Please and please, if a person sends you a request be it make it female, if you check the person’s profile and you’re not interested do the person a favor and just decline it. Please I beg of you, I’m not even gonna stick to a particular gender. This goes to everyone, it’s simply not nice.

I think it is not right to display all pictures with filters or heavy makeup cuz u end up not displaying ur true self. A guy may become attracted to ur filtered or makeup version and when he sees the real u, he becomes discouraged. Some filters even turn a dark person fair. And some makeup cover up facial rashes or dark spots. Though few men also use pictures with filter but it's more common with ladies. I think it's better to display a picture that shows ur real self.. Light makeup is acceptable but heavy makeup that changes ur real appearance.. Kai

Well where do I start from, actually I don't know what to do! I am a chubby girl well let me say I look a bit older than my actual age. I had my first love at d age 17 and he broke my heart and married my friend, though that's not d part but what is disturbing me is that since then I don't have any other love again y? Because men say "INA musu qwarjini suna kunyata" and so no one is approaching me for love again. I don't know what to do its disturbing me, what do I do I need advice and prayers please.

Going through some of d profiles here. I figured out something, though it's bad to make ur choice but helping one another is one of d reason we are here. I have observed dat some among us are seeking for a partner with AA genotype while the seeking is AA too y not d opposite? If AAs are seeking 4 AAs what will d AS,AC,SS,&SCs do, at least we should try helping one another. The rest will feel discrimated we should trying breaking d chain of this genotype saga pls. Hide my ID

Please concerning the issue of request, I don't know but it's actually not good for one not to accept or decline your request but rather leave you on pending. Why would you not decline if the person sending the request doesn't meet your requirements or accept if he/she meets ur requirements but I c no reason why one will neither accept nor decline for weeks of sending request. But I don't know maybe d rest of u have an idea y.

This days Muslims have no shame at all, we all see how couples snapped pre wedding pics holding each other tightly with no shame, dancing together in public and this happened before the NIKAH take place they are not even ashamed of Allah, they are not even ashamed of the world, you are clearly commiting a sin in public, back then people hide their sin, but knw it turned to fashion, people would even look at them thinking that they're the most adorable couples ever, may Allah see us through I have never dreamed of doing such, I pray that who ever am going to meet with should have no interest in pre wedding pics and other events AMEEN.. What can you say about this issue..?

Salam, my story is short, i happen to be in my late twenties with no single boyfriend or suitor. My first real boyfriend was when i was 17, we dated for 4yrs and about to get engaged when i found out he had been hiding a very bad habit from me that was islamically not acceptable. Couldn't ignore the red flags 4 my future and that of my children, so I dis istikhara for a week and ended the relationship, that was the beginning of my lack of trust in men. This is 8yrs down the line and i still dnt trust anyone who approaches me, i c every man that approaches me as someone that wud waste my tym and cheat me in the end. Please need ur advise on how to overcome this and ur prayers. Jazakallahu khair

Assalam. I've been thinking really too much these days, raised by a single parent (God bless our mother's), I have bachelor's degree and I'm also islamically oriented, I have a good business of my own which I support the family with, I believe that I'm disciplined in character and all rounds...well mannered, and I can also say I'm beautiful, you will never be bored around me I'm social too to some extent I'm sure of that, I'm someone neat and also gentle, im someone that i think should easily attract any man but I'm experiencing the opposite it's like I'm almost invisible to men or like I have a negative energy around I'm not noticed easily and the few times I mustered up courage to initiate a connection with anyone I got turned down. I'm not talking of a connection here online but even in my physical environment. I sent out couple of requests too on the site all negative and I haven't gotten any requests since the time I registered on the site I don't know how I'm supposed to feel about it. I'm tempted to even delete my account right now I'm losing hope for love in this world but God knows all. Alhamdulillah! Pls pray for me brothers and sisters. Thank you.

If men are busy selecting languages and appearance of ladies what would happen to other ladies that are not what u selected they all lose hope because they feel they are not selected and wanted please let's think about all this I don't feel happy I know with what I said now I spoke out for lots of ladies who are dying with this in them Thank u

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I am not posting this for laughs. This is real, this is genuinely how I feel. So, all the men that approach me are not rich or even moderately financially stable. It is embarrassing that I only get attention from the likes of tailors, drivers, shop keepers and jobless men. This is not a good sign. By all indications, I might marry a poor man. God knows I dream of marrying a rich man who will spoil me and let me live life lavishly like a queen. I want to travel the world and drive expensive cars, eat what I want, spend how I want and be free of all worries. The thought of not living this kind of life makes me cry myself to sleep. Can't a girls wishes come true? I am slowly falling into depression. Please pray for me.

Please why do people send match requests without reading the potential match's profile. You'll see a person with opposite specification sending match requests. Example someone short or chubby sending request to a person whose profile description reads searching for slim lady or tall lady. Or a lady whose profile reads she's searching for man not more than 35 years sending match request to someone above 35. I don't just get it

i'm just wondering because the numbers are increasing everyday, gaskiya abin se dai Addu'a

Self isolation, is when you have all what you need, be it enough figure in your account and enough cash in your wallet, enough data and airtime, enough drinks and food stuff in your room??? While quarantine, is when you lockdown yourself with 10Mb data, with -500 airtime balance???, 300 in your account no drinks in your room sannan nepa basakawomuku wuta, gashi kun6ata da budurwarka???? Lockdown Kareem and again isolation Mubarak to my kano ppl ????

Asalamalaikum, please is it advisable for intending couples who are both AS to get married? And if they already are is it a ground to annul the marriage as they are no kids yet?

Sometimes ladies end up single not because they are not ugly but because of there Ego. Sometimes u ladies should give men chance and u might end up having the best man u would ever dreamed of..not all are bad and most have the purest heart, but always be careful and don't easily trust..some of us are more poisonous than black mamba..im wishing all the single ladies best of lucks ?

Why is good love so hard to find? I need love, issit too much to ask for!!!

Most men I’ve come across have this criteria that if a girl isn’t slim, fair and has long hair then she’s not marriage material. I really don’t get why this stereotype is still in. Shikenan if you’re not slim, fair and have long hair you don’t qualify. It actually brings down self esteem and sense of self worth. No guy wants to date you the moment he finds out you’re not slim and fair, it actually hurts a lot. Why do men always want that??? My brothers please I need an answer to this

So I had a boyfriend in 2018, though we're strong at first before he changed and I broke up with him February 2019 then we got back together at November 2019 . I was very sick at that time that I was in a coma and he didn't even visit me when I was sick, I was discharged from the hospital and I called him that day so my mother checked through my phone and blocked him then I was surprised that he didn't called me back and at that same time another guy likes me but I was so blinded with the other guy's love and I don't like him back. Like my mum will start insulting me Wai ayanzu mutun yaganki Yana Sonki Amman kina Mai wulaqanci though muna Dan chatting dashi so Sai jiya daddare around 3 my mum came to my room and I was on twitter with my phone so she said Bani wayan nan, me kkeyi da waya at this hour and I said ba chatting nake ba though I talked to my friend about breaking up with the guy that I like Kuma ma already nayi but I was hurt so Sai tace Na bude Mata WhatsApp tagani tafara fada but ba fadan bane matsalan, the words that she throwed at me like yanzu Ke kke bin namiji, Toh gayamin kina zuwa wajeshi neh da Har kka Damu hka, Ni banga maraban ki da karuwa ba Wai Harda kinci amanata, Kuma ahakan takeso Na dinga gayamata me nake ciki. Harda cewa Ai Ina da rawan kai, Ni Idan namiji yagama min dadin baki toh shikenan nagama yadda, tsakani da Allah wace uwa ce zata Fara gayawa yarta haka Wai saboda Shi Na dinga wulaqanta me Sona, Wai Ai Daman masu Sona tsakani da Allah Wanda suke Sona da mutunci su nake wulaqanta wa. Abinda Bata gane ba I broke up with my boyfriend because nasan Babu inda relationship din zaije Amman she keeps on blaming me. Wai Kawai abinda ya rage in Bude Daki a Sabon gari??. Tsakani da Allah Meye Hakan. Nidai insha Allah Bazan tabayima yarana haka ba wlh. Right now I'm so depressed wlh??

Okay,So I have this cousin that is in a relationship with a guy. They started dating immediately after breakup with her Ex(that way she still doesn't know how she fell in love with the new guy) 70% of closest relatives dinmu doesn't want that relationship, but she still sticks to him. And he's giving her positive answers all the time. I'm very close to her and I feel like it's never going to work out the way she wants. But she's soo much into him ko mai aka fada bata ji, ko fada sukai and they spend not more than 24hrs ba suyi magana babse tayi fever. Nobody is praying for su rabu. But if they do, I'm sure zata samu matsala psychologicaly and emotionaly. So please NB,let's pray for her. Thanks And I know she's going to see this. Please hide my ID