My girlfriend parents refused me to marry their daughter because I'm from a different state and tribe. Please how can I convince them since they won't allow me to come to the house? Please help me. Also note that we are both Muslim

I once fell in love back in my matric school days. What started as a pure connection slowly grew into something deeper — plans, dreams, and a shared vision for the future. But life had other ideas. Her mother carried a bad impression toward people with my name — Abubakar. I saw the storm coming and braced myself for the inevitable. And just like that, our love sank beneath the weight of prejudice. After that, I made a vow — to never let my heart fall again. I told myself I’d friendzone any girl who tried to get close, just to avoid feeling that kind of pain again. But hearts don’t always obey vows. Then came another girl. She was different — or so I thought. Our relationship was distant but steady, built on calls and messages. I didn’t mind doing most of the reaching out. But one day, she told me how she entertained a “brother in deen,” and even shared with him things that were private between us — our intimacy, our bond. That revelation hit hard. It wasn’t about jealousy; it was about trust. After that, things fell apart. She changed, and I started to wonder — what is it with some girls? Why is it that when a man shows honesty, loyalty, and care, it’s often mistaken for weakness? Do girls truly value the good guys — or do they only learn their worth after being hurt by the ones who never cared?

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I'm looking for a beautiful soul that can be my partner forever not here for games

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah please are there any Lagos based single Arewa men. Ahlussunnah and financially stable

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salam everyone please I need advice Srsly me and my boyfriend we had issue na bashi hakuri and yazo bashi da lfy qnd I have been calling him he's not picking my calls since yesterday and Yana ringing I don't knw if it's he's tired of the relationship or he's sick and I don't even knw but since I called him uncountable times but yet no answer bah call din bah koh WhatsApp I'm confused I don't even knw what to do please I need your advice

Dear future husband 🙂‍↔️ Ramadan is in less than 90 days & you still haven’t sent that DM 😒 Aren’t you tired of bread and fast food for sahur? Don’t you like the idea of being served a proper meal in bed before sahur?🥹

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Salam everyone please is it okay for your boyfriend to punish you for days without calling you only chats even that one is not always it's hurting me honestly

hello everyone hope everyone is doing well pls what do you knw about sokoto guys

Searching for a life partner for good he should be responsible educated both side Islam and Western, Ahlus-Sunnah and ready to settle down.I'm going to be the best wife Insha Allah I'm Also well Educated please he should be serious I'm from Katsina,if possible he should be within This area Katsina,Kaduna,AbujaKano.Hausa by Tribe.If you are ready message me through khairunnisau597@gmail.com

Salam Alaikum guys... I've been searching for a while now I subscribed for the premium package but I still couldn't connect with anyone (I dont think they're ready to settle) some of them are here for fun I guess. Anyway I'm searching for someone who's willing to settle soon,someone who practices Islam according to the teachings of our prophet(SAW)someone who is neat and ready to be a husband am honestly tired of searching maza kuji tsoron Allah everyone just wants to have fun and move on. I need someone who's serious about settling "am not desperate " I just want to find my other piece and be happy...incase you're not interested you can share this to your friends,siblings or family members my other half might be one of them.Am a 24 year old lady who stays in kaduna and am pretty/chocolaty in color Masha Allah soo yeah..Thank you guys may Allah make it easy for us,Allah yasa mu dache Amin

I am here to say this Wlh maza kuji tsoron Allah,muma matan muji tsoron Allah,the issue of Zina yayi yawa, it is so common ynzu,maza Ynx they are all after our bodies not all honestly, there are good men out there and I hope to be with one,ba duka aka zama daya ba and banyi adalci idan nace all but majority, kallon porn videos yyi yawa amd shima Wlh is zina of the eyes and yana leading to aikata barna,kuji tsoron Allah maza mutuwa ake yi, what if zina is the last thing you did ka mutu? what if watching porn was the last thing you did ka mutu? What if? are you really not afraid? you have cousins,sisters and zaku haihu what if abun da Kake aka ma nka? How will you feel as a parent ka kama yaron ka yana kallon porn videos? kuna yi wa iyyaye ku adalci kuwa? Dan Allah ku daina lalata tarbiyyan da parents su ka shafe years suna badwa, Wlh wasu matan fin karfin su ake yi ba wai bada kai ba ne,Allah ya hallice mu da rauni and sai kuyi amfani da weakness din mu ku lalata rayuwar mu, kuyi destroying image din parents din mu,Wlh our parents really tried wurin bamu tarbiyya, ya za su ji idan wani abu ya faru da yar su?Ta ya xka yi rayuwa da Allah ya isan wnda aka zalunta? Akwai kwanciyar kabari wnda duhu da azaba ke ciki,akwai zafin mutuwa,akwai mutuwar da mutum zai yi ya wulaknta,akwai karshe Marar kyau,kuna gnin ynx ba komi ba ne Wlh we all don't know what will happen next in our lives,wni lkcn Allah ba xai bka damn neman tuba ba har ka mutu bku jin tsoron hka? A mtsyin ka na musulmi ko yini daya Kayi a wuta kyi asara. Akwai bad girls out there please look for them ku daina bata rayuwar innocent girls kuna ska iyayen su kuka,wata a hka zata rasa iyyayen ta kuma ka ce Allah zai kyle ka? Wlh ba hka Allah yake ba yana bin hakkin Duk wnda aka zalunta,kun san baxa ku auri mace ba but end up destroying her life, betraying her trust, Wlh i onced post my profile looking for a partner ready to settle what I saw really scared me, I got a lot of DMs from men, especially from kano but marriage is not what they are after, some will just drop their numbers or handles asking to contact them,some asking for your pictures to see how you look,different mutane, do you really know how hard it was for mace tyi posting tana neman abokin rayuwa? Wlh she must have thought about it and it wasn't easy for her, some are not here out of desperation,wasu it is because of pressure from their families, was genotype has been there challenge, wasu kuma anyi betraying din su and afraid of love again,wasu kuma they are always at home ba inda suke zuwa bare su hadu da mijin, ba wai rashin kamun Kai ba ne ko rashin kunya ba ko because she is desperate to get married, Wlh mata we really faced a lot but sai maza suyi amfni da wnn damar, someone will say this is an opportunity let me give it a try and see, wni kuma zai ce maybe she is desperate this is a chance, ko Duk mazan duniya ba mai sonta sai ta zo neman miji, Wlh out of all the DMs I got it is only one person that is serious about marriage and ready for marriage but Genotype was a barrier because I am AS so it didn't work out, I want to find love for the sake of Allah but everything is not working out,I gave trust and loyalty but I was betrayed, my loyalty caused me nothing but pain,Alhamdullilah nayi kokari kare mutunci na da taimakon Allah because a wnn zamnin is not easy, I am afraid of love again because heartbreak is not easy to heal from, I took a break from love and prayers are all I can ,sometimes I think maybe if I meet someone that was betrayed he will love differently because he knows the kind of pain caused by betrayal but maybe I am wrong,maybe the time Allah plan is yet to come his plans are always better than mine,but I hope one day I find someone that will love me for the sake of Allah, someone ready to build love with trust and respect because I strictly respect boundaries, I want to give love that is pure and honest, a wife that my husband will be proud of having, a home build guided by Allah, I want simple nikah because Albarka nake nema a ciki,I hope one day my dream will come true. Dan Allah maza stop using opportunities akan mu if ba aure zaku yi ba. if someone is really ready to settle down and ready for marriage,looking for a wife mai addini because Alhmdlh I have all the qualities nayi saukan Qurani, nayi harda yafi 30 hizib in sha Allah in a short period of time I will complete the Quran, I have my degree, I can't say much here because wnda ya ce shine to ba shi ba ne, someone God fearing, mai addini and stable. if there is he can ask for my handle I will drop it but even kind words and prayers I will appreciate it,because Allah yana Karban addu'ar strangers. May Allah protect us and make it easy for everyone of us. Allah ya mana zabin Alkhairi.

Am faced with financial breakdown doing my project research in school All of a suddenly I got Ashma attack please I need financial support please my dear colleagues I can't borrow no beg around.....WASALAM

hey, So Other people They Chop Breakfast and Me na Rejection I They Chop left and Right, I think am Not The Spec of my my own Spec.😂I Think it's High Time I Give Up On this Relationship stuff and Put My Energy Into Something Else.🤑

Good morning, i am a male based in Abuja, divorced but willing to try again. I don't mind if you're divorced or has had kids before, just be below 35, be ready to settle by next year, if you have something doing, that's also good. I will be here pls .