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Assalamu alaekum warahmatullah.I have been wanted to share this experience with this young guys that always find it difficult to let go of the addiction of ejaculation. to gsky I have undergone or been in the same state for like 5 to 6 years, tun lokachin da nake jss2 but alhmdllh allah yaciremin Abun cikin raena kwata kwata for like 1 year now i never attempted it or even has desire for women. the fact behind this is that first of all you have to freeee your mind like to zero your mind na farko kenan and you see this movies ??? if I say movie I mean both hausa,American and any sort of such dole zaka kawar da kanka akanshi idan harda gaske kanason kadaena. saboda kallon machey shikesa kaji sha awa harkayi tunanin biyawa kanka buqata or har yajaka zuwa ga .Zina. (2)nabiyu kuma dole kamayar da hankali ga karatun alqur ani and kuma Sallah cikin lokachi (3) na ukku kuma kayi addu. toh wallahi muddum kariqey kuma ka kyautata inshaallah allah zae kiyayeka. aebamu mukafi kowa sha awa bah damuntun zaeche dayataso bazeiya controlling dinshiva. saboda ae zuciyane dole kafi qarfin zuciyarka batake riqa juyakaba. insha allah zakuga andache ko mafarkin Mache ko namiji mutum zae dena saedae kawae yaji fitarshi ko yatashi yagani. Allah yasa mudache.

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah Ya ibadah, Allah Ya amsa mana Gabadayan mu.. Dan Allah I want people, or you to help nd advice me. Wallahi I'm just 22 years Old but I am doing Masturbation, Kuma ko da nayi azumi even After Iftar sai nayi shi😭 the thing is that, wallahi I want to stop it, har ga Allah I am praying to stop it, but still, haryanzu I am not able to😭 but the advice I want is that My Father is a kind of person that wallahi duk addu'ar da ya mana (mu 'ya'yansa) wallahi tana Summa tallahi tana Karbuwa sosai.. but I don't even know how to start telling him. For sure zaiji ba dadi. Kuma somehow yana da little zafi da kuma fada, especially idan Mutum yayi ba daidai ba.. Dan Allah how do you thing I will approach this issue? Infact even if I tell my mom, I know she can tell him But ya zanyi a fada Masa har yasani? And the thing is that, I'm studying abroad, so, no way ince aure Zanyi cox Bana ma gida. Dan Allah shawara nakeso on how approach him with it. Thank you, Allah sa Mudace

In my opinion, the biggest reason why guys asked about women's virginity is because if the guy is a virgin, then he also want to marry a virgin. He is inexperienced and want to marry an inexperienced virgin also. I've seen a lady's comment on Instagram that, "if you are a blank canvas waiting to experience intimacy for the first time, you should go for someone like you. So you can experience, learn, and adjust together" And what she said next, I think is another reason a virgin man seek for a virgin woman... she said, "going for someone nonvirgin will compare you to her previous sexual partner/s is highly risky" like she said too, the guy will have self doubt like "what if you are not enough?, what if she finds you lacking experience?," I think it's a valid reason for a virgin man that feared Allah and saved his virginity for marriage to ask a girl if she's a virgin. Look, anybody can do zina (Allah ka tsare mu), but if I feared Allah and saved myself, what's wrong with me seeking to marry a virgin woman? Note: 1) I'm not refering to someone that was raped or the myth of hymen/first night bleeding. 2) You might ask what if she has repented, well... that's great Alhamdulillah but... That is between her and Allah, not the guy's obligation to marry her 3) And no it's not "kaddara" if you planned or follow a guy to a secluded place and had sex with consent. Wallahu a'alam 😊

Bismillah, wato ni a fahimtata kamar bamu gane a cikin irin musibun da muke ba, amma mun tsakar musiba ta addini da zamani tsamo-tsamo ya kamata mu farka mu kuma Hankalta. Babban magani shine mu Kai kanmu mkaarantun neman ilmin addini na malaman da suka san addinin da gaske, sannan mu Kai 'ya'ya da dangi, mu kuma koyar da iyali. Domin muna cikin zamanin da mutum zai wayi gari da Imani kafin yammaci ya koma kafirci (Allah Ya kiyayemu). Ga shi bamusan ciwon kanmu ba, bamu San su waye mu ba, mun kasa gane daga ina muke, a ina muke, kuma ina za mu je. Allah Yasa mu farka kafin muyi 'FARGAR JAJI' Amin . Sai a rubutu na gaba Insha Allah

MY HUSBAND STOP ME FROM GOING TO THE MASJID : 𝑸𝑼𝑬𝑺𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵❓ : if a woman wants to go to the masjid and her husband stops her, who is she to obey, is it for her to go to the masjid or not? : 𝑨𝑵𝑺𝑾𝑬𝑹❗️ : Alhamdulillah, if a woman wants to go to the masjid and her husband tells her not to go, she is to obey her husband as going to the masjid for a woman is not obligatory.. it is Sunnah. Salim narrated it from his father ('Abdullah b. Umar) that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: When women ask permission for going to the mosque, do not prevent them. Sahih Muslim 442 a. If a woman ask for permission to go to the masjid, one should not prevent her but if her husband does not allow her, she is to obey him as making obedience to him is obligatory.. Even if she is to go to the i'tikaf and her husband objects to it, she should obey him and should not go to i'tikaf. But a woman is not allowed to prevent the woman from going to the masjid without a reason. If she observed her proper hijab, does not perfume, then he is to allowed her as doing so is obedience to the Sunnah. May Allah s.w.t protects and safeguard us to the truth. Amiin

what sort of foods can be cook on a budget like abincin da bayi da tsada sosai

Ko na aikata laifi ne ban sani ba nayi posting ina neman budurwa yar katsina.Wacce zamuyi aure amma kuma na duba banga posting din ba idan na karya dokar zauren nan dan Allah kuyi hakuri ban sani ba shiyasa. Ngd 🙏

Assalamu alaikum Please is it ok as a Hausa lady to date a yoruba guy or even get married to one? some yoruba guy have been following me but I don't really want it. just wish to hear ur opinions

Assalam alaikum Actually I had to bring this topic to the table to be honest it's pieces me of you start dating a guy and the question he asks is are you a virgin what are your intentions to answer this question is embarrassing honest And then what your business about someone passed you are but why about my passed if you know about it what will you use it for Actually for some people you are bringing up her horrible passed I needed to ask why do guys ask such questions

Akwai dalilin da yasa mata suke tara samari, sai dai kowa da nata dalilin kamar haka: 1. Wata tana tara samari ne saboda tana tsoron ta so mutum daya daga karshe kuma rabuwa ya shigo tsakanin su, ko dai naturally ko kuma constructive (yaudara). Yawancin mata a wannan bangaren suna fama da fear of rejection 3. Akwai set din matan da suke tara samari saboda koda sun tashi aure suna da choices, sai sun zauna sun tantance kafin su samu daya daga ciki su ce ya turo. Matan dake wannan category din sun kasu biyu. Na farko sunayin hakane for their emotional safety, a duk lokacin da suka tashi aure ba zasu rasa wanda zai fito ba (wanda kuma akan rasa samarin duka a wani lokacin ko kuma rashin dacen miji), na biyun kuwa are so perfectionist, suna comparing maza ne don su samu most perfect one da ra'ayin su sai su watsar da sauran, mostly they are making their choices based on chemistry not compatibility. 5. Emotional Queens sune a wannan bangaren, a koda yaushe suna son a basu attention, so duk namijin daya kasance yana kokarin basu attention zasu iya soyayyah dashi koda tana da wasu kafin sa, hakan na faruwa ne idan initial saurayin bai bata enough attention.... Irin wannan matan suna rasa kansu saboda babu komai a kwakwalwar su sai tunanin romance and affection, yanda kasan haihuwar India yayen Korea haka suke. Maza sunfi samun saukin playing irin wannan matan saboda as far as kasan hannun ka, zaka iya tafiyar da irin wannan mace dai-dai da ra'ayin ka especially idan bata da lura, saboda blind folded love suke yi. Irin wannan matan suna experiencing severe heartbreak kuma gashi sun nace sai sun tara maza. 6. Akwai gold diggers, su basu da sana'a sai tara maza don wani ra'ayi nasu wanda duka bai wuce na abin duniya ba. Suna aje mai kai su kasuwa da anguwa saboda yana da mota, akwai mai sa masu data da airtime, akwai mai masu anko da sauransu dai, suna ware mutum daya wanda suke so, ba zasu taba rokon sa ba, shine priority a ran su. Yawancin mata a wannan bangaren saurayi na masu maganar aure zasu watsar dashi, sai dai wannan priority din, sannan they can only be available for you when they gained something from you. Misali, she can only call you if you recharge her phone, ko kuma ba zata taba chatting da kai ba har sai ka sa mata data, kuma yawancin interaction dasu cikin complaint suke... Ita bata da kaza, ita bata san ya zatayi ba tana so tayi kaza ammah ba dama, tasan sigar tatsan mutum kala-kala. Irin wannan matan suna yawan haduwa da yan iska, saboda akwai set din maza da yawa wanda basa kashe ma mace kudi a banza. Wasu matan suna tsallake tarkon maza, wasu kuma dole kasuwancin trade by barter ya hau kan su. 7. Akwai kuma wacce take tara maza saboda tana jindadin entertaining din su. So she's there for entertainment, a anguwa ne ko a social media bata da sana'a sai hira da maza, kowa ya santa kuma gashi abin ya zamar mata kaman addiction. Mace irin wannan bata iya samun emotional satisfaction da namiji daya 8. Akwai kuma mai tausayi... Irin wannan macen tana ganin bai kamata tayi rejecting wanda yace yana sonta kai tsaye ba, dalilin haka yasa take tara maza duk da bai zama dole ya kasance tana soyayyah dasu ba... Hakan yana da illa saboda kowa zai rika ganin kaman yana da wata matsayi ne a rayuwar ta, kuma she'll be feeling guilt idan tace bata son mutum ko tayi rejecting mutum. Besides, a gaskiya tara samari abune mai fadin gaske kuma ko wacce da nata dalilin hakan, sai dai bashi da wata fa'ida kwata-kwata. I'll make a post on it side effects da kuma dalilin da yasa gara ma kada mace tayi hakan, akwai matakin da zata dauka instead for her own good, but nasan wasu zasu ce ai maza nayi, I'll post about them as well.

WHEN IS LAYLATUL QADR? : 𝑸𝑼𝑬𝑺𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵❓ : When is Laylat al-Qadr and how should we observe it? Is it by praying, or by reading Quran and the Prophet’s Sirah, listening to lectures and lessons and by celebrating it in the mosque? : 𝑨𝑵𝑺𝑾𝑬𝑹❗️ : Praise be to Allah. Striving hard in worship during the last ten days of Ramadan The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to strive hard in worship during the last ten days of Ramadan as he never did at any other time, praying, reading Quran and making du’a. Al-Bukhari and Muslim narrated from ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that when the last ten days of Ramadan came, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) would stay up at night and would wake his family up, and would abstain from marital relations. Ahmad and Muslim narrated that he used to strive hard in worship during the last ten days of Ramadan as he never did at any other time. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) enjoined staying up and praying on Laylat al-Qadr out of faith and in the hope of reward. It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever stays up and prays on Laylat al-Qadr out of faith and in the hope of reward, his previous sins will be forgiven.” Agreed upon. This hadith indicates that it is prescribed to observe Laylat al-Qadr by spending the night in prayer. One of the best du’as that may be recited on Laylat al-Qadr is that which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) taught to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her). Al-Tirmidhi narrated, and classed the report as sahih, that ‘Aishah said: “I said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, if I know which night is Laylat al-Qadr, what should I say on that night?’ He said, ‘Say: اللّٰهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّيْ Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibb al-‘afwa fa'fu ‘anni (O Allah, You are forgiving and You love forgiveness, so forgive me).” With regard to specifying which night of Ramadan is Laylat al-Qadr , this needs specific evidence, but the odd-numbered nights during the last ten nights are more likely than others, and the night of the twenty-seventh is the most likely to be Laylat al-Qadr, because that is mentioned in the ahadith. Can Muslims celebrate Laylat al-Qadr? With regard to innovations, they are not permissible during Ramadan or at other times. It was proven that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever innovates anything in this matter of ours that is not part of it will have it rejected.” According to another report, “Whoever does any action that is not part of this matter of ours will have it rejected.” We know of no basis for the celebrations that are held during some nights of Ramadan. The best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and the worst of matters are those which are innovated (bid’ah). And Allah is the Source of strength. May Allah send blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and his family and Companions.

anyone experiencing excess in masturbation am hear to help cox am a victim to it and alhamdulillah I have try some ways and some natural medicine and already I have find the new me. so anyone who is in need of help ,am here to help Cox I know alot of people both boys/girls that are victims of it.

from the beginning, a lady wants true love and happiness and stuff and a guy wants friendship but why at the end it gon be a lady wants to be friends and a guy finds love ?

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh jama'a ya azumi Allah ya amshi ibadunmu ya yafe manah kuskurenmu Wanda muka sani da Wanda bamu sani bah. Dan Allah kutayani addua please Allah ya bani da iyayenah iKon karasa biyan kudin makaranta nah it's not easy exams Dina bayan sallah Koh kudin ban biya not to talk of registration please ku sani a addua Allah ya bamu hanyan samun kudin dazan biyah kafun jarabawa

Assalam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wa barakatuhu Hope all of you are well ? May Allah bless us all and increase us in goodness and make us all among the inhabitants of jannatul firdaus Please I was asking , akwai Wanda ya San makarantar ( islamiyya ) da Ake Haddar Qurani sosai cikin Hotoro ? Thank you May Allah be with you all

after long separation between me nd her since last year October she wish me on my birthday than I wish her because our birthday is in same month, ah sai cikin axumin nan she follow me on IG and I follow her back 2 days letter she DM me saying bbynah 😘 I was like kai😳Bby waye Bby naki sai yarinya tace wai kai I was shock dan ehna tinanin taxo da wata yau dara then I ask her one good question, yet no answer tin 5 na azuminan, ah nikam na saki layin ta did she want me to follow her neh ?

HUKUNCIN AMFANI DA MAGANIN INHELA GA MAI AZUMI : 𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓ : Menene hukuncin amfani da maganin fesa iska a cikin bakin mai azumi da rana (wato, inhela), saboda ciwon quncin qirji ko wahalar numfashi (Asma)? : 𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️ : Hukuncinsa shi ne halacci; idan har lalura ta buqatar da mutum zuwa ga hakan, saboda fadin Allah Mabuwayi da daukaka a cikin "suratul An'aam ayata 119": وَقَدْ فَصَّلَ لَكُم مَّا حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمْ إِلَّا مَا اضْطُرِرْتُمْ إِلَيْهِ Ma'ana: "Kuma ya muku bayani na dalla-dallan abinda ya haramta akanku, sai dai wanda lalura ta buqatar da ku zuwa gare shi" : Kuma saboda kasancewar inhela baya kamantacceniya da ci ko sha, sai ya yi kama da jinin mutum da ake dauka don aunawa ko bincike, ko kamar allurar da ba a sanya abinci a cikinta ba. : Duba cikin littafin: TUHFATUL IKHWAN BI AJWIBATIN MUHIMMATI TATA'ALLAQU BI ARKAANIL ISLAAM. : MAJMU'U FATAWA WA MAQAALAAT MUTANAWWI'AH, (15/ 265). Allah ta'ala yasa mudace. :

so here I am finally pouring my heart out, I've actually had a crush on this guy for about four to five years now, it was actually love at first sight cuz I've even planned on the names of our children and stuff 😁 I've contact him myself cuz I couldn't keep it to myself anymore but later on it didn't work out even when I showed him immerse care just to make it happen but due to some reasons unknown to me he called it off, doesn't want to play with my heart,he's to broken for me to handle and I deserve someone better bla bla bla. it didn't go well with me though because I was fond of him, later on I blamed myself for not checking up on my self worth perhaps but then there's no harm in loving a person I'm still hurt about all the stuff and stress I've gone through but I did deserve someone better and it's his loss 🤷🏻‍♀️

Slm Dan Allah zanje lalle but I want to mix it myself because basuyi yayi ja sosai balle maroon, so what can I so and procedure pls