Most people when asked questions regarding why their previous relationship didn't work they tend to put the blame on their exes. But if we are going to be honest with ourselves we also had a part to play. What mistakes did you make in your previous relationship that you'll like to amend if another person comes your way ?

slm,how long have you been on the app?whats your story,lets hear to encourage others

Let's talk about spec, apart from the good character, financial stability and tsoron Allah, what are those physical qualities that always captures your attention when looking for a partner? Mine is Abs and Beard

oya you guys tell us your love language. mine is cuddles and hugs 🤭

It took me a long time to realize that not everything in life is meant to be a beautiful story. Not every person we feel something deep and moving with is meant to make a home within us, is meant to be a forever. Sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how to love; and sometimes, people come into our lives to teach us how not to love. How not to settle, how not to shrink ourselves ever again. Yes, sometimes people leave but that's okay, because their lessons always stay, and that is what matters. That is what remains.

i don't have friends the ones I have are not true friends at all like I have this girl in school Muna department daya but she has a true friend in another department not me. do after lectures she'll be looking for excuses to avoid me just to meet that other one I want to have friends but is like no one likes me please is there anyone that doesn't have friends 😭

"When we allow our selves to fail,we also give our selves permission to succeed" May we all succeed in life.

Anyone here? i'm bored.

assalamu alaykum guys Fatan kuna lfy pls ina neman shawaranku dan Allah🙏🙏 nakasance ina soyayya da wani guy tun 2015 muke tare mukayi breakup 2017 muka sake shiryawa 2019 again muka sakeyin breakup 2021 still muka sake shiryawa yanxu haka muna tare muna zaman lfy yanxu haka, duk gidansu sun sanni haka Nima gidanmu sun sanshi amma ni abunda yake bani mamaki nake wondering all the time shine duk breakup din nan da mukayi ba fada mukeyi ba haka Kawai sainaga mundena yiwa juna magana ba chat ba waya haka kawai sai bayan 2yrs ko 1yr sai musake shiryawa yanxu haka munkai 7yrs tundaga fara soyayyarmu har zuwa yanxu sai acikin kwanakin nan ne ya faramin maganar aure kuma wllh deep down in me ina sanshi kuma shima inada yakinin yana sona amma ina tsoron kar sai nazo nayi accepting din aurenshi yasake guduwa tunda har akwai wata babe dinshi tana ta gayawa mutane wai aure zasuyi danayi masa magana sai yacemin wllh shi yadade da breakup da yarinyar amma har yanxu naga yarinyar tana posting dinshi a Tiktok danayi masa magana akan posting din da yarinyar takeyi sai yacemin zai mata magana bayan 2days nashiga page dinta a Tiktok sai naga duk ta cire posting din gaba daya, secondly bashida male friends saidai female friends sunkai 30 female friends dinsa wllh Idan yazo hira sai naga sunata kiranshi Idan yaki dauka sai suyi ta masa messages akan yaki daukar wayarsu, pls help a sister🥺🙏

Apart from me who else suffer in POS i don see shege infact shege banza, kaida kudinka baka Isa ka cira ba. kaje Bank ga layi ATM ma baya 1hour zakaji wai kudi ya kare Allah yakawo mana sauki Ameen

so like I use to see in Hausa films and novels that a woman will vomit then they'll test her in the hospital and then confirm shes pregnant. but I asked the ones I know in reality the saying it's not true. I want to know from your side is it actually true?

By Allah what some men are doing is so wrong and out of line!! you guys have sisters too imagine all the wulakanshi you're doing for your wife will be done to your sister or daughter will you like it? NO you won't❗️❗️❗️ then why doing it to someone's daughter? so there's this woman I know that has 4 kids with her husband and she's pregnant too Wallahi if u see how the husband is treating her so badly u won't like it. like no one can visit her and she can't go out too baya biya musu bukatun su no good food or shelter the wife has to struggle to do some things and Wallahi alhamdulillah yana da kudin ba wai Bbu ba but he prefer spending it to emmata a waje 💔 they dont communicate with his wife and when he's home she's scared sosai ko neighbors sai dai bai Sani ba zata je wulakanshi kala kala Wallahi har kunyan zuwa gidan ta nake gashi she can't tell her family I don't know why but Wallahi she's in pain sosai ko ni nan da I'm just 18 years nagane halin da take ciki💔 da wasu auren gwara Bbu Wallahi and her family is well know ko yanxu nayi mentioning almost all of you will know the family but her husband is treating her bad Nikam I don't know what to tell her she's always telling me her problems 🥺

I know marriage has its ups and downs but I know that it's not always bad times they are good times for sure I can not wait to do funny annoying thing to my hubby for us to do all the romantic things we could think of.what things can you not wait to do when you get married ? May Allah give us the right husband and wife's at the right time 😊 May he do it for us like he did for others !

me as a lady I notice something from men in match making section, you will send them a request it will take them a while to accept it and after accepting it they will now be waiting for you as a girl to start the conversation first after starting the conversation they will now be doing somehow, that is how i use to cancel the request ooo but I don't know may be is because I am not use to all that kind of thing that is why I am feeling such way

Please advise her Help a new bride. What can I do to make my husband leave my brèasts alone. Normally I don't wear revealing clothes cos I don't like people seeing my brèasts nor touching them. My husband is always touching the brèasts and it feels ann0ying. The other day I mistakenly slàpped him cos he put one bréast in his mouth. Out of ànger he grabbed the two and was just pressing pressing everything. My marriage is only 2 months, and I'm already tired.

why did you broke up with your Ex & have you moved on or you're still left in a dilemma

for me my signature spices when it comes to food are black pepper and cinnamon I love those 2spices the most. How about you

ya al'ummar annabi manxon ALLAH S.A.W, Dan girman ubangiji duk Wanda ya karanta post dina yayimun adduah,Ina fama d rashin lpia, Ina adduah ubangiji y yayemun Dan alfarmar manxon rahma S.A.W, ubangiji duk Wanda yay mun adduah, ALLAH k sa y gama d dunia lpia Ameen y hayyu y qayyum.

tabbas rikewa Dan uwa sirri Yana d Lada me kyau, amma muna wata rayuwa da mutane ke boye alkhairin mutum su Kuma bayyana sharrinsa, ya kamata mu rinka rufawa yan uwanmu asiriii, sbd idan kana aybata mutum akan wani Abu da yke, wlh kaema wata Rana bakafi karpin ubangiji y jarraabeka ba, sedae mueta yiwa yan uwanmu adduah,Ina fatan ubangiji y shiryi duk wani Mai mugun Hali, y ganar dasu hanya madaedaechiya ameen y hayyu ya qayyum.

A while ago I made a post on this forum asking members if they are ready to get married. Interestingly alot of people proclaimed that they are ready, especially the ladies. Many of these ladies said they are waiting for their "Mr right", but then most of them are not on the matchmaking section. Well, I have some news for you, there a lot of "Mr right" on the app just like myself. So please join we are tired of waiting too.