Guys Am I D Only One Facing This ? I'm a Graduate, Currently serving,Smart And a Great Sense of Humor. Fair ,Tall Good looking And I have A Great Body Cox I Gym. Am Not So Rich But Alhamdulillah I Have A Smoth Life. Most people Mistake Me For Ajeboh But am Not. So Here Is The Funny Things With All This Qualities I Find It Hard To Find a Lady. Not Because I Don't Try. The Funny Things is No Matter How I Try I won't work. Many Ladies Make The First Move by communicating their interest. But One Way Or The Other The relationship will not go Forward. sometime it last for a day sometimes week.Mind You I Know My stuf. meaning I know So much about Relationship. Cox I Even match make People, And it Works For them some are Even married now. my friend comes to me About Relationship Advice and insight. So Is there anyone here Having This kind of Thing ? Wanan Shi Yake Nunawa If God Does Not Want something To happen it will Not.Allah Ya Kawo Mana Mai Albarka. But it's Get Bored and lonely Somedays

assalamu alaikum I just want to get a husband out my family wallahi last week was my birthday kuma my aunty posted me so wani a family ya ga hoto na and was disturbing her for my number wlh qiri qiri bata bada number na ba tana ta corner corner this is not the first time something like this is happening to me wlh sau da yawa my aunties or cousins find a way to stop a suitor from approaching me. this is why my mum promises that idan miji ya fito min baza ta fada wa kowa ba har se lokacin biki yayi saboda a family akwai yan bakin ciki sosai kuma wlh any man I get is usually a very good person and doing fine for himself but idan de har sun sani se sunyi yanda sukayi suka bata. and same auntie will keep disturbing me to marry everyday 🤣 well alhamdulillah I'm not bothered and thanks to my mum and her advice she said idan de har mijin ki ne toh se kunyi auren nan sedai idan ba mijin ki bane. so right now I just wish to get a husband that my family doesn't know I don't even want a husband from the family

It was a wonderful adventure and a loving relationship, but unfortunately, I lost her. I say 'lost her not because my feelings have faded, but because the possibility of us being together seems slim. We've been together for over a year, and I took a step to formalize our relationship by visiting her parents. They mentioned she plans to further her studies after graduating from a college of health, and I was willing to wait for her. However, I discovered she was seeing someone else, too. At that point, I realized our relationship wouldn't work out. I asked her to choose between us, but she didn't, which made it clear where her priorities lay. I've since moved on, but she still reaches out to me. As a matter of pride and self-respect, I don't want to be an option; I want to be the one and only. That's how our relationship came to an end.

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hello assalamu alaikum fam please I'm really in need of your advice and tips on how to forget my ex it's almost 2 years now but I still love him I miss him I feel empty without him sai nake ga Kamar bazan kara samun wani Kamar shi ba nayi kukan Nayi adduar ba wai na fidda rai da Rahamat Allah bane ah ah I'm just tired I really want to forget about him and focus on my future NB it was few months to our wedding and then something came up please help me with tips and advice da zan manta da shi

boyfriend wahala make I know come kill myself at young age but like serious talk men what is the exact color of your problem can't share my story here but want to advice men with such habit dan Allah kudaina wllh babu kyau cin amana a girl will love and trust you with all her heart but u end up hurting and braking her heart into pieces Allah ya kyauta plc kutayani da addu'a friends I'm really in need of it Allah ya kawomin Wanda yafishi Mae albarka

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I don't know koh a goshi mutum ake ganin shine right person 🥹Buh am tired of dis wrong ones wnd b Allah a ransu duk wnd k hadu dashi the same problem b aure Ke kawoshi bah 🥹Astagfirullah kullum adduah kake Amma shiru Yah Allah 🥹😭please am asking how to find the right one Wlh Am really tired 😪🥹

My relationship is shaky at the moment cos my bf keeps misbehaving and is sometimes cold and distant but then he swears he loves me, he changes like a chameleon. I've tried talking things out to no avail, we just end up fighting and making things worse and then he blames me for not wanting peace to reign, so I've decided to give him space to sort himself out. At first I thought about ending the relationship cos I'm just about fed up with his nonesense, but I decided to try giving him space if that doesn't work then we can go our separate ways. Precisely how much space should you give someone though? I'm not telling him I'm giving him space I will just disappear maybe for a week or two.

I and my boyfriend met through social media, we're both mature adults and the first thing he told me was I was exactly his type and he was interested in marrying me which made sense to me because I also wanted to get married and I let him know right away that I wasn't interested in playing any games. So we both clearly stated our intentions right from day one, I don't know how but I fell in love and everything was going smoothly until it wasn't anymore. Fast forward to 5 months into the relationship and it has become one sided, he's always super busy and never has time to see me but I kept playing the patient and understanding girlfriend and brushed it off, I finally decided to express how his actions hurt me but he showed no regard for my feelings whatsoever and never apologized, he just left me on READ. I realized i'm only deceiving myself and now I want to move on from him but it's not easy so I made a list of all his red flags that I've been ignoring: 1.Doesn’t call you🚩 2.Doesn’t acknowledge your feelings🚩 3.Doesn’t show you he cares🚩 4.Doesn’t do anything for you🚩 5.Has never given you anything🚩 6.Doesn’t communicate🚩 7.Doesn’t care how you are🚩 8.Leaves you on read🚩 9.Doesn’t make any effort to make the relationship work🚩 10.Keeps canceling plans🚩 11.Sexualizes you🚩 12.Tries to touch you even after you expressed discomfort🚩 13.Makes promises he doesn’t keep🚩 14.Says he will call you back but never does🚩 No man that loves me will treat me this way and especially seeing how patient I've been with him. I'm hoping spelling out his flaws will help me move on and forget him quicker.

All my life ever since I was a kid I've only had one dream which is to get married the Islamic way and settle and have a family. But Allah cikin ikonsa bai sa hakan ya faru ba, har na kai 29yrs a duniya. I never seem to meet the right person, ni mai kamun kai ce da nutsuwa kuma bana shigar banza but I always fall into the wrong hands time and time again, no one is ever serious about marrying me sai de su bata mun lokaci ko suyi kokarin lalata da ni which bana yarda, duk haka relationships dina suke ending. Na gaji, nayi kukan, nayi adduar amma still. Recently na hadu da wani da farko kamar mutumin kirki tunda ya taba aure sun rabu da matar har da yaransu 4, ya zo min da maganar aure everything was going fine amma along the way sai ya fara min maganar banza ni kuma na nuna mishi bana so sai ya dena. I thought abu ya wuce muka cigaba da ganin juna har muka fara sabawa sosai kawai sai ya fara kokarin taba ni, akan haka har mukayi fada sosai nace Kar ya sake min haka yace bazai sake ba amma yana so na but tun lokacin the relationship hasn't been the same in fact bai ma sake zuwa wajena ba kuma muka rage yin magana kullum he's busy. I've been trying to convince myself the relationship will work amma nagane hauka na kawai nakeyi ni kadai ba aure na zai yi ba dama iskanci yake so kuma ya ga bazai samu ba shiyesa yake ta ja da baya. Amma duk da nasan hakan my heart is pained because I was hoping I had finally met my husband ashe ba haka bane, but I don't even know how to move on now I'm so broken. Don Allah ku saka ni a addua Allah Ya bani mai sona da gaske, kuma ku bani shawara ya zanyi na cire abun a rai na. Nagode

I met this girl and honestly i like her but so many guys are on her matter. The first day we met, she was expecting a guy as well who will bring her food. Told me that it's her cousin's friend. I shrugged it off. I met her when she was broken and i felt it's my job to fix her. She has a shape that makes her an instant attraction to guys, little wonder that she falls into bad hands. Now I'm into this relationship not just as her boyfriend but i see myself as her older brother. I feel the need to guide her on the choices she makes in life. Last two weeks they went for a wedding, this girl was outside till 11pm, told me her cousin's friend was eyeing her although she told him she has someone but he still persisted. Took her with her sister into his car and they went out to eat. I didn't complain. Yesterday she told me she'll be heading to school and she'll be going along with a guy. Why will you be going to school with a guy? That it's her course mate and they'll be doing the registration together since he knows someone. I said okay. Now she's telling me she'll be heading somewhere else before she goes to tomorrow that one of her lecturer abi what told her that he wants her to come, he wants to see her "to discuss something". What is there to discuss that you can't on the phone that you have to go and meet him? I feel this is the last straw for me. As much as I want to be the one to save her i have realized that you can't save everyone, sometimes you need to let people walk into their destruction and hope they learn something out of it. Is there any way to salvage this relationship?

So hey I think wait no I know I am lonely it's sad but true life has been hard so I never thought of a relationship 💔 but I want one now but there's no one in my town I want to date there not caring 😶 there boring they really are 😭 but ya I want a boyfriend that's loving caring and gives attention when he can! is that much ? someone who would be broken if he lost me 😊 and I am not getting any matches on the app so is the problem me ?

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Assalamu Alaikum I recently registered for a matchmaking and wants to upload my picture but I'm afraid of it appearing on the Instagram page. Y'all knew how people tend to be these days, ones a lady signed for a matchmaking boom she's out of options ko kuma doesn't have suitors which in many cases isn't the fact. So I just needs clarifications please, how does it works, the display picture? Thank you.

Dear Arewa up community I hope this message finds you well. Approximately three years ago, my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended due to her involvement with another individual. At the time, she openly expressed her feelings for this person, leading to our separation. Since then, we have had no communication. Recently, I reached out to her via WhatsApp to greet her. Following our initial exchange, she began expressing remorse and requested reconciliation. She is seeking forgiveness and hopes we can rekindle our relationship. I initiated the contact, and while I still have deep feelings for her, I am uncertain about the appropriate course of action. I find myself reflecting on our past and contemplating the possibility of giving our relationship another chance. I am seeking advice on the following: Should I consider reconciling with her? What questions should I ask to understand her past actions and current intentions better? How can I ensure that any decision I make is in my best interest emotionally and mentally? Your insights and guidance would be greatly appreciated as I navigate this complex situation. Thank you for taking the time to read my message.

You called him at midnight, voice trembling like leaves in harmattan winds. He didn’t pick. He never does. You kept his hoodie—still smells like December. Screenshots of “I love you” hide in your phone like ghosts waiting to haunt you at 2 a.m. You play your song on repeat, forgetting he already changed the station. His wedding photos now bloom on your timeline like thorns. Girl, you stitched a shrine from old texts and prayed for a resurrection of love long buried. But hear me— Delete it. The pictures. the call logs the phone number The chats the text messages the notes, The playlist. The memories wrapped in cotton-soft lies. let go, be free He’s gone. You stayed. And it’s time you leave too. Not because it didn’t matter, but because you do.

I pray every day for Allah SWA to grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. This Ramadan alhamdulillah I made a conscious decision to delete any means of contact 😞 yay me💃💃💃, I accepted I love this person, he doesn't share my feelings and that's ok! Focusing on the things I can change;I started exploring new things, new friends, getting out more and expanding my horizon, discovering myself,giving other things a chance, improving my health, doing what makes me happy. Making myself busy. On the relationship front I am taking a pause, I pray sometime in the future to have someone I love who loves me as much or even more. I know where I am at now emotionally I may not be able to fall in love, and am ok with it, fam any advice?

I want this person to have the life that he wants, even if that doesn't include me I want to help him get there. I do not love this person because of looks, resources, status,title or intellect! I am in love without reason. And yes! I am still 💯 head over hills and in love with him, he is my "SUNSHINE", I love him without reason, if u ask me y do u love this individual I will tell you I don't know! And that's the challenge because if I have a reason I can decide that reason is not good enough 😕 and yes I dreamed about him every night, he is still the 1st and last thing on my mind and yes I know I have given him so much power over me, believe me I wish there is something I can do. Have u ever been so much in love so much so that being with that person makes you think possibilities are endless, with that person u can grow wings and fly? This love made all my senses open, my mind felt free for the 1st time! I know I had to let him go for my sake!