Most ladies normally say they despise it when asked questions like how are you ,have you eaten etc..... If you are chatting with any Arewa girl like that most especially from Kaduna and Kano, you'll ask them, How are you and how was your day? they will be like, Alhamdulilah,fine or okay .... if you are lucky they ask you "and you? "Anything you ask, they will be like, Alhamdulilah and you? These questions are basically conversation starters, When you are asked such questions, We want to know how it went, ba Alhamdulilah din muke son ji ba. you are actually making it difficult for one to communicate with you when you keep on giving close ended answers. You can easily answer such questions by saying, for example, My day was terrible, kabari kawai , naje wajen yin kitso, Angama mun kitso, nayi transfer kudi yaki ya je, na kira brother na yazo ya bada cash, ya ki zuwa, yace bashida, kai ma number ka baya shiga a lokacin. Kawai aka sani Shara a gidan mutane wai sam bani da kudi. Something like this. Not always Alhamdulilah. Munsan da Alhamdulilah kafun muka tambaya. You guys can do better please 😊

I FINALLY AGREED THAT U NEED ONE SERIOUS BREAKUP FOR CHARACTER ENHANCEMENT AND DEVELOPMENT ,,,,,

😭😭 I have to end a long time relationship of about 6yrs💔 I had this guy we have been dating for about 6yrs🥺I loved him so much actually am a type of person that is so patient bawai yabon kaiba if not baxamu dade haka ba wlh I ignore many thing I mean so many things he’s so much related to females which he can post all over he’s status and he don’t care whether nagani he don’t care about my feeling but as I said I don’t care and not because he don’t love me he does kawai dai haka yake so I always think mayb he would change💔which is a great mistake for about 1year kenan munyi break up because I was tired of all that sort of abubuwan dayake mun but we were back Cox he apologized like he once shamed he’s female friend agabana and I was like do u know what u did he said yeah and I ignored even though I cried so hard it’s not because I don’t like what’s he’s doing but I always think he would change abubuwa dayawa sun faru I cant even eat them akwai time din da he would just be like he don’t love me he would just be saying words that will be making me cry amma ni banasan problem ace nice nayi departing dinshi last year nayi walimar sauka this guy was at schl so he couldn’t make it amma wlh even for him to say congrats he didn’t and akwai ihsani akomai Na duniya nan koh biyar bai Hadani dashi ba even though ni bah wani abun Hanunshi nakeso ba Cox yasan I don’t need something from him💔 I ignored all that🥺From last year December yafara changing that he don’t call idan nayi magana he would say idan inaso nasani magana dashi I should call ai he’s available so from that time problems statrted from no where and idan namiji yafara changing this way it’s simply means he’s in a new relationship I understood but I didn’t care saboda nasan nikadai ce akasani agidansu Cox we are of good time da duka family dinshi his mom, dad and also his siblings Cox ina kiransu sosai and siblings suna xuwa wajena so this guy started having an affair with yan matan schl dinsu but I ignored wulakanci iri iri i gnored so sister Dina yanayin snacks daman and he is used to ordering from her sai yayi order ranan daman xai koma schl the next day so ya kirani yace yana waje nace ina xuwa for me to take 10mins pah kawai he called my sis takawo mishi abunda yasiya so I went immediately saboda nasan bayason jira kuma wlh it’s because Mamana tace nakarasa mata abu kafin nafita that’s why nayi taking long so naje before my sis came nayi nayi yashigo yace ai yaxo amsan abu ne sai ga sis Dina taxo gate then I kept quiet I let her give him wai kafin najuwya kawai this guy left without saying anything💔I was broke that day I never felt so bad😭😭my heart tore into pieces on that day💔I called him more than what I could remember but he never picked my calls💔😭I cried so hard and I decided Wlh koh shine Autan Maza nagama dashi dole nacire shi arayuwata nakira sis dinshi nake fada mata komai Ina kuka tanata bani hakuri nace mata wlh nagama dashi insha Allah a rayuwata she cried together with me wlh saboda matan nan tana sona sosai tace karna damu komai lokacine💔nikam nace wlh insha Allah babu wani abu daxai kara hadani dashi har karshen rayuwa mata saboda wlh yafita daga raina koh labarinshi banaso Banda ita da Allah babu Wanda yasan wannan maganan I struggled so hard for over 3weeks of pain crying and ignoring everything kafin nafada ma Mamana but she laughed tace daman ai Kunsaba gobe Ka xaku dawo but nace mata wlh mama baxan taba dawo dashi rayuwa ta ba har abada baxan tava aure shi ba anyi angama she was shocked amma nace bah komai toh kuma this guy tundaga ranan har yanxu wlh bai neme ni bah amma nasan hakkina baxai barshi bah koh Dan kuntatawar day ayimun awannan shekarun muna waya da family dinshi haryanxu da koh bankiraba they would call me and Alhamdulillah his sis is encouraging me sosai wlh Cox itama tace she would never allow me to have relationship dashi kuma🙏🏻 it’s have been more than 2months Alhamdulillah wlh nafara manta abubuwa sosai amma cire Mutum arayuwarka after all those years isn’t easy daman abunda yakeso kenan he cant do it saboda his family will question him kuma nayi ai nayi mishi abunda yakeso kenan All I know is that navarshi da Allah😭💔

Malama I just turned 18 today but my parent have been pressurizing me to get married since when I am 16 because my elder sister got married at that age wlh is not like I don't want to get married but I don't have some one that am willing to marry and am now in my final year at University and then told me that immediately I finished I should bring a spouse home but wlh I don't have anybody on my mind now and I don't want to choose the wrong person and now there is no money for my school fees I don't know what to do I have been trying to save some money for my school fees but I wasn't able to pls help me out

I just noticed that on this app most men are looking for slim girls and all that and tbh that's okay no judgement on that but what about the chubby woman ? every time you scroll to see and make a request on someone's profile it's mostly slim or not so slim cmon now chubby women are cool too try to atleast give them a chance.

Early last year I met my ex boyfriend that happened to be the worst relationship i have ever had. we actually met on Snapchat, he happened to be a very kind person, self centered, straightforward and a bachelor but non of that was true. we dated for basically about 2 months before letting him meet my parents cause why not? I liked him☺️ then all of a sudden he started showing me red flags. like he calls in the morning when he's at work and maybe in the car or outside his house, then at a point I became suspicious of him saboda da alaman tambaya aii when I asked him sai yacemin wai cikin gidansa babu network so i happened to let it slide.. so after sometime I noticed that he lies, probably not all the time, Amma ya faramin karya. so life goes on I don't even know how but it came to my notice that he was married with two kids and at that moment nothing felt right again.. when I asked him bai karyata hakan ba, saima sanarmin dayayi kan cewa he married three years ago, daman yasan idan ya fadamin yanada mata ba aurensa zanyi ba🥹 I felt the whole world crushing on me, cause I thought I've found my knight in shining armor. I ended things with him cause I can't stay and marry someone that does not respect me. my point is that maza dan Allah kudaina karya, ko mata 3 gareku ku sanar da diyar mutane dan Allah.

When you see a guy smiling while chatting .. Just know that someone’s daughter has fallen into his trap.. True or false ___Mims_

Da zarar mutum ya zo wajen ka sau daya neman alfarma, ka yi mai wani abun... shikenan ka zama regular customer. I find it very annoying that someone who is healthy, hale and hearty has the energy and physical ability to walk and move around freely amma kullum sai dai zuwa gidajen mutane neman alfarma. I know situations can be tough, but why will mutum Kawai bashi da aikin yi sai dai zuwa neman alfarma every month.

Dear single Ladies and Gentleman, you know what they say, never go grocery shopping when you're hungry. You'll grab the wrong things. Same applies to real life situations. Never go into a relationship when you feel lonely, you might grab the wrong thing. Think about it, because if you are desperate, you'll grab anything you want, not what you need. And I want you to get only what you need.

In your household, Your wife holds greater authority than every other woman including your Mother. Allow her be the woman and mother of the house. Hehe. I know women will like this one because it gives them authority and precedence over family affairs but it's the truth. However, Your own Mother has more authority in your House than your wife's Mother. Bro, She is your Mom. Women will not like this one. Ask them why they why they have a problem with it and they will have no answer, Because deep down they want their own mother to have more authority than your own mother in your own House. Infact, If you allow them, their siblings will enjoy more privileges and have more authority than your own siblings. Do you see the self interest? Your wife's Mom can only have more authority than a Mother in law in her own son's house. Sadly, You are not her son. Accord her due respect but give your Mother her flowers.

Concealing sins. It was reported that Ibn ‘Umar said: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “The believer will be brought close to his Lord until He conceals him and makes him confess his sin. Allaah will say, ‘Do you remember such and such a sin?’ The man will say, ‘Yes, I admit it.’ The Lord will say, ‘I concealed it for you in the world and I forgive you for it today.’ Then He will close up his record of good deeds.  Speaking about your sin and flaunting it openly in front of your friends is haraam, and is a major sin. It is one of the ways of spreading immorality among the Muslims, encouraging evil and tempting others to do similar things. It also means that one does not take sin seriously and regards it as insignificant, and that the sinner is damaging his own reputation and exposing his honour to the slander of others. Islam seeks to put people off from doing such things in the strongest possible terms, as in the following hadeeth: 👇 Abu Hurayrah said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly. It is a part of sinning openly when a man does something at night, then the following morning when Allaah has concealed his sin, he says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night,’ when all night his Lord has concealed him and the next morning he uncovers what Allaah had concealed.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5721; Muslim, 2990). We advise you to repent sincerely, and if you are tested with any kind of sin, do not speak openly of it or brag about it. You should be aware of the greatness of the One against Whom you are sinning, seek forgiveness for your sin, weep for the error of your ways and adhere strictly to the path of Allaah. Beware of despairing of the mercy of Allaah. If you adhere properly to the religion of Allaah, you will have glad tidings of goodness in this world and in the Hereafter. We ask Allaah to help us and you to do that which He loves and is pleased with. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.

Shifa kyautatawa nada dadi. Bawai kadai mata ne keson kyautatawa ba. Su kansu maza naso. Ba Yanda za ai saurayi yaringa kyautatamiki kowani lokaci sai har idan kema kina kyautatamai. Sabida kyauta ita ke kara dankwan soyayya, kauna dakuma kulla alaqa mai karfi. Atleat ko katin N100 ko abun N1000 kika siyawa namiji zaiji dadi sosai. Ba kullin ke abaki ba, inkuma ba'a bayarba kice maza are stingy. Kedai marowaciya ce kawai shiyasa kike kallon saurayinki matsayin marowaci. Matan da ke bayawrwa suma ana basu. Shine rayuwan kawai.

Always respect yourself as a woman.😌 so be very mindful of how you're representing yourself. 🙌If you want respect, you must first learn how to respect yourself first🤗. Attracting negative attention is never a good thing. 😒Be a woman of substance! Be a woman that both women and men respect, admire, and look up to. ❤️💫Don't disrespect yourself by lowering your standards and accepting anything that comes your way.🤧😒 you can't keep entertaining people and things that mean you no good. Think about it! It's all ups to you😌😊 Ramadan kareem ☪️ Allah yasa muna daga cikin yantattun bayin Allah ameeen 🤲🏻

{***)Du’as we should never forget 1. Allahumma inni as’aluka husnal khatimah ‎ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّيْ أَسْأَلُكَ حُسْنَ الْخَاتِمَةِ “O Allah, I ask You for a good end to my life.” 2. Allahummar zuqni taubatan nasuha qablal maut ‎اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِيْ تَوْبَتًا نَصُوْحَا قَبْلَ الْمَوْت "O Allah, grant me sincere repentance before death." 3. Ya Muqallib al-quloob thabbit qalbi 'ala deenik ‎يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِى عَلَى دِينِكَ “O Controller of hearts, make my heart firm in Your religion.” May Allah (SWT) bless us all - accept our duas, forgive our sins, multiply our hasanat, grant us good health and happiness, & highest rank in Jannah. Ameeeen ya rabbil izzati 🤲🏻🥺 ramadan kareem ☪️

If you real want to heal your broken 😞 heart ❤️ , Always remind yourself, Don’t beg for love ❤️. Don’t beg for love ❤️. Don’t beg for love ❤️ Don’t beg for love ❤️. Don’t beg for love ❤️. Love ❤️ comes as a gift 🎁... ___Miemie

Here is my take... "Everyone has a past", right but... We are responsible for our past. if a man/woman committed a sin, you should absolutely not tell anyone BUT... What if someone that is serious about marriage ask? See, I've seen a lot of people (especially women) get angry whenever a man ask if a lady is a virgin. To be honest, there's a reason men asks. For example, a man stayed away from zina all his life, saved his virginity till marriage, and hoping to find the same virgin woman to marry. And then there's a woman who engaged in zina... It's not the matter of "ai she has repented" or "that was her past", yeah that's great that she has changed, Alhamdulillah... But her repentance is for disobeying Allah. Therefore, a man has absolutely no obligation to marry her just because "ai she has repented" but if he knows and he don't mind, great!. If he said no, please understand that IT IS NOT A SIN or "he is not religious". But now, if a guy is not a virgin, he engaged in zina as well, he has absolutely no right to demand to marry a virgin woman. Besides, there is a reason why in islam the dowry of a virgin is not the same as that of a nonvirgin. So why will selfish reasons allowed us to keep giving these stupidity (of people committing zina) a pass by saying "ai that was her past" or "she has repented ai"? if you don't want complications in the future then don't disobey your Lord and call it "qaddara"... We are all sinners... May Allah guide, protect, forgive, and keep us on the straight path.

😭 😭 am speechless 😶 Genotype yana raba mutane dayawa plss knw ur genotype before a fara relationship ba Sae anyi nisa ba kowa yafada tukunna axo ace genotype no match bcox it’s so hard to let go 😭

please is 5 years age gap between me and him ok to settle for?

ina matukar sha'awar naga an gayyace ni shan ruwa don gaskiya ban taba samun irin wannan gayyatar ba

There is this guy, we have been dating for like 1 month now. I love him so much, I love him more than myself. I mean he is pure, calm, religious, very prayerful, he's strict, overprotective and nice. I have always wanted someone that's best in the seen because I need them to put me in the right path. The kind of love that I have for him have reached to an extent that I do not want to meet him at all because I can't control my feelings. I am keeping my distance, I prayed Salatul Istikhara many times on him and I feel his the one. but guys there is a problem. everyone has a past. but why does it look like mine is hunting me down and it's making ne look as if I am not good. I have repented long before now wallahi. I swear with Allah and this pure month I ended my illicit relationship for long and I have been repenting little by little. But then, yesterday we were chatting with my fiance and then he asked this very disturbing question. He said, out of the blue, not expecting such. Are you a virgin........... I couldn't say or do anything, I stared at that question for more than an hour. Do you know what, I don't know if I should say No I am not, I am so sorry I have changed and repented please forgive me I love you. or I should say yes I am. Guess what I told him. I said YES I am. but then I do not know if he believed me or not, I asked him why he asked me such question. he said because he hold me in high esteem and he really want to get married to me so he is getting to know me. and for him it's very relevant he asked and know. Allah I felt crushed after he said all these. I cried for hours, my heart was bitter, I felt like I am deceiving my baby, if only he will trust me or really forgive me after telling him wallahi I would. At that moment in time I felt like I was a bad person and he don't deserve me, I felt that he deserve better and not me. I really love this guy and I am afraid that even if we get married I might loose him, because he will find out on our first night and that is gonna be disaster. My Worst and Ugly past is hunting me down please guys don't judge me, I have sincerely repented and I need help.