Salam, my observation is that most of the male profile has not uploaded any picture and why is that? We need to see who we are requesting for and accepting please.. admin please if there is anything u can do to make it compulsory. Please go ahead (bismillah) from my own opinion.. thank you eid Mubarak to everyone on these platform

DEAR SINGLE SISTER WHO'S PRAYING FOR MIJI NA GARI... By Admin, Chamber Of Secrets Kina addu'ar miji na gari while your half naked pictures are there flaunting on social media, ba kya tunanin wasu sha'awa zata kawo su gareki ba aure ba? Kina addu'ar miji na gari while you're busy snapping nudes of yourself kina tura ma social media boyfriends, ba kya tunanin a wani lokaci na gaba za'a iya amfani da wannan hotunan aci mutuncin ki, 'ya 'yan ki, jikokin ki, mijin ki da dangin ku baki daya? A wani lokaci da kin manta ma kinyi? A wani lokaci da kin tuba kinyi nadama? What's wrong with covering your body and staying lowkey now? If anyone ever falls in love with you, you'd know it's for your character and personality. Those ladies you're seeing da suke kokarin suturta kansu and you're looking down on them they're human beings too. They have feelings too. They wished to be called beautiful and all sort of sweet names too. They wish to wear attractive dress and beautify themselves too. But they know exactly that this dunya is too cheap and jannah is too precious to be sold for some stupid likes and comments. Na taba ganin write-up na wani guy. The guy was saying it's up to a girl to dress decently and cover her body, all they can give you is likes and comments but not marriage. Why won't that sink in in your head? Kina addu'ar miji na gari while you're not building yourself to be mata ta gari. Karma is a very real phenomena my dear. What you give is truly what you'll get back in return. Kina addu'ar miji na gari while kece samari zasu na takaran throwing ma birthday parties here and there and at the end of the day kin gama sheke ayar ki kiyi fatar ki samu miji na gari. My dear miji na gari fa isn't something da zaki je ki saya a kasuwa. Kina addu'ar miji na gari while you're dating 10 other men, ke me wayo ko? "I'll chop this guy money, I'll chop this guy money" abi? Kina tunanin su kuma basu da wayo ko? Kina tunanin they won't find ways da zasu fanshe kudin su right? Or maybe karma doesn't have an eye. Issorait. Ana cikin haka if you're lucky enough haka miji na gari zai zo. Zai zo with pure intention na auren ki and there you'll start bringing up silly excuses. Maybe kice he's too cheap for you, bakauye ne, you're way out of his league, bla bla bla. Ko kuma kiga ke fa aure ba yanzu ba coz kina tsakiya da cin ganiyar lokacin ki so you can't let go of the party girl lifestyle da wuri haka. Kece wannan zai ma reservation wannan hotel wanchan ma haka. Kune baku wannan joint baku wanchan, da an hango ki a fasa ihu ana fadar miki "pepper them" kina jin kanki on top of the world with your nose in the air. Kina kallo haka maza na gari zasu dinga zuwa suna tafiyar su saboda kin kasa ma kanki fada and the world will continue its course with you. Do you know the most beautiful thing about this world? It will continue its course with you, without a pity or shedding a tear for you. Duk abunda ka yar anan da yardar Allah shi zaka tsinta a gaba. Do you know when sense will start hitting you? When your friends and your younger siblings started to settle down. There zaki ga gidan ku ma an fara damun ki da ki fiddo miji. There you'll start seeing wedding notifications na stupid boyfriends dinnan naki yana flashing akan screen dinki. Wadannan stupid boyfriends din dai da kika gama watsewa tare dasu. There duk wanda zaki nemo daga cikin su zai subule. There's a sister who slide in my dm tana kuka take bani labari she dated a guy for three good years ba abunda basa yi na haramci da tazo ta masa maganar aure yace sam bai san da wannan zance ba. She started yelling at him tana fadar ya cuce ta do you know what his reply was? He said she should worship the ground he walk on for what he has done for her. Ya showering nata da gifts, ya bata kudi, ya saya mata latest phones, he took her places, is that not enough da sai tayi seeking aure kuma? An gaya mata idan yana neman aure zai zo wurin ta ne? You see? There you'll know you've made the worst mistake of your life. Sai kuma me? Sai regrets. You'll regret every bit of what you've done. Sai dai me? It's not too late my dear. Sometimes the love of your life comes after the mistake of your life. After all this wani kuma zai zo yaso ki ya kuma overlooking duk wani flaws naki. Shiyasa a koda yaushe muke fatar Allah Ya hada mu da masu son mu na gaskiya. Coz masoyin ka na gaskiya ba ruwan sa da duk wani flaws naka, kai din yake so. Allah Kasa mufi karfin zukatan mu. Allah Ka hane mu da aikata ba daidai ba. Allah Ka tsare mu da rudin wannan rikitaccen zamanin, ameen. Admin, COS #copied

I am a victim of an unfortunate marriage, I have been good to him and his family Alhamdulillah and i know Allah swt wil surely reward me for that. Kuma Allah zai saka min In Sha Allah. For the sake of Allah, who ever comes across this should say a prayer for me and my little daughter, its the last ten days of the Holy Ramadan, Someone’s sincere dua can be the beginning of something amazing for me, In Shaa Allah. Allah Ya tsare mu cikin tsarewarSa. Jarabawa/Kaddara ta Allah Ya bani ikon ci amin. Jazakumullahu khairan

Actually i dont know where to start, but i need to give an insight, am a kind of lady who dont fall in love easily and actually dont believe in social media relationship. Their is this guy that i met on one of d sm/platform, we met at that time he was about to wed, he told me abt d marriage and i congratulate him sincerely, so after d wedding we were not in touch, actually i forgot abt him, a year later i got his message, kin manta ni so, so and so, and i said kayi hakuri, kai da ango ne, u dont need to borther about us, yace nooo am his dear frend, unfortunately d marriage did not work out, he gist me about what happened nace Allah kyauta, allah sa ba kaine da laifi ba, bcoz u men will creat problem sai ku dora ma mata, yace ba haka bane, i wont understand. Fast forward d relationship now about 4yrs kenan, we became close , chat, calls, video calls, we advice each other, in good and bad moment, but we have never met physically all this while. Just of recent d closeness was much and i realized am developing feelings for him, and i dont know to go about it and since we were free with each other i told him about my feelings!... The problem here is that after saying it he began to withdraw, less of chat and calls, and when i tried knowing our stand, bcoz i demanded to move d relationship further, but for long i know he kept saying shi yana tsoron halin mata saboda what he went through in his first marriage, i tried to encourage him... But yanzu house i dont know what to do, bcoz in his words.... He said ki bari bayan azumi sai mu san yanda zamuyi, without him clearifying anything to me whats his own feelings. Shine nake son house to help me see, shld i withdraw form this uncertainty or keep faith may b it will work out, pls help a sister

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters in this forum. Many ladies out their are fighting depression and some kind of addiction bcs of u. Am a chubby sister of 22yrs,I HV never been in a relationship lyk what is really called a relationship,the few men I HV met only want to HV Haram relationship (subhanallah).Uptil today I DNT knw what luv is(d relationship btw a opposite gender) bcs I HV never experienced it.That was d reason I joined d platform bt to me most of d men I met where not helping.And to me I think d main problem is my body size bcs even outside so many pple body shamed me.Even in d circle of my frnds they always bring d topic that am fat or sumtyn it's always bothers me very well.i HV tried so many sliming product always on diet bt am still d way I am.Even at home d same languages will b used.There was a tym I was dancing during my sister's wedding and on of my sister's was saying 'jiwan nan pattan' lyk it's rilly got to me bcs there pple around nd slowly I start slipping to depression.Bcs when ever a topic is been said or discuss abt body size only d slim ones get d credit lyk I didn't create myself but pple DNT c that if they c someone chubby they just concluded that u eat too much or something like that.my frnds think they r d most beautiful bcs they HV a moderate body size they are even d ones recommending sliming product for me.y I HV lost my self esteem.i DNT always feel comfortable around pple bcs I feel they will b looking at me or talking about me.There was a guy I once met nd he was lyk he lyks d body size d hips nd all bt I will have to do something abt my tummy that was d last day I chatted with him.And that got me thinking r they men that lyk chubby ladies??

With regards to profile page,, I think more things need to be incorporated to make it more complete. People hardly give out their basic description and don't upload their pictures either. So, I suggest you create more question columns like skin colour, height, body size, physical disability etc.. also I will advice you include a question column on are you willing to relocate cux some ladies will tell you that if you are to marry them, the must stay in a particular town .. Qualification is another important question, some may be looking for strictly degree holders while others may not have any interest.. I hope you will look into these. Thank you

Our parents/ the society should please stop pressurizing us muma bayinmu bane. We're in this century where ur friend is married nd the next thing is ke za'afara mah magana batun aure it's so frustrating wlh, dear parents it's not our wish muma, kudinga daga mana kafa Dan Allah, it always hurt us when they start their preaching like yanzu wacce tayi aure ke mekike jira nd so on. Hmm well Allah is the best of planners nd we believe nd hope in sha Allah he will see us through, pls to our dear parents in sha Allah we will one day nd to our dear society dason mune da munriga ya'yanku yi. Regarding wasu maza kuma hmm I don't want to say anything, Allahyasa mudace.

At the end of our lives, we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made or how many great things we have done. We will be judged by i was hungry and you gave me to eat. I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless and you took me in.

Please and please, if a person sends you a request be it make it female, if you check the person’s profile and you’re not interested do the person a favor and just decline it. Please I beg of you, I’m not even gonna stick to a particular gender. This goes to everyone, it’s simply not nice.

I think it is not right to display all pictures with filters or heavy makeup cuz u end up not displaying ur true self. A guy may become attracted to ur filtered or makeup version and when he sees the real u, he becomes discouraged. Some filters even turn a dark person fair. And some makeup cover up facial rashes or dark spots. Though few men also use pictures with filter but it's more common with ladies. I think it's better to display a picture that shows ur real self.. Light makeup is acceptable but heavy makeup that changes ur real appearance.. Kai

Well where do I start from, actually I don't know what to do! I am a chubby girl well let me say I look a bit older than my actual age. I had my first love at d age 17 and he broke my heart and married my friend, though that's not d part but what is disturbing me is that since then I don't have any other love again y? Because men say "INA musu qwarjini suna kunyata" and so no one is approaching me for love again. I don't know what to do its disturbing me, what do I do I need advice and prayers please.

Going through some of d profiles here. I figured out something, though it's bad to make ur choice but helping one another is one of d reason we are here. I have observed dat some among us are seeking for a partner with AA genotype while the seeking is AA too y not d opposite? If AAs are seeking 4 AAs what will d AS,AC,SS,&SCs do, at least we should try helping one another. The rest will feel discrimated we should trying breaking d chain of this genotype saga pls. Hide my ID

Please concerning the issue of request, I don't know but it's actually not good for one not to accept or decline your request but rather leave you on pending. Why would you not decline if the person sending the request doesn't meet your requirements or accept if he/she meets ur requirements but I c no reason why one will neither accept nor decline for weeks of sending request. But I don't know maybe d rest of u have an idea y.

This days Muslims have no shame at all, we all see how couples snapped pre wedding pics holding each other tightly with no shame, dancing together in public and this happened before the NIKAH take place they are not even ashamed of Allah, they are not even ashamed of the world, you are clearly commiting a sin in public, back then people hide their sin, but knw it turned to fashion, people would even look at them thinking that they're the most adorable couples ever, may Allah see us through I have never dreamed of doing such, I pray that who ever am going to meet with should have no interest in pre wedding pics and other events AMEEN.. What can you say about this issue..?

Salam, my story is short, i happen to be in my late twenties with no single boyfriend or suitor. My first real boyfriend was when i was 17, we dated for 4yrs and about to get engaged when i found out he had been hiding a very bad habit from me that was islamically not acceptable. Couldn't ignore the red flags 4 my future and that of my children, so I dis istikhara for a week and ended the relationship, that was the beginning of my lack of trust in men. This is 8yrs down the line and i still dnt trust anyone who approaches me, i c every man that approaches me as someone that wud waste my tym and cheat me in the end. Please need ur advise on how to overcome this and ur prayers. Jazakallahu khair

Assalam. I've been thinking really too much these days, raised by a single parent (God bless our mother's), I have bachelor's degree and I'm also islamically oriented, I have a good business of my own which I support the family with, I believe that I'm disciplined in character and all rounds...well mannered, and I can also say I'm beautiful, you will never be bored around me I'm social too to some extent I'm sure of that, I'm someone neat and also gentle, im someone that i think should easily attract any man but I'm experiencing the opposite it's like I'm almost invisible to men or like I have a negative energy around I'm not noticed easily and the few times I mustered up courage to initiate a connection with anyone I got turned down. I'm not talking of a connection here online but even in my physical environment. I sent out couple of requests too on the site all negative and I haven't gotten any requests since the time I registered on the site I don't know how I'm supposed to feel about it. I'm tempted to even delete my account right now I'm losing hope for love in this world but God knows all. Alhamdulillah! Pls pray for me brothers and sisters. Thank you.

If men are busy selecting languages and appearance of ladies what would happen to other ladies that are not what u selected they all lose hope because they feel they are not selected and wanted please let's think about all this I don't feel happy I know with what I said now I spoke out for lots of ladies who are dying with this in them Thank u

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I am not posting this for laughs. This is real, this is genuinely how I feel. So, all the men that approach me are not rich or even moderately financially stable. It is embarrassing that I only get attention from the likes of tailors, drivers, shop keepers and jobless men. This is not a good sign. By all indications, I might marry a poor man. God knows I dream of marrying a rich man who will spoil me and let me live life lavishly like a queen. I want to travel the world and drive expensive cars, eat what I want, spend how I want and be free of all worries. The thought of not living this kind of life makes me cry myself to sleep. Can't a girls wishes come true? I am slowly falling into depression. Please pray for me.

Please why do people send match requests without reading the potential match's profile. You'll see a person with opposite specification sending match requests. Example someone short or chubby sending request to a person whose profile description reads searching for slim lady or tall lady. Or a lady whose profile reads she's searching for man not more than 35 years sending match request to someone above 35. I don't just get it