The Funny Things With All This Qualities I Find It Hard To Find a Lady. Not Because I Don't Try. The Funny Things is No Matter How I Try I won't work. Many Ladies Make The First Move by communicating their interest. But One Way Or The Other The relationship will not go Forward. sometime it last for a day sometimes week.Mind You I Know My stuf. meaning I know So much about Relationship. Cox I Even match make People, And it Works For them some are Even married now. my friend comes to me About Relationship Advice and insight. So Is there anyone here Having This kind of Thing ? Wanan Shi Yake Nunawa If God Does Not Want something To happen it will Not.Allah Ya Kawo Mana Mai Albarka. But it's Get Bored and lonely Somedays

assalamu alaikum I just want to get a husband out my family wallahi last week was my birthday kuma my aunty posted me so wani a family ya ga hoto na and was disturbing her for my number wlh qiri qiri bata bada number na ba tana ta corner corner this is not the first time something like this is happening to me wlh sau da yawa my aunties or cousins find a way to stop a suitor from approaching me. this is why my mum promises that idan miji ya fito min baza ta fada wa kowa ba har se lokacin biki yayi saboda a family akwai yan bakin ciki sosai kuma wlh any man I get is usually a very good person and doing fine for himself but idan de har sun sani se sunyi yanda sukayi suka bata. and same auntie will keep disturbing me to marry everyday 🤣 well alhamdulillah I'm not bothered and thanks to my mum and her advice she said idan de har mijin ki ne toh se kunyi auren nan sedai idan ba mijin ki bane. so right now I just wish to get a husband that my family doesn't know I don't even want a husband from the family

It was a wonderful adventure and a loving relationship, but unfortunately, I lost her. I say 'lost her not because my feelings have faded, but because the possibility of us being together seems slim. We've been together for over a year, and I took a step to formalize our relationship by visiting her parents. They mentioned she plans to further her studies after graduating from a college of health, and I was willing to wait for her. However, I discovered she was seeing someone else, too. At that point, I realized our relationship wouldn't work out. I asked her to choose between us, but she didn't, which made it clear where her priorities lay. I've since moved on, but she still reaches out to me. As a matter of pride and self-respect, I don't want to be an option; I want to be the one and only. That's how our relationship came to an end.

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hello assalamu alaikum fam please I'm really in need of your advice and tips on how to forget my ex it's almost 2 years now but I still love him I miss him I feel empty without him sai nake ga Kamar bazan kara samun wani Kamar shi ba nayi kukan Nayi adduar ba wai na fidda rai da Rahamat Allah bane ah ah I'm just tired I really want to forget about him and focus on my future NB it was few months to our wedding and then something came up please help me with tips and advice da zan manta da shi

boyfriend wahala make I know come kill myself at young age but like serious talk men what is the exact color of your problem can't share my story here but want to advice men with such habit dan Allah kudaina wllh babu kyau cin amana a girl will love and trust you with all her heart but u end up hurting and braking her heart into pieces Allah ya kyauta plc kutayani da addu'a friends I'm really in need of it Allah ya kawomin Wanda yafishi Mae albarka

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I don't know koh a goshi mutum ake ganin shine right person 🥹Buh am tired of dis wrong ones wnd b Allah a ransu duk wnd k hadu dashi the same problem b aure Ke kawoshi bah 🥹Astagfirullah kullum adduah kake Amma shiru Yah Allah 🥹😭please am asking how to find the right one Wlh Am really tired 😪🥹