Ni dai nakan ce, matsalar da aketa magana akan zaben abokin zaman aure; muna bari jaki me, mu rika bugun taiki. Dalilina shine, iyaye a yanzu sun cire/ an cire hannunsu daga zabarwa yaransu (maza da mata) abokin zama, sai dai idan yaran sun gama sharholiyarsu sannan a nemi iyaye su daura aure sau da yawa. A ka'ida iyaye ne za su duba Wanda ya cancanta ga 'yarsu/dansu sai su zaba musu, domin wanda ya rigaka kwana dole zai rigaka tashi, ballantana Wanda shi ya haifeka, to sai aka ce mana wannan sunanshi auren dole, kuma duk muka yarda (Dan haka iyaye suka janye hannunsu, mu kuma 'ya'yan muke gaban kanmu). Sannan mun daina neman zabin Allah sai a Baki kawai, za'ayi aure an tafi wurin boka ko dan duba, ko kuma idan anyi Istikhara ta shari'a to amma akwai abinda mutum ya zabarwa kanshi already kawai yayi ta ne a matsayin zaiyiwa Allah wayo. Ko kaji muna 'ai baza mu iya hakurin da kakanninmu sukayi ba a zaman aure saboda mun waye' to tunda bazamu iya abinda sukayi ba; ai bazamu sa rai da samun sakamako irinnasu ba kuwa (ko a makaranta idan bazaka iya nacin da wancan yakeyi ba da juriya wajen karatu ai kasan sakamkonku bazai zama dai-dai ba. Allah Ya sa mu farka da wuri.

Assalamualaikum hope kowa ya Sha ruwa lfy, Allah ya karbi ibadunmu Actually something has been bothering me lately because gaskiya a da I used to be a really religious person bawai irin can can ba, amma yanzu komai ya gagareni wlh, da Ina iya tashi sallar dare, azumin litinin da alhamis and I used to make alot of duas while praying and after but yanzu I don't know what has gotten into ko morning and evening Azkar din da nakeyi before yanzu bana iya yi, I have tried everything I could just to go back to being what I was or even more but to no avail, honestly speaking bana wani Abun da ya Saba wa addini, and Ina five daily prayers kuma akan lokaci kawai dai as a Muslim inason naga Ina other abubuwan da suka shafi ibada.and what bothers me the most shine I'm into a business da ke bukatan nayi ta addu a considering the kind of business da kuma irin environment din da nake which is actually a local environment with lots of insecurities so I don't know what to do cos my parents and relatives will always be kiyi ta addu a sosai sbd kina cikin hatsari sosai . so please I really need your advice or guidance on what I am supposed to do cos I really don't know what to do.

{Lessons learnt from the first time I fell in love} I was 18,fresh out of secondary school with high expectations and hopes for my future . I started a teaching job so that I can have something to do while waiting for admission into higher institution. All my life ,I've never ever fallen in love ,I get scared by the thought of it,at that age I couldn't look at a girl eye to eye and have a normal conversation,not even my female classmates ,I was that shy . There was this certain girl, a few streets away from my house, we don't talk or share anything in common ,they normally pass our house when going to Islamic School in the evening. For the sake of privacy I'll refer to her as Aisha . The first time I met Aisha was when I was in Ss2, my school and hers had a football match . My mind was on the action going on in the field when I heard someone tapped me from my back . A girl came behind me and said someone wants to talk to me,she pointed at a small clique of girls sitting ,In their midst was Aisha. My mind started beating, I tried to pay attention on the football match but my focus was clouded . I left the field and went back to class , berating myself for not having the guts to accept her invitation. Two years later, I found myself teaching in the same school she is attending. Luckily for me I was given primary class to teach while she is in secondary. For the first week I couldn't see her in the school, I subtly asked my younger brother who's also attending the Same school if she's still attending the school. He said yes that it's because the session just started that's why . The next week I was outside observing the assembly when Aisha walked in and casually joined the queue . Everything was going okay till our eyes met,then the second time ,then the third . I looked away and walked back to the staff room . I tried to avoid her by all means. Some days later ,the school director called me into his office ,he asked if I can teach Islamic Religious Studies to the secondary as their Former teacher had left and I'm the only Muslim teacher in the school. I gladly accepted. Walking back to class ,reality of the situation dawned on me ..... I'll have to face Aisha , and worst teach her .... After being assigned to teach the secondary section Islamic Religious Studies,I made a resolve within myself to keep whatever hidden feelings I had for Aisha at bay . I'm her teacher now ,I need to be professional as possible. I can't allow some stupīd feeling ruin my job for me. The first time I walked into her class to teach I managed to keep a straight face and I didn't even look at her direction . Soon we began interacting , just greeting and things like that . Everything was going smoothly till the day of vacation,I sat with a fellow female teacher discussing ,she came by and collected the teacher's number,she's good friends with the teacher . I tried my best to look casual and not bothered by her presence . Later that day ,at night around 7, I was watching movies at home when a boy came into our house and said my friend is calling me outside . I was wondering which of my friends would that be ,stepping outside ..... I saw Aisha ,for the first few seconds I lost my train of thought and almost stammered . What are you doing here ,what if someone sees us ? Different questions floated into my head at the same time but I couldn't find the voice to say it out. We greeted and she said she just wanted to have my number . I gave it to her and went back home wondering what the hell is happening. The next night I received a call from a strange number , I picked it and heard her voice,we talked,I asked her about school, we were just beating about the bush for Five minutes until she told me ,she wanted to collect my number in school but she didn't want to attract anyone's attention . We kept on talking till she hit the nail in the coffin,she told me she likes me ,she doesn't want my reply now ,that I should think about it . My heart started beating, relationship or my work ? The next day I had already made up my mind .I picked up the phone ready to tell her what's on my mind before I chickened out . The next day I called her,as much as it hurts me I had to deliver the bad news, I couldn't risk my Good name and reputation just because of love . Why didn't this happen earlier before I started teaching in her school? I cursed my luck, at the moment I had already resigned my heart that I might never fall in love . I explained to her in full why we can't have a relationship,it's not about her it's about me .Inwardly I felt really bad for rejecting her but I had to do it . As time went by ,the day for school resumption drew close ,I don't look forward to meeting Aisha at all . The next term school resumed ,as usual she didn't resume until after a week . The day she resumed ,I was outside observing the assembly,I'll never forget what she wore ,she had on a new uniform, a sparkly wrist watch to match the colors of ⁹⁹ ,any common sense of reasoning I had drifted away . It was only a matter of time before I called her and confessed my thoughts. Play play,the relationship started .... We agreed to pretend to act as if we don't know each other in school and the relationship will purely be after school. We would meet in the evening when I'll accompany her to islamiya or at night when her parents sent her ,she'll send my friend to call me so that I'll escort her . We would talk later at night till dawn. Damn I was truly in love . The fact the relationship was a secret one made it even better and exciting . Well atleast to myself ,she wanted us to make it public but I refused,I was too scared . I nearly had heart attack when she sent fruits to my mom one day . My mom was a firm believer of no relationship until after higher institution. The ove grew as time went by , we started meeting in school,during her free period she would come to my class . People started suspecting but at that moment ,I was past the point of caring . Everything was perfect until when I received the good news,I got admission. I was thrilled,everyone around me was thrilled... Well except for her ,she said she knows she'll lose me once I leave for school. I tried my best to assure her that no one is removing her from my heart .But still it didn't improve her sour mood . Little did I know that she has already removed me from her heart at that moment , As the day that I'll be leaving for school grew closer ,the communication grew shorter . I tried to meet her weeks before I depart but she gave me one excuse or the other . I left for school, I tried calling her number but it switched off . It remained like that for a month until one fateful day I was in my hostel when her call came in ,I missed her voice . We spoke ,she told me her phone got spoiled . She asked about my school and other things . When we ended the call I felt something I've never felt with her before . This time her voice was cold . I never gave up,I thought it's just distance ,once I come back home for the holidays everything will be alright. The semester ended,I was so eager to go home and meet my loved ones . When I came back ,I tried to reach out to her but no response,text message no response, I even sent a letter ,no response. I couldn't get what was wrong We never had a fight . Why isn't she responding ? I quickly called the school director and told him I'd like to work part time before school resumed . He accepted .I resumed teaching with the sole intention of meeting Aisha and settling things . When I finally met her in school,her eyes was cold ,she's not looking at me with the love that used to sparkle in her eyes . I started feeling distraught. To make Matters worse , I noticed she's now close to a fellow colleague of mine,I'm suspecting something between them . Whenever she would go to his class to do something my heart will squeeze with jealousy but I cant do anything,we are not talking again like before . Still I held hope that before I leave she'll come back to her senses . Little did I know that it is I who needs to be put back in my senses . One afternoon,there was no electricity. I went to my colleague's room (who's now close to Aisha ) to charge my phone since their transformer has light and his house is somehow close to mine . I knocked at his room and entered I noticed he's with a female but I didn't bother to look at her face . I just wanted to plug my phone and give them privacy . Once I stood up to leave a voice called my name ,I looked down for the first time at my colleagues companion and noticed it is Aisha ,my Aisha ,in a guys room ,alone ,not just a guy ,my friend ,my colleague. I was heart broken . I went back home leaving my phone there. My heart was gone . I knew things were bad between me and her but I didn't expect that . I couldn't get over the heart break , when going to bed I'll look at her picture before sleeping,I'll perceive the scent of the flower she gave me. When I'm home I'll sometimes pass their house to see if I'll meet her ,who knows maybe she'll apologize. I was heartbroken but I was ready to take her back if she'll apologize. I loved her that much . I nurtured a broken heart for three good years , to the point it even affected my studies. Ever since then I lost my trust in women completely.

Sau da yawa ina fada; mutane muna manta Allah idan wata musiba ta taso mana musamman iyaye mata. Idan an rasa miji sai ace aljanu ne, idan ana yawan ciwon kai shima aljanu ne, idan jini ya hargitse shi ma dai haka, idan za'ayi kishiya nan ma haka, kusan komai na rayuwa sai ace aljanu ne, kuma an fi yaudarar mata da wannan zancen. Waye aljani? Aljani halitta ne kamar yadda mutum yake halitta a cikin halittun Allah madaukaki, sai dai cikin iko da gwaninta ta Allah Ya halicci aljanu ne ta yadda idon mutane bazai iya ganinsu ba (a mafi yawan halaye). Amma mu sani mu mutane mun fi aljanu matsayi da kima a wurin Allah, haka nan mun fi su hatsabibanci. A ka'ida aljani ba ya sanya mutum aiki, sai dai mutum ya sanya aljani aiki, ko da kuwa mutanen da suke haduwa da lalurar shafar aljanu, suna iya samun ikon akansu. Sannan mu sani aljani matsoraci ne fiye da yadda mutum yake da tsoron aljanu, duk da kasancewar aljanu din iri-iri ne (bari mu tsaya kan batunnan haka). Yaya ake RUKYA? Yin Rukya saboda korar aljanu hanyoyi ne daban-daban, sai irin baiwar da Allah Ya baiwa mutum, shiyasa Annabin Rahma Alaihissalam Ya koyar damu addu'o'i a gabobi daban-daban, ga misali akwai aljanin kana yin addu'ar sanya tufaafi zai kone, akwai wanda kana yin ta fita gida zai kone, akwai wanda kana yin ta hawa abin hawa zai kone, akwai wanda zikiri ne yake Kona shi, akwai aljanin da ko za ka sauke Kur'ani ba abinda zai sameshi amma kuma da zarar ka juya karatun daga kasa zuwa sama zai kone (misali ka fara daga karshen Fatiha zuwa farkonta) abin ilmi Mai zurfi Kuma Mai zaman kanshi, Wanda malamai sunyi rubuce-rubuce. Amma kamar yadda nake yawan fada, ana yaudarar mata ne akan sha'anin aljanu saboda raunin Imani na mutanen yau da Allah da kuma tsananin tsoron aljani da mata suke. Ba kowani abu bane yake kasancewa aljani ne ya haddasa, ga misali; idan anzo neman aure, sai mahaifiya ko kawarta ko kawar wadda za'a aura tace wai aje wurin wani (Mai suna malami) wai ya duba yiwuwar aure, kuma wai sunan abin Istikhara! Annabi Alaihissalatu wassalaam Yana koyar da Sahabbai Istikhara kamar yadda Yake koyar dasu Kur'ani (ta yiwu muyi bayaninta nan gaba). Idan kuma an samu wani shaidani yace wai idan bai amfani daa mace ba za ta gani, sai mu tambayi kanmu; 'waye yake da iko akan komai? Idan munce Allah, to mun bi abinda Ya aiko mana AnnabinShi dashi? Tunda bamu bi ba, dole kowani dan iskan gari ya jefemu da Sihiri Kuma ya samemu (domin bamu yarda da Allah ballantana mu rika yin HIRJI irin Wanda aka koyar damu a shari'a). Mu sani, duk wanda ya/taje wurin wani wai ya duba masa/ta wani abu da zasuyi idan da alkairi ko babu, sai yayi kwana arbain (40) ya/tana sallah Allah bai karba ba (to wa ya aikemu?) To Kuma bayan haka ga laifin zina. Matsalarmu! Babbar matsalarmu a yau shine rashin neman ilmin addini daga wadanda suka san addinin da gaske ba 'yan neman kudi ko shuhura ba. Maganar da yawa idan hali yayi zan cigaba da yardar Allah. Allah Ya shiryamu Ya ganar damu, amin. Na so ace akwai ikon yin magana da murya.

I want to get marry am been pressure,, Will be 26 this year and is not as if I don’t have d intention of I once brought someone which lead to bringing out date, he pay’s dowry, everything even goron saka rana that 2yrs back just of a sudden he said he’s not interested cos we always fight 😭💔 I keep meeting men which i appears desperate to them Buh am not am just been careful,, I give all in my relationship I don’t double date even with d little I earn I make sure I sent money whenever dey need,, buy things and so one Buh still dey don’t stay am tired, am tired of everything.. I always cry I cry I cry a lot I pray I pray harder,, Buh for d fact my parents don’t understand and denied me so many things cos I refuse to bring someone home, my dad even close my shop😭 a times I feel like koma in mutu ne💔 Buh I always remember am a good muslima that hold unto her faith this is my faith Buh am loosing it already am emotionally drained 😪 plss what should I do should I continue doing what my parent stop me from doing for d fact I can’t drag a man to my hus💔 Like school my business and rest he stop me that I will continue my skul and business if only I brought someone home🥺💔

Okay uhmm.. so a A blind date is a social engagement between two people who have not met, usually arranged by a mutual acquaintance. what do you all think about a blind date organized by Arewaup (specially for people who want to court for some time before marriage). It should be organized in like a public restaurant, cafe or an eatery of security reasons. I just think of it as a way for one to get to know or meet his or her soul mate and vibe well. what do you all think?

𝑸𝑼𝑬𝑺𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵❓ : Does vomiting break your fast? Vomiting a little while fasting. Does spitting break your fast? : 𝑨𝑵𝑺𝑾𝑬𝑹❗️ : Praise be to Allah. Vomiting refers to when food, etc. is expelled from the stomach outside the body. With regard to whether vomiting breaks the fast or not, the ruling depends on whether it was done deliberately or not . If a person vomits deliberately, this breaks the fast and he has to make up that day. If he cannot help vomiting and vomits involuntarily, then his fast is still valid and he does not have to do anything else. If a person needs to vomit because he is sick and vomiting will help him to recover, then it is permissible for him to do that, but he has to make up that day after Ramadan, because Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “and whoever is ill or on a journey, the same number [of days which one did not observe Sawm (fasts) must be made up] from other days.” [al-Baqarah 2:185] Vomiting a little while fasting, According to the correct scholarly view, it makes no difference whether the amount of vomit is great or small. If a person vomits deliberately and only a small amount comes out, the fast is broken. It says in al-Furu’: “If a person makes himself vomit and vomits anything, then his fast is broken, because of the report of Abu Hurayrah: “Whoever cannot help vomiting does not have to do anything but whoever makes himself vomit deliberately has to make up that day.” (Al-Furu’, 3/49) This hadith was narrated by Abu Dawud, 2380; al-Tirmidhi, 720 – he said the scholars follow this. It was classed as sahih by al-Albani. But there is a difference between spitting and vomiting. Spitting and hawking, etc. do not come from the stomach, so there is nothing wrong with expelling that matter. But vomiting comes from the stomach as explained above.

Dan Allah Inason Members Din Gidan nan Su Tayani Da Addua Kuma Su Sani acikin Addua Da Bakunan Su Masu Albarka, Wainda Suke Kasa Dakuma Wainda Suke Umrah Akan Ubangiji Allah Ya Taimakeni Yakuma Bani Iko Dakuma Budomin Kofofin Arziki Domin Naga Nasamu Nacigaba Da Taimakon Iyayena Kuma Nayi Aure. Allah Yagani Inasan Naga Nayi Aure Sosai Da Sosai Domin Kare Kaina Daga Sharrin Zamani. Sabida Gaskiya Ina Da Shaawa Mai Karfin Tsiya Wallahi. Nikaina Tsoron Kaina NakeTakalma Na Maza Nake Hadha, But Still Nasan My Capital Is Not Uptoo That Amount Da Zan Iya Aure Ga Kuma Iyayena. Amma Allah Yagani Inasan Auren Nan Sosai Da Sosai Domin Samun Peace Of Mind. Dan Allah Ku Tayani Da Addua Sosai Da Sosai. Nagode

Na kasan ce marainiya babana ya rasu ya barmu mu 9 nice babba shekaruna 23 ina niyyan shiga na 24 muna da maza gudu biyu wlh basa jin magana suyita fada a junan su ko suna fadan idan maman mu tayi musu magana basa ji to hakan yana damunka gashi bamu da wani na miji tsayyaye wanda zai tsaya yaye musu magana suje wlh fadan da suke yana damunta to ni tsorona karsu samata wani ciwon Allah ynx haka tana fama da ciwon karji saboda suna fada tayi musu magana sunki ji har saida ta fita waje ta kira wani sannan suka rabo dan darajar wannan wata da muke ciki ku taimaka mana da addua bamusan bakin wanda zamu dace ba wlh ni kaina abin yana damuna narasa yadda zanyi kuma wlh tana musu adduan shiriya daidai bakin kokarin ta dan Allah kusa mu a cikin adduoin ku please 😭😭

Assalamu aliakum Ya ibada da fatan Allah ya karba mana I wanted to get some advice from you Am an architect by profession and runs a small construction firm, amman babban abunda yake damuna shine ba rasa wacca zata soni tsakani da Allah saboda duk wacca muka dan fara relationship da ita sai taga kamar ina wulaqantata saboda rashin time da nake dashi sosai, dalilin cewar inada qanne da mahaifiyata wanda ni nake daukar nauyin komi nasu, so bana barin duk wata yar hanyar da zan samu wasu yan canji domin rufawa kaina da yan uwana asiri. Kuma maganar gaskia har ga Allah inason nayi aure in early or later next year Akwai wata yarinya danake so amman maganar gaskia bata bani lokachin da ko waya muyi ko da kuwa mintina biyar ne zuwa goma, to banajin dadin hakan gaskia wanda yasa nima na kyaleta Amman yanzu kuma akwai wata wacca nakeso kuma nayi duk wani bunchiken daya kamata a kanta

kamar month nawa ko shekara yakamata namiji ya tura parents nasa gidan su wacce yakeso??

I was just 13 yrs old when I started leaving with my aunt actually I was a boarding student that time so I was not always in the house only during holidays time passes and everything was well I was done with secondary school she has three sons so,after school I was always at home so her two sons were attempting to touch me every now and then and the heartbreaking part even her husband a person I consider my father before all that maybe she will get a maid and then the maid will tell her that her husband wants to sleep with the maid and then she will say the maid is blaming her husband and her husband can ever do that and I also believed and always would he do that then my day came as well and I told he I can't I am see him as a father and he kept on disturbing me I told him that I will tell his wife about his doings he told me even though I tell her she will not believe and the annoying part of the thing is he is not the only person even his sons are birds of the same feathers I did not have anyone to tell and on the other side is the pressure of marriage from my aunt. so a day came and I was tired I told my mom what was happening she told me I should continue to protect myself and I know she doesn't have a say cuz she is her elder sister and the worst part of thing is I don't have peace of mind in the house I know it's a family problem and no one can solve it for me please who ever come across this should help me with prayers cuz it's only prayers that can remove me from this situation After this whole incident that's after sallah this man entered my telling me cooperate with he and give myself and I told him that I was fasting and he said if he comes back from the his trip I told my mother that's instant she said I should go out of the house and hide I did what she said After that when nobody was at home my mom came over and she said I should get married and I said to found love is hard and some people is selfish and not all guys likes chubby girls and then if someone like me is not like or love is just I want to use your body. sometime if I sit and look my situation I just wish to be dead and sometimes try to run away or try to kill myself but I always say everything will be okay in sha Allah ☺️ sometime I think i am a burden to everyone the topic is always about me I don't want why I am the worst daughter my parents ever had that why they gave me away to someone but only Allah knows cuz at this point in time I feel everybody is fed-up with me like I am a burden to everyone that's how I feel cuz everybody want to get rid of me

How many people have gotten a match from the match making site? since I joined it is still same people I'm seeing everyday and then the new comers. Request are not being accepted also. The story never changed

ALAMOMIN DAREN LAILATUL QADRI : 𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓ : Assalamu Alaikum malam Dan Allah meye alamomin lailatul qadar da falalarsa kuma Ya ake gane daren lailatul qadri? : 𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️ : Wa'alaikumus Salaam Warahmatallahi Wabarkatahu Allah ﷻ ya fifita wani dare a cikin watan Ramadan ya ba shi wata daraja da ɗaukaka ta musamman, kuma ya keɓance shi da wata falala ta musamman wadda bai bawa sauran darare ba, wannan kuma zaɓi ne da ganin dama ne daga gare shi maɗaukakin sarki, domin yana yin abin da ya ga dama a cikin halittarsa. Allah ya ce, “Daren Lailatul Qadari ya fi wata dubu alheri” (Alqadri : 3). Ma’ana aiki a cikin wannan dare ya fi aikin wata dubu ba a daren Lailatul Qadari ba. Allah Mai Girma Da Buwaya ya ce, “Aminci ne a cikinta har zuwa ɓullowa alfijir”. (Alqadri : 5) Ma’ana dukkan wannan dare alheri ne, babu wani sharri a cikinsa tun daga farkonsa har zuwa ɓullowa alfijir. Dare Ne Mai albarka. Allah Ya ce, “Haqiqa mun saukar da shi a cikin dare mai albarka. Haqiqa mu masu gargadi ne”. (Addukhan : 3). Abdullahi dan Abbas ya ce, “Yana nufin daren lailatul Qadri”. A Cikinsa Ne Aka Saukar Da Alkur'ani. Allah Yace “Haqiqa Mun saukar da shi a cikin daren Lailatul Qadri” (Alqadri : 1). A Cikinsa Ake Qaddara Dukkan Abubuwan Shekara, Allah ya ce, “A cikinsa ake rarrabe kowanne lamari abin hukuntawa” (Addukhan : 4). Allah ya ɓoye wannan dare don musulmi ya yi qoqari da himma a goman qarshe ta Ramadan, musamman ma a dararen da suke mara, waɗanda su ne daren 21, 23, 25, 27, 29, saboda faɗin Manzon Allah ( صلى الله عليه وسلم ) “Ku kintaci daren Lailatul Qadri a cikin marar goman qarshe ta Ramadan” [Bukhari da Muslim ne suka rawaito shi]. Wasu malamai sun yi bayanin cewa daren Lailatul Qadri yana yawo a tsakanin waɗannan darare (Wata shekarar wannan, wata shekarar wancan) saboda a yi aiki da dalilan da suka zo a kan haka baki ɗaya. 1 – Dare Ne Mai Haske, Babu Zafi Ko Sanyi A Cikinsa. An karbo daga Jabir ɗan Abdullahi – Allah ya yarda da shi – ya ce, “Haqiqa ni an nuna min daren Lailatul Qadri, sannan an mantar da ni shi, yana goman qarshe na Ramadan, dare ne babu sanyi ko zafi a cikinsa, kuma mai haske ne, ba zafi ba sanyi (mai cutarwa acikinsa)” [Ibn Khuzaima ne ya rawaito shi]. 2 – Rana Tana Fitowa Da Safiyar Daren Fara Tas Ba Haske Tare Da Ita. Yayin da aka tambayi Ubayyu dan Ka’abu – Allah ya yarda da shi – a kan alamomin daren Lailatul Qadri, sai ya ce, “Alamar da Manzon Allah ( صلى الله عليه وسلم ) ya ba mu labari ita ce, rana tana ɓullowa a wannan rana babu haske tare da ita” [Tirmizi ne ya rawaito shi]. Manzon Allah ( صلى الله عليه وسلم ) ya ce, “Wanda ya yi tsayuwa daren Lailatul Qadri yana mai imani da neman lada, an gafarta masa abin da ya gabata na zunubansa” [Bukhari da Muslim ne suka rawaito shi]. An karbo daga Aisha – Allah ya yarda da ita – ta ce, na ce, ya Rasulallahi, idan na dace da daren Lailatul Qadri, me zan yi addu’a da shi? Sai ya ce, ki ce; اللّٰهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّيْ “Allahumma Innaka Afuwwun Tuhibbul Afwa Fa’afu Anni*” Ma’ana “Ya Allah kai mai afuwa ne, kana son afuwa, ka yi min afuwa” [Tirmizi ne ya rawaito shi]. Allah ne mafi sani.

karin haske akan mutumin dayagama azimi ba sabon Allah yayi yagode wa Allah kuma yaroka yafiya Allah yayafemasa Akan zunubansa dayakeyi and then angama azimi tunkan aje sitta shawwal ya aikata zina yakuke gani

Am i the only one thinking that hamisu breaker isn't the one?

salam alaikum guys,so when someone tells me he's in love I used to laugh because I never really believed in love sometimes I just get into relationships for fun and killing of time I used to wonder if I would ever find someone that I really love to the extend I will think of getting married here I am madly in love with my ex closest friend who has a girlfriend though he doesn't really love the girl but he's still dating her and most of the people he knows likes him with the girlfriend but I'm really obsessed with him and I feel I can't leave her for him most especially when I see him with her I've done a lot of prayers and I've even gotten more closer to me god I'm depressed because of him and I feel I can do anything to get him my friends are trying to make me leave him but it's not just working the obsession keeps increasing every day I really need advice what should I do it's really affecting my mental health I was taken to the hospital and the doctor said I have anxiety disorder and I'm sure it's because of him

Sallah is coming and i was thinking of buying sallah cloth for my gf wasu sunce mun qara in bayar da kudi. What do you think? (Girls/Women) Kudi da Kayan Sallah wanne kuka fi so???

Cont'd After being assigned to teach the secondary section Islamic Religious Studies,I made a resolve within myself to keep whatever hidden feelings I had for Aisha at bay . I'm her teacher now ,I need to be professional as possible. I can't allow some stupīd feeling ruin my job for me. The first time I walked into her class to teach I managed to keep a straight face and I didn't even look at her direction . Soon we began interacting , just greeting and things like that . Everything was going smoothly till the day of vacation,I sat with a fellow female teacher discussing ,she came by and collected the teacher's number,she's good friends with the teacher . I tried my best to look casual and not bothered by her presence . Later that day ,at night around 7, I was watching movies at home when a boy came into our house and said my friend is calling me outside . I was wondering which of my friends would that be ,stepping outside ..... I saw Aisha ,for the first few seconds I lost my train of thought and almost stammered . What are you doing here ,what if someone sees us ? Different questions floated into my head at the same time but I couldn't find the voice to say it out. We greeted and she said she just wanted to have my number . I gave it to her and went back home wondering what the hell is happening. The next night I received a call from a strange number , I picked it and heard her voice,we talked,I asked her about school, we were just beating about the bush for nearly Five minutes until she told me ,she wanted to collect my number in school but she didn't want to attract anyone's attention . We kept on talking till she hit the nail in the coffin,she told me she likes me ,she doesn't want my reply now ,that I should think about it . My heart started beating, relationship or my work ? The next day I had already made up my mind .I picked up the phone ready to tell her what's on my mind before I chickened out . To be continued -M-

Sometimes I wonder if certain things happen for a reason or we are just facing the consequences of our actions... I am a 25 year old lady who life is currently dealing with(relationship wise), Well here is the story. I was supposed to get married this year but then I don't think that will be happening anymore. Before all this drama I have been unlucky in relationships there was always something wrong with the relationship or he was one of those guys who wanted something else... ps I've made my own fare share of mistakes too but I've learnt from them... fast forward to the present I'm not sure if it was love I felt for this person or if I mistake the feelings I had for love or if I was just desperate to be in a relationship like everyone else at the time. I was going through a though time few years back and he was just there for me and then we got close and started a relationship again( I've know him before and at that time he was not someone I wanted to date at all) this time it was different and well not bad but I didn't know if it was love or not but I went ahead with the relationship. 2 years later he wanted us to get married and I was okay with it even though it didn't feel like a good or bad idea I was just there feeling plenty things at once... I sha wanted to get married so... they came to fix date and all that and for some reasons it got postponed twice now I am very i don't want to get married but families are now involved by the way this person has previous issues attached to cheating, lies and lacks boundaries with other women and is generally insecure about my friendships outside the relationship.However, he has begged and apologized severally and says he has Changed but I can't get over the fact that he did all those things and I doubt him all the time... I once cheated in the relationship and I didn't lie about it and he forgave my own mistake. but even after I still moved on and looked past all this he still does it again and still begged when I found out. But all this cheating and lying aside he loves me and tries to make me happy even when I'm not being so nice...Does this make me a bad person that I am unable to let go and trust him again? Anyway I have decided to not go ahead with the marriage because I feel I might regret my decision also because I don't think I love this person enough to want to get into something as serious as marriage but then all these thoughts and feelings are not going away even after I have prayed. So do I over look all the flaws and mistakes in the relationship and focus on the love he has for me and maybe I might be able to reciprocate after marriage or not but if you are in my shoes will you proceed with all these or just move on???