Am 27 yrs old I prefer matured woman or widow that has not More than one child. I want someone with sense of humor, one with entrepreneur mind, working class etc. she should be chubby if possible. but am not that rich but am a hustler. I have HND in electrical and electronics engineering but am not yet working. I'm into small scale farming and fashion design. I also reside in kaduna state.

gaskiya some men want to marry. na money they stop 😭 us ooo. Allah Ka aure damu... kafara aiki but you need to gather money before Kaye aure. and every day komai na tsada na rayu. especially here in Abuja. salary of 150 to 200k is not enough to cater most of your need. tackle's Kachi za Kaye aure. hmmmm. 🤔🧬🤔🧬🤔🤔🤔 Allah ka sauwa kimana inda zamuye aure da sauki. kuma kabamu Machi na gari to love us for who we are.

Dan Allah yan uwa...ina neman taimako... maganin jinnul ashik nake nema wanda Allah ya sa yana da ilimi akai ya taimaka Allah ya sa mu dace Allah ya bamu ikon cin jarabawar mu Amin

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لا يؤخر الله أمرا، إلا لخير • Alläh does not delay a matter except for good. ولا يحرمك أمرا، إلا لخير • And Alläh does not deprive you of a thing except for good. ولا يبكيك اليوم، إلا لخير • And Alläh does not make you cry except for good. ولا ينزل عليك بلاء، إلا لخير • And Alläh does not send a calamity upon you, except for good. لذا لا تحزن، فكل الأمور خير • So do not be sad, every matter has khair (goodness).

Do you think women are the ones who tend to spoil men? If so, please provide a reason.

2months ago na hadu da wani bawan Allah a wani matchmaking platform a tiktok a lagos yake aiki buh dan asalin kano ne.babban mutunne da matarsa da yaransa yace zaizo kano ya ganni soon nace ok..na fada mishi ga kaidar gidanmu kafin namiji ya fara zuwa zance sai ka nemi izinin mahifina idan ya baka fine he did that infact 3weeks da haduwa aka kawo kudi da sa rana 5mnths wallahy a wannan watan da aka kawo kudina a wannan watan akazo aka bama mahifina hakuri wai kada a bata mana lokaci akwai wacce akesan hadashi a danginsa ya aura shin daman haryanzu ana haka that too ba auran fari ba wallahy mutuminnan was a very good man abu bai taba shiga tsakanina dashi ba idan ana neman miji nagari aka samu bawan Allah nan an gama i questioned God as too why haka zai faru dani in a blink of an eye nayi kuka nayi kuka har na hakura na fawwala ma ubangiji lamarina bansan dashi ba da ya kawo min so in sha Allah shi yafini sanin abinda yafi alkari after months kanwar tace sunyi chatting yace ita wacce aka ce masa sai ya aura su ma yace bazai aura ba so yayi suspending duk wani maganar aure tukunnan shi damuwarsa is that am ok nd my siter said physicalk am fine but mentally am broken,so he told her to console me and i said Allah ya zaba mana abinda yafi alkhairi i keep praying kamar yanda akayi fixing bikin for 5mnths Allah ya fitomin da wani tsayayyane nayi azimi a gidana...,it was really hard moving on saboda i had no one to cry to ance idan abu na damun mace d best supporter dinta shine mamanta buh in my case tana raye but cant support me ko na fada mata damuta saboda she sick buh alhamdulillah komai lokacine Allah ya bamu ikwan cinye duk wani jarabawa da Allah zai mana ameen

Hey everyone, just out of curiosity, I'd love to hear from you! What brings you here exactly? Are you looking for something specific, like a meaningful connection, or are you just here to enjoy the conversation and comments? It’d be great to know where everyone stands!

should I tell u what's annoying, the fact that u will be on this platform and u won't get any requests then when u request they won't even accept. the boringness is second to none

the way people are getting married plz nobody should marry my husband o

Hey guys, I want to ask – do you think it’s necessary to put your picture here when looking for a partner? Or would you prefer to keep it private? Some people might be shy or not want their family to see them, especially for those of us in the Hausa community, right? Would you feel better if pictures were optional, or do you think it’s important to see the person you’re talking to? I’d love to know what you think. Ku faɗi ra'ayinku!

I'm ready and would love to be a good wife, but finding a good husband is hard. Allahuma yassir.

assalamualaikum, my brother's and sisters. please I wanted to share a story of mine. I lost my dad when am in primary 4 I was so small don't even know much about dead,all I know is I was not seeing him again I missed him so much because everyday and night were together 24/7 my siblings call me his P.A🥰 I missed when he used to ask me what I want. ever since his dead school is not so good to me again but alhamdulilah I managed with the help of my siblings they tried so hard for me to be educated, when I got admission jss 1 that's when I noticed I have to go and start hustling in other to afford some books and buy some food for break because am the broke guy among my squad. I met a man who's job is tiling (tiles) he takes me as his apprentice even tho I lts so hard for me to take heavy things but I managed.when am in jss 3 weeks got site very close my literature teacher, I greeted her and she recognised me actually. then we worked for about 3 days then the borehole of the site stopped working, then we asked for favour from that my teacher to be fetching water from her well and she grant us permission to. after that day I was sick and unable to go to work. and never returned to the site again till they finished. and we didn't see for long. all of a sudden when I was writing my bece junior waec, this woman came to my seat and asked me of her drawer (guga) I said I dont know about it, she said i stole it, and i denied but nobody believed me 😭 i was flogged mercilessly and she told me if i didn't return it I'll fail my papers. I have no money to buy it for her. she then takes me to the front of examination hall and tell my mates that I stole her drawer they laughed, I felt so bad. I failed my papers and I rewrite them later on. we moved on I proceeded my education did my diploma and alhamdulilah got direct entry and got my b.sc as well. got job one day I decided to visit my sister in her office I entered then I greeted the staffs there, turning my head side then I saw this my teacher. I didn't greet her she greeted me and I didn't respond I snub her. talk to my sis and left. when she came home asking me why I didn't respond I told her everything she was so shocked. she didn't even remember me. but I tell my sister not to tell her anything she might feel bad, had it been she didn't publicly insulted me I would have done something special. but ALHAMDULILAH. please friends don't look down on anyone. I recently met my primary school friend he's working with a well paid organisation, I was so happy. he was the first person to give me seat in school when I got admitted. he said come and sit with me, I tell him about it yesterday we laughed. let's be kind to everyone. Allah ya daukaka kowa.🤲

who knew these husbands are hard to find man...

Aslm Inama kowa barka da rana. nazo bada shawara akan mata sudai na amsar komai ahannun samari. Nasan cewa zakiga wannan post din nan Maryam Kuma Allah yasa kin gyara kenan. last month mafita kasuwa kawai naga kiran mama wai Yan sanda sunzo sun tafi da Maryam haka nabar aikinda ke gabana natafi chan don naji maike faruwa Ina zuwa nasamu police sukafara min bayani cewa tracking akayi na waya Kuma yana hannun ta Kuma rubbery akayi har anyi kisa.abin mamaki wayar ko nata baikai tsada ba aka tambaye ta ya akayi waya yazo hannun ta Ashe wai saurayi ne yabata Kuma ba Wanda yataba ganinta da wayar agida.shi Kuma saurayi yanajin labari ya tattara kayansa ya gudu sukace tunda ba'a samu saurayi ba dole a tsareta ta . Aiko naje naba baba labarin abinda yafara yace abarta tayi sati Daya kafin acirota nima Nagoya bayan haka mama Kuma sai hakuri take bawa baba akan yayi hakuri aje acirota shikuma yace aa bai yarda kowa yaje yayi bailing ta ba karshe dai saida tayi kwana uku a station rana na hudu aka Cirota . akan cewa duk sanda ake nimanta zataje station. Saurayi dai ya tsere babanshi Kuma is a well know person a kd amma yace ba ruwansa wata Maryam taga bala,i 😂🤣 gobe ma kisake

assalamaalikum pls does anyone has an ideas where i can serve in kaduna that pays i was born in kan,schooled in kano and i have alot happening around me...my wedding was called off in the same month i was engaged i stay with my step mum and till now she doesnt knw my wedding has being called off...so with all this i think j need a changed of emvironment will be seekng ur comments in sha Allah jazakallahu khairan

Disclaimer: not generalising, not stereotyping, just a series of questions that has been baffling me for long and opinions that I can be wrong about....but want to hear what others think. In my experience and for those I've seen around me, most young Hausa girls are reluctant marrying a man if they feel he's not rich or from a rich home, now I'm not even talking about those from rich homes or how rich parents are so concerned about money that even they themselves made mostly in the later part of their life, sadly mostly through unlawful or doubtful means, that's a topic for another day....I am talking about daughters that are from middle income or even poor homes, why does many of our young girls lack the knowledge and maturity to understand that for an average commoner in this country mostly life begins at mid 20s, 23-27yrs or even beyond due to the system we operate and it takes time, effort and labour to build legitimate wealth. From what I've seen many young Hausa girls are not fully armed or equipped to go into relationships with the mindset that this is what I want to do or achieve in life myself and I am looking for someone to support me achieve these dreams. How's it that in the Hausa society, young girls are willing to abandon young men in pursuit of older men (other peoples husbands oo) just because they are looking for comfort, is it that the our young men are not trust worthy or are they really just looking for a quick hack to life? Of course it works to some extent but not to a larger extent. Generally, alot of young men are been pushed by the desire, demand or expectation to be rich into many shady and illegal dealings which previously where not prevalent in our society.....money or wealth has always been a symbol of status and an emblem of luxury, prosperity and prestige, so this is not to say that it's not, but the egregious elevation of wealth to an unparalleled status, the obsessive prioritization of material riches above all else, and the warped attribution of supreme value to it has come to what one can call: a corrosive force in our society, our hyper-fixation on wealth has led to a perverse idolization by many parent and families, where thse things are valued above human dignity, relationships, and personal growth.....and the truth is that it is this kind of distorted mindset, which regards wealth as the ultimate benchmark of success, that has and is creating an unhealthy pressure that drives our youth to desperate measures, including illicit activities, pushing them to engage in unscrupulous behavior to project an image of affluence.....these foreign, unknown and many other ill and harmful cultures of our society perpetuate a destructive cycle of social pressure and moral compromise amongst our youth and it's your duties as the women, future mothers and guardians of our society to prevent it and change these narratives for the future of our kids Now, to be clear.....a lot of older girls seems more sensible and more atuned to our realities....probably because they are older, have more experiences and know better. I'll encourage them and parent to educate and create more awareness amongst the younger generations because young people like me needs to get married too not necessarily to older women which is something I'm strongly considering

meyasa matan yonxu basu taba son mutum dan Allah sai don wani interest

I act like an okay but deep down I need someone to call mine, someone to share my feelings with, how my day went and so on.

You talk to women about having so many male interests and they tell you it is not by quantity because they are just meeting only stupid guys. You talk to men about same thing and they say na nonsense full outside. Yet, every one thinks they are the real deal. So who is the nonsense? Social media and the illusion of options keep biting people in the ass. Nevertheless, I believe there are many good people out there because I see them often. Vetting problem and unrealistic standards are your major problems. In the end, you'll still go and choose rubbish after all these.