Menene maza suke dubawa kafin su auri mace, i was just thinking of it and want to get a public opinion. pls drop your honest answers, just list 3.

please i only want honest opinions, zanyi aure next month amma mijin da zan aure yayi accident last week kuma ya samu serious damage on his leg, ance ze kai 2-3 kafin ya dawo dede amma babu tabbas. please should i proceed or call off the marriage gaskiya bana so in zauna da disabled person at all.

I need advice pls ,na kamu da son wanda bai damu da ni ba ,I never knew love can hurt this much I have tried all my best to get rid of him but my efforts don't seem to work wlh ko makiyi na bana fatan ya kamu da son wani , am in Soo much pains ???my heart hurts Soo much,am breaking down ,we're even about to write exams,I can't even concentrate on my studies,am emotionally sick,I hope someone will be able to understand what am going through The guy in question don't even care coux he knows how much I love him You should please advise me on how to get rid off him and be my self again????

Naga most girls of other ethnicity are more inclined towards career, education and other self priorities even at adult age amma matan Hausa suna kai wa 20 se su fara maganar aure, basu aje komai ba ko means of income wasu basu da shi se Aure Aure Aure kawai. kuma auren su yafi saurin mutuwa. shin meyasa suka damu da aure too much haka?

Ina da boyfriend we have been dating for 8month haka last month yace zuwa nan da wata 4 ze aure ni amma kuma se ya fara taba ni muna hug da kiss, idan na nuna bana so se yace ze aure ni it is normal. please Jama'a ku fada min ra'ayin ku shin idan idan kunyi alkawarin aure kuna iya taba juna?

Slm inada boyfriend we've been together for almost 3years now so abnda ke damuna komai fadamun ykeyi dan akwai time din da muka fita shine yke cemun wai baya son qamshin turaren dana saka warin arna ykeyi shine ya tsaya ya siya turaruka ya bni nikuma naga kamar cin mutunci ne wannan duk abnda ke ranshi fa saiya fadamun so pls am confused rainani ne yyi kome?

I'm in a relationship with a girl and in few weeks I'll be going to meet her parents daga Nan Kuma sai Shirin sure InshaAllah by January or February nake hoping. but the problem is that during my young age I had an accident da yasa aka yi min minor surgery around my private part for unknown reasons Ina feeling shaawa amma I have a weak erection. shine nake neman shawara can this be a problem to our marriage soboda muna son juna sosai. is sex a big deal for women? zata damu ? should I inform her?

Salaam. Plz help share wit d audience. Ina Neman shawara da kuma addu'a ku don Allah. Allah ya hadani da wata baiwar Allah Mai hankali da rabiyya Mai kyau. Munfi shakara da yanzu da haduwa, bamu taba samun marsala tsakanin mu ba. Muna masifar son junan mu. Amma masalar da make fiskanta yanzu shine Bani na gama karatu amma ba aikin yi ba sana'ar yi. Wallahi nayi iya kokari na innemi sana'ar da zanyi Amma Bani da jari kuma banma San wani irin sana'ar me ma zanyi ba. Kuma wallahi kwannan nan ina Shiga wani irin hali na urges feelings, yanzu har ya Fara fin karfi na. Kuma Bani da daman yin aure yanzu don banda ma yanda Zan Fara maganar auren. Har ya Kai ga ina tunani innemi drugs da zai cire min feelings din ma gabaki daya. Don Allah in akwai wani shawara da zaku iya bani ataimaka min da kuma addu'a. Wallahi jiya na kwana banyi bacci ba, na kwana kuka da hawaye kaman wani karamin yaro.????

Salam I had a good relationship with my boyfriend then suddenly he stopped talking to me for about 8 months recently I found out that a girl did black magic on him so my question to you guys is that should I put effort in breaking the black magic or leaving him alone with her ? If yes the how?

salam, for the past years i have been bothered about something very strange about me kawai hakanan bana san mata, i am 28 an fara min maganar aure a gida. i tried talking to someone about it ya fara ce min i am gay abun ya bani haushi shiyasa bana san yin maganar da mutane soboda they will start judging me. there is nothing gay about me infact i hate gay more than females. the last time i made a similar post negative replies na samu so please no bad comments this is something serious kuma ba wai ina yi bane da niyar zagin mata please i want answers from men idan wasu a cikin ku feel this way please comment lets discuss. idan normal ne in sani if not kuma in nemi solution. thanks.

Barka da yamma Dan Allah matan Aure masu dan Business ko kudi a Hannu ya ake da maza masu taurin Bashi? Narasa yanda zanyi da mijina dana dan tara yan kudina na Business zemun dadin baki ya rance kuma baya biya, last danace ya bani cewa yay duk hidimar da yake banda godiyar Allah bana gani se dan ya Ari kudina zan dameshi? (Nasan yana kokari )Inaji inagani na hakura, ya samu kudi yacigaba da sabgarsa, yanzu yasake shiga matsala tausayi da halin rayuwa nakuma ranta masa, ya sake samun kudi ko zancen baya yi. Abunda yaban haushi recently yace yanada kudi beson yakashe zeban in juya, tsautsayi yasa nace ya rage mun bashina shikenan yadena mun magana se masifa in zancen kudi ya taso, atlast babu jarin babu bashin, zancen da ake yanzu ya cinye mun guntun jarin, dan Allah ya zanyi dashi? Nagode

I have a christian class mate that shows interest in me for the past 7 month. she looks good and has a sexy body. we became normal friends until one day we talked about sex on chat and she said she wants do it and with me. i was surprised, she even sent me her nudes i masturbated that night and kept on thinking about her and sex always, if we meet in school she would be giving me hints and we touch each other. i just don't know what to do and i feel like i can't hold it wallahi if i'm with her har erection ina samu. should i do it please maybe Allah would forgive me later if i do tawbah? how bad is it to do Zina? because naji ance Allah yana yafe every sin banda shirk. i feel like i can't control the feeling anymore its affecting my studies please tell me your opinions thank you.

In relation to the last post on masturbation, i'll be stating some of it's effects on females too; it expands the genital area, causes infection and smelly lady parts, loss of pleasure in sex with spouses. It's really hard to stop but you just have to for your own good.

I came about this blog just yesterday and I saw posts on mastubation addiction. I want to warn our young men to stop it right now no matter the consequences. Anybody that is telling you to stop it gradually does know the damage this act can cause. I started mastubation when I was 15/16 years just when I started having wet dream. Then I didn't know it was wrong, our parents don't talk such issues with us,no internet then, that was 1997. Before I could know it was wrong 5 years have passed and I was fully addicted so I couldn't stop, doing between 3-8 times a day. In all I spent about 15years before I could manage to stop and the irreparable damage had already been done: extremely small penis (a finger size), premature ejaculation (30s), low sex drive (1 round and no feelings untill days), low self-esteem and depression. If not for the little faith I have and a supportive wife (who made it clear that she climax with foreplay, even though I will be doubting if she is saying the truth or having an affair outside), I would have contemplated suicide. So please and please if you are just starting stop and stop forthwith and note i have been to hospital and all the drugs they give you are temporary and they don't even take you serious they will be telling you you are ok.

Salam i need advice My boyfrnd ne muna soyyayah but baida time dina no calls nothing no text messages ban taba mass magana akan hakan ba amma yana bani hakuri yanayin aikinshi ne ga karatu saisa but i should help him yayi setting goal dinshi in life all will be normal

Inada saurayi, muna tare for almost 3yrs. Zamuyi aure muna son juna sosai. Yana so na kama ran shi, amma idan muka samu matsala sai ya fara mun ihu, sometimes har zagi na yake. Yace dani uwar me zanyi idan ya zageni Yayi kacha kacha dani, se ya zauna ya jira na dawo mishi idan kuma ban dawo se yace ashe dama ba son shi nake, duk son dake mun bana gani Malama na rasa yanda zanyi, bansan ko zan iya zama dashi har muyi aure. ku bani shawara Dan Allah

Assalam Alaikum i am getting married again in 6 months time, I need tips on how to deal to my jealous wife, yanda zan gaya mata cikin ruwan sanyi ta fahimci ni, cewa sunnah zan raya, She is a good woman i must say anma yanzu mata abun tsoro kar labarin ya juya aje a illata ni, although i trust her anma in tsoro( we've been married for 8 years now)Thank you.

Pls friend dina ce tana da boyfriend sunyi 2years suna dating kafin aka saka ranar aurensu so recently Idan suna waya yana fada mata cewa he can't wait for their daren farko kuma tunda suke tache ko hannunta bai taba riqewa ba dan akwai time din da xasuyi pictures akache yyi hugging dinta wlh sam yaqiyi wai Allah yana tsine auren da duk namiji ya taba matar kafin aure so shi bayaso a tsinewa aurensu so she's confused sbda mgnr da ykeyi mata constantly na daren farkon su sai tana ganin kamar sha'awarta kawai ykeyi.

Salam alaikum yan uwana maza da mata dake cikin wannan gida mai albarka dafatan kowa yana lafiya ? Allah yasa haka amin Banyi tunanin zansamu wannan damar dana samu wajan fadar darajar wannan masoyiyata tawa munkasance munasan junanmu mutuqa haratakai takawo munyi sabon da duk gaba dayanmu nida ita babu Wanda yataba yiwa masoyinsa nabaya irin wannan soayyar damukewa juna tansona ina Santa takasan tanada yarta wadda suke wajan babarsu tareda da ita sannan sunada wani qani Wanda suke UBA daya dashi kuma mahaipiyarsu tana wajan baban wannan qaramin qanin nasu bata tare da babansu wadda nakeso . Nikuma nasance inada matata da yata kafin haduwarmu da ita amma duk da inada mata haka baihanata sona ba kuma baisa taji batasan matata ba Sannan saboda qaunarda mukewa juna saida suka saba sosai da matata mutuqa hartakai ga idan munsamu sabani da ita saidai matata tazama itace alqaliyarmu wajan sasantamu da ita wadda muke soyyar yata kuwa dama idan bana wata 1 banakita wajan antintaba gaskiya munshaqu sosai da ita ... Ni kuma nasance mutum mai kishi akanta sosai saboda wasu dalilaina kasan cewar inada wannan kishin mukan samu sabani wajan wasu abubuwa watarana kawai sai aka bijiro mata da zancen auren wani munaji muna gani muka rabu bada San ranmu haka tasa nasaka saka soyayyar kowacce mace araina saboda sanda nake mata itama kuma hankalinta yakasa kwanciya dashi hardai sukazo suka rabu dashi nikuma dama bansa kowacce mace araina ba saimukazo muka dawo muna soyayyar mu kamar da amma bayan rabuwarmu da ita tabar wasu Abubuwa danakeso tasance dasu dan nemi tadawo dasu saitaqi hakan yabamu babbar Matsala amma bamu rabu dajuna ba munasan juna sosai kwatsam Sai wani yashigo cikin rayuwarta suka kama soyayya dashi nikuma banasan wani ya kulata saidai tana nunamin wani lokacin basa tare amma kuma suna tare dashi nadawo rayuwarta sosai alokacin kuma sun kamu dasan juna ita dashi hartakaiga tanajin bazata iya rabuwa dashiba nima kuma haka muka zauna mu 3 mukai shawara yaya zamuyi dole dai namiji 1 ne zai aureta nace masa Indai zai aureta zan hakura nabarta danya samu kwanciyar hankali yace ah ah yabarmin ita nace to naji muka rabu ahaka haryayi alqawarin bazai sake kirantaba Ashe suna waya niban saniba dana gano haka sainace nahakura ya aureta muka rabu ahaka nayi kukuna nashare hawayena zancen dai danake muku yanzu suna tare zasuyi aurensu shida ita ina roqon Allah yasa musu albarka acikin aurensu nikuma Allah yabani wadda tapita alkhairi .. Ammapa jama'a labarin dana Baku zamana da ita wallahi Allah acikin kaso Dari ban Baku 20 ba nayine atakaice saboda idan nace. Zanbayar gaba daya Ku kanku dakuke karanta labarin sai kun dade kuna karan tashi sosai nagode Allah yabamu masoya masu albarka

Assalamu Alaykum warahmatullah Ina yininku NB fam, hope kowa na nan lafia lau? I saw a post earlier on female medical doctors and it’s a good topic to discuss on wallahi, dan Allah a zauna a tattauna a gano what exactly is the problem, what measures should be taken and what both parties should expect from each other...things like that dai. We females(doctors) are under a lot of pressure from family and friends, seniors at work, patients, even our own minds...you grab my point dai. Responsibilities sunyi yawa akanmu Dan Allah masu mata likitoci ku dinga daga masu kafa, masu dating nasu kuma haka da ma masu shirin dating nasu kunji. Allah with the way things are you guys aren’t motivating us at all, if you want a wife that’ll give you full attention then karka dauko wacce take a medical field or marry two wives rather(my opinion), that is if you can...boyfriends and husbands you need to trust us, wlh some of us are actually very honest with you guys, we are very busy trying to save lives we have no time to cheat on you guys even though nasan ba duka aka taru aka zama daya ba. Please NB, let’s discuss this issue and get over with it ??.... Jazākumullahu khayr!