till this day i still regret and feel ashamed of something i did since during my university days (4years yanzu). i fear kuma it doesn't happen to my daughter or close relative. i actually drug raped a girl and left her unconscious kuma nayi threatening dinta not to tell or i will publicize her nude pix. tsakani da Allah nayi regretting kuma i wish i can see her and deeply apologize to her i dont know what got into me that day amma yanzu i am a changed person. i can try finding her through Facebook do you think i should send her an apology message i really want her to forgive me kuma ina so in bata hakuri kuma Allah ya yafe min or what is the best way i can achieve this? please don't judge me but advise me

Wednesday last week na bude whatsapp dinta naga chat din su da wani guy har yana turo mata hearts da love words ni kuma abin ya bani haushi da na tambaye ta she tried to defend the cheating and i slapped her out of anger, sai thursday kafin in dawo da yamma ashe har ta hada kayanta ta tafi se dai nazo kawai naga letter then i called her to apologize ni ma banji dadin marin da nayi mata ba gaskiya, na bata hakuri amma tace wai se na zo gidan iyayen ta anyi wata magana, nace mata there is no need bazan sake ba to har yanzu taki dawo wa, jiya nace mata zan zo tace a'a wai sunyi tafiya sai thursday zan iya zuwa ni na ji zaman gidan ma babu dadi i really missed her kuma nayi alkawari bazan sake ba. so yanzu not knowing what she told her family da har suka barta ta dade haka kuma banyi magana da su ba ya kuke ganin ya kamata inyi handling abin?

A Friendship or Cheat? There is this Girl whom we are attended same primary school (2004) with her, even then i can not actually remember her by face but she does know me well. We had no contact sai wani lokaci around 2010 a inda mukayi JAMB a same centre, even then it was a hello and hye from afar. I don’t know what went on with her daga lokacin, she got married, had a Child and at same time schooling. I can’t recall precise time damuka zama friends on Facebook; I’m not the that chat on Facebook rather i go through newsfeed and posts kawai. She’ll send me ‘hello, ya kake, kwana biyu ka boye ka manta dani(mu)’ haka dai gaisuwa kawai sai labarin struggle dinta a school and so on. A haka it got to the point we have a whatsApp group na primary school mates namu, daga nan we had each others contact and our formal discussion goes on, to cut it short we become friends sosai, in a way that all my relationship struggles tasani, she even advises me to date ita kuma da aurenta and nothing of emotion is between us. Toh, I started to think about it, shin idan husband (who’s a military) dinta found out me zance ko ya zatace ? Shin idan nine husband nata ya zanji ? (Actually I’m the jealous type, I cannot take it), there was a time datake fadimin cewa I’m her best friend; i was shocked danaji haka, and nima when i got married how would i face my wife about ita wannan ? *What do you think is the stand of our relationship? **Do you think we should continue?? ***What way zan iyabi dan datse tarayyarmu ba tareda bacin rai ba ???

Slm NB, Barka da sallah, Allah maimaita. We were supposed to get married 22nd June aka dage zuwa Sept 28th b4 I stopped it all last week. I started dating her 2 yrs during her first year exams at federal university Dutse, lokacin zani taifi karatu singapore, yenzu tana 300L ni kam na kammala msc infotech zan dawo gida July. Masala na shine tayi unknown friends sosai a school wanda gidan su baa sani ba. Ni kuma naji labari wasu lesbians ne, most boyfriends nata kuma masu HIT and Run ne. I want to forgiv and assume it's a mistake, but she is too patchy about it and whatever story version she told is way too watery. I had wanted to disbelieve all as rumour but zuciyana ba nasuwa. When i attempted bto close eyes, my sister warnd against her sketchy stance on the allegations and advised me to avoid love intoxication and think of future consequence. Ga shi bata son maganar especially about her intimate guy calld Bezo irin yaran masu kudin nan marasa tarbiyya who I was reliably told was just a Playboy not a student. I have moved on after calling it up lastweek because I didnt wanna just continue against my instict to whatever the consequence of marrying a green snake could be. But her aunt is now followinng up with much pressure to ensure we are back together, i don't want to come home and meet this issue again, please help me with advice of nb members.

i am a university student and my cousin is renting a 2 bedroom close to the school kuma shi kadai ne yanzu, his house mate has graduated. so shine nake tunani ko inyi moving dama ina so in canza waje i am not comfortable where i am but i am female and he is a male shiyasa nake neman shawara

Salam! Danallah taya mutum ze cire san wani a rashi? Saurayina ne ya dena kulani bayan ya kawo kudina kuma ni ina sanshi sosai kullum tunaninshi nakeyi duk na rame wlhy abin yana damuna inaso na cireshi a raina na kasa

 Pls keep me anonymous, I met this girl 4 years ago we started dating for months and our houses are not too far so we could see often then  jamb came she failed and attempted suicide but didnt die tho, i thought she was depressed so i became more close to her overlooking  the suicide  as months turned into years finaly she got admitted to the university but the course she was given is theare arts at first i thought it was  ok but later on i started seeing changes in her she stoped wear hijab started wearing bump shorts and what pains me most  is shes staying off campus at  guys place which i didnt know at first  and no guy will acomodate you feed you and wount touch you in school and not even one but five to six guys . So this made me started thinking i should just leave her with god or i should sleep with her as revenge pls shawara nake nema pls

Assalamu alaykum people,, well lemme start from the very start, well I met this guy last year, Masha Allah he's everything a lady needs, and me being young girl I fell for him, (he's my first love) everything was going well, we started dating, our love was the purest, gradually the love kept on increasing that when I don't talk to him in a day I feel incomplete, before we started dating when I asked him about his birthday he gave me the date, January, so ana nan then January came in, I wished him and prayed for him, then we started having little problems, he was always busy that we hardly talk a day, and ni kuma I was starting to get upset cause I needed him every moment, so he later told me about his busy schedule and he made some adjustments for Me and we fixed everything, he's this guy that each time I get upset with him he says "baby you know I love you" for the past 8 months, he called my name just 4 times I think, he's always like I love you more and most each time I say I love you. So last month I saw some posts on Instagram of people who know him wishing him happy birthday , and I decided to confront him, when I asked him he swore to me wai January ne, it was hard believing but he still managed to cconvince me that it wasn't that day, a day later, my best friend (she has him on Snapchat) saw his post with a birthday cake and a gift and the caption was "thank you bae for the bday" so she sent me the video, when I saw it, I was broken, I've never felt that way in my whole life, I couldn't cry when I saw it, so she comforted me and advised me not to confront him, some hours ago by 1am I broke down, I cried for hours, even while praying tears were flowing freely, I even fell sick with an issue of dehydration , a day later he called me, he noticed the nature of the call cause I'm very jovial, he asked if he offended me but I said no, he later promise that he'll never leave my side, the next day he called again and said I make him happy and ended the call with I love you most.. And the most funniest part is I still love him despite all the things I saw, well should I confront him? Or should I forget about it and keep on with our relationship cause love is patience...

Salam Alaikum arewa people,we all know exams are starting soon so please let’s pray for each other ???Allah ya bamu sa’a ya rabamu da carry over Ameen

what pushed me to ask this question is i saw a post on northern blog a story that was posted on this website about a girl that seduced a guy and some people on the comment section were saying its a made up story. i am not here to say if THE STORY IS TRUE OR NOT. but what i noticed is several times when a story similar to this comes up se mutane su ce ai basu yadda, suna nufin girls are not capable of sexual behaviors towards men but i am sure if its a story about a man that invited a girl to his home and seduce her people will be quick to believe. the question is Why??? i personally have an experience during my school days there was this girl that likes to touch me haka nan infact there was a day she hugged me in public and i was speechless i didn't stop her because i liked it anyway i just want to know the reason why people think like that and wallahi girls are capable of even rape if they had physical power over men. a dinga yin adalci

Salamualykum ...anty ina da wani dan matsala... Nayi aure fyn alhmdulilah... I living well with my husband da dangin sa amma matsalata dayane His click of friends... They compromise of 4male and a female.. Banda Matsala da male friends dinsa amma that female friend dince banso.... A Girl suke ce mata... Sun dauketa kaman gold.. Basu son ranta ya bace... Kyautata mata sukayi ko ince their world revolves around her... Komai A girl... Komai A girl.... Duk da itace sannadiyan haduwar mu har mukayi aure though she's not my friend i don't just feel comfortable with her They are two that are married... Naso yi ma dayan matan magana amma naga ko a jikinta.... Every last Saturday of d month suke haduwa.... Ayi hira a ci abinci...just to have fun... kaman normal policy dinsu kenan.... She's a student... Idan zasu je dubata a school... Kanan wani biki zasu....the importance they show her is too much.... Rannan danaa masa magana akai ranann bamu kwana lfy a gidannan ba Cewa yayi ida ba dan ita ba... Bai kai matsaayin da yake ba....she means a lot to him...na kasa bacci ranan.... Sanda aka kawo ni Amarya duk hirar da zamiyi sai ya saka A girl a ciki....A Girl kaza, rana kaza A Girl ta mana kaza....ko shopping suke raka ta....rannannya dawo da kayan shoping na tambayeshi wannnan kayan fah wai nawa ne....sun raka A Girl shopping shine tace ya siya min nima Rannan sallah injinsu suna cewa idan A Girl tayi aure fah sun shiga uku dan mijinta zai hana su ganninta....akwai wanda yake sonta a cikin su amma bai gaya maata ba...har suna zugashi ya mata magana su dadaita at least zasu san taxo gida Abin haushin har danginsa sun san A girl...rannan sisters dinsan da sukazo suke tambayansa yaya ina A Girl dinka...yace tana lagos amma ta kusu dawowa suma sunyi missing dinta...ni kuma wallahi banaso....duk matsalaar sa...sai ya fada wa yan click dinnan nasa kuma sai a ce bari a jira A Girl zata kawo shawara mai kyau Kuma karamar yarinya ce she is 22 Wallahi auty ina son in rabasu....bata taba shiga hakkina ba bata taba min komai ba amma banaso Dayan matar friend dinsa ko a jikin ta....rannan mijinta ya siyo mata abu ya bata ...har tambaya taka ina na A Girl....sai yace ai bata nan ta tafi lagos....a lagos iyayen ta keda zama...taje hutu gida...dan Alllah ya kuka ga alamarin nan...isnt it strange Dan allah yan aji ku ban shawara...please hide my identity

last week i went to a prostitute for the first time to have sex, i didn't have a condom so we did everything but i did not penetrate her. amma tun the next day da safe nake ji kamar banda lafiya on and off haka, jiya da yamma ma bacci nayi cus i felt so tired kuma ban saba jin haka ba wata sa'i kuma in ji ciwon kai da kasala. ina so in je asibiti for test amma i am scared. i thought you can only contact disease if you have intercourse. please is it possible that i contacted a disease? i am so worried.

My problem started at my early age of puberty growing up in a male dominated family i noticed a problem in d grot of my P*nis tunda muna da B.Q ah gida inda we can move freely in our boxers, i noticed mine is below the normal growth rate at my age compare to that of my junior's,so sai nafara neman some of this male enhancement drugs da kuma maganin gargajiya lokacin i was 19yrs of age. Som of this medicine u need to be married before u take it to knw it effectiveness or otherwise toh nikuma bani da aure...@ dat tym i don't knw of anything masturbation sai da wani frnd dina yana min hirra dat this is wat he used to do duk lokacin da sha'awa ya dameshi so sai nima na fara...farawanda nayi kuma yasa na kara discovering wani bigger problem basan koh it wil be a permanent one koh zai canza ba...*the prob is dat i am A ONE MINUTES MAN*(HAVING PREMATURE EJACUALATION)* which means i can only w*nk myself OR HAVE S*X for a minutes or two since kuma i never had sex with a girl...wich is another big problem for me.. Toh yanzu babar damuwana shine i am now 25 five kuma all these problems haryanzu ina corping dasu, Kuma AURE NA SA' AH GABA ANY MOMENT FROM NOW TAMBAYA NA SHINNE 1-SHOULD I TELL MY PARTNER TO BE THE PROBLEM AM HAVING,IF YES HOW DO I TELL HER IF ""NO'" INAGA KAMAN NACI AMANA'NTA TUNDA NASAN DA WANAN DAMUWAN BANFADA MATA BA. KUMA NI WALHI KULUM ina GANIN MATA SUNA COMPLAIN CEWA MAZANSU BASA SATISFYING NASU SEXUALLY TO I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS TO SOMEONE DAUGHTER I DON'T WANT TO STARVE HER OF SEX...WHAT DO I DO PLEASE THANKS FOR UR TYM PLS UR ADVICE WILL GREATLY HELP ND IF ANY ONE NO HOW TO REMEDY OR CURE THOSE PROBLEMS SHOULD PLS HOOK ME TO THEM thnk u (Pls share this on N.B instapage too thnk)

Good morning brothers and sisters up North, my question is, HOW DO WE IMPROVE THE EDUCATIONAL STANDARD OF OUR PRIMARY AND SECONDARY SCHOOLS IN AREWA? I have observed that most primary school pupils and secondary school students in arewa can't compare with their counterparts down south not because they are not intelligent but what could be the reason making them lag behind? Later on, most of us find it hard to cope in tertiary institutions because of our poor educational background, you will a very intelligent person who knows a lot regarding a course but he won't make a good grade because he rarely understands English and at the end it affects our overall result. How do we tackle this issue? What are you suggestions? How do we improve the situation my fellow yan Arewa?

just kafin ramadan i met this girl that recently moved into my area. ranar da muka fara haduwa a shop zan yi siyayya she wanted to buy something and asked me which 1 will be better, i told her my opinion and left a lokacin banyi tunani wani abu ba kuma i had a belief that mata basu neman maza. From that day we use to meet time to time mu gaisa har na amshi number dinta muka fara chatting. we became friends. On Sallah day ta ce in bata goron sallah (jokingly nace ta zo ta karba ina gida) se tace tana Gida in kawo mata, she invited me. ashe parents dinta and all her siblings have gone out. as i arrived she invited inside i was like isn't there people in your house? she said no. i felt something wrong in my mind. At last she tried to seduce me i refused at first then she threatened me that if i don't do it she will shout that i came in to rape her. i never thought girls can behave in this way, haka tazo muka gama shafe shafe and i commited zina with her on sallah day. i feel very bad about it and i hate her. i have cut all communications with her now she later apologized to me but still i will never forgive her. Wallahi mata yan iska ne kuma wasu basu da Imani. i am worried about myself and the sin i have committed, i have been depressed since that day. please how can i overcome this issue ya tsaya min a rai sosai.

Life is a test,an exam. When you make a test in school, you always have a question which are easy but there are always a few which are too difficult. These questions are so difficult that they can help you fail your tests. That's where you have to open your eyes. Life is like that. Allah tests us continue, he gives us pain to ask him for help. He gives us happiness because we deserve it and be thankful for him. Each test in life has its price. The most important thing is to never turn your back to Allah. If you remember him, he will remember you. But if you turn back to him, he will do to you and you will only get hurt. Trust him and always put him in your mind, soul, and body.. He is always there to support you. Be patience! Patience is the weapon

I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago and since then I have been feeling empty inside me like there’s a part of me that’s missing I feel I need someone to be close to me to be able to share my life issues and problem with someone that will always be there for me I feel I just need someone to be with badly but I cannot go back to my ex girlfriend because of the complexity in the breakup and I these few months about a year have been so much difficult for me Finding another girlfriend is like an uphill impossible task finding someone I truly love I tell my friends finding a girlfriend is not easy they laugh and are like you are the one that doesn’t know what to do it’s all just soo depressing they are like no girl can reject you but I don’t even know how to explain it please what can I do

Malama ina cikin wata matsala gf dita tana boarding gashi ta dade ni kuma gaskiya na gaji zan iya yin wata gf din kafin ta dawo? Please help me out

Miji na yayi aure tun April this year since then he doesn't even touch me sexually idan ma ya zo gida na kwana se dai kawai muyi bacci mu tashi kuma on the same bed ni kuma abin ya ishe ni because i have my desires i once tried to start the act but he pushed me away wai ya gaji. it really hurt me and i felt unwanted. yanzu ban san me zanyi ba i started watching porn and masturbation to satisfy myself but i stopped after realizing its haram and i have a husband. i told my close friend about this, i can't discuss it with anyone in my family i feel very shy. so she advice me to drug my husband in a drink at night and i can get on him and do what i want, she even said she can help me get a powerful drug for that so yanzu i am confused, is this right? i don't have any choice and i don't wanna fall into sin tsakani da Allah. please i want to hear your suggestions/opinions.

How do we emancipate almajiris in arewa and give them a life they deserve, a better life. It pains me a lot seeing these children out of school, no proper care, no food, no good clothes etc. These children are been exploited and because they have no choice, they will do anything to survive. What's the solution, parents need to be enlightened, the present almajiri system is not like the one of those years past, the world has changed. What do we do about this issue? It's a time bomb, waiting to explode.