I'm looking for friendship I'm based in abuja..preferably female friends

i'm 23 years old in kano originally from kogi(igala)... tall, slim and fair, in my second year of masters looking for an educated, financially stable and ready to settle i don't mind the marital status i'm ready to settle down and fulfill half of my deen

i'm new here, how does the matchmaking app work? basic payment restricts you to seeing only certain users? cause since i paid yesterday i have been seeing same people like i have to decide within just them or? someone enlighten me please

‎Who's awake? So I just wanna pour out my heart ‎ ‎I think my era of dating might be over. Not because I’m heartbroken, but because I’ve become the opposite. I’m usually the one who ends up breaking hearts. I used to be a hopeless romantic, but now I feel emotionally numb and more like a robot . ‎ ‎When it comes to love, I seem to have terrible luck. The women I truly love something always comes up to ruin things and the women who love mez genuinely good women, I find myself unable to give them what they deserve. I try to love them back fully, but no matter how much I want to, it’s never enough. ‎ No woman wants a man who says good morning and disappears till evening. No one wants a partner who’s okay with not calling and if I’m being honest, that’s who I’ve become. ‎ ‎I can’t imagine getting married without love. I’d never forgive myself for that. So rather than stay in relationships where I can’t show up properly, I feel it’s better to step aside and let women find men who can love them the way they deserve. ‎ ‎Maybe I’m not meeting the wrong people. Maybe I’m the problem. I feel disenchanted with love itself. After being hurt too many times, love now feels like stress and an inevitable heartbreak waiting to happen. ‎ ‎For now, I think it’s best I remove myself from relationships altogether. ‎

Assalamu alaikum .... I’m Hafsat from kogi state, 23 year old born and brought up in kano,i am in my first year of masters degree in noun and i am intentional about marriage. I’ve been married before and I have a son. I believe in transparency, so I say this upfront no surprises, no stories later I’m not here out of loneliness or pressure. I’m here because i am 80% indoors, I’m emotionally grounded, self-aware, and ready to build a peaceful, halal home with the right person I’m looking for a man who is ready to settle, God-fearing, kind, stable and clear about what he wants.

Hi Guys Assalam Alaikum!! I'm seeking genuine and meaningful friendships with like-minded people within kaduna or even outside kd. As someone who values deep conversations, empathy, and mutual support, I'm looking to connect with others who share similar interests and values. If you're interested in building a strong and supportive network of friends, I'd love to hear from you. Let's connect and explore the possibilities of forming lasting relationships. Anyone Interested should send a DM to this mail (misseesherhh@gmail.com) can't wait to connect with you bestie!!!

So recently I saw a video on TikTok, this lady was teaching her gender how to get money from guys, she even said she has an ebook on that topic for sale. so I checked the comment section and saw a lot of ladies dropping different methods of how they bill guys and I saw one that one girl used on me. This happened some few years ago, this girl was in Kadpoly ( I won't mention her tribe, but she is from Kogi state). we dated for a very short time while she was doing her ND, but I had to withdraw because d billing was much. So this time around, she came back for her HND. Anyway, we got back to chatting, we even asked ourself why we became distant. So this girl will call me morning, noon and night. She will call me on WhatsApp video call at night, we will be on call till it's very late. she made sure she did that for like a whole week, then suddenly she stopped calling. No more video calls, no WhatsApp voice notes, no text, nothing nothing . Then when I decided to make an enquiry, Thats when she started dropping the bomb... I don't have data, my foodstuff have finished, my fone is bad.. and then it all dawned on me that it was the reason she has been lovebombing me. I had to run for my life. So for the ladies, which method have you been using to bill your guys, and for the guys, which method does ur babe use to bill you. pls let's make the forum fun, don't just read and pass, say something

so there is this girl (22yrs) that I was on a talking stage with this year, we later started dating and I even got to see her dad like 2 months ago for proper introduction. she has a jr sis that is 17yrs, currently in SS2. Her sister currently started dating a guy like 2 months ago. the guy is married (has 1 wife) and reside in their area. The guy said he wants to marry this girl within 6 months and wouldn't mind her writing her WAEC in his house . the problem is, now may gf is putting pressure on me to quickly send my parents, I feel she doesn't want her Jnr sis to get married before her, she is not even asking me on the plans. I wouldn't mind putting some of my plans on hold to plan the wedding in one year, but the fact that I'm doing all this becoz someone came with a firebrigade approach, it's making me reconsider. what's y'all take on this issue

There was a friend I met on this platform named Ahmad Aysha from Nasarawa, Keffi. I lost contact with her long time ago. If you know her, pls assist me with her contact. Thank you in anticipation 🙏

I'm a graduate of Bsc. Biology , with the current situation in the country , its difficult to find a good job, here's my solicitation at least to start somewhere. I am looking for a private school /establishment that may need my service (situated within katsina, sokoto or kebbi state metropolitan ) that has an accommodation as well .if anyone has a means or if you are a proprietor. gender; male age;26yrs state of origin; kebbi state other information available on request. thank you. ALLAH ya sa adace

wherever ypu are whoever you are I miss you🥺🥺 hope you are safe and happy but come find me soon okay

my name is Kulthumie I'm Looking for friendships in Abuja that feel real........ people who are kind,genuine,listen, laugh, and explore life together. DM if this resonates with you.”

I don’t usually open up like this, but I’ve been feeling it strongly lately I genuinely want companionship. Not just conversations that fade, but a real, intentional connection with someone who is mature, kind-hearted, emotionally stable and ready for something meaningful. I’m a soft, calm, caring woman who values good communication, respect and sincerity. I love peaceful energy, gentle masculinity and a man who knows what he wants. I’m not looking for perfection, just consistency, honesty and a companion I can grow with. Being in Abuja is definitely an added advantage, because I’d love something that can grow realistically and intentionally. But I’m open to connecting with someone who truly aligns with me, no matter where he is. If you’re thoughtful, responsible and serious-minded someone who values real connection feel free to respond. I’m ready for something genuine. thank you

I'm a male and going through a heartbreak. I'm in need of someone to talk to who has gone through such as well.

like just because she likes peace and quiet just to read her books and just be doesn't mean she don't want love and attention ,just because she likes cuddles doesn't mean she doesn't want exaggerated show of affection, just because she doesn't like crowds doesn't mean she don't like people like life is about balance if you don't understand her just ask ,talk about it,if she doesn't get you ,try to show her what you mean P.S just rambling of a bookworm

search for a serious relationship I'm malle by gender

I'm here to listen to opinions about what to do about my situation, I've been in a relationship with a lady for about over a year. she is a very wonderful lady and someone that I one hundred percent know would make a good wife. I've started making plans to get married before the end of 2026 even to the point of getting and furnishing a house ( and you know how our people are the moment one seems "stable") but she says she's doesn't think she wants to get married until maybe 2 years later as she's just 23 and currently serving while I'm 28 going to 29 soon. So my dilemma is, is it worth it to continue my relationship with her or to seek someone else and spend the next six months getting to know each other properly in anticipation of marriage. And how to go about it without feeling like I played with her feelings and emotions

Dear kind-hearted friends, I’m a student currently struggling to complete my final project — the very work that stands between me and the fulfillment of my academic dream. Sadly, I’m in a dire financial situation and can’t afford the cost of printing and final submission. It pains me deeply to come this far, only to be held back by something as simple as lack of funds. I’ve poured my heart, sleepless nights, and hard work into this project, but now I stand helpless, watching time slip away. If anyone can lend a helping hand, no matter how small, it would mean the world to me. Your support won’t just help me print a document — it will help me achieve a milestone I’ve worked for all these years. Please, help me cross this final hurdle. 🙏 No amount is too small. Thank you for your kindness and compassion. ❤️

I want to connect with my Hausa brothers and sisters at 1Ummah event at Federal Palace hotel Let's meet and gist and take pictures..

‎Slm, please I would like to seek your followers opinion regarding this issue that's been plaguing me. Firstly I've been in a relationship with this girl for some time now but honestly I can't marry her. A lot of people will assume I'm a betrayer, I've used her and now I'm dumping but sadly this isn't the case. In our society once a man notices a red flag in a woman and he leaves her, a lot of people feel he betrayed her just because he doesn't voice out the things he has endured. There are certain red flags I've had to keep up with in the hope that with correction she will change but sadly as a lot of people have told me such behaviors can't be changed, it's either I deal with it, endure it or leave. One of which is hot temper, I've tried my best to see that i make her change for the best but har yanzu. We don too play to the point This girl don see me finish It's only slap that she has not slapped me. My issue with her is, once she misbehaves, after some time she'll come back begging and apologizing.... After the damage has already been done. 90 Percent of men can't tolerate disrespect. I'm not perfect, I have my own flaws but I've never shouted at her or talk rudely to her no matter how mad I am at her. When she does that, I don't respond back, I normally retreat and go into silence till she comes back apologizing for her rudeness. Back to the main topic, I've left her a couple of times, I've made it clear that if we are married I won't tolerate the things she does if she doesn't change. Out of love, we reconcile each time with the hope that she'll change but till now she hasn't. She has a serious health issue, whenever we break up, her health deteriorates and my conscience judges me. I wish we could separate amicably and remain friends but that can't work. No matter how determined I am to leave, once she apologizes I always find myself reconciling with her. She wants us to get married but gaskiya I can't with this her attitude amongst others, I've told her several times but she always apologizes promising to do better and stupid me keeps going back 🫤🫤🫤. The last issue we've had things aren't the same for me, my mind is very far from her, we're talking once in a while every day. I feel the jokes I use to do with her shiyasa take min rashin kunya.... I've stopped jokes as well. How do i break up peacefully with her without causing problems (I've tried that once and it turned ugly)? OrIs this a normal relationship issue that I can solve?