Yau kimanin shekara takwas kenan ina wata kasa, bayan na gama karatu na a kasar na samu aiki se na cigaba da zama a kasar. Kamar shekaru 3 kenan na auri wannan yarinyar daga Kano na kawo ta wannan kasar. Komai ni nayi mata tin daga kan passport, family visa, na biya mata flight da sauransu. Da tazo nan se ta samu aiki a wani company tanayi, bayan ta fara aikin se na fara fuskantar wasu abubuwa game da ita. Akwai abubuwa da banson fada anan amma dai ina dan zargin tana wasu abubuwa da basu dace ba a gurin aikin da sauran maza abokan aikinta. Se na nemi ta dena aikin kawai ta dinga zama a gida tinda ban dauke mata komai ba, kuma Alhamdulillah ba abinda zata nema ta rasa a guri na har da wasu nata ma. Baiwar Allah nan tace ita bazata iya dena aiki ba. Kuma ni ne na samr mata aikin ma, komai ni na mata. Ta nuna itafa akan ta dena aiki sede na sake ta. Na yiwa magabatanta magana amma ina ganin kamar a baynta suke. Haihuwa yanxu kauce mata take, tinda ta haifi yaro guda daya. Bansan dalilin ta ba. Ina matukar nadamar kawota wannan kasa walh. Yanxu in na sake ta ma ba barin kasar nan zatayi ba, zanci gaba da ganinta raina yana baci. Don Allah kuban shawara ya zanyi akan wannan abu. Kuma ina kiran maza 'yan uwa da kada suyi kuskuren kawo matansu kasashen turai, don walh mata in suka goge anan fin karfin mazan su suke. Allah ya mana magani.

Asslm. it has come to my notice that I have been living a lonely life... I only know the road to my office then back home everyday from 9am to 8-9pm... and it's becoming depressing on a workfree days...therefore, I'm in search of a healthy friendship preferably in Abuja. 3 friends at least... I will inform the admin of my request thank you and stay blessed... Bissalam

guys I cannot withhold my emotions any more, I feel like I should hear an advise from someone, there is this guy, he's a twin, he's cute, admirable, loving, and most of all kinda and very religious, he said he likes me, and I told him I like him too. I feel like we should get married right away, not because I am eager but because I feel that's the right thing to do, we met in UBA bank, OMG, he's my account officer but nevertheless that's not the problem. I am feeling someone to tell him to come see my dad, I don't want him to feel like I am eager or desperate or you know kamar na rasa dinna, I want to be his halal wife and also he to be my halal husband, I wanna have kids with him, (excuse my honesty and transparency), I am ready to sacrifice my career as a working class lady and work from home(i cannot stat without doing nothing,). there is another problem, I am more financially stable than him and I think he isn't comfortable(even though he's not showing it) with that. I need advise, I don't care, I am ready to help him out, get him on his feet, but I need to be sure he mine and he's sincere and genuine. all I want is true and genuine love. awwn my hussy

Aslm I apply for census ad-hoc and my dashboard showing me pending and also I want to my LGA for screening they told Me that am not among the shortlisted candidate for the screening. I'm here ko akwai Wanda xai taimaka amin approved, dan yanxun kuma naga abun wai ya koma na kudine Muda bamu da wani sai mun biya kudi kafin Amana approving Pls help your sister inda hali

Help a sister, my cousin is going to be 20 this year and still bedwet. she did almost everything, wlh she is suffering mentally but no choice ko irin fitan nan ayi sleep over with friends batayi sabida tsoro gashi ta shiga buk hostel still bar yanzu. she is ashamed sincerely, u can see it in her eyes. And she is scared no one will agree to marry a girl that bedwet, Allah had it been i was a guy i would have married her amma ina am a girl. some said sae tayi aure after her first nyt wae zata bari . tou is there no way apart from that. help a soul pls

Y is it that whenever i show that I don't want to marry a young guy or be d first wife people look at me like am an alien. am not interested in dating a guy that's not emotionally matured, i prefer an old guy that will understand all my mental state. i just prefer old people around d age of 45-50 mind u am only 20. i prefer being d last wife also, a fourth wife also known as d amarya. i don't just want my husband to see me or treat me as a baby, i want him to knw yes this girl is my baby, mine to pamper and take care cause she is just a child. is that abnormal pls

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Maza!! Dan ALLAH Kuringa Kulada Ƙannen ku Mata...Wallahi Suna Shiga Wani Hali😭 Shawara ga maza masu kanne mata, Wlh wasu yan matan suna lalacewa ne cos of rashin ɗaukar ƙananan nauyin su kamar irin takalma, waya, kati, kayan kwalliya, kayan sawa wasu wlh idan suna period basu da kuɗin da zasu sayi sanitary pads ma. Akwai wata wanda na sani she loss her mom tana gaban matar babanta which is she's uwargida dama, her dad ƙaramin ma'aikacin gov't ne kuma suna dayawa a gida take cemun sometimes omon wanki da sabulun wanka yana fin ƙarfinta kuma tana da yaya wanda suke same parents yana aiki kuma yana samu amma sam baya taimaka mata even for a kobo and kuma ba mata yake dashi ba, if Dad nasu ya sayo kayan wanki da bath sai a ɓoye.🥺 Bad thinking kullum take yi ta yaya zata samu kuɗi, ta ɗan fara business na zoɓo shima jari ya karye, ga rashin aure ga rashin aiki ga kuma bata samun financial support.🥺... Mafi yawancin mata suna da zurfin chiki, zaka iya tunanin Basu da matsalar komi, Amma nan ko idan da zaka bude zuciyoyi su, zaka ga ta Dade tana sake-saken hanyar da zata bi domin ta tambayeka ta siigar da zaka iya fahimtar ta, still Kuma tana tunanin kada ka wulaqanta ta ko kace ta takura maka Duk da cewa Mahaifiyarku daya... (~Iman...) Idan sun Nema ta bangaren samari Kuma sai ace suncika maitar Kudi, kokuma wasu daga cikin samari suyi amfani da wannan damar su Kauda tausayi suce sai Suma sun amfana dasu kafin su Basu Abinda Suke so🥺... Subhanallah😭💔. (~Iman...) Saboda haka dan Allah duk wanda yake da ƙanwa ko ƙanne mata a taimaka musu ba sai sun buɗi baki sun tambaya ba. Idan kuma ba haka ba sai mace ta fara bin samari domin zasu bata kuma dole ita ma tayi payback. Dan Allah maza muji tausayin yayu da ƙannen mu mata especially wnd basu da auruna gida ana jiran ko yau ko gobe. Rashin small-small things ɗinnan wlh sun jefa uncountable of mata halaka, sbd hk pls & pls let's take responsibility of our sisters.

Hello famm...wai dan Allah yane zan sa turaren wuta ya kama a daki....likee not just for a few minutes, ja kama sosai...?

kutayani addua Allah yasa soulmate dina yayi locating dina

I just give up tired of playing with my heart and time make me register in this app to see will I get a better and serious relationship but what? after accepting 6 requests and exchange of numbers damun fara mgn rimi rimi nd sent them my pic they will just quit and stop texting maybe my soulmate die I don't know but I give up I will just fold my arms keep praying to see what will happen Goodbye wish you to meet the love of your life 🤗

How are Abuja ladies coping? Abuja guys sun zama abinda suka Zama. Ba maganan su kullum sai de akan zina. You will meet a decent man a ido but after two days kun exchange na contacts sai kuma ya zama wani abu. It reached to an extent If someone talked me I will just say "I'm married. Let him leave me alone". What are your worst experiences?

Becoming a wife is so easy but maintaining the position as a wife requires wisdom, respect, patience and humility

Alhamdullillah I am beautiful and well shaped and believe me, I am thoughtful, romantic and intelligent but everytime someone comes to me it's either he wants sex or already has a girlfriend or wife and just wants to use me to catch cruise. Just when I think I've met THE ONE everything goes south. I am depressed honestly, just last night i cried my lself to sleep as usual and as it is now, my younger sister might get married before me cause she has found love while me her elder sister keeps moving from one failed relationship to another. please pray for me, for Allah to bring forth someone who would wipe away my tears and make me forget about my bad experiences. thank you.

Iam 22 and I have never fall in love with a man ever since am in teenage stage because of my silly reason 1 is I want my first love to be my husband and the reason is I have heard so many people saying that you will never forget your first love 2 am afraid of been heartbroken I don't want to served hot breakfast and ni kawai banason abinda xai bata min rai 3 I just can't love a person that I know he will not marry me and I think if you know your self as a lady you would know who's willing to marry you and who would just want to play with your emotions nd time 3 I don't want to have so many boyfriends when I was in secondary school my mates have boyfriends and I don't have any bawai kuma bani da manema bane no I just want to fall in love at that age and now I want to fall in love with mr right and still have thing at the back of my mind that I want my first love to be my husband will I ever find that Mr right or am just dreaming ?💔

Salamu alaykum... I don't know where to start from....I'm just simply confused and I don't know what to do about it...growing up I've always seen marriage as the best thing that could happen to a girl....I've always dreamed of the day I'll get married... but recently.... I experienced some things that has made me realise that marriage is not all about the fantasy.... stories of women getting abused,cheating husbands and so on...I don't feel encouraged or eager to get married like before... another issue is that...I'm veryyy social...so I have a lot of guys in my DM....most of them promising me heaven and earth, i hate disappointing people...so I don't know how to turn then down...I don't want to hurt them...I tried telling one that his feelings are not reciporicated and he went around making me feel like a bad person... the zeal to get involved in relationships has dissapeared....How exactly do I tell them that I'm not interested without hurting their feelings?

If in any case you come across this message, i am sorry, I dn't mean to hurt you. i wish the departure was a very peaceful one. i wish you all the best & I'm proud of you. keep being Religious. may your wish come true & May Allah help you in your future endeavor. From Surah minal Qur'an.

We have made a new update that will prevent a user from sending a new request if there is a pending request that user has not attended to. It has come to our attention, some users do not respond to requests; they just leave them pending, which we openly discourage. If you are interested in a request Accept it, if you are not Decline it straight away but please don't leave it pending. We believe this new update will effectively minimize that. Thank you.

Dear parents, Stop joking about your daughter being someone's wife. Stop condoning random men calling your daughter their wife. Marriage shouldn't be something you joke about. She's not their wife until 'aqdun nikaah is done. OK. Bye.

For the past 5 years, it has been a challenge to find the right partner for myself, I am a childfree person and believe in the childfree lifestyle, I met a few ladies along the way but it didn't workout for some reasons, its very rare to come across a lady that shares the same believe as me, hence the reason i am still not Married, Childfree people are so scarce in our society, For those that can relate.. lets discuss