guys please help a sister out. I have been trying to get it out of my mind but the more I try the harder it is. I just want to marry a uniform man a soldier to be precise. Irin su major general 😂😂. wlh har dariya ake yimin a gida Wai matar Major. and the funniest part is I don't even know any one with that title 😂.

it failed agaun another breakup🥺 nidai ina ga na fita daga harkar rijalu daga yau Ku tayani da addua plxxx, Allah yasa dai ina d rabon yin aure a duniyar nan🥺

ramadhan is coming, what do you plan of doing to make money?

I don't know what's wrong with me, I'm kinda emotionally down...like I need someone to hear me out, to give me listening ear. I'm even thinking of having an open conversation with someone (just like a truth cycle)...and I want us both to stay anonymous, I don't even care to know he's name nor location, despite I know I'm a curious person but I think I can refrain myself from asking questions related to that. Someone that's willing to open up too, I'm a lady preferably a guy (a lady is ok too) that has a lot going through his/her heart/mind... someone that needs advice because I need an advice too...just 1 on 1 transparent convo (no lies). But, I'm thinking of how it'll be anonymous? Anyone interested 🥺?!

Salam, I want to know why most parents don’t want their son to marry someone older than him. I’m 27yrs old, recently done with my studies, waiting to go for service and I have always wanted to marry someone older than I since I was 17. I have only dated once and it was in my 200Level with a lady older than me, due to been unprepared, we separated peacefully and she married someone else months later. Now I’m planning on getting into a relationship that will InShaa Allah lead to marriage and I still want someone that’s between 29-32yrs. The problem is my mum isn’t comfortable with it. I have been trying to convince her.

I am willing to get ready to settle down but finding a partner is becoming hard for me, because almost all people i meet want to have kids, but i don't I want to get married and have a partner for the sake of companionship. Are there people like me out there?

i don't know how to be patient during trying times sometimes am patient sometimes i loose my cool.

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi Recently, there is a massive heart breaks AKA breakfast all over Arewa due to the so-called valentine. Dont get me wrong, Love is good, love is beautiful, love makes us strong and can make us weak , it also can make us happy or sad.. Islamic culture/way of living encourages love especially for the sake of Allah either to humans and/or to animals. however, an imitation of love so-called Valentine basically practiced by western countries culture is not in our culture and it is totally against Islamic teaching.. why? social media havemade it easier for both guys and ladies to have multiple option to choose when it comes to relationship, thereby, it made most guys and ladies to have more then one relationships, therefore, more heartbreaks... this is just like when you dont know which cloth to wear, it simply means you have plenty options of cloths. however, all Muslims especially the ladies out there should know it is only when a man (not boy) has brought gaisuwa to your family and your parents have granted him to court with you only for the sake of marriage, i repeat, for the SAKE OF MARRIAGE!!! then you can play a love prank on him... May Almighty Allah with HIS infinate mercy grant us a compatible spouse, whom we will give birth to rightious children whom will always put us in their prayers when we go back to Allah (death) Ammen!!!

Watarana da asuba na shiga dakin mahaifina na gaishe shi mu dan tattauna wasu batutuwa saboda da sassafe yake fita kasuwa. A sitting room se na same shi yana jima'a (Sex) da kishiyar maman mu, wato amaryar sa. Da sauri sukai ƙokarin su kare kar na gani amma na gani nima nayi maza naja baya na fita daga dakin. Yau kusan 3 yrs kenan walh amma ina tina abin a raina, irin style din da sukeyi da komai a raina is still clear. kuma amaryar baban namu matukar sha'awarta nake tinda naga wannan abin har mafarki nake da ita inayin kamar yanda naga babana yanayi da ita. It'll sound crazy, but walh abin yana damuna. Ina matukar sha'awarta duk da nasan zunubin dake ciki amma na kasa cire abin a raina. Duk sanda na kalli bayanta, ko kirjin ta se abin ya fado min, ina matukar sha'awarta. Banda zagi don Allah kuban shawara mene abinda zanyi na cire wannan abin a raina kuma na cire ta a raina. 😪😪

Assalamu alaikum ya ahibbayi! I hope this meets you well. the economic hardship in the country cannot be over emphasized, i know things are not easy especially for our female sisters, widows, and other dependents. so i will like to reminds all of the Muslim ummah that: 1-our lives is on the hands or Allah 2-Allah is knows our situations always 3-Allah SWT is always with us 4-This adversity we are facing is a trail from Allah 5-Our Duas has been answered by Allah, if yoy dont see result on earth then you will see it from hereafter. therefore, to easy the economic hardship we should all supplicate the following; llahumma inni a'udhu bika minal-hammi wal-Ḥuzni wal-'ajazi wal-kasli wal-bukhli wal-jubni wa ḍala'id-dayni wa ghalabatir-rijal. dont allow shytan to take advantage nor influence your iman. May Almight Allah with HIS Infinite Mercy strengthen our iman and Al-jannatul firdusi remain our final detination. Ameen!!! may Almighty Allah

Assalamu alaikum everyone dan Allah shawara nike nima gurinki I have a 50k here with me and wlh business nikeso nadan fara shine nike niman shawaran ku akan me kukaga ya dace in fa??

There are people who have been broken and damaged almost beyond repair as a result of relationship heartbreak. When you meet such people and start talking to them about love they normally think you are delusional and there's nothing like love in this life. Soulmate is an imaginary word to them . Coming from someone who's suffered heartbreak in the most crucial way , I can tell you soulmate exists. The issue is you don't always meet your soulmate , sometimes you meet them after you are already married. I faced heartbreak in the most crucial manner, December 2013 I left home for higher institution with a promise to my girlfriend that we'll protect each other's heart till I'm back, I came back and met her inside the room of my friend. I gave up on love, for over 9 years I stayed off anything called relationship till I met my soulmate. The love was different, it came unexpected, I'm normally a stubborn person but when it comes to her I turn into a marshmallow. We are partners now for 3 years and whenever I receive a text from her, a glow ,and that charming subtle smile always formon my face, i still feel the butterfly I felt the first time I fell in love with her, nothing pleases concerning her like when I do to something to make her smile. Our relationship isn't just about I love you , we have our fights and we have our sad moments but we never let each other's hands go apart . No matter what you've been through don't give up on love . Trust me finding that true love is worth it all. I pray we all meet our soulmate.

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah . why is it so hard to find true love nowadays . I don't kno I really want to get married to the person I love and loves me back too, but I think it will be very hard for that to happen .. I use to admire some couple kaga suna son junansu akayi sure but I don't think it will happen to me😢 though nothing is impossible idan Allah Naman, Allah yayi Mana zabi mafi alkhairi

So I'm a guy who can be moderately jealous. My partner has a certain health issue . She normally goes for check up. So I'm kind of worried about her and also curious about what the check up might be like. I trust her but my issue here is the knowledge of another man with her . I know he's got to be a professional but still . Am I the only one who is having such issues ? If I ask her directly she'll definitely know where I'm heading to and I can't handle the taunting. Sometimes I subtly ask what test did he recommend then head to Google and check what it entails 😆.

I'm new here in Abuja but I'm unable to make friends I'm an introvert from work to house everyday (I'm a Corper) and I have no one I talk to

Assalamu alaikum dafatan kowa yana lfy don girman allah ku taimaka mun da shawara akan abunda zan fadawa step mother na😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏saboda ni nasan yau nawa ya qare 😭😭i am 24 year now amma wallahil azeem har kwanan gobe ban wuce duka a gurin ta ba😭mistake kadan idan nayi mata haka zatayi ta dükana kaman jaka😭ina zuwa islamiyya harna kaii SS3 toh gobe zamuyi graduation akwaii kudin da kowa ze bada 40 thousand seta bani toh jiya da naje zan biya sena tarar wanda ake bama wa baya nan sena koma da kudin gida da niyyan yau idan naje sena bashi😭😭😭kawaii na tashi da asuba zanyi hadda na dauko jakana in dauka quranin se naga babu kudin😭😭😭😭😭😭wallahi nayi kuka kaman raina ze fita inama kan yi saboda dagani se Ubangiji daya halicce ni kawaii mukasan abunda zatayi mun😭😭dan girman Allah ku bani shawara Mezan fada mata 😭🙏idan ba hakaba wlh yau seta kusa kasheni

I have a boyfriend yana sona and I loved him so much wallahi but the problem is that yana aiki but he’s always complaining akan ba yida kudi koda yaushe…nikam bansan samun saba haka bansan rashin saba…mun kaii 2 years I guess but wallahi har gobe banfi qarfin 10k a gurin saba because a iya wannan time din da muka dauka har gobe be taba yimun hidimar 10k dinba 😒sannan kuma ban taba tambayan saba but alhamdulillah Ina businesses dina kuma Ina samu babu laifi…kwasam se yazo yana mun magana waii akan na bashi Aron 700k I told him wallahi banida shi jarina gaba daya be wuce 200k ba amma har yanzu yaqi yarda gani yakeyi kaman kawaii na hanasa ne Malama I decided na siyar da phone dina da nike amfani dashi in shiya touch light phone na ringa amfani dashi har lokacin da Allah zesa na kuma samun kudi na siya koda wacce batakaii nawa din bane So something just cme to my mind that what if idan duk nayi hakan saboda na faranta mishi raii din kuma daga baya yazo ya rabu dani fa??????because Ex boyfriend dina banji dadin saba🥺💔please I need an advice 🙏

I don't know where to address this issue. I'll send a request to someone and it will be there for more than a month without accepting. And he finally accepts it, he won't take you serious They know we are here for the propose of marriage and then he will now stop chatting or calling after your first conversation. Please this should be checked

Assalamu Alaikum good evening everyone don Allah ina neman shawara ne Munyi engage da wani ne sai na gane cewar na fishi addini and kuma background dinshi ba familyn da ake son ayi aure a irinshi bane kuma gashi da rowar tsiya nayi nayi ya fahimci bana sonshi yayi haquri ya nemi wata Allah ya hada kowa da rabonshi sai kuma na kasa bazan iya mishi wulaqanci ba saboda ba halina bane Amma na fara shawarar ko na saka a kirashi someone that he doesn't know or in sayi new sim in gaya mishi magana ko in saka wani namiji ya kirashi ya mishi magana na kasa Don Allah what's the best solution I want a religious husband for my kids

Pls I want to know more about Babur girls, in term of marriage and general day to day human relationship...