i just wonder dan me suke yi, idan dan Allah ne then you only need to prove it to him right? even some hausa celebrities as this is the first day of ramadan i have seen their posts on how they feed people or are planning to feed people. do you have a lesser reward if you publicize such acts? or it doesn't matter as long as niyyar ka nada kyau?

Jiya Ina cikin tafiya cikin gari, wani Mai mashin ya buga mun mota, ya ki tsaya wa Kuma ya zage Ni. Ni ma sai na buge shi da mota ya fadi ban tsaya ba na tafi. I feel a bit bad about it cuz Kila na dauki Alhakin shi but I am also thinking he deserves it.

I like a guy he's my course mate gashi yanzu muna final semester I have tried to give him hints but no avail we have spoke a few times and I really love him sosai since last year but I am shy to make it obvious, I don't want to loose him after school. please what is the best thing to do? should I propose directly or start a friendship to give him more hints. pls advice me.

I have been observing for a while that Hausa people in the North see themselves as better than other tribes. eg 1. You rarely find a Hausa man learning/speaking another tribe apart from his own. 2. A Muslim Yoruba friend of mine told me when he went to serve in yobe state only hausas lead prayer in the mosque. 3. they think it's their land and threatening to send other tribes out of their region in of religious crises. but the truth is that the hausa region is the face of poverty and illitracy in Nigeria, can that be the reason some think this way?

Wallahi sometimes is the ladies arouse it and after it happens people will saying blah blah blah. Because it happens to me but Alhamdulillah my God Has saved me so please and please peoples stop jumping into conclusions without any justifiable fact.

It's still on the marriage issues let me share my experience, i came home from school some months ago i don't know why my dad's side of the family feel i don't have a suitor already so they've been matching me with possible suitors from the family (see me see wahala) and it's not as if we are all in good terms i just dey look them. I don't understand why it's a crime to be at home after graduation it's not as if I'm in their house i dey my papa house dey mind my business but people won't let me be.

Salam pls those that say don't hit a lady does it mean a lady can come and slap you and you will just be looking like a fool? and also it's okay for a lady to hit a man ko?

A failed engagement is better than a bad marriage. The mistakes, baggage and hurt you carry from it cuts across generations. Be wise and take your time to choose a partner ?.

Gaskia yakamata iyaye su daina saka pressure akan 'ya'ya mata kan maganan aure,I mean aure lokaci ne idan lokacin ka baiyi ba wallahi ko sama da kasa zasu hade bazakayi ba but our parents don't understand this suna ga Kaman mun tsaya zabe ne bayan kuma ba haka bane. Marriage that happens due to pressure doesn't last long, how can we make our parents understand this?

The recent cases of insecurity and crime is not a surprise to me, its something that would naturally occur anywhere under the climate of Nigeria, and trust me wallahi worst is coming, time shall tell, the country will keep deteriorating until it becomes a living hell for everyone all because of 1 thing fa that people are not talking about, when it comes to discussion of the country's issue the first thing people mention is the government, i just laugh because i actually don't blame the government because the government officials that run the government are products of our society so the problem lies deep in our societies. the same people will never talk about how people give birth to people who end up becoming a catastrophe to the society and so on. what do you think is that 1 thing that has led Nigeria to this unpleasant state and is still driving it deeper?

i don't like it when people ask me personal questions or start conversions just to know whats going on in my life or what i do, its not that they care daga tambayar zaka san jin kwakwap ne kawai da gulma and before you know it zaka ji a bakin wani, ai wannan ya gaya min kaza kaza. why can't people mind their business and go on about their daily lives

many people take criticizing other people's religion a life time job, is that a good thing obviously no, what I believe is if u cant convince someone to ur religion then u dnt have to be criticizing other people's religion just peacefully practice ur religion and dont cause any fuse. well this is wat I believe, what abt u

One of my friends owes me money (100k) for over 6month yanzu which she promised to pay a month after,.she paid only half last week and now she is begging me that her mom is sick (which is true) and she needs 20k for hospital expenses should I borrow her or blacklist her forever in giving debt?

From the camp, I started wondering on some of the things I know about our Igbo brothers that is presuming they are superior when it comes to education and awareness. But a simple conversation in English the children can't reply. But the shocker came later on because I came to realize that more than 70% of the population in Umunna Bende camp are Igbos how this came to be I don't know but that's the fact. So when we were filling out our forms which is a part of the registration for the camp which as at then was done manually, I realized most of our Igbo graduate cannot even fill basic information form so an NYSC official have to be explaining to them in their local dialect so that they don't spoil the forms. According to the officials, many forms were wrongly filled and that led to the explanations. (Shocker) To be contd Mr. Mallam

My name was Corper Ikemefula when I was serving in Abia state but that was not my real name. I am a Hausa Fulani from the north posted to Abia state to serve my fatherland or should I say my motherland. It was my first time to be in the southeast region entirely but I have heard stories. It was 2009 February and am batch A corp member. I arrived Umunna bende orientation camp on the third day of camp after traveling for more than 24hours. I always thought the Igbos are educated, civilized and modern but to my greatest surprise that is not what is obtainable there. I realise they have many out of school children within the Bende community where the permanent orientation camp is located. Most of the children walk around the camp looking for manial jobs like washing of plates or clothes for a small amount of money or some scaps or crumbs of food. This is my personal experience and is not just a story...... To be continued. Mr. Mallam

We are A lost generation without any regard for our culture, tradition or religion. How can we prefer other people's practices and abandon ours? We the Hausa Fulanis have a rich culture, sound religious and moral orientation but all these are nowhere tobe found in this contemporary generation where the practice of other people's religion, culture and doctrine is the order of the day. Example, our marriages today are just a copy of other people's culture starting from the pre-wedding picture down to the marriage itself where you see the bride in a wedding gown which of borrowed culture or tradition or should I say religion? Even engagements are now between the guy and the lady leaving their parent out of it entirely. At last, we need to come back to our senses because this is all that is wrong with us and let's hold our cultural values and traditions that are not in conflict with our religious belief with high value and promoting our own way of life is more important than helping others promote theirs. To be educated and enlightened doesn't mean to practice other people's tradition and culture. A word they say is enough for the wise.

Kk I hav dis frnd of mine dat a gidansu sai ana saura wata daya koh Sati uku bikinsu Suke fara shiga kitchen koyan girki, amma magana ta domin Allah cikin wata daya har ki iya kimanta abunda zaki zuba a cikin abinci?? Wallahi it's hardly possible, ko kaje gida ka tarar uwa na bakin murhu ya na kishingide a daki uwar tayi mata girki toh wallahi dis is not gata , kokuwa a cika gida da yan aiki wata har ta zama budurwa zatace miki wallahi I have never been to d kitchen to cook? hmm, ko kije tana Mama deluwa yar aikin mu ba batamin rai kaji iyayen na zagi ubanta wallahi ba gata bane, ko yaro yana nikam banjin zuwa islamiyah koh boko yau for no jst reason sai kaji uwar na kwanta kayi barcinka da mama??, gaskia all dis are so wrong sai yaro ya tashi ya zama wayward azo ana Dana sanin. Allah ya shirye mu baki daya ya bamu zuria nagari.

So dis is my experience in jamia Wani mutum ne wai shi Musa he shld be in his 40s lokaci ina final yr Dina yazo masters program in my uni, was coming bck frm evening lectures muka hadu ya nuna yana sona mukayi exchanging contact, nikam ma I forgot his name so I dnt save his numb. First zuwanshi hira na fita a gaban hostel dinmu muka gaisa a motar sa kawai naga he wants to touch mi na bata rai na fita bamu sake haduwa bah kawai mezai faru wasu yanmata biyu sukasameni a hostel wai wani Musa Dan masters yace am his galfrnd ba abunda baiyi dani bah I got so hurt dis is some1 dat tun ranar I never picked his call, kawai ai sai na kirashi nace don Allah let's meet mana bayan magrib b4 insha he got excited ya rinka murna nd I begged d gals to be their leta bayan magrib na hada yan matan hostel dinmu mace su Boye let mi reach 1st to cut d story short yasha duka ranar a hannun mu kuma nakai case din security affairs din skool namu. Pls not duka yan matan da sukayi jamia ne yan iska bah.

As we all known that fasting during the holy month of RAMADHAN is one of the five pillars of Islam, which also include prayer and charity. What is your plan to help the peoples with less privileged, don't mind about the little of the charity it will makes someone day.

Wai meh yasa Idan aka ga mace na zuwa jamia sai ah dauka yar iska ce Ko kuma waye wanta yayi yawa.for instance ace ta hadu da wani sunyi exchanging number he called her and did all de blablabla finally he will start requesting I think we should go on a date after all Ke da aka turo ki mkrnt and they did be like ina ya Kamata Muje kaman ke daman kin saba zuwa wai Kawai dan ya gwada ki ???Maza dis days are disgusting wlhy. Pls Kuji tsoron Allah kudai na kula yarinya if you know you ain't going to marry her Saboda duk abunda Kama yar wani sai an mah taka times 2.Allah yasa mu dace