I don’t usually open up like this, but I’ve been feeling it strongly lately I genuinely want companionship. Not just conversations that fade, but a real, intentional connection with someone who is mature, kind-hearted, emotionally stable and ready for something meaningful. I’m a soft, calm, caring woman who values good communication, respect and sincerity. I love peaceful energy, gentle masculinity and a man who knows what he wants. I’m not looking for perfection, just consistency, honesty and a companion I can grow with. Being in Abuja is definitely an added advantage, because I’d love something that can grow realistically and intentionally. But I’m open to connecting with someone who truly aligns with me, no matter where he is. If you’re thoughtful, responsible and serious-minded someone who values real connection feel free to respond. I’m ready for something genuine. thank you

I'm a male and going through a heartbreak. I'm in need of someone to talk to who has gone through such as well.

like just because she likes peace and quiet just to read her books and just be doesn't mean she don't want love and attention ,just because she likes cuddles doesn't mean she doesn't want exaggerated show of affection, just because she doesn't like crowds doesn't mean she don't like people like life is about balance if you don't understand her just ask ,talk about it,if she doesn't get you ,try to show her what you mean P.S just rambling of a bookworm

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I'm here to listen to opinions about what to do about my situation, I've been in a relationship with a lady for about over a year. she is a very wonderful lady and someone that I one hundred percent know would make a good wife. I've started making plans to get married before the end of 2026 even to the point of getting and furnishing a house ( and you know how our people are the moment one seems "stable") but she says she's doesn't think she wants to get married until maybe 2 years later as she's just 23 and currently serving while I'm 28 going to 29 soon. So my dilemma is, is it worth it to continue my relationship with her or to seek someone else and spend the next six months getting to know each other properly in anticipation of marriage. And how to go about it without feeling like I played with her feelings and emotions

Dear kind-hearted friends, I’m a student currently struggling to complete my final project — the very work that stands between me and the fulfillment of my academic dream. Sadly, I’m in a dire financial situation and can’t afford the cost of printing and final submission. It pains me deeply to come this far, only to be held back by something as simple as lack of funds. I’ve poured my heart, sleepless nights, and hard work into this project, but now I stand helpless, watching time slip away. If anyone can lend a helping hand, no matter how small, it would mean the world to me. Your support won’t just help me print a document — it will help me achieve a milestone I’ve worked for all these years. Please, help me cross this final hurdle. 🙏 No amount is too small. Thank you for your kindness and compassion. ❤️

I want to connect with my Hausa brothers and sisters at 1Ummah event at Federal Palace hotel Let's meet and gist and take pictures..

‎Slm, please I would like to seek your followers opinion regarding this issue that's been plaguing me. Firstly I've been in a relationship with this girl for some time now but honestly I can't marry her. A lot of people will assume I'm a betrayer, I've used her and now I'm dumping but sadly this isn't the case. In our society once a man notices a red flag in a woman and he leaves her, a lot of people feel he betrayed her just because he doesn't voice out the things he has endured. There are certain red flags I've had to keep up with in the hope that with correction she will change but sadly as a lot of people have told me such behaviors can't be changed, it's either I deal with it, endure it or leave. One of which is hot temper, I've tried my best to see that i make her change for the best but har yanzu. We don too play to the point This girl don see me finish It's only slap that she has not slapped me. My issue with her is, once she misbehaves, after some time she'll come back begging and apologizing.... After the damage has already been done. 90 Percent of men can't tolerate disrespect. I'm not perfect, I have my own flaws but I've never shouted at her or talk rudely to her no matter how mad I am at her. When she does that, I don't respond back, I normally retreat and go into silence till she comes back apologizing for her rudeness. Back to the main topic, I've left her a couple of times, I've made it clear that if we are married I won't tolerate the things she does if she doesn't change. Out of love, we reconcile each time with the hope that she'll change but till now she hasn't. She has a serious health issue, whenever we break up, her health deteriorates and my conscience judges me. I wish we could separate amicably and remain friends but that can't work. No matter how determined I am to leave, once she apologizes I always find myself reconciling with her. She wants us to get married but gaskiya I can't with this her attitude amongst others, I've told her several times but she always apologizes promising to do better and stupid me keeps going back 🫤🫤🫤. The last issue we've had things aren't the same for me, my mind is very far from her, we're talking once in a while every day. I feel the jokes I use to do with her shiyasa take min rashin kunya.... I've stopped jokes as well. How do i break up peacefully with her without causing problems (I've tried that once and it turned ugly)? OrIs this a normal relationship issue that I can solve?

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My girlfriend parents refused me to marry their daughter because I'm from a different state and tribe. Please how can I convince them since they won't allow me to come to the house? Please help me. Also note that we are both Muslim

I once fell in love back in my matric school days. What started as a pure connection slowly grew into something deeper — plans, dreams, and a shared vision for the future. But life had other ideas. Her mother carried a bad impression toward people with my name — Abubakar. I saw the storm coming and braced myself for the inevitable. And just like that, our love sank beneath the weight of prejudice. After that, I made a vow — to never let my heart fall again. I told myself I’d friendzone any girl who tried to get close, just to avoid feeling that kind of pain again. But hearts don’t always obey vows. Then came another girl. She was different — or so I thought. Our relationship was distant but steady, built on calls and messages. I didn’t mind doing most of the reaching out. But one day, she told me how she entertained a “brother in deen,” and even shared with him things that were private between us — our intimacy, our bond. That revelation hit hard. It wasn’t about jealousy; it was about trust. After that, things fell apart. She changed, and I started to wonder — what is it with some girls? Why is it that when a man shows honesty, loyalty, and care, it’s often mistaken for weakness? Do girls truly value the good guys — or do they only learn their worth after being hurt by the ones who never cared?

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I'm looking for a beautiful soul that can be my partner forever not here for games

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Sai kaga yarinya tayi ta adu'an neman Allah ya aurar da ita Sai Allah ya amshi adu'arta za'a kaita dakin mijinta tayi ta rusa kuka ita a dole so take mu yarda bata son bari gidansu.......as a single lady gani Nike kamar mocking dinmu marasa aure suke

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salam everyone please I need advice Srsly me and my boyfriend we had issue na bashi hakuri and yazo bashi da lfy qnd I have been calling him he's not picking my calls since yesterday and Yana ringing I don't knw if it's he's tired of the relationship or he's sick and I don't even knw but since I called him uncountable times but yet no answer bah call din bah koh WhatsApp I'm confused I don't even knw what to do please I need your advice

Dear future husband 🙂‍↔️ Ramadan is in less than 90 days & you still haven’t sent that DM 😒 Aren’t you tired of bread and fast food for sahur? Don’t you like the idea of being served a proper meal in bed before sahur?🥹

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