Salam people ..I have a question I am a bit nervous but I rather just ask.. what am I to expect on the my first night with my bride to be. This question is for all gender to answer....am a bit nervous and shy tho please educate me a little

I have a question please is it right for a Muslim girl to per take in a modelling contest like pageantry?

Asalamu Alaikum I have another question. If you are in love with a lady and then it reaches the point of marriage. ...but then you notice that she still has another relationship outside but u were not aware of it until 2 weeks to your marriage with her ....how will u be able to tackle the situation? ?

Is it right to get married to your best friend's sister ?

Heartbreak isn't when you hate someone for breaking your heart. True heartbreak is when two couples love each other but can't make it work. Let me narrate my story. I'm a young guy of 29, I've only been in a relationship once in my life. I've been living my single life comfortably until early last year . I met this lady and she's everything I could ever want in a wife. I know I can never meet any like her ever. This is a certainty. We joke like childhood best friends, we love each other like couples in their 80s, and we understand and complement each other. In alternate universe she can pass for my twin sister. The only downside was that she's a nurse. I've made up my mind to steer clear of two categories of women when seeking marriage: nurses and military ladies. This is due to their workload . I loved her way too much to give up so I decided to give it a try at first I told myself I'll try to get used to it the night shifts, the early morning shift. She lives in another state so our relationship was long distance. Some months later, I visited her and her family in her state. I was welcomed and duly accommodated. I loved my Stay there. I could never imagine that this was me going to another state to see a girl but here I am several thousand kilometers from home. Things were going well till I left. We used talk on the phone almost everyday but when I came back we Can spend almost a week without talking on the phone. I excused it that it's work. I used to know about all the schedule for her shift but now I don't even know when it's morning afternoon or night shift. I've only ever been in one relationship all my life, not to brag I've had more than 15 girls openly ask me out. And I turned most of the recent ones down on the basis that I'm very busy and I won't have time to commit to a relationship But today this is me, begging for a girl's attention? Nevertheless I remained patient and when I finally got tired I complained to her, she said she'll change, she'll change for two days then revert back. The second time, we haven't talked much for over 4 to 5 Days, on the day she was supposed to be free and I was looking forward so that we can talk, and She went off since morning and didn't get back till evening. She came back apologizing, that she forgot to tell me one of their maid was getting married and she forgot to carry her phone with her. I told myself that it was the last time i will complain to her. She got really busy again. I stopped disturbing her to talk. I maintained the same energy and now we longer talk. She loves me but she's finding it hard to strike a balance between work and me. Rather than get married and it becomes an issue. I gave her a way out.We used to be close in love but now we are strangers

Will Allah forgive me for committing suicide?

Assalamu alaikum I'm here to share my own story of what I'm going through. Ina da shekara 21 amma ni bantaba yin saurayi wanda zaa ce yau kunyi soyayya ba sedai wanda zaka ga yara ne of your age wanda ba lallai aure zasuyi ba ko kuma wasu dai zaka gansu gasu nan though suma bawani soyayya ke kawo su ba nikuma so nake nasamu miji na aure and abun yana damuna wlhy kullum na zauna se nayi tajin ba dadi zuciya na yana zafi gashi a gida mamana tana so taga munyi aure the same thing da yake faruwa da sauran sisters dina(step) sedai muyi tagani age mate namu suna aure ko kuma kowacce da saurayin ta wallahi abun yana damun mu sosai wlhy har ana cewa wai ko nauyin jini ne damu some of our friends kuma suce wai don bamu fita waje ne to fita base ta kama ba zaka fita in baka da wajen zuwan fha? nidai nayi adduar nayi amma wlhy shiru ko Dan saurayin arziki ma kasamu babu bame kiranka a waya kullum shirt yadda ka ajiye wayar ka haka zaka dauka na dage da kiyamul laili ina ta addua dai Don Allah tambayata anan shine su mutane a ina suke haduwa ne da samarin kuma a tayani da addua thank you

those with pure heart always get heart break💔why how can a person hurt you intentionally har ya iya bacci 💔 ko sun manta akwai Allah😭

pls if there is sme1 who can help me cus I don't know my current situation or let's say problem...this is d third tym my wedding is bn fixed sai afasa mind u there is dis boyfriend da muke tare for years his parents suka Hana aurenmu..Kuma duk lokacinda aka saman biki sai yacemn ai auren baza'ayishi ba Kuma sai Inga Bai yiwu ba Kuma da anfasa he will show up tun Ina ganin abun kmar wasa nidai na fara gajiya pls help a soul😭

Hello Everyone, Im wishing you all a successful 2025. I am writing this with a very heavy heart, There's this lady that i have loved for the past 5 years, she's the only one i ever loved ever since i started dating. We have already planned our future and everything and i will soon send my family to there house about our marriage. But i recently met another lady, we are already very close and i have fallen deeply for her and she loves me too with all her heart, we are always and constantly talking, she's the type of girl i have ever waited, Her vibes, Her craziness and everything is all i ever wanted from any lady, She's the complete opposite of the one im about to get married too, I am totally confused. Can anyone please give me advice on what to do, My heart is telling me that this new lady is one i should marry, but i will completely destory the other lady bcos of what i built with her. Im totally crazy and always in deep thinking. I want them both but i must choose one

It’s incredibly painful when you love someone who initially accepted you but later begins to ignore you without any explanation. The hurt is even deeper when you’ve shared dreams, made plans together, and built expectations for a future filled with love and connection. 💔

Assalamualaikum everyone. pls I need a authentic advice about my girlfriend. we met online and we are peacefully getting to know each other. we getting to 4 months now together and I'm Even planning to go and see her in they State. because we live in different states. so here is the twist. she lied to me that her iPhone entered iCloud and she forgot the password and the SIM card she registered the iCloud has lost. so the phone engine has to be changed so I ask her to take the phone to someone for the changing of the engine and she did. she tell me the amount of the work i paid almost half. so after this she pretends that she borrow botton phone from her sister. we are communicating through the bottom phone. And I unexpectedly saw her online i sent her message on Whatsapp she opened and read it. I start seeing her online time to time. I called her and complained that you claimed your phone is with engineer for repairing and I saw you online is the phone fixed she said no her phone is still with the engineer for repairing that it's not her I should check again. she keeps denying that she ain't online her phone is not good. I let it go like that and Im still seeing her online. and after some days she said she has finally collect the phone from the repairing shop. we continue chatting. and can you imagine even during that days she claimed the phone is with engineer for repairing that I used to see her online. they was a time i called her through Whatsapp she pick the call and mute it. and i called her video call she pick and blocked her camera. and she continue denying that it wasn't her. that she is still using her sister's keypad phone. and after she claimed coming back online she security code didn't change meaning her engine was not changed she just ignored me for some days and she comes back and continued chatting with me. meaning her phone has no fault. pls I'm seeking for advice from members of this group. should I continue with her this way. because due to this issue I totally loose interest in her. I'm even planning breaking up with her. because she displays dishonest characters. pls I need advice on this

Hi Guys it's been a while 🙌 How is the weekend

Someone once said, “a man will sacrifice his happiness for a woman. A woman would sacrifice a man for her happiness"

I decided to write this because I saw women complaining in different platforms that they were ignored after showing their interest in a guy, which make them feel like an walakanta su. Honestly speaking it is not like that, sometimes we find it difficult to say no because duk mai hankali yasan cewa duk wacce ta iya fara cewa tana sonka ta fi karfin walaknaci. Therefore ladies should please know that being ignored is not walakanci rather a polite we of saying no especially by shy guys.

As a future husband to be , i think i have the one, but i need help from the ladies. What is the average budget for a marriage. I need to start making plans towards it. Please keep the numbers coming

salamualaikum people, i need your input on chemical peels please. i want to get one for acne and dark spots but i am quite skeptical

Of recent my wife accused me of been smiling in my dreams. Mostly i do slept late and she will be up before me and be looking at me in the early hours. I almost caught myself doing same too one of the morning. Is this normal please?

Hello everyone, a little suggestion, don't y'all think we should have a single ppl of Arewaup hangout😅

I'm from Benue State Base in Abuja and I'm currently in nned of a partner, in respective if your colour