last week i went to a prostitute for the first time to have sex, i didn't have a condom so we did everything but i did not penetrate her. amma tun the next day da safe nake ji kamar banda lafiya on and off haka, jiya da yamma ma bacci nayi cus i felt so tired kuma ban saba jin haka ba wata sa'i kuma in ji ciwon kai da kasala. ina so in je asibiti for test amma i am scared. i thought you can only contact disease if you have intercourse. please is it possible that i contacted a disease? i am so worried.

My problem started at my early age of puberty growing up in a male dominated family i noticed a problem in d grot of my P*nis tunda muna da B.Q ah gida inda we can move freely in our boxers, i noticed mine is below the normal growth rate at my age compare to that of my junior's,so sai nafara neman some of this male enhancement drugs da kuma maganin gargajiya lokacin i was 19yrs of age. Som of this medicine u need to be married before u take it to knw it effectiveness or otherwise toh nikuma bani da aure...@ dat tym i don't knw of anything masturbation sai da wani frnd dina yana min hirra dat this is wat he used to do duk lokacin da sha'awa ya dameshi so sai nima na fara...farawanda nayi kuma yasa na kara discovering wani bigger problem basan koh it wil be a permanent one koh zai canza ba...*the prob is dat i am A ONE MINUTES MAN*(HAVING PREMATURE EJACUALATION)* which means i can only w*nk myself OR HAVE S*X for a minutes or two since kuma i never had sex with a girl...wich is another big problem for me.. Toh yanzu babar damuwana shine i am now 25 five kuma all these problems haryanzu ina corping dasu, Kuma AURE NA SA' AH GABA ANY MOMENT FROM NOW TAMBAYA NA SHINNE 1-SHOULD I TELL MY PARTNER TO BE THE PROBLEM AM HAVING,IF YES HOW DO I TELL HER IF ""NO'" INAGA KAMAN NACI AMANA'NTA TUNDA NASAN DA WANAN DAMUWAN BANFADA MATA BA. KUMA NI WALHI KULUM ina GANIN MATA SUNA COMPLAIN CEWA MAZANSU BASA SATISFYING NASU SEXUALLY TO I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS TO SOMEONE DAUGHTER I DON'T WANT TO STARVE HER OF SEX...WHAT DO I DO PLEASE THANKS FOR UR TYM PLS UR ADVICE WILL GREATLY HELP ND IF ANY ONE NO HOW TO REMEDY OR CURE THOSE PROBLEMS SHOULD PLS HOOK ME TO THEM thnk u (Pls share this on N.B instapage too thnk)

Good morning brothers and sisters up North, my question is, HOW DO WE IMPROVE THE EDUCATIONAL STANDARD OF OUR PRIMARY AND SECONDARY SCHOOLS IN AREWA? I have observed that most primary school pupils and secondary school students in arewa can't compare with their counterparts down south not because they are not intelligent but what could be the reason making them lag behind? Later on, most of us find it hard to cope in tertiary institutions because of our poor educational background, you will a very intelligent person who knows a lot regarding a course but he won't make a good grade because he rarely understands English and at the end it affects our overall result. How do we tackle this issue? What are you suggestions? How do we improve the situation my fellow yan Arewa?

just kafin ramadan i met this girl that recently moved into my area. ranar da muka fara haduwa a shop zan yi siyayya she wanted to buy something and asked me which 1 will be better, i told her my opinion and left a lokacin banyi tunani wani abu ba kuma i had a belief that mata basu neman maza. From that day we use to meet time to time mu gaisa har na amshi number dinta muka fara chatting. we became friends. On Sallah day ta ce in bata goron sallah (jokingly nace ta zo ta karba ina gida) se tace tana Gida in kawo mata, she invited me. ashe parents dinta and all her siblings have gone out. as i arrived she invited inside i was like isn't there people in your house? she said no. i felt something wrong in my mind. At last she tried to seduce me i refused at first then she threatened me that if i don't do it she will shout that i came in to rape her. i never thought girls can behave in this way, haka tazo muka gama shafe shafe and i commited zina with her on sallah day. i feel very bad about it and i hate her. i have cut all communications with her now she later apologized to me but still i will never forgive her. Wallahi mata yan iska ne kuma wasu basu da Imani. i am worried about myself and the sin i have committed, i have been depressed since that day. please how can i overcome this issue ya tsaya min a rai sosai.

Life is a test,an exam. When you make a test in school, you always have a question which are easy but there are always a few which are too difficult. These questions are so difficult that they can help you fail your tests. That's where you have to open your eyes. Life is like that. Allah tests us continue, he gives us pain to ask him for help. He gives us happiness because we deserve it and be thankful for him. Each test in life has its price. The most important thing is to never turn your back to Allah. If you remember him, he will remember you. But if you turn back to him, he will do to you and you will only get hurt. Trust him and always put him in your mind, soul, and body.. He is always there to support you. Be patience! Patience is the weapon

I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago and since then I have been feeling empty inside me like there’s a part of me that’s missing I feel I need someone to be close to me to be able to share my life issues and problem with someone that will always be there for me I feel I just need someone to be with badly but I cannot go back to my ex girlfriend because of the complexity in the breakup and I these few months about a year have been so much difficult for me Finding another girlfriend is like an uphill impossible task finding someone I truly love I tell my friends finding a girlfriend is not easy they laugh and are like you are the one that doesn’t know what to do it’s all just soo depressing they are like no girl can reject you but I don’t even know how to explain it please what can I do

Malama ina cikin wata matsala gf dita tana boarding gashi ta dade ni kuma gaskiya na gaji zan iya yin wata gf din kafin ta dawo? Please help me out

Miji na yayi aure tun April this year since then he doesn't even touch me sexually idan ma ya zo gida na kwana se dai kawai muyi bacci mu tashi kuma on the same bed ni kuma abin ya ishe ni because i have my desires i once tried to start the act but he pushed me away wai ya gaji. it really hurt me and i felt unwanted. yanzu ban san me zanyi ba i started watching porn and masturbation to satisfy myself but i stopped after realizing its haram and i have a husband. i told my close friend about this, i can't discuss it with anyone in my family i feel very shy. so she advice me to drug my husband in a drink at night and i can get on him and do what i want, she even said she can help me get a powerful drug for that so yanzu i am confused, is this right? i don't have any choice and i don't wanna fall into sin tsakani da Allah. please i want to hear your suggestions/opinions.

How do we emancipate almajiris in arewa and give them a life they deserve, a better life. It pains me a lot seeing these children out of school, no proper care, no food, no good clothes etc. These children are been exploited and because they have no choice, they will do anything to survive. What's the solution, parents need to be enlightened, the present almajiri system is not like the one of those years past, the world has changed. What do we do about this issue? It's a time bomb, waiting to explode.

Malama I need your advice and yan aji abt our relationship with my cousin.. Muna soyayya dashi amma no any sign of care, affection or anything, in na mishi magana sai yace shi haka yake kuma b4 kafin mu fara soyayya mun fi shiri sosai amma yanzu I don't know why ya chanza yanzu abun ma ya zama worse cuz sometimes ma ce min yakeyi ya fasa daga bays kuma yazo yace wasa yake min but still babu any sign of care.. I'm confused Malama yana min wasa da hankali kuma abun yana damu na kuma ya fara affecting karatu na. Pls I need your advice and yan aji. Thank you

I was dating a guy ,irin lyk we met on Instagram, to be Frank he loves me and nima ina sonshiii buh we've never met and yanaso y aure niiii Kuma yanaso na hada shiii da parents Dina and idann nace yazo sae y banii uzuriii and gsky I really wants to see him in person sbd I'll take it more serious,is it okay mu cigaba da dating nd nabashiii no. Parents Dina ko kuma nayiii insisting yazo?pls help a sister and wat do u think any this?

i have this friend everything seems okay about him except he likse to be touching/holding my hand sometimes like when we will cross the streets and be putting his hands around my neck when we are sitting or walking. i really hate it i am even avoiding him now because what he is doing looks gay. he calls me sometimes to hang out or escort him somewhere even during Sallah amma se in bashi excuse kawai soboda abinda yake yi is irritating. is it normal that some guys are like this or am i taking it too far?

Few days back, while I was slaughtering some chickens at home, I felt remorseful full after the deed, watching those creatures grasping for oxygen, it was painful to the extent I couldn't continue, same thing happened when I saw some people slaughtering a ram, This is not my first time slaughtering animals but this time it felt different, Like I don't have power to give life but I was taking it from this creatures. It was a sad day for me.

I have porn addiction problem. Please I'm looking for someone who can help me out.

Assuming your Father say stand up and your Husband say sit down... As a wife who will you obey please be sincere??

my boyfriend that has promised to marry me asked me for nude pictures yesterday I don't feel comfortable to send but I don't want to offend him please what do you guys think? should I send or not? Thanks

Pls i need your advice I has girl friend i love her so much i even want to marry her kuma itama tana sona na amma problem din shine batason yin magana ko irin firar masoya dinnan bamuyi ko a waya inna kirata sedai mu gaisa tai shiru bata magana ko kuma innaje wajen sedai naita magana ni kadai batason magana pls i need your advice me ya kamata nayi ta dinga magana da kalaman soyyaya haka

Assalamu Alaikum Malama Ya ibada an sha ruwa Lafiya, Dan Allah ayi hiding identity dina ina GF munyi mugun shakkuwa da ita jiya sai muka samu da sabani , har yau. Tayi blocking dina a WhatsApp, yanzu menene mafita kuma tana sona ina sonta kaman me, munyi alkawari da ita zamuyi aure insha'Allah, kuma tun da Rana nake kiranta bata dagawa wallahi Yanzu kuma na shiga damuwa ko Abincin shan ruwa ban iya naci ba fah???????

Please where can someone test for HIV and what are the cost... ina shirin aureh ina so nasan status dina

Na kaii 19-20yrs amma ban taba mafarkin mace bah abun yana damuna sosaii shine nake son nasani hakan yana iyah faruwa koh kuma ina da wani matsala neh daban neh? Nagode