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Should I ask her out for Marriage? Relationship

As salaam alaikum I'm young orphan architect with family responsibilities (of about 15 people). There is this girl that we are together since our primary school time, we really care for one another that some people think we are in love (the other way) but never in our lives, now that I'm in my late 20s and never have a fiancé, some of my friends are advising me to marry her (she is still single, never marry o) because they see the level of understanding that we have, any body that knows her know about me and otherwise. She is working midwife in our specialist hospital while I were still looking for some job. How do you think I will overcome the issue please. Thank you

Oct 7, 08:35 AM
He asked when I will come over to his place Advice

Assalam. I am a Muslim sister Alhamdulillah na san right from wrong. Not saying I’m a saint in any way because I’m human and I’ve made my fair share of mistakes too just as duk wani mutum dake doron duniyar nan. Toh dai nidai a rayuwana Allah ya dora min bala’in son aure da rayuwar ma’aurata so Ina kokarin naga nayi relationship da zai kai ni ga samun miji nayi aure domin na raya sunnar manzon Allah (S.A.W). Na hadu da wani bawan Allah da ya nuna yana sona matuka, mun fara magana ta mutumci har da maganar aure, amma kwatsam! Sai gashi wai yana tambayana when will I come to his place?😳 I was like how? Sai nace no ai it’s not right kawai he agreed and aka shashantar da zancen muka cigaba normal. Toh nidai na kasa dena tunanin abun duk da ba wai ya taba min wani zance na iskanci bane amma why will he ask me such a question? Tun lokacin na ji ya fara fita a raina but he still shows me he wants to marry me and we still discuss marriage on a daily basis kuma gaskia inason nayi aure soon kuma dai apart from wannan tambayar da yayi he hasn’t shown me any bad character. So my question here is, shin na cigaba da kulashi na ga ko da gaske yake kawai gwadani yayi ko kuma na sallame shi kawai?

Oct 5, 10:48 PM
my life, living with severe health issues Health

There are so many things hurting me so many sometimes I just cry, I am hiv positive and I was given birth with its since when I was a child and I am the second person, so my mom was hiv positive that was before she gave birth to me so I contacted it's also, but my younger siblings don't have it's because they are many ways to prevent its, and same goes to my dad so it's only me and my mom who are hiv we are on medication, we go for check up and my mom now is non detective, but for me I am still praying and still on my medications, and I hope I will get a person who will love me and understand my pains

Oct 5, 10:03 PM
i need advice, my ex came back and i wan show her shege. Advice

assalamualaikum kuyi hakuri da abunda nakeson nafada duk da sunada zafi sosai Amma abunda yarinyar tayimun yasa nakeson na rama. wallahi nasota sosai nawuce tsamani sabida lokacin da muka fara soyayya cikin satin nace mata inason turo magabata Dan ba da wasa Nazo ba. Amma yarinyar tayita juya ni har abokaina dariya suketi mun har tazo ta yarje cewa ni inturo mukayi magana da magabatana cewa zasu je tabani ranar zuwa yarinyar kawai tazo ta canzamun nayi kokarin insan meke faruwa Amma tanunamun cewa Bata Sona. wallahi nashiga damuwa nayi ciwo sosai sabida son da nakemata. Amma na hakura har na healing. yanzu duk samarinta sun yaudareta sai tadawo wai in tura gidansu😂 nikuma nace toh Amma so nake natura wasu mutane Wanda ba danginaba nabasu kudi suje......daga baya kawai sai inkai mata invitation card Dina na aure. sabida itama kasheni tasoyi domin lokacin na tsani mata ma kwatakwata. so I need advice.

Oct 5, 01:12 PM
I’m incapable of loving anyone Relationship

I’m a lady in my late 20s, still single, I used to love with all my heart and soul, with all that I am but every time I would get my heart broken and my time wasted by the one I love. Not even broken but shattered. The first few times I got my heart broken each time I cried and got depressed but at the end I was able to pick myself back up and was ready to give all my heart out yet again, and I did just that. Fast forward to my last heartbreak, after it happened I just gave up on love all together, I have healed and moved on from it and I’m happy again. I have quite a number of suitors interested in marrying me but I just can’t bring myself to love anyone anymore. I feel like I’m incapable of feeling love, the person I’m with now really loves me and wants to marry me but I just can’t love him or anyone else for that matter. What do I do? I’m not hurting but I don’t feel anything, I feel dead inside.

Oct 5, 09:29 AM
I look matured but am still young Advice

Am just 20 but I look like am in my late 20s and I feel dis is the reason why am not having any suitors.I have good male friends who are nice to me, some even call me 4times a day and always make me feel like they love me,but they don't they just only like me. Al first I think they want us to be friends first before going to the next level but is not so.i have a guy,we can talk like five times a day,I no all abt his good and bad moments and no all his secret and I like him but he just wants me as a friend.Every guy I come across just want us to be friends no strings attached. should I start asking guys out

Oct 5, 08:25 AM
he wants us to get married but i feel he is young Advice

my correct boyfriend is just 24 while I am 21, he love me so much and I love him too, he is 24 but he act 30s he is very matured honestly, he is working and receiving good salary, he spend for me as well but my problem now is that he want us to marry soon and I am feeling like he is very young to marry gaskiya and I don't want to loose him

Oct 3, 03:53 PM
so lonely and heartbroken General

ya rabb why always me🥹😭😭 he just served me a hot breakfast🥹🥹🥹🥹

Oct 3, 12:44 PM
I am Heartbroken & don't know what to do Relationship

I'm really heartbroken at a point I wish crying will solve my problem but it isn't I really don't know what do....

Oct 2, 06:01 PM
Praise to Arewaup! Entertainment

I just love this platform becoz it's a safe place for us introverts! Everything anonymous no ID, Share feelings, comment what u want, no follow, no follow back! 😂 Like dark web we're all unknown, You can't even recognize your friend 🗿

Oct 2, 05:48 PM
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Wai kuwa, how many of us in this platform? Do we even reach 150? Just wanna know

Oct 2, 03:27 PM
Men and their dislike for makeup! Lifestyle

Ladies do love doing makeup especially during occasion but in reality majority of men don't like that makeup. On behalf of men we are saying it out loud!! we don't like makeup especially bridal. If it's really necessary do it light. We just use to pretend and lie to you that you look beautiful but in most cases it is the opposite. BUT WHAT YOUR TAKE ON THIS

Sep 30, 10:12 PM
why do men cheat on loyal ladies Relationship

been dating this guy for four years plus and found out he was cheating wit different ladies I was so shocked bcos I didn't sense it .. we do talk every now nd den .. e calls me always ,, like we literally talk every day not just once .. I kept it to my sef wen I found out about it for a month ,, had sleepless nights nd cried always .. d day I told him about it he said those girls aren't his gf bla bla bla .. nd later on e now said e wants to get married to a nurse mainwhile E knew I wasn't a nurse bfr now I'm a biochemist graduate..

Sep 30, 05:53 PM
i'm back General

hello guys kun jini shiru kwana biyu ko toh gidan kakata aka kaini

Sep 30, 02:30 PM
Mijina kullun yana so muyi mu'amalar aure, need advice General

Aslm Jamaa ya gaji da mutanei Karan mijina na kawo muku ku bani shawara...munyi aure just 10mnt to gaskiya munyi da mijina banson in dauki chiki yanzun saboda ina mkrnt na kusa gamawa though ya fahimci nei anma ya hanani focus a karatu kullun XX ba safe ba rana ba dare ko ya tafi office kwai sai inganshi ya dawo wai yana bukata na ina lectures kwai sai kirani in dawo gida ya dawo yana bukatana 😭body no be firewood😭Jamaa lfy shi klau kuwa?ni kuma ba yanda na iya dole inzo saboda kada ya nema matan banza a waje😭ku dubamin plssss

Sep 30, 12:37 AM
Am bore need someone to talk to Advice

Boredom

Sep 29, 06:48 PM
I need help Health

I missed my period 20 days late, had my have period on the 9th of last month I don't what the problem, am not married and I did not had sex with anyone for people that will suggest PT, thank u

Sep 29, 02:37 PM
senior man Just stayed Single 😎 General

dear Boys

Sep 29, 01:50 PM
A heart breaking story of mine Relationship

What happened to me is i've been with this guy for almost two years malama like i've never loved a guy kaman yadda na soshi idan yanajin yunwa malama nineh I'll make small chops for him, idan baida lfy come and yadda zan zama very worried wallah malama it's not like wai Dan ina tsoron rasa shi or something like that....Allah it's just that i love him fisabilillah and to be honest I've everything a man needs in a lady a well doing human being, i know i'm not perfect but i'm one of the nicest girls he will ever meet, Malama this guy sai muyi month sometimes zaice bbu Kati a wayanshi haka i will recharge my line in kirashi muyita waya duk ban damu bah, idan zaizo wajena malama sometimes zaice motanshi bbu mai and baida transport and he really wants to see me haka zance yazo na biya transport inn na bashi na komawa....I sacrificed alot for this love even though ba wai i'm from a wealthy family bah a'a ni medical student neh ina Dan catering business.What happened was dating another girl har anyi tambaya and suna tare da yarinyan for almost 4 years ni bansani bah.......it was ranan yazo wajena muna hira and a certain coincidence happen zai nunamin abu a wayanshi so daya bani bayan nagani sai nacigaba da scrolling so sai naga pictures nasu da videos nasu with that is particular lover wallah malama at that time ban zargi komai bah but kawai sai yafara in bashi wayanshi a'a ex nashi ce a'a yar uwarshi sai kawai shakku yashiga raina and nayi ignoring abin when i came home nazauna nayita kuka and i called his friend muka gaisa and i asked Ka gayamin gaskiya Allah yana ganinmu abokin ka yanada wata neh and he said saide kiyi hakuri but tun dama suna tare kafin ku hadu and i said okayI called him nace my hadu and i confronted him nace na riga na sani already so let's be honest Ka gayamin gaskiya and he was like shi he never thought dayace yana sona I'll be honest in the relationship, ya dauka kawai za'ayi soyayya kawai a rabu neh and wlhi shi yanasona kuma badan suna tare da wancan ba babu abinda zai hanashi aure nah and the rest and kinsan maza friends nashi koh tsoron zuciya basuji suna gayamin aii yana sonta sosai yana kashemata kudi this and that while kwandalan Shi ban ci bah shi yaci nawa..I was speechless na kasa magana all my thoughts was i've gotten a life partner Wallahi Bana double dating and with all my thoughts he's the forever for me

Sep 29, 08:33 AM
Is it okay if he checks up on you just once a day? being in a relationship. Advice

Is it ok for a partner (man) to check up on his lady just once a day? I know his a busy type but i feel it's not ok am i over reacting ?

Sep 27, 07:42 PM


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