My girlfriend got married recently, we had a misunderstanding while we were dating so she gave another person a chance and they are now married. But even before the marriage she never stopped loving me because she realized she over reacted and she regrets it. Now she’s calling me and constantly chatting me up that she misses me and she can’t even go a day without crying over me. It has gotten to a point where her husband complained that she was with him physically but her mind wasn’t. She still gets jealous over me, dramatic as if we’re dating. She told me she can’t even enjoy making love to her husband unless she thinks of me. Please how do i make her concentrate on her husband because I don’t want her to do anything she’ll regret. I can’t marry her now because she obviously didn’t think i was worth it the first time.

yanda mutane suka dauki aure especially a Arewa is too much, ni gaskiya be dame ni ba ko da na mutu banyi i would not care.

Problem with handing out judgemental views about peoples lives is that you might actually feel that you are right. You are married, nothing wrong with people that are single by choice or circumstance, even if they die single, marriage is not a measure of a life well lived. You are slim, none of the overweight people owe you a reason or time line as to when will they lose their weight, they have never asked you to carry their weight for them. You are well off financially, the poor people out there are not lazy. They didn't get all the chances you got with the talent you were born with. Affording yourself and wants is not a measure of happiness or fulfillment. You have a tertiary school qualification, this does not mean you are smart or understand any better than a person whom doesn't. People whom have not gone through this education system form 74% of the Worlds Billionaires. So it's safe to say they are doing "something" right. You own your own business, it does not mean everyone else who has a 9 to 5pm is an idiot. The risk appetite and stress of running your own business can never be for everyone. If you are born with this aptitude, you are part of a few. Let's learn to unlearn the nature of judging others according to what we do or find normal according to us ??.....our normal might be abnormal for many.

Hloe guys. What do you think about the issue of boarder closure in nigeria? Has it affect any one of you in any way?

I’m the type with particular taste when it comes to girls (mai tarbiya, fara, siririya, doguwa). Now that I’m looking for a serious relationship that’ll end up to marriage I’m finding it difficult meeting up with my taste. There’s this girl in my area and of which her Mom (late) is a friend to mine that fits perfectly to my taste, but she used to call me “Yaya ******” , currently studying and she doesn’t have any suitor on ground; sourced from her sister. The thing is my parents just of recent, suggested her for me. Now I don’t know where to start or how to confront her (clueless ). I called her once letting her know that i have her as contact and she said it’s okay, no problem.

I just want to hear you guys opinion. do you think its okay for a girl to approach a guy? what do you think about it?

Ina da boyfriends biyu amma they don't know about each other duk muna soyayya sosai Ina so kila zuwa nan da 3 month se jnyi breaking up da daya and remain with the one I have chosen. sometimes I feel guilty, is this considered cheating?

wata ce tayi aure satin ta daya da mijinta tatafi kasuwa tana dawuwa sai tayi kachibwal da wata mota a kufar gd shiganta ke da wuya sai taga wata tana kwance a katifarta sai ta nufu kici tana zuwa kici sai taga mai gd ta yana fama girki sai tace mai waye a daki kuma rai yace yawuce kawata wacce muka gama "ABU" tare yauwa ga ki din mota tace nabaki idan kindawo ki wanke mata mota daganan zaki tare a falour har sai tawuce kafu kikuma dakinki idan kece yaxaki yi da ita

wai meyasa yan mata arewa son cika son kudine ko tayaya

Menene maza suke dubawa kafin su auri mace, i was just thinking of it and want to get a public opinion. pls drop your honest answers, just list 3.

please i only want honest opinions, zanyi aure next month amma mijin da zan aure yayi accident last week kuma ya samu serious damage on his leg, ance ze kai 2-3 kafin ya dawo dede amma babu tabbas. please should i proceed or call off the marriage gaskiya bana so in zauna da disabled person at all.

I need advice pls ,na kamu da son wanda bai damu da ni ba ,I never knew love can hurt this much I have tried all my best to get rid of him but my efforts don't seem to work wlh ko makiyi na bana fatan ya kamu da son wani , am in Soo much pains ???my heart hurts Soo much,am breaking down ,we're even about to write exams,I can't even concentrate on my studies,am emotionally sick,I hope someone will be able to understand what am going through The guy in question don't even care coux he knows how much I love him You should please advise me on how to get rid off him and be my self again????

Naga most girls of other ethnicity are more inclined towards career, education and other self priorities even at adult age amma matan Hausa suna kai wa 20 se su fara maganar aure, basu aje komai ba ko means of income wasu basu da shi se Aure Aure Aure kawai. kuma auren su yafi saurin mutuwa. shin meyasa suka damu da aure too much haka?

Ina da boyfriend we have been dating for 8month haka last month yace zuwa nan da wata 4 ze aure ni amma kuma se ya fara taba ni muna hug da kiss, idan na nuna bana so se yace ze aure ni it is normal. please Jama'a ku fada min ra'ayin ku shin idan idan kunyi alkawarin aure kuna iya taba juna?

Slm inada boyfriend we've been together for almost 3years now so abnda ke damuna komai fadamun ykeyi dan akwai time din da muka fita shine yke cemun wai baya son qamshin turaren dana saka warin arna ykeyi shine ya tsaya ya siya turaruka ya bni nikuma naga kamar cin mutunci ne wannan duk abnda ke ranshi fa saiya fadamun so pls am confused rainani ne yyi kome?

I'm in a relationship with a girl and in few weeks I'll be going to meet her parents daga Nan Kuma sai Shirin sure InshaAllah by January or February nake hoping. but the problem is that during my young age I had an accident da yasa aka yi min minor surgery around my private part for unknown reasons Ina feeling shaawa amma I have a weak erection. shine nake neman shawara can this be a problem to our marriage soboda muna son juna sosai. is sex a big deal for women? zata damu ? should I inform her?

Salaam. Plz help share wit d audience. Ina Neman shawara da kuma addu'a ku don Allah. Allah ya hadani da wata baiwar Allah Mai hankali da rabiyya Mai kyau. Munfi shakara da yanzu da haduwa, bamu taba samun marsala tsakanin mu ba. Muna masifar son junan mu. Amma masalar da make fiskanta yanzu shine Bani na gama karatu amma ba aikin yi ba sana'ar yi. Wallahi nayi iya kokari na innemi sana'ar da zanyi Amma Bani da jari kuma banma San wani irin sana'ar me ma zanyi ba. Kuma wallahi kwannan nan ina Shiga wani irin hali na urges feelings, yanzu har ya Fara fin karfi na. Kuma Bani da daman yin aure yanzu don banda ma yanda Zan Fara maganar auren. Har ya Kai ga ina tunani innemi drugs da zai cire min feelings din ma gabaki daya. Don Allah in akwai wani shawara da zaku iya bani ataimaka min da kuma addu'a. Wallahi jiya na kwana banyi bacci ba, na kwana kuka da hawaye kaman wani karamin yaro.????

Salam I had a good relationship with my boyfriend then suddenly he stopped talking to me for about 8 months recently I found out that a girl did black magic on him so my question to you guys is that should I put effort in breaking the black magic or leaving him alone with her ? If yes the how?

salam, for the past years i have been bothered about something very strange about me kawai hakanan bana san mata, i am 28 an fara min maganar aure a gida. i tried talking to someone about it ya fara ce min i am gay abun ya bani haushi shiyasa bana san yin maganar da mutane soboda they will start judging me. there is nothing gay about me infact i hate gay more than females. the last time i made a similar post negative replies na samu so please no bad comments this is something serious kuma ba wai ina yi bane da niyar zagin mata please i want answers from men idan wasu a cikin ku feel this way please comment lets discuss. idan normal ne in sani if not kuma in nemi solution. thanks.

Barka da yamma Dan Allah matan Aure masu dan Business ko kudi a Hannu ya ake da maza masu taurin Bashi? Narasa yanda zanyi da mijina dana dan tara yan kudina na Business zemun dadin baki ya rance kuma baya biya, last danace ya bani cewa yay duk hidimar da yake banda godiyar Allah bana gani se dan ya Ari kudina zan dameshi? (Nasan yana kokari )Inaji inagani na hakura, ya samu kudi yacigaba da sabgarsa, yanzu yasake shiga matsala tausayi da halin rayuwa nakuma ranta masa, ya sake samun kudi ko zancen baya yi. Abunda yaban haushi recently yace yanada kudi beson yakashe zeban in juya, tsautsayi yasa nace ya rage mun bashina shikenan yadena mun magana se masifa in zancen kudi ya taso, atlast babu jarin babu bashin, zancen da ake yanzu ya cinye mun guntun jarin, dan Allah ya zanyi dashi? Nagode