I have a problem with my wife, 6 month Marriage but the Food is bad and always late. ni kuma that is one of the things that move me, ina so inga na tashi da safe an gama breakfast, when i am back in the afternonn i want to see delicious meals but instead wata rana ma se da in sha cornflakes in fita. I have talked over and over again but babu chanji maybe 1 - 2 days and we are back to the past. This is someone i spent over 200k fees for her to learn dishes before our marriage expecting a Good cook but i am very disappointed. I am having second thoughts of marrying someone and because i cannot afford two wives, she may have to go b iut don't want to be in the huddles of marriage again. Her work and schedule is not too demanding for her not to be doing these things that really matter. Every month i giver her 100k for shopping and everything but still, infact last kazar da tayi was not even soft da mutum ze ji dadi. I am just not satisfied at all in this aspect ni mutum me san abinci gaksiya. maybe registering in this matchmaking platform and making my demands clear and strict may help me get someone to my taste. I will still welcome your opinions or a better solution

i know that a relationship is a regular job where you have to exert some effort and put in your best to stay in it. but what happens if there is no communication? even if u try ur best to communicate, ur partner doesn't do so and u started losing interest in d relationship. advice pls

… Sadly, anything that bruises a woman’s ego is insensitive to her, be it the truth or nay* *She never expected her sexual prowess to be downplayed by a man. She’s angry cos he’s not about her and she never listened to understand a single word from him, rather she only heard what she wanted to and gave an outburst* *In summary, He wants commitment, she wants intimacy. That’s two different thing entirely*

Our house help always greets me with a smile, haka idan na fita na dawo she always be like "sannu da zuwa" which i find it very strange, she offers to come and clean my room. irin dai behaviour din is very odd like i am sensing something. I don't know if its coincidence or my thoughts but like she likes to be showing me her body with style. Last da tazo gyara min daki her shirt was revealing but usually dama bata wani covering sosai. Anyway i don't know what it means dai just a bit confused bansan ko it can be normal ba ko kuma wani abu take nufi, what do you guys think? because i am thinking of something

I'm always having a failed relationship just after one month of the great relationship,the vibes and everything start dying.....and I noticed that ones I stop putting effort,it dies.....the most painful part now is that the ones I am meeting now always want to sleep with me....the ones I love sincerely will always leave me cos I have health issues. my 25th birthday was 3days ago and I don't even have a friend or any one in my life and I feel bad and lonely and I also feel no one likes me and i' m not worthy of love.

I don't know if this is a question or a rant but once you get into relationships, women get so emotional and start expecting somethings and i am not naturally like that. I started dating this girl 2 month back and i just could not cope. If i tell her i am travelling she will call me like 4 times at different internals asking me i have eaten ( i really don't want anyone to ask me if i have eaten ) really and some other too emotional and cringing questions. I don't really like it and also they expect you to call everyday, like why? I am not an emotional person and i don't just like these behavior of constantly talking or asking some emotional questions or telling someone "I love you" i really can't I am a type of person that like to discuss serious or intellectual things and if something is necessary i will do it, lastly i told her i can't cope with that. can't you have a relationship with someone where you just support each other genuinely without too much emotions beings exchanged.

so there's a guy I met recently on social media, we've been cordial for about 3 months as friends. and we met for the first time few days back at a park. he was very sweet, paid for the bills and even drove me back home. he calls almost everyday especially in the morning to hear my voice. he hasn't said anything romantic and I don't want to say anything first so as not to sound desperate but I like him. what do you suggest I do? do I just wait till he makes the first move?

assalamualaikum, I want to voice out something and this goes to the IG guys infact all social media guys, Men, boys, whatever 🙄lets use IG as an example. you chatted up a lady on IG you guys ar getting to know each other and you requested for her picture probly bcs she doesn't have a pic of her on her profile, and she sent it to you and u requested for another again and she sent maybe like 3/4 and you complimented her bla bla and next thing that comes out from your keyboard to my DM is "please send non filter" this word is really rude I don't know if that's how we all ladies see it. I mean why will I send you a picture and probly it's non filtered sef just natural picture with no heavy makeup or snap filter and u be like pls send a non filter is it every lady that uses Snapchat even if I use it ik I won't send a picture with a filter since ik how filter can change looks....I don't know if you guys get what am trying to say, so pls IG guys watch your words.

I want to just point out to some ladies out there that some of us intentionally have very simple and humble bios so as to attract the right partner . we prefer to get to know you first before we even tell you where we work and all that . I can only imagine how many girls have lost out on great guys because they weren't okay with their profile details .

After getting a request... Ideally who is suppose to say hi /hello/slm first? The person who requested or the one who accepted....

Excuse my language but in don't know where else to ask because i am shy and i seriously need advise. my husband of 4 years suddenly one night during our marital affairs said I have to suck his ****, I told him gaskiya i can't shikenan fa he became angry the next morning i asked him why is he still angry and tried to resolve it with him and he told me "idan bazakiyi akwai wadda zatayi min ai". yanzu hankali na a tashe yake because idan ya fita i am getting serious anxiety on what he may be doing outside and he has been unfriendly since then. this happened 4 days ago. it is affecting my mental health please i need advice,

wai please how do people get to have so much friends abin na bani mamaki I literally don't have any friend to call mine and I promise u I am not a bad person Amma inayin kawa yau toh bamu a month plus shiknn se kuma muzama status viewers din juna abun yana ci min tuwo a kwarya wlh I really want to have friends 😢

I grew up in a loving environment.my parent were the happiest couple you could ever ask for, dou they had their ups and downs but we never saw that. They could talk for hours in suka fara dariya hmm. Naturally I couldn't wait to grow up and find my jaan na sha duka sosai sabida magana na baya wuce in nayi aure, in nayi aure... I was so in love with love ga karatun story books so I really believed in fairly tales.but life happened, kowa da test dinta. I could remember when I was in level 2,i was crying on my bed when my mum came in. Tana tambaya why was I crying... Nace ina level 2 amma ba wanda ya taba cewa yana sona. I could see the pain in her eyes but she hides it and said mu ta addu'a InshaAllah Allah zai kawo miki miji nagari. Har Naji kunya... Miji did not come oo...then I began doubting myself. My self esteem was at the lowest low. Maybe am not good enough i often say. Along the line I had my first bf. It didn't work out because I had high expectations from a relationship.I know how a guy should truly love his lady. Then came rooniey, my prince charming, he was so straight forward, he communicates well, he made me feel so loved I was like finally I have found my prince charming... A month to our wedding we discovered we were both AS.... I was heartbroken wallah I cried for a whole month. Alhamdulillah I have my business it kept me going.... Sometimes I wonder if I will find my true love... Or I will just settle with Mr available. Who wants to build a happy and loving home.. But due to my life experiences you have to be patient with me, be able to strike a conversation...life has made me so quiet... I need that reassurance And yes you should be tall because am a shorty....😉

Me yasa maza basu son auren sicklers?

can I phone will break relationship in a time where nor the parents and the saurayi bought for her and she didn't get it by herself she said some one dash for her

men don scarce serious, kana son kayi aure Amma Babu nagari all they want is just to use you.....must we allow our body to be used before we get a man to marry? all the suitors I have just want to date for fun and claim they want to marry you but they will say you are all acting up innocent and they know u are not clean so why dont u come together and have fun then sai a rufa wa juna asiri ayi aure daga baya.....wai dole sai anyi iskanchi kafun ayi aure ne ni Kam na gaji wlhi all serious men are taken gaba daya wlhi ni ko Mai aure ne yazo inde da gaske yake wlhi I'll marry him.

i'll chop this guy money, i'll chop this guy money abii😪 Kina tunanin they won't fine ways da zasu fanshe kudin su right,or maybe karma doesn't have an eye. Ba Kowane Namiji bane will allow you to eat his money for free, Ladies should know this ,if u eat mr A's money and run, Mr B might not be as humble as Mr A....😂 sau tari zakaji wasu yanmata na fadi wane ba'a cin Abin hannun sa haba sister,saboda haka ki kama girmanki da karkibari san Abin duniya yasa ki ringa rokon saurayi saboda gaskiya zubar da class😒 While kece samari zasu na takaran Throwing Ma birthday parties here and there Saboda Rashin sanin darajan kai Da kwadayi, idan an hango ki a fasa ihu ana fada miki "pepper them'kina jin kanki on top of the world with your nose in the air😏,kina kallo haka maza na gari zasu dinga zuwa suna tafiyar su Saboda Tsaban Kwadayi Da Son Abun Duniya Kin Kasa ma Kanki fada😢 Y'all ya kamata mu gane cewa shifa roko bashi da Amfani Most of our ladies Kwadayi ne yake kai su yake Barowa,saboda tsabar Kwadayu da San Abun duniya Sai aje a fada wata hanya ta daban wadda za azo ana da nasani ....... Do you know when sense will start hitting you, When your friends and younger siblings started to settle down 😹

I want a a full house wife that will cook, clean and take care of me as a routine while i go about my work/business. she must not attain a high educational level, i would not want someone with a masters or PhD as they can be a bit hard to control. I want my wife to be submissive and serve me like a king. Do what i say willingly while i will also play my own part to make sure i am good to her. I want to know if ladies find my expectations attractive or just say your opinions, i just need some validation please before i start scouting.

Ganin lefe is a culture that should be abolished! All it breeds is jealousy and lack of contentment. Ban yarda da wannan Al'adan ganin lefe ba da yawa gulma ne kawai yake Kawo Su .Some pple don't even like u amma za suce munzo ganin lefe , and bcos of this ganin lefe many parents will be putting high hopes for lefe so that pple won't complain and all that😢 “An kawo lefen wanche” Barakallah Allah ya sa albarka. Allah ya basu zaman lafiya” Why do they have to check how many boxes and what’s inside to put “Albarka”? Atampa nawa ne. Wani irin body cream ne aciki. Etc Just to know whether you are responsible enough to take care of her or not because that's the starting point for people to start judging you and her future😏💔 Kwata Kwata banason Wanna Idea na ganin Lefe some see it as an achievement A zo a ga kayan da mijinta yakawo That thing is just rubbish,Su kuma kawayen amarya gulma Sai ayi video a na ta posting a social media Kowa sai ya ga me mijin ki ya saka a lefen ki 😏 That's where all the gulma starts Ai mijin ta atampa 10 kawai ya saya mata (Ashe bai da karfi) It's absolutely for munafurci wallahi . You can Saka albarka wherever you might be🙂 No body Will try that nonsense with we

Wani Lokaci Idan ka Hadu Da Wani sai kawai kaji Ya darsu Aranka 🥰 irin Mutanen Da Kake Bukata Arayuwar ka Kenan Saboda Suna da Wata baiwa Ta Musamman da zasu Canza Yanayin ka Da Zarar ka Kallesu Su Saka Dariya 🤓 Su Saka jin nishadi🤩 Sannan Suyi Mu'amala dakai ta Mutuntawa😚 Komai sukayi Sai ya burgeka saboda yayi dai-dai Da Ra'ayinka Wani bacin rai,Tsoro,Duk Sai Su kau🤗 idan har kayi dacen mallakar daya daga cikin irin wannan mutanen arayuwarka To karka sake Karabu Dasu🥺🥰