Category - lifestyle

LIFESTYLE

Introduction

Salam my name is Jibrin Rayyanu Otaki am from nasaraw state am alago by tribe I was born and brought up in jos plateau state am a graduate of f...

Is it right for a Muslim lady to participate in modelling?

I have a question please is it right for a Muslim girl to per take in a modelling contest like pageantry?

question for my ladies

please how do y'all young single ladies cope with being horny?

why are women always after something relationship with men

meyasa matan yonxu basu taba son mutum dan Allah sai don wani interest

How life can be drastic

it's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew. people hurt people cheat people misjudged people behind your back Allah yabarmu da masoyanmu...

ina gagawar neman shawara

Agaskiya yan uwana ina cikin wani yanayi da har ma ina gurin mutuwa nakasa gani alqibla rayuwata Shekaruna 21 amma gaskiya ina mumunar yanayi in...

Da kanmu zamu dauki mataki akan Murja

Mufa ba shegen da ze zama mana annoba ace wai mu zuba masa ido. Ba wanda ze taba malaman mu mu rabu da shi ko da gomnan ne da kansa! Tinda Murja tafi ...

How do you feel about your partner spending on you .

My partner got a new job and she's so excited about it. So she requested to take me out . That's cool right ? The issue is I feel somehow about it . I...

ina bukar taimako da shawara dan allah, porn ya lalata min rayuwa

Aslm I need your advice u gently and help Wato nataso yaro mai son addini da neman ilmi addini sai dai nasamu tan garda tun ina karami sakamakon yar...

i am getting bored, can that lead to depression?

I'm new here in Abuja but I'm unable to make friends I'm an introvert from work to house everyday (I'm a Corper) and I have no one I talk to

mixed feelings

Life is a rollercoaster of unpredictability. Some days, it feels great, while on others, it can be quite the opposite. There are moments when your pla...

The habit you want to stop?

what is that thing you're doing and you know it's not good but you want to stop?? Me: 1. listening to music/singing 2.i used to start eating f...

Men and their dislike for makeup!

Ladies do love doing makeup especially during occasion but in reality majority of men don't like that makeup. On behalf of men we are saying it out lo...

Why are some men like this?

please aja wa maza kunne suji tsoron Allah akwai wani mutumi ne muna irin hira normal da shi yau da kullum sai haka kawai we don't use to talk then al...

I want to get Married but haven't earned much and its disturbing me.

I am a man, just started working in Abuja about 5 months ago, my earning is about 300k in a month, all in all. I spend about 50% every month, so i ha...

why is it difficult to get help as a lady?..

How do you girls pull through life with out parents supporting you??..how do you girls make good connections???… I mean how do you meet people and...

life

Not Everyone Posting or Commenting is SANE: Children of perdition are on the loose. Daily, You have to remember that a lot of people are unstable an...

what are your love expectations?

What’s the most important quality you want in a partner? What’s your love language? Have you ever been in love?

I get turned off when i know a lady is from abuja, Am I Alone?

So, I'm a guy late twenties looking to Marry another wife, I've been on the marchmaking section but the moment I see a girls location to be "Abuja" re...

Mahaifiyata ta cika surutu

Salamu alaikum. Don Allah jama'a kuban shawara wallahi babata ta fiya surutu. Zance ne da ita na fitar hankali gashi kuma da karfi take duk seta cik...

Just thinking out loud

Hi everyone, or Salam to y'all. It's been long since I posted on this platform, I have been in Rehab all this while. Trying to recuperate from a pha...

I am struggling with masturbation addiction

am highly addicted to pornography ND masturbation i try many times to stop but i fall back i will so ashamed of my self sometimes am losing confidents...

managing the house and work

Assalamu alaikum Please to all those working women who are married please how do you tend to manage the household, children, food and still be able to...

I have Dark humor but my friends think i'm morbid

Assalamu Alaikum, all Hope this meets you all in good health. Dark humor 😂....... Is an advanced humor that not everyone gets. I get dark humor a l...

How do you keep friends?

It surprises me how people are able to keep lots of friends, like i see people with 5, 10 friends but I find it Hard to keep one, I was once told that...

my experience living in gidan riko

Assalamualaikum Da fatan kowa kalau hmmmm ya Allah jama'a wallahi gidan Riko baiyi bah koh da Dan uwanka ne imagine kana zama ne a gidan Dan uwanka da...

Can you marry your cousin

Whats your opinion on getting married to your cousin ? I know it's halal but personally I can't ever see myself doing that . Is there anyone like me ?

life has shown me shege

following the kind of pains i'm going through, life has shown me shege

Why are our people like this?

Da zarar mutum ya zo wajen ka sau daya neman alfarma, ka yi mai wani abun... shikenan ka zama regular customer. I find it very annoying that someone w...

Is he a gay?

Hello guys I just found this in Twitter Y’all should say his/her mind

that i can't get married bcoz I'm an introverted person and too serious with lif

so it was this morning, a classmate of mine that i didn't talk to for like 2years was asking me about stuffs. I first texted her coz i had a dream abo...

what type of wife would you like as a banker?

let's discuss this tell me your view. A working class or a O level wife? The advantage and disadvantage of it.

why do I always feel like a bad person?

everyday I Wake up feeling like a bad person.. I don't know why. each time I wake up in the morning I take my time to understand myself and if I mirac...

Rant about Abuja/Lagos men

I don't want to generalise but its seems all these rumours about Abuja men seems to be true. Majority of them feels nothing bad about zina, it's like ...

How are abuja ladies coping ?

How are Abuja ladies coping? Abuja guys sun zama abinda suka Zama. Ba maganan su kullum sai de akan zina. You will meet a decent man a ido but after t...

I am a male, mid 30s but finding it hard to find a compatible partner

For the past 5 years, it has been a challenge to find the right partner for myself, I am a childfree person and believe in the childfree lifestyle, I ...

With time and prayer comes ease

I still remembered when I was a 16-year-old teenager, lol very silly and committed to goals and wishes. I wasn't concerned about love, worldly things...

Changes we see in our life

I don't if people will find what I'm about to say good or bad but I've been wondering since the time I turned 20years I started seeing changed in my b...

why do people look down on you for not having abin duniya? (my experience)

A wuraren shekarar 2019/20 na koyar da Photography da Graphic Design in an online class on WhatsApp and later in the NH classes on Telegram. A cikin w...

Friendship

A wasu rubuce-rubuce na ga wata tayi magana akan samun friends and staying long with them, kuma ni ma I find it hard to make friends and stay long, sa...

Those in Abuja, how are you coping with traffic?

Abuja people how is the traffic by your side how u dey manage cope for this traffic especially those staying along express ways

Life thought

It took me a long time to realize that not everything in life is meant to be a beautiful story. Not every person we feel something deep and moving wit...

Fear of saggy breast

So ina da ƙiba, ina da burst sosai, akwai lokacin da na so ramewa sosai, duk wani magani idan naji yana rage ƙiba ina amfani dashi don na rame amma ...

is there a place like sizzling grills (kano) in Kaduna

please is there a place like sizzling grills (in kano) here in kaduna? if there is where is it located please?

Is having a crush on medics a problem??

For over 10 years now.. I don't know why i keep having a crush on Drs. And it's becoming a dream for me to see me one day married to a beautiful, loya...

SEXUALITY.......... differentiating sexuality from Attraction

I have come here to write on a lot of striking issues that has lots of comments cos I know that thing that is disturbing every one.. please don't com...

Do Good Men still Exist ?

I just wonder if good men still exist out there. Men who are not after a girls body, shape or what she has to offer. Men who want nothing but a halal ...

Concerning meet n share

Salaam! I think this platform wont allow us meeting because they'v taken down some posts concerning that

What life is like for me As a single mom

I am a single mom and i am 30 years. i take all of their responsibilities!! Atimes i break down because it has never been easy for me and atimes i fee...

Why Do Some Girls Dislike Boys Who Can Cook?

My mum started teaching me how to cook since I was a kid, I’m in my mid 20’s right now and I have been cooking properly for the past 10years, kind...

Males receive marriage pressure too

I come across several posts that talk about women being pressured by society or family to get married and how that is causing many unhealthy relations...

bleaching and its effects in Africa

men indirectly promote skin bleaching in Africa by showing too much attention to fair skin ladies...

I want to get married but i DON'T want Kids

When i tell people i don't want kids they get shocked. personally i don't see anything if someone says he wants to get married but does not want kids?...

Mata masu bleaching

My sister please if you wanna bleach you should bleach with sense and stop confusing us by looking like a traffic control; green vein,yellow face, red...

Fake luv

Any relationship that will not lead to marriage, Ya Allah end it today??? ???

Ladies why?

Ladies why are you always smelling during lectures wani irin tsami tsami mutun ya rasa ina zaisa kansa malam wasu har numfashin zasu dauke kaji kamar ...

Masturbation (females)

In relation to the last post on masturbation, i'll be stating some of it's effects on females too; it expands the genital area, causes infection and s...

Kuskuren da wasu iyaye keyi wa yaransu kuma a ganinsu gatane?

Kk I hav dis frnd of mine dat a gidansu sai ana saura wata daya koh Sati uku bikinsu Suke fara shiga kitchen koyan girki, amma magana ta domin Allah c...

What Hausa cultural belief/practice do you think is obsolete?

Just any traditional belief that people are still practicing today and you think should be renounced in the modern world today.

will you leave Nigeria for 2 million Naira

Idan an baka million 2 ka canza zuwa dollars, amma dole ka bar Nigeria forever ka fara new life a-fresh da wannan kudin kawai. you can choose any coun...