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does he truly love me Advice

my boyfriend always give me his time and everything always make me feel loved and the rest but I'm sacred to fell in love with me let him no come and break my hearts....so should I believe in his love or I should distance myself from him?tho I don't want to break his heart cos he has shown me so much love that my ex'sss couldn't do that to me

Dec 15, 08:11 AM
how is harmattan like in maiduguri? Advice

Assalamu Alaykum! i will be going for a posting for 2 months in UMTH(jan-feb) from kaduna and i've never been to maiduguri before.. pls i will like to know how the weather like during harmattan..will also like to meet some people there so as to enjoy my stay

Dec 14, 06:44 PM
im broken guys Marriage

Salm everyone so I'm in pain and tears I haven't been able to sleep properly for the past few days in my life my heart is heavy so i made a post previously so the thing that my boyfriend that we met in uni that has gotten someone now the thing is we talked on everything about what is happening on how to solve the problem the thing now he said he doesn't know what to do about the situation because the other lady has informed her parents about him kuma he was going to go and see them he said he doesn't know what to tell her now the things this guy is contemplating with between me and her now because now I told him I'm ready to get married to him Now Wlh I love this guy so much than anything in this life I'm ready to make this thing work Wlh like I don't want to lose him I want him to be mine forever I got attached to him because of how religious he's and I really see a lot of changes in life when he came into my life now I dont what to do kuma I don't want to force the relationship because if I do it might not end well

Dec 13, 05:28 PM
game time bored tho🥹 Entertainment

truth or dare??

Dec 13, 04:18 PM
Singles let's gather here😭😂 Entertainment

Shin kuma iri nace ko ko😂.Nidai baba na yace nazo nayi aure na girma na gudo gd na dawo gdn kakanni na ynxu kuma kaka na ya fara man waazi kodai hade baki su kayi ni maryama🤧😂.Nace masu ban girma ba shekara 20 ba wasa bace ko🌚.

Dec 11, 02:44 PM
should i marry him Advice

Slm alkm, pls I need an advice narasa yadda zanyi, I got married when I was 21 and got divorced at 23 and I'm now 24, iyayena suna ganin I'm still young so me being a divorcee doesn't give me the ticket to choose my type of spouse myself sbd suna ganin wanchan lokacin I choose my type of spouse myself, so yanzu sunaso su zabamin miji da kansu and the problem here is I've a boyfriend I love him and he love me too, iyayena sunyi suggesting yakamata ace yanzu nayi setting agidan miji they asked me inada wanda nakeso and I said yes so sai sukace incewmishi yayi introducing kanshi, so this man in question wai yana tsoron gayawa iyayenshi sbd yana tunanin bazasu bari ya auri divorcee bah a matsayin first wife dinshi bah. and my parents are on my neck akan zanchen shi and shi kuma he refused to make a move about the issue. yanzu parents dina sun share zanchen shi sunyi mun introducing wani relative dinmu, I know he's very kind and responsible and financially stable bashida matsala, kuma yana iya bakin kokarinshi wajen ganin ya kula dani da soyayyah nikuma wanchan nakeso kuma haryanzu we've not lose connection with each other. I've been thinking kar nazo nayi biyu babu, saina mishi magana gafa abunda take faruwa and he told me wai zai gwada magana wa parents dinshi. nikuma already kawai na tanke hukuncin inhar bai yi komai akaiba wlhy I will just have to forget about him and move on duk da nasan wlhy yana sona sosai. kuma I don't want to hurt him shysa pls Dan Allah ataimakamin da shawara duk da nasan relative dina din wlhy yafishi kyan hali in terms of Ko fada mukayi sai yayitamin walaqanci kafin ya hakura wai da sunan shi mai zuciya shikuma relative dina din wlhy he's a gentleman man pls advice me.

Dec 11, 12:02 PM
Should I tell him something I feel he will use against me? Advice

like something has been going on in our house so it makes me feel down and not giving mh boyfriend more attention like before he have been asking me to tell him what's happening I keep bringing excuses for me not to tell him actually what is happening.is it right to tell him because maybe I'm thinking he will use it against me though it's not not me but from my family

Dec 10, 09:37 AM
why are men like this Relationship

so I met my boyfriend in uni so everything so fine so we didn't stay for long about 3 days he said he want to see my parents And I told him not yet we hardly know each other so after one month we we're back at school things were going normal sha after a month he said he will like to introduce himself to my parents and I told my parents will not allow it because my family will say I'm too young to make a decision to get married and he was okay oo with I told after I'm done with school I will talk to them about it he said fine he's going to wait and he usually have stomach pains and he told me about it and I felt somehow oo and because I don't want to be selfish In my own way so I told him to look for someone that is ready to get married so that he can satisfy his urge for sex so this girl started dating one girl like this let call A so the relationship didn't last so his friend introduce another girl to him that's in kasu this girl let call her B .so this B is a final year in kasu and she's from zaira o and him also too .i do encourage him to talk to her and understand her so that things can go well so this guy hardly have my time he doesn't even care about me anymore I use to be the one that check on him and sometimes when I call him he will tell that let him pick call of the lady B it kept happening and I'm tired of staying in the relationship now because I just feel he doesn't regards me now .I use to be Patience with him in everything I use to obey .the reason why I told him to get a girlfriend was that if he marries her and when I'm done with my school we will get married and I will be this second wife I don't mind but now I have made of my mind I'm not more doing again dama I never want live in zaira let me tell you his rule he told me that if we get married I will not go to work i will work as a full housewife it a compulsory to wear hijab visiting of family is when necessary only Important things kuma the maximum of my stay is one week fah kuma with time I will be wear niqab fah 🤧 kuma he want many children like 12🤧 for one wife kuma this guy hardly care about me now everything he mention his girlfriend name into my hear I don't like it and a day before yesterday I wanted to him to know how it feels so I told about a guy my friend introduced me to him he started reacting about it fah kuma it's a lie Wlh it pain when I told him about the guy I'm this type of a girl that I Don't double date no Matter what happens even to talk to guys I don't do that so men sha no Dey fear God

Dec 4, 11:28 PM
Should I get back with her after we separated? Relationship

There's this girl I was dating some fews ago to the extent that I want to do formal introduction, I caught her going on a date with her so called Ex, I confronted her with the issue and make sure with talked things out. I was ready let that slide. Fast track everything, in this mixed of everything she moved to another state then later called off the relationship. But we remain cool, we talk once a while advice each other and so on. So recently as we are having our normal chit chat "sada zumun ci" she asked if we can accept her back and possibly continue with my initial intention. These are some of the things running through my head; 1- this girl doesn't really love me, she's just coming back after not getting her fantasy man. 2- "Trust issues " with the trend of married woman still involving with their so called ex and besties after even being married after all the major problem we had during our relationship is her going on date with her Ex. 3- Posibilty of having numerous body counts, I know it won't sound well with many girls on this platform, but it really do matters a lot. Imagine after being celibate for all your life and ending up wayyazubillah

Dec 3, 09:15 PM
my boyfriend lost his Job, I need advice Advice

aslm how r u all doing plxxx i want u to advice us my boyfriend lost his job and i adviced him to start a business but we both have no idea on which business to start plxxx suggest any good business he can do thank you

Nov 29, 04:03 PM
is it bad to ask yoir boyfriend for something Relationship

just because I asked my boyfriend for money he started showing me attitude..tho I never ask him for money this is my first time and we have been together for over 3 months...

Nov 28, 09:59 AM
He dosent call or talk to me expect if i do Relationship

Assalamu alaikum please I need you people advice my boyfriend and I started off cool har yaso ya shigo gida a daura mana aure in yaso daga baya ayi taro saboda ba mazauni nan bane but we have never met before so I suggested we meet first before everything,The thing is he doesn't call me or talk to me expect if I do,in zamuyi sati bamuyi magana ba he wnot tell me anything Sai na mai,ko magana ne bai wuce kawai gaisuwa ba,I talk to him several times ko akwai abinda na mai ko kuma he's no longer interested he said there's nothing wrong Please what should I do?

Nov 28, 06:30 AM
Should I take something along when visiting my sick girlfriend? Advice

My girlfriend is sick and in the hospital, I know my question sounds silly but I just want to know what you all think. I want to visit her so I'm thinking if I should take something along or just go empty handed. She likes ice cream and chicken, should I take it along ? Or something else would be better ?

Nov 26, 10:17 AM
my opinion on the "manyan mata" series Entertainment

Am I the only one that notice that this "manyan mata" series has started becoming something else? The started it kaman abun kirki but now they are turning it into something else. Gskya my advice to parent is that in har baza a iya hakura da kallon shi ba ma, Keep children away from it. Because what they are showing is against our culture and religion. Let's be cautious kar mu bari a gurɓata mana tarbiyyar yara.

Nov 25, 09:36 PM
How's your relationship with your siblings and older ones? Relationship

Are you close to all your brother(s) and sister(s) ? For me, I'm much closer to my immediate younger brother, my younger we are not much close but we are still actively involved in each other's lives. My older brother is another different case, we rarely talk, we can go for months without talking to each other,we live in the same house and both of us are fine with it. We used to be close as kids but as we grew older things changed , seniority and all came into place, now both of us rarely stay at home till night due to work. I'd like us to be closer but I guess for now it is what it is. What is it like for you ? Are you close to all your siblings?

Nov 25, 03:29 PM
looking for solution for high libido Advice

I have high libido (sex drive). please how can I reduce it that's will not effect me negative. because I don't have plans to marry soon. I want some medicine that I will be using. to reduce it for me. at same time I want the libido to come back after I married

Nov 24, 08:49 PM
should i continue to chase her or just go? Relationship

Hello please mutanen gidan nan I need your advice. There is a girl I love so much, but I refuse to tell her because I thought she was too young. I waited till she finished her secondary school, when she started her undergraduate program, then I told her what is in my mind. But to my suprise she told me that she is with someone already. After investigating, I found out that it is true but the person is yet to reach out to her parents. Please should I continue trying to win heart, or I should just leave her. Amma fa ina so ta sosai

Nov 24, 07:01 PM
I need medical advice Health

please any doctor in the house???? I need help.

Nov 24, 10:55 AM
Is this called jealousy or love? Relationship

I had a boyfriend who always try to prove all his possible best to show me how much he really loves me, I trust him and love him with everything,but the only concern I’m having about him is, he didn’t want to see me with any man except him,maybe chatting or joking with them,it is not allowed 🚫 I ’m not allow to give out my numbers to any male friends either old/new friend,he will said I’m flirting with them 😪and our relationship is just two years now,pls is dis love or jealousy???

Nov 22, 06:47 PM
An advice to men!!! Advice

Assalamu Aalaikum, dafatan na same ku lafiya. Wani dan labari ne daga cikin rayuwa na nikeson baku. As ladies always say ni mai kudi nikeso, kokuma kyakkyawa nike so, ko bai komai idan na kalla kyakyawar kuska hankalina zai kwanta😂😂 kokuma idan da naira akwai farin ciki. Ehh duk haka ne amman ba priorities bane. What matters here is hali mai kyau. Na hadu da maza kala kala( ba iskanci bafa, irin proposals haka) daga cikin su akwai wani kyakkyawa wallahi ajin farko ko inane idan yaje mata sai sun juya that is to show u how handsome he is, amman wallahi harga Allah bai burge ni ba sabi da me, tabiun shi basuyi ba, wallahi idan dai sone yana so na tsakanin shi da Allah sabida munkai kusan shekara uku yanzu ana magana daya nace mishi yayi hakuri. Na biyun shima ga kyau, ka kudi Mashaa Allah, kana ganin shi kaga cikakken namiji amman me, babu hakuri sai uban naci( yhh i know it might sound haka saboda bana son shi ne kohh amman still daace haka ne aii da kudin shi yajanyo hankali na naso shi) but no. Sai kuma akwai wani, rufin asiri dai iya gwargwado akwai amman babu aikin yi, halaye, natsuwa da tabiunsa ba'a magana idan za'ayi grading inshi A+ zai samu, Allah ne mai halitta amman dai kuma shi in wallahi ba wani kyau ne dashi ba, ana dai lallabawa amman duk da haka Alhamdulillah. So Abin da nikeso maza su fahimta anan shine cewa ba kudin ka ko kyawun halittan ka zai sa mutum ya so ka ba, hasali ma idan kana da tabiu masu kyau, shi zai janyo mutane gareka. Ba ko wasu mata ne suka damu da abin duniya ba amman ba wai ina nufin ku gyara bane saboda mata, no idan kun gyara, kun gyara ma kanku ne ba kowa ba. Dan haka, ina rokon mu gabaki daya da mu gyara tabi'un mu kuma gyara na tsakani da Allah ba don wata koh wani ba.

Nov 22, 11:59 AM


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