just when I thought I have found my partner for life, someone I love for the sake of Allah....we connected on all kinds of level, someone I found a best friend in and also a soulmate, someone that even with all my flaws he found me perfect for him and just one day we had to end everything because of family...I pray Almighty Allah heal us both and grant us what best

pls kutayani da addua it's unbearable 😭

I am depressed wallahi,kullum cikin kuka nake.I was a brilliant student a high school dina har zuwa university.At Islamiyya haka.I got married at my first year in university, I married a man dabayason cigaban karatuna.haka nakarasa karatunnan wani lokacin yahanani zuwa aji.At the end ma yacemun karatun ma bazan amfana dashi ba ba for no reason.Ahaka nakarasa karatuna nagama da third class, duk wadda suka sanni suna mamaki. Aurenmu ya mutu yanzu inata neman aiki amma yanzu idan natuna da third class nagama sai duniyarnan naji ba dadi.Saboda most organisations basa daukar third class.

anyi wishing dinku international women's day ko kuwa 🤣🤣

I still remembered when I was a 16-year-old teenager, lol very silly and committed to goals and wishes. I wasn't concerned about love, worldly things, relationship or beauty. my problem was to pass my exams, finish school and become a fucking doctor that will earn 300-400K a month. I remembered I wrote Jamb 8 times, hahaha isn't that crazy, my mum's dream was for me to become a doctor, and my dad's dream was to see me in med school practising medicine. I well Allah's wish for me was different, I planned everything to an extent that I will get my first kid by 24, guess what, I dont even have a boyfriend, hahhahah. hmmm Not that I dont have suitors, nor people that want or love me, it's just that I think they are after one thing or the other, I am not comfortable with men around me. I see them as distractions and receivers, I am not a doctor in fact my educational background is funny and a story for another day. but to cut it short, I am a diploma holder, trying to start my degree at 24 lol, earning good Alhamdulilah, single without headache lol. Now what do I want, I think I need a guy/man that is within my own space, ( I mean educated especially in tech, funny like me, amazing, romantic, tall, dark, hot, and sweet). I need someone I can call my best friend, brother, soulmate and partner. Might seem difficult but everything is possible with Allah. most of my peers are married, I am not comparing things but why does society see me like something that should be within the wings of a man rather than myself. why does society rush me to do something I am not ready to? what is this thing called Marriage and why am I not comfortable with any guy yet. hmmmmm

me yasa kashi 80 a cikin mata basa iya kiran samarin su idan har basu suka kirasu ba koda kuwa tana sonshi 50% achiki koda flashing basa iya yi idan kuwa zaiyi 1 months bai kirata ba shim girman kai ne? ko isa ce? ko kuma soyayya ce?

I don't if people will find what I'm about to say good or bad but I've been wondering since the time I turned 20years I started seeing changed in my body 😂 my face looks life I put stones on it not as soft as it used to be this beard some full my face even dis packs on my body started to Fade away I don't know why and sometimes I will find my body a little but weak not being able to do something I used to do pls is this what people called being matured nidai naga jikina ya canza so abun Yana bani mamaki pls am I the only one on this stage or not Thank you.

funny guy handsome guy rich guy romantic guy a guy who knows how to cook

hey...I have this guy he love me so much and each time we fight he stopped calling me sometimes har 3months mukeyi kafin ya kirani I hav been giving him chances but I don't know something went wrong. recently he just stopped calling me yau 2 weeks kenan kuma bansan meyasa ba and kowa ya sanshi a gidanmu just ystrdy my mom called and ask ina yake bcus yace zaije gidanmu fr formal introduction. and yanzu I don't know what to my mom bcus every1 around me sun gaji da jin problems enmu. ok I know he loves me so much that I won't doubt I am always sticking to that but u have already made up my mind this time around I should just let him go no matter what if it's not normal fr sum1 who loves me 2 stay 2weeks or more than without hearing frm me. now my problem is I don't know how to approach my mom with this bcus ta Riga tasa abun a rants thinking this year in sha Allah we will gt married dashi.

In today's day, we have relationship stuffs all over Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat and even among people staying close to us.It then make them start wanting to be in relationships because of what they see, infact some just want to jump into the marriage because of all this wattpad stories, hausa novels ...etc All the posts and stuff then begin to be like oppression to them and then sometimes they begin to question themselves, their self confidence then starts depreciating because they start believing that somethings' lacking in them, They then start becoming desperate. Soo...I believe and will want my fellow ladies out there to just be more prayerful, have faith in Allah and your spouse will be the besttt(Inshaa Allah)❤️❤️❤️ So, don't loose confidence in ur self, dont get oppressed by what you see, love your self more and Almighty Allah will bless you with the best. Ps: if he comes ehh and u get married, ehh yes mijinki neh amman knock his head for wasting time😂💕

Assalamu'alaikum everyone, how's the preparation for Ramadan? Aswear am disturb.am the first child of my family,I struggled to register myself in school ,still schooling and they(parents) depend on me to eat😢💔 wallhy each time ramadan is at the corner my hrt skips fast because half of their (my parents) fasting is without sahur😭😢💔💔 for me I don't have much problem during Ramadan because i don't stay with them I stay with one of my Aunty😢😢 but my heart is with them😔😔 may Almighty Allah make it easy for them this Ramadan.

i just come across a post which a lady asking whether her fellow girls can date a guy who can't speak English fluently...its really unnerve, Do you know how many people that become successful without speaking English? its just a language, well yanxu idan mukace bazamuyi dating yarinya bah sai wadda ta Sauke Qur'ani mun kyauta? kowa da ra'ayinshi amma bana tunanin hakan yadace Just pray for nagari Allah ya kyauta

I graduated last year and i seek to volunteer in an NGO/Organisation in Kaduna state... Please be of help if you can

Assalam, pls why is it that some men don't value what they have. I was in love with a military personnel. we so much love each other and he never allowed anyone to come close to me. any time he sees a guy talking to me, he will tell them to behave coz I'm his wife to be. Wallahi ya Koran mun samari both civilians and officers and anytime I talked to him about marriage he will be like why are you in a rush. but then after 3 good years he started changing. and I talked to him about us moving to the next level of our relationship then he stopped calling, chatting and responding to my calls, texts and even messages. 6 months later, he called and was telling me his family refused him to marry me coz I'm from borno state and they are scared because they don't want me kill their son for them. I prayed really hard to get over him and then called me a year after to tell me that it's like he's destined to marry from borno state. and I said to him Allah ya bada Sa'a. then last year July, he got married to one of my family friend who is also borno state against his family wish. coz her dad is richer than mine and I was told that soyayyar kudi ya ke. he's a capitalist and all. Abun haushin after the wadding Fatiha he called me and was like kinyi aure ne and I told him Sai Allah ya kawo na gari and I asked him same , he said Sai after 2 years. then his bride dad came to our house to give us the invitation for the wedding event and sword crossing which took place December last year. that was how I got to know that he got married to someone who was like a sister to me. abin haushin ma shine ba abin da ta fi ni. Amma God is watching us all. and there's always a paying back time. i know you have never seen anything bad about him and our relationship was a pure one not haram one. but the fact In sha Allah, Allah zai saka min. kowa yayi dai dan Kansa. kuma Na bar sa da Allah. wani hissabin Sai a lahira......

Duniyar taimin zafi,I was diagnosed with genital herpes months after our wedding.Then my husband later confessed to me that shine yakeda wannan cuta that I should forgive him.It wasn't easy for me,yaruga yacuceni,tunda cutace daba'a warkewa Any time I experienced an outbreak I felt like commiting suicide.But because of the love I had for him I stood strong Haka mukayi zama for good 4 years kafin yacemun ga takardarki na sakeki.He just got married last month.I don't have confidence in me😭,I am not secure in who I am as a person. Inalillahi wa inna ilainarajiun 😭 wallahi I don't think I can be loved or married again.Who will date me sef???? with this illness😭 I can't become myself and I feel I have to settle for my career.

As the caption implies

Mai ya sa ba'a Sona,tun da nake wani Bai taba zuwa ya che ya na so na takani da Allah bah and it's disturbing me,am almost 20 now and I don't have any one to call a boyfriend ,ena son mazajen hausawa , I don't know if it's because of my tribe or Allah nai Bai kawo lokaci bah 😔😔

Salam, I have a question. what do you think the ideal time for relationships are? is it the same for all women? or is it different for single girls and divorcee?

In Kaye bleaching suce Kaye bleaching kuma sun fi son Wanda tayen fah

no one emphasizes on genotype,I feel cheated at some point, you find love -Genotype You leave and find love again then Genotype again, you get the one that’s at least compatible but they start lying, misbehaving and trying to control your life or our parents does not find them worthy, you have to literally beg for attention, care and all. I’ve lost all hope of actually finding love and getting married at this point , I know I’m loosing myself slowly, I’m very well outspoken but I can barely start and end a conversation and we are looked upon as unserious or ruwan ido🤧 at a point i just feel like going for the incompatible men but the disadvantages attached are disheartening