There is this Man, our neighbor in an estate in Abuja, its an open estate the houses face each other (some of you are familiar with the type of estate setting in Abuja). im a youth and he is grown man with children my age so if we see each other i usually greet him (as expected) also i'm cool with some of his children so ina bashi respect haka. by the way, I have my Job, earning well and from a well to do family. Sometime ago on a Friday i greeted this man then pulled out some cash (1500) and handed to me as barka da juma'a i politely rejected but he insisted, why will he give me something and i will refuse to collected. i reluctantly collected aka dai ci gaba da gaisawa Normal. so yesterday after praying in the estate mosque he was talking with one of the guards, he handed 1k to the guards just at that moment we crossed path i greeted him then just handed me 1k in front of everyone i collected reluctantly as not to have any argument with him. i just don't like him giving him money and i hate to collect. irin dai i was a bit embarrassed jiya because it just looked derogatory haka ana bani 1k se kace irin ina maula ko kuma me gadi? ni kuma kada inyi rejecting cikin mutane yayi insisting se na karba please what are your views

is age just a Number?

Actually ni kaina abin Yana ban mamaki.am I the only one da kwata kwata bana iya hada Ido da namiji,ko akwai wasu..as in tun daga kan freinds, classmates har zuwa teachers..wallahi ko mgnr ta kama dole to fa se dai In kalli wani gurin.ynxu Gani a university and I'm still finding it so hard na kalli idon wani..it's not like irin Banda mgn haka ko wani Abu..I'm very good in speech coz mostly ko a secondary school in za ayi debate or something related to quize haka se an zabo ni a masu participating..but kallon idon namiji ya gagare ni😂

Assalamualaikum my arewamatchup fam una no dey send us ramadan basket ne? ko irin na kwamaret ma issok.don't worry na joke a dey play,Ramadan Mubarak to y'all Allah amsa mana ibadun mu ameen.

Akwai abunda yake damuna na dade na rasa Wanda zan fada mawa Amma ynz I can talk anonymously . Tun taso wa ta Allah ya saka ina da kwarjini sosai sbd Alhamdulillah zan iya cewa gidan mu ko an ina ana kyautata ma iyayen mu zato wurin yin kokarin su akan mu. An bamu tarbiya daidai gwargwado na addini da ilimin boko Amma kashhh abun ciwon shine yanda iyayen mu suka bama karatun mu mahimmaci na boko fiya da aure. In such a way that baa ma a muna mana zamu iyayin aure nan kusa kusa . Toh Allah cikin ikon shi tun ina qara ma nake da manema masu sona da aure gashi har mun gama makaranta banyi auren ba . Wallahi duk masu sona da aure suke sona Amma wannan tsoron me zaa ce a gida yasa ka ko da wasa ban taba nuna wa ba . This is me regretting the fact that at this stage I have minimal to no option of irin Wanda nake raayi duk na bar su sun tafi sbd bana so na cutar da wani da Bata mishi lokaci when nasan duk sun shirya aure a lokacin . Abun da ciwo kaga mutane Suna qaunar ka duk Suna possessing wasu superficial attributes da majority of mata can go for but ni na kasa yi wallahi😭 I have tried my best to tag along with them but these men are not looking at a building a home of Islam sedai kawai tunanin su yanda zaa bama yara best life ,best life fa ba na addini ba Aa na Jin dadin rayuwa n zuwa vacations na attending best schools . Ni kuma wallahi son Wanda zai taimake wurin tarbiyar yara nake nema Wanda ya fahimci a aure a fuskar addini ba wai yanayin rayuwa ba . Dan Allah ina rokon ku ku saka ni addua Allah ya bani miji nagari ,Allah shine ke yi nasnai kuma jinkirin nasan Alkhairi ne bi'iznillah amma dai babu laifi idan muka roqi ubangji ya kusanto mana da wasu lamarukan mu . Nagode sosai Allah ya bamu ko partner din da zai zama sanyin idon shi

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah . Barkan ku da rana ,I'm here to seek for adduar duk wani musulumi am going through a lot that my mental health is just not okay . DanAllah a taimaka ayi mani addua don I can't type it here sbd brain Dina needs prayer not shawara . Nagode sosai .

We are quite often been told that all women (virgin or nonvirgin) are the same when it comes to marriage, right? But why is it that most mothers are highly against their sons (first marriage) marrying a woman that has been married before? Is there a reason? What happened to "ciwon 'ya mace na 'ya mace ne"?

please ina cigiyan Imam Abubakar gana's number. I have a question for him

Mata azama masu kunya Dan Allah. shine Adon ki. wallahi da mamaki kiga mace tana chan a comment section sai zuba take na abun sirri wai ita ta waye. ki tsaya kina wannan maganganu da maza hka gatsai. i am not generalising o but deh gaskiya kunya ya na barin mu. jiya akayi post a diary of a northern woman akan shan azumi da ma wasu pages. Zo kuga mata sai zuba, maza na jan su da magana. ki tsaya kina hira da kato/gardi akan yadda period inki keh zuwa. ku san mazan nan bazasu ganku da kowani daraja ba wallahi koh kadan. imagine kaga matarka a comment section tana irin hiran nan. wannan abu ba daraja a ciki fah, Ba kuma waye wa bane. idan baka da kunya toh tamkar tsirara ka keh. Dan Allah a kiyaye. Kuma dan Allah a dena nuna wa duniya cewa ba'a azumi. lalura akwai ta amma bai kamata duk inda aka samu sai a zauna ci da sha a gaban kowa. wai wayewa yazo.

akwai wanda zanyi maganar dashi anan

Assalam. fatan kowa yana lfy ? dan Allah ku ban shawara. ina da saurayi mun hadu dashi yana da wata budurwa. haduwa ta dashi ya nuna mun zai mãta wulakanci saboda ni, kuma sunkai 3yrs suna tare so zai barta ya aure ni. nace masa aa saboda nima ai mace ce ba zan so wani yamun haka ba. nace ya aureta kawai ni, na hakura. na rokeshi da ya manta dani karya sake kirana na goge number sa saboda na manta dashi. after like 1 year da auran su that is 2020 sai ya kirani muna dan gaisawa sama sama har zuciya tayi gaba damu mukaci gaba da soyayya har yafi na baya. yamun alkawarin aure 2024 lokacin nima na gama karatu. Ankira shi gidan mu saboda duk lokacin da akace na fito da miji sai nace shi, toh uncle nawa kadai yasan shi da, kuma yasan shi da inda yaji wai ya barni ni, ne saboda ambashi ar'uwar shi ya aura. so yanzu iyaye na dakar suka amince da auren mu ahaka ma suke cemun dan na, nace ne. so dazun yake cemun wai shi gida daya zai hadamu kuma kayan akwati duk abunda nagani nayi hakuri dashi kuma wani maganar program da zanyi ba lallai yabani kudi ba.nace masa bakomai Allah shike rufa asiri, ai zanyi hakuri da komai amma gaskiya bazanyi hakuri muzauna gida daya da matarshi ba saboda wlh fuska biyu gareta amma ban fada masa dalilina ba nima niece tashi ce take gaya mun kudirinta akaina. saboda batasan kawata bace. shine fa yake cemun wai shi yariga ya yanke abunda zai iya, idan ban yarda ba inyi yanda nake so.dan Allah abunda nace wani abune irin hakurin jiranshi da nayi yadace yamun wannan? iyayena dakar suka yarda dashi amma ji irin abunda yake cemun kuma gidan shi 500k yake biya 1year a Abuja nace toh yaraba mana 300k mana wai aa. dan Allah ku ban shawara wlh iyayena sukaji hakama baza suyarda ba.

Ladies can you marry a man that is below your status financialy?

1 - Never make sacrifices or empower a woman you are not yet married to, It is all water under the bridge. 2 - Never trust any woman, They are all the same and once they've had enough, they will disappoint you. 3 - Never show emotions around women, It makes you vulnerable and they will exploit that weakness for selfish gains. 4 - Never spend or go out of your way to please a woman , That's Simp behaviour and puts other men in bad light. 5 - Never financially support a woman you have not pierced. The goal is to penetrate and move forward. 6 - Never seriously date a single Mom, They are not worth the stress and kings don't raise other men's kids. 7- Never display so much love or make her feel too special, lest she's going to take you for granted. They always do. ____________________________ ____________________________ The danger of buying into gender war and the riddled idea of social media Alphaness is that you may end up losing the Father figure in you. You end up becoming self centered, self absorbed, egoistical and ultimately, losing that Father's love. These is obviously TOXICITY disguised as MASCULINITY and it only promotes robot-ship and lack of compassion. Ofcos, MANY young boys buying into this delusion of Alphaness are boys who naturally, dislike the idea of responsibility. This is just another golden opportunity to shy away from responsibility and being held accountable for their actions and inactions. You scream women are this and women are that but somehow believe that your own mother is an Angel? Lol! I pray you don't lose the Kindness in you as you go about chasing toxicity disguised as Masculinity

Wallahi I’m so obsessed with bre*st, if ur face is ugly and u have bre*st u are fine to me. I don’t know what do u it’s all I want from a lady pls help me with an advice 🙏

Dua for Relief from Debts and Loans. Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Mu’aadh (may Allaah be pleased with him): “Shall I not teach you a du’aa’ which you may say even if you have debt like Mount Uhud, so that Allaah might pay it off for you? Say, O Mu’aadh: (the following dua:) ‘Allaahumma Maalik al-mulk, tu’ti al-mulk man tasha’ wa tanzi’ al-mulk mimman tasha’, wa tu’izzu man tasha’ wa tudhilul man tasha’, bi yadika al-khayr, innaka ‘ala kulli shay’in qadeer, Rahmaan al-dunya wa’l-aakhirah wa raheemahuma, tu’teeyahuma man tasha’ wa tamna’ minhuma man tasha’, arhamni rahmatan taghnini biha ‘an rahmati man siwaaka (O Allaah, Sovereign of all, You give dominion to whomsoever You will and You take dominion away from whomsoever You will, You exalt whomsoever You will and You bring low whomsoever You will. In Your hand is all goodness and You are able to do all things. Most Merciful and Most compassionate in this world and in the Hereafter, You give them to whomsoever You will and withhold them from whomsoever You will. Bestow mercy upon Me in such a manner that I have no need of the mercy of anyone but You).’”

Please anyone has an idea or recommendation on how i can permanently get rid of my sexual feelings and just live me life freely? I am willing to do anything to achieve this please I am young and not married yet. Thank you

Ga Ramadan ga rana🌚 Allah yasa me lada mukeyi🤲

Assalamualaikum please does anyone knows were I can get openbox testers perfume at wholesale

Muna kokarin samun shimfidar masallaci sai ga shi an sace Generator masallacin jiya da dare. Haba mana a cikin Ramadana fa, Allah Ya shiryamu

Please Remember your poor siblings/relatives and neighbors before you donate money or foodstuffs online for Ramadan. There's no reward in Al-Riyaa (show off) in Islam. May we benefit from the coming Ramadan. Amen🤲😥 akwai wa yanda ko na Buda Baki Basu dashi Allah yarufa mana asiri Duniya da lahira 🙏 Allah yabamu iKon taimakawa🤲