I find myself in a complicated situation, i feel my heart is dead due to years of tumultuous relationship. I find being single more peaceful than relationship. Some will think it's probably from the people I've dated but that's not the case. They are good people and they showed me love in every way i can imagine but I don't feel the same way, i can't bring up my heart to love them as they do with me, i end up hurting them and we go separate ways. Maybe I've not met the right person? But who is the right person? The only person i loved with all my heart betrayed me 10 years ago, since then i haven't met any like her. The one i love, she barely understands me or what i like. The one who understands me and what i like i can't bring myself up to reciprocate the care she has shown for me. I'd like to think this is a phase... But the thoughts I'm having scares me, heck the thought of marriage doesn't excite me anymore . I find it a burden, i feel ill be happier if i rather bury myself with work and take myself out during weekends. No stress, no dramas. I've experienced the worst heartbreaks, I've seen marriages collapse, I've seen what it does to people. Maybe that's what's stopping my heart from opening up again or maybe I'm just cursed.

To My Future Husband ❤️, Insha’Allah my halal ❤️ Though I have not met you yet, I pray for you every day. I ask Allah to keep you safe, to guide your heart, and to fill your soul with peace and faith.😊 I know that when the time is right, Allah will bring us together, not by chance, but by His perfect plan. Until that moment, I’m learning, growing, and preparing to be the woman who will love you sincerely, support you endlessly, and remind you of Allah in every step we take together. May our marriage be built on mercy, patience, and understanding. May our love be a means of drawing closer to Jannah. And may we always help each other stay firm on the path of righteousness. Wherever you are, my love, may Allah bless your journey and keep your heart pure. I’ll keep waiting with faith and hope, trusting that what’s written for us will find us, Insha’Allah.😍😊 your future wife ❤️🥹

please any introvert ready to settle down? I like introverts because men that talk too much sometimes are a turn off to me.. I am a caring and Romantic girl that loves with everything. Sannan please I want someone mai tsafta sannan kuma ya iya gayu 😂 nobody should come after me that's what I want please, but please introvert men and I want relationship that will lead to marriage.

Assalamualaikum, I hope each and every one of you here is doing fine. I just got teary for no reason, and I thought I should write something here. PLEASE GIVE ME FEW MINUTES OF YOUR TIME As a girl growing up, wallahi, my biggest fear has always been late marriage. (It turns out that the things I fear the most somehow find a way into becoming my reality.) I used to think dating early would make early marriage possible, but I forgot that marriage nufin ne na Allah. Despite wanting to marry early, I didn’t date many guys because I’m not the type who can handle double dating it confuses me😂. The first guy I dated was back in secondary school, but due to some reasons,family said no. Apparently, the two relationships that even got to the stage of kai tambaya didn’t work out, and that left me heartbroken. I lost faith in love, but I still want to marry because I’m scared of growing old without a life partner. My siblings always tell me not to be desperate, but I can’t help it especially when my friends and even younger siblings are getting married and having children. I know marriage is by Allah’s decree, and I know He sees me and knows what I’m going through. 😔 I’m 26, currently serving, and I keep asking myself what will become of me after service. I’ve always dreamt of being in my matrimonial home by 25, but Allah knows best. I’m not getting any younger, yet I don’t have anyone I can call my boyfriend and people say I shouldn't be desperate I can't help but to be desperate I keep attracting married men is but the problem is I feel most of them are not being truthful about their wives. I like matured men, but I’m scared of becoming a second wife not because it’s haram, but because these days, mata suna iya yin komai wa kishiya that's my only fear.... Ya Allah, grant marriage to everyone in need of it. 🤲🏽

I'm in my early thirties, So let's hit the nail on the head. I am a Health care worker, charismatic, sapio, and Alhamdulillah a practicing Muslimah. looking for Religious, non-smoker nor alcoholic, not a womanizer, Someone that is Responsible and Fear Allah. Preferably but not A most... from Northeastern part of d country... from Maid. weather living in the country or overseas . Fa'Akhlaqak hiya jamalaak; Ur Manners are your Beauty. Thank you

I’m a graduate who has completed NYSC, with genotype AA. I’m looking for a religious man who is also based in Kano. Email: sajar5295@gmail.com

any single lady online wants to chat and get to know each other

Assalama alaikum. I never imagine to be on App like this looking for relationship, I am looking for a decent man, responsible and God fearing mai addini please, financially stable, not necessarily but someone abroad but it doesn't matters, someone who can love me for Allah sake, and I am ready to be loyal, respectful and give love with all I can.. because marriage to me is not built only with love but also with care, respect understanding and with communication and it's a form of ibada. Dan Allah responsible only because maza Yanxu majority ba aure ne a gaban su ba, I came from a middle class family with good background, na sauke Qurani Alhamdullilah kuma ina da addini. please you can contact me through this hm580476@gmail.com Dan Allah if you know you are ready to settle down. Allah ya zaba mana Alkhairi.

I’m a Northerner from Kano — calm, easy-going, recently married, and deeply in love with my wife. I work with the government and run my own business on the side. Life feels balanced, blessed, and purposeful. But lately, I’ve been wrestling with something personal… I’m a helpless romantic — the kind that loves completely — yet I’ve found myself with an urge for frequent intimacy, one that my marriage alone struggles to satisfy. Now here’s my honest question to you all: Is it a crime for a married man to consider taking a second wife — not out of lust or irresponsibility, but to honour his nature and remain faithful within lawful boundaries? I ask not to provoke judgment, but to understand — Can a man love truly, desire deeply, and still seek more, without being condemned?

Any responsible man here I need a gentle and calm man to start conversation and Build q relationships that will lead us to marriage. Serious one pls 🙏

This girl, munyi about 5 months bama tare da ita bayn mun samu wani dan matsala. Toh shine yau za'ayi kamar 2 weeks se ta fara min sallama tana tambaya ya name and all. kawai yau se ta tambayeni n ranta mata kudi zasu kai kamar 200K wai zata biyani zuwa qarshen wata. Don Allah hakan me yake nufi? Ya kamata na bata ko na hana ta? Bayan rabuwar mu da yarin yar nan har habaice habaice take min a status duk ina gani. Daga baya ma na dena ganin ta ƙila ko blocking dina tayi ban sani ba.

I’m facing a serious challenge in my life when it comes to having female friends especially when it involves relationships. Whenever a girl shows interest in me or asks me out, I usually try to avoid it. So far, I’ve only accepted one meetup, and during that time I was so nervous that I could barely speak. I’m a very introverted person, and whenever I talk to a girl I like, I start sweating and become extremely anxious. This has made it difficult for me to build real connections. I genuinely want to overcome this challenge. If there’s any girl here between the ages of 18 and 20 who’s willing to be a friend and help me improve my confidence, I’d really appreciate it. I’m honestly not bad looking I just need a bit of support and guidance.

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Wato ita zuciya dake son gaskiya fita take dan neman gaskiyar, kuma sai ta sameta kafun ta samu nitsuwa. Ita kuwa zuciyar da bata son gaskiya, gudu take tana buyawa gaskiyar, kuma har abada wannan zuciyar bata da nitsuwa a cikinta har sai ta amshi gaskiyar. Allah yasa mudace..!🤲

Hello.. looking for a lady to partner up, with a business idea (SMEs precisely), and passion in blogging - Writing and publishing online content. Also a certificate holder.

Some of you were not raised with love that’s why you see someone being nice as you using them or “Shishigi” and I feel so bad for people like that. I was raised with so much love, I have so much love to give, My father raised me to be kind…..!😌 Anything I do or have done, regardless of how I was treated for it I don’t regret it. I would give a kidney and not look back, it doesn’t mean Banda wayo it means I’m kind❤️ Allah ya shirye mu🙏

Hello everyone, men in this platform - I'm here to look upon your views about a working class lady- the question is that : za ka iya auren macen da takeyin aikin gwamnati ? Ko kuma zaka iya barin matarka tayi aiki gwamnati? I've discussed this issue with some of my colleagues and 70℅ of them prefer a non working spouse .and I was surprised of their various reasons for that. What's your own view and justify ?

Anyone from Gombe, come over lets chat

Hello everyone, the men on this platform ,what are your perspective about the introvert ladies? In terms of relationship

’m the type of person for whom companionship seems easy to start because I’m a good listener and someone who truly cherishes moments. I guess that’s just how I am. But at some point, desperation became the key factor that led to a bad image—a destructive heart disease struck my heart deeply. As a result, I lost almost all my relationships except for those who know me for who I truly am, not for any changes or misunderstandings that happened afterward. Interestingly, while some close relationships faltered, other people came to my aid when I needed it the most. These unexpected supports reminded me that not everyone turns away during difficult times. They stayed and checked on how I was coping with the situation, offering help and encouragement when I felt most vulnerable. I have this female friend with whom I grew fond, but we always considered each other just friends. After the incident, she started acting weird and became distant and retrogressive towards me. It got to a point where I considered cutting her off, but my close ones advised me against it. I tried to talk to her, but she said there was nothing to discuss. She acted as if everything was normal, but deep down, I could tell something was off. Does this mean our beloved people won’t be there for us at our lowest? Or is it that they get so hurt by our situation that they change how they treat us? And how do we cope with this reality when some stand by us and others turn away?