Since this Forum is usually silent, and we love this place, I think someone should start doing giveaway so that the forum will be lively. what do you guys think? okay bye

how is your relationship treating you now aday

I'm in serious mess and I don't know what to do. I have a high libido to the extent that if I do Monday and Thursday fasting the s** high drive isn't reduce but increase. I'm 27 and I don't want to near haraam stuffs. what should I do

Why is it that people who hurt others on purpose can also be very quick to say "I'm sorry". What is your thought? These same people can get very upset if you don't accept their apology right away. They act like they're offended that you're not willing to forgive them easily. But why should we just accept their apology without thinking about it? Is it because they want to look good in front of others? Or is it because they're trying to make us feel sorry for them instead of taking responsibility for their actions? Do you think we should be careful when someone apologizes to us. We should think about whether they're really sorry or just trying to make themselves look good. And should we only forgive them if they're truly willing to make things right. Or should we just let bygones be bygones. What is your thought? Do you think we should prioritize peace over accountability? What's your thought?

O’Allah, grant us Nikah without Divorce, a spouse without untimely death, healthy children without illness. Ameen

Assalamualaikum, Please wai mata ko wacce an yaudareta ne? I want to start looking for a girlfriend, sbd na fara shirin aure, but ko wacce ka kula sai ta dinga ignoring dinka. Da kun fara magana kuma sai ta nuna maza ba abun yarda bane. Meye mafita pls?

As I stepped into the crisp morning air, the chill of winter's breath enveloped me. I wrapped myself in layers, each one a testament to my desire to shield myself from the cold's bitter bite. The cap, jallabiya, hoody, Babbar Riga, socks, and face mask all served as armor against the morning's icy grip. As I stood there, a sudden realization dawned on me like the first light of dawn. I was willing to go to great lengths to protect myself from the fleeting discomfort of cold, yet I often neglected to exert comparable effort in safeguarding myself against the eternal torment of hellfire. A shiver ran down my spine as the weight of this realization settled upon me. The same Omniscient Lord who created the cold and granted me the intellect to protect myself from its bitter bite was the same Merciful God who created the hellfire and endowed me with the capacity to perform righteous deeds that would shield me from its scorching flames. I felt the earth beneath me tremble as the magnitude of this truth hit me. The hellfire, a reality that seemed so distant, so abstract, was in fact a very real and present danger. And I, a humble servant, had been entrusted with the agency to choose my path. As the morning sun rose higher in the sky, casting its golden light upon me, I felt a sense of awe and reverence wash over me. I was but a small, insignificant speck in the grand tapestry of creation, and yet I had been given the gift of free will. In this moment of introspection, I knew that I stood at a crossroads. I could continue down the path of complacency, neglecting my duty to protect myself from the hellfire. Or I could choose to embark on a journey of self-discovery, one that would lead me to cultivate the wisdom and resolve to shield myself from the flames. As I stood there, the cold morning air still nipping at my nose, I knew which path I would choose. I would strive to live a life that was pleasing to my Creator, one that would shield me from the hellfire and guide me towards the gardens of paradise.

Jealousy is toxic to the soul. It can ruin you from the inside out. You can remove it by loving yourself & who you are. You need to accept, be grateful & be satisfied with what the Almighty has chosen for you. He has given you so much. Don’t look at the blessings of others.

Assalamu Alaykum..Ayau zanyi listing din abubuwan da mata Ke amfani dasu wurin guje wa accountability Idan sunyi laifi.. Instead of suyi appologising, su gyara bazasuyi hakan ba, sai Kawai su boye a bayan waennan excuse din 1. Karancin Hankali- na tuna lokacin da brother Dina ya samu issue da matarsa mukaje gidansu a sasanta. Bayan Brother Dina ya fadi abubuwan da take masa, which include being violent, zata iya daukan duk abunda ta Gani Idan Tana fushi ta kwala masa akai, amma a haka mamarta tace "ai bai kamata brother dina ya furta saki ba , kaga ita mace ce, Tana da karancin hankali". 2. Shedan- Misali, sai kaga mace Tana son Aure, amma bazata tashi kula maza ba sai an kuşa auren, ko kuma just before the wedding, sai ta hadu da wani saurayin tace shi take so. Ta manta cewa a baya Tana da samari dayawa kuma babu Wanda yayi serious, suna zuwa suna son su yaudareta, har ta manta... Idan akayi magana ace shedanne.. shi shaidan saboda bai da bakin magana ko... kamar Idan aka nuna mata fuskar shaidan zata iya ganeshi 3- Aljanu- Still zanyi using matar brother dina, lokacin da suke samun problem,tayi ta masa laifi, Tana abubuwan da basu kamata ba.. mama Idan Zai dau mataki sai tace Ai aljanune, iyayenta kuma sukace karyane, bata taba fama da aljanu ba. my point is, Idan babu accountability, mutane zasuyi ta boyewa bayan excuses suyita cuta.. kuma hakan bazai kawo maslaha ba.. saboda gobe zasu sake.. I'm of the opinion that no man or lady has the right to hurt their partner. if they do, they should apologize and take accountability. Also, share with us Idan kuna tunanin maza suma suna da nasu excuses din da suke amfani dashi wurin cutar da mata

Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarkatuh dear brothers and sisters why are SOME men very wicked?!!!... tsoron Allah yayi karanci ah society dinmu. like I couldn't believe what's really going on these days, it's sooooo heartbreaking...I'm talking about teenage pregnancy... just within these weeks I heard 3 cases of teenage pregnancy that 2 among them contacted me, and they're all 100lvl students, can you imagine!!... Kuma wa inda suke musu cikin Yan 400-500lvl ne... haba now, it's not fair at all... idan ka tambayesu if it's happened willingly or unwillingly there answer is always unwillingly and they didn't want to report it, sbd su suke zuwa wajen da abun zaifaru, Kuma duk yanda kayi dasu all they wants is abortion, they don't even care of the risk, I've never supported abortion, all I want from them is su yarda cewa anyi assaulting dinsune sexually so that I'll help them report it but hell no!, infact from there I'll not hear from them again... I'm not even sure why they're contacting me?, like is it because I'm a midwife or what idk...like guys why Young teenagers🥺? why 100lvl students? wlh Allah zai saka musu... Don wannan zalunci ne... dating is not fornication!!!, you found yourself attracted to a young girl and all you want to is to ruin her life? , you're taking advantage of her tender age because she's fragile and too easy to be convinced?!!...iyayenmu are trying there best wlh, ba parents din dazasu so ace yarsu ko dansu na cikin irin wannan halin.... sex education is very important gsky, it's not as if our siblings doesn't know anything about sex, they do, but only in a wrong way. All these should stop please 🥺💔

Always keep your relationship information private from others. This is another one of the causes of marriages breaking apart and infidelity creeping in, as you would be sharing your concerns about your relationship with a person other than your own spouse. This may cause feelings to develop and then Shaytaan will takeover. Always make sure to talk to your spouse directly with regards to any issues within your relationship instead of an outsider. May Allah SWT bless all our marriages Ameen.

One day, someone will walk into your life and make you see why Allah said you to be patient. Trust His timing! 😊 O'Allah, please make it easy for all our brothers and sisters who are finding it difficult to get married, and remove any burdens from them. Ameen🤲

Hello everyone! I've been dating a girl, or should I say I was engaged to her for the past two months. We love each other very much, to the point that we share everything, and I mean everything. Recently, we became quite addicted to sharing intimate photos of ourselves, and it has turned into a bad habit for us. Despite this, I still love her deeply; in fact, my feelings for her grow stronger every day. I’m uncertain whether this behavior could affect our married life in the future. Aside from this, nothing else has happened between us, as we are currently separated by distance and not even in the same country. I would appreciate any guidance from a scholar or Sheikh who can offer advice to both me and her. Thank you everyone

Remember me in your Dua's As I remember you in my Dua. Let’s pray that Allah make us together soon from His bounty. O'Allah please grant all brothers & sisters a pious, loving & caring spouse soon Ameen.

good afternoon everyone pls there's this guy I meet through social media we have been dating since January we became friend after then we became best friend and now we're currently that was last year before we dated dating he just graduated this year he promised me that if he's done he would surely come and see my parents so we can be engaged he even introduced me to his sisters two of his sisters but my problem is that is it normal for a couple that are willing to get married to be discussing about what would happen like after we are married apart from food and how he would take care of me the other aspect?

"I've been following this guy on Instagram for a while now, and honestly, he's become a huge crush. Every time he posts something new, it’s like the highlight of my day. There's something so captivating about his personality—it shines through even in the smallest details of his photos and stories. He’s got this effortless charm and style that I just can’t stop thinking about. Who knows if he’s even noticed me among all his followers, but just seeing him online has me smiling way more than I should be!"pls ina neman shawara,even though bazai following naba atleast he should know me😪

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah everyone please and please it's just a reminder to we all.. Our brother's and sister's parents and beloved one's are out there dying in bandit's hand,they are in need of your prayer's all may allah be of their rescue all and anyone in difficulty alfarman manzon allah

As a Nobel person like me I never thought of getting my self into gambling as a married woman with 3kids. Subhanallahi my heart is blowing please I need advice I want to stop, I am really tired na gaji na gaji da sabawa mahallici na Yau kwana 10days kenan da nayi wa kaina alqawarin na Daina caca har cewa nayi Idan na qara yin caca Allah yasani a wutar jahannama Koda ace ni we aljanna ce to na zabi wuta akan aljanna inhar na qara yin caca. Yanxu haka zuciya na tun safe take min sake sake akan in koma in cigaba dayi sbd akwai kudin da na rasa sosai sanadiyar caca Kuma masu kudin suna tsaye akaina in Basu kudin su na rasa yadda zanyi. Please advise me kuyi min wa'azi I want to stop. Nasha cewa zan Daina sai Kuma daga baya in koma Yi Amma wannna Karon kwana 10 kenan har yanxu ban qara yiba because na dage da addua da istigfari da neman mafita akan yadda zan biya kudin dana salwantar Alhmdlh har acikin zuciyana na samu natsuwa Amma yau da masu kudin suka hura min wuta yasa inaji kamar in koma. Dan Allah kumin wa'azi wata na 8 Ina yin gambling I want to stop...and please ku bani shawarar yadda zanyi da kudin mutane dama kudin su yasa nashiga duk wannan matsalar ni a kokarin na biya mutane bashin da suke bina da kudin caca sun bani kudi zasu siya kaya Nima na tura ma wata shikenan bbu kudi bbu kaya su Kuma sunce sai na biya su shine dalilin dayasa na fara caca akan in Nemo kudin su a caca in biya su sai Allah ya barni da wayau na Kuma ban biya su ba sannna Kuma na qara sa kaina a wani matsalar

I'm a university student living with my stepmother and her daughter (step sister). I recently started a small business, since the first day i announced to them and started the business, my sister then claimed that she also wanted to start the business, something in the business line of what i was selling. I even made up my mind i wont try selling what she's going to sell in the business line.Two weeks after i started my business, my sister told me that she also bought what i was selling and she'll be selling it also. I called my mother and told her what happened, and even told her that I'll just stop and leave the business for her, she told me i shouldn't, ai hassada ce kawai suke mani,they're trying to intimidate me and i shouldn't let them get to me. I still feel like i should just stop the business, what do you guys think, i hope I'm not overreacting. daman kowa a family ya san su da halin su, had i been the one that saw her start the business and decided to start also, I'll be the talk of town from them. what do you guys think?

Why it's that anytime you ask a guy to come and see ur parents he will never come back again what is the problem???