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New body odor among people General

I know this questions is really odd, but i just want to know if what i observed is true, just like 2 weeks ago i started having a body odor i never smelt before and usually banda body odor. i became paranoid actually but then i started smelling it on other people. ni dai har yanzu i am confused. idan na fita public na hadu da mutane especially idan sunyi zufa se inji exactly irin smell it. i don't know if anyone has experienced it. ba a fi 2 weeks ba da nayi noticing. please i need your answers to make sure i am okay. A new body odor among people.

Sep 20, 09:07 PM
I need your prayers Marriage

Salam my brother and sisters in Islam. I need you guys to help me with your prayers. There’s nothing I want more than to see myself in my husband’s house. I pray day and night for Allah to grant me my wish. All I want is to get married. Please help me pray so that my wish is granted

Sep 19, 05:24 AM
Fuel And Electricity Tariff Increment, Why Is Buhari Frustrating Us? Politics

With the Increment of Fuel Pump Price and Electricity Tariff, it is directly proportional to increase in food stuffs, transport and other basic necessities, because they all depend on this two important factors(fuel and electricity). Is the government trying to frustrate us the more with the already perilous situation in Arewa?

Sep 3, 11:35 AM
Advice Advice

I and my husband where friends I didn't know he used to have a crush on me back then until when he got angry and stopped talking to me we reconnected again then made his intentions known towards me and told me about his past which I also I did...we both agreed to stay with each other and started building our home together and then he started to cut off all his flings he had but there is this particular one who has refused to move on and our wedding pictures has even gone viral......she keeps sending my husband texts messages with different numbers because he blocked all her numbers that she is the one who loves him and I used jazz to hook him and all she keeps even messaging me until I blocked her number this kind of girl is desperate and can even do anything to have my mai gida , he doesn't hide things away from me .....he even told me we have to be strong in our prayers because alot of pple do not want our marriage to work...we both had a church wedding and an Islamic wedding and also a court marriage.....all we do is ignore her dis kinda of girl can arrange for me to be kidnapped or something to be done to me ...how can I tackle such a bipolar person .....

Aug 31, 11:28 PM
Serious note to all Advice

Assalam. Pls and pls my brothers and sisters, this issue of profile picture is VERY serious. Someone previously drew our attention on this matter, but haryanzu no improvement haba jama'a. I don't think it will cost anyone anything to quickly scroll down their gallery to upload a picture in my opinion. Nobody here on the platform i strongly believe, has anything to hide because we are all here for a serious matter so why not complete your profile with your picture? As suggested earlier i support that admin should find a way to make it compulsory maybe is the best way out saboda gaskia personally abun yana yimini ciwo as i look through profiles. I am sure that if picture weren't important it wouldnt have been part of it in the 1st place. This is not intended to offend anyone pls but the 2nd thing i want to draw our attention to is pending requests. It does not feel good to be left on pending for uncountable weeks...it's just like ignoring someone. REJECT or ACCEPT and be done with it. Don't keep someone's hope high and hanging hence, i urgue us all pls muji tsoron Allah and do what is right. No need to feel bad to decline a request if not interested is better than pending. Nagode, and may Allah help us all.

Aug 21, 02:58 AM
Betrayal Relationship

To my dear brothers and sisters for Allah’s sake if you are not ready to settle for marriage please stop wasting time and create hopes for people.Yanzu abu ya kai ga za ayi gaisuwa and fixing date daga baya sai su fasa just for unnecessary reasons Haba jama’a!

Aug 13, 01:07 PM
Dear Brothers Matchmaker

Please my brothers and sisters as well those pending requests pls if u r not interested pls decline it, Dan Allah ba dadi abar mutum pending dinnan, in baka/ki da interest pls don't leave it pending, pls in kasan ki san kin samu suitor pls indicate ko adan cikin description dinka ne or disable the account as simple as that, wlh abun da ciwo sae ka tura request sae abarka pending kawae haba mana. Pls mu gyara.

Aug 12, 11:50 PM
Dear Brothers in this forum Advice

Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah. I wish you all the very best in your life my fellow Muslim Brothers. There is something I observed since I joined match making plat form and it's something that really happens now in the society. I know everyone has its taste but this issue is something that you have to consider. The prophet (SAW) said when choosing spouse you can go for background, beauty, wealth, but the best one is to go for someone that is religious. But I noticed that most I did not say all but 85% of the brothers are looking for a girl that is slim and fair. Am writing on behalf of all dark and chubby ladies out there who are looking for a good spouse. Then what will happen to us we that we are not fair and we are not talk. This is the reason why many of the sisters nowadays used to bleach there skin so the will find spouse or attract our brothers. And that is a reason some of our sister that are fair and slim will say that the will not marry someone who is poor because the see that most men are looking for fair and slim. Please we have to be guided there are so many dark and short sisters that are pretty and have moral background that you will make a perfect home together out there. I hope I did not torment anyone with my words and I hope there will be a certain change. Remember beauty lies in the heart of beholder and remember beauty used to fade with time. And marriage is not something that will finish easily, it's a long life matter. Thank you for your time.

Aug 1, 10:42 AM
Questions and reminder Matchmaker

Assalam 'yan uwa how is sallah preparations moving?... Pls how is it possible not to receive any request from anyone for up to 3months? Could it be possible that no one likes what's on my profile? Or are they intimidated by it they are afraid to approach? (sorry to say that, is just me wondering). Could it be my age? I'm 30yrs of age am i old? Or maybe my tribe because most profiles indicate they are in need of hausa/fulani so what abt us other tribes? Pls i want to know, are all the brothers here taken? I have several declined and pending requests but i still dey wait my husband to arrive. I am a woman and i challenge us all to remember why we are here in the first place. If u set ur mind to love for Allah's sake then every thing else is secondary. Nagode for ur attention y'all. Salamu alaikum.

Jul 29, 02:48 PM
How long are we really going to stay in this lockdown? Politics

Even though restriction of movement is lifted but schools are closed and offices are only partially working. Ni gaskiya na gaji. kuma in a country like Nigeria we all know they are using it to do corruption. i saw in the news paper today that Lagos state government spends N1-million on each patient. Imagine. what do you guys think ??? please share your opnions

Jul 24, 01:17 PM
Marriage life style Marriage

Salaam, don Allah atayini posting. Ina son in San Mesa wasu mazan in sunyi aure suke sake neman wasu matan a waje? Wani zaka ga mutun na da mata harda yara kuma yana neman wata awaje kuma bawai aurenta zaiyi ba. Ni I want to stick to only one mace. Ina tsoro kar nima in tsince kaina a irin halin nan.

Jul 12, 10:18 PM
what's the worst that can happen if i don't get married as a female? Marriage

I am a female in my mid twenties, pursuing my career and an entrepreneur. i actually want to achieve alot but the issue is most of the men that are interested in me, will want to put limits to what i can achieve. i want to have self freedom and pursue my career as an independent woman. lately i'm thinking i may not get married because i would rather choose my ambition. so what are the disadvantages of living such a life as a lady, please i want your opinions. Thanks

Jun 25, 05:14 PM
Seeking for a halal relationship that will lead to marriage Marriage

Am female 27 years old, divorced, with 2 kids, an entrepreneur, am seeking for a man from the age of 40 and above. Divorced, a widower, or even married. Or Even infertile ( a man who can't have a child), I want a God fearing Muslim with at least minimum of Islamic knowledge. Ma shaa Allah am cute. A man with halal means of income he must not be reach please.

Jun 22, 07:02 PM
Complain to the Admin Matchmaker

Why is it that some people's profile page doesn't open amd shows error. And some messages received can't be read either

Jun 7, 12:17 AM
Complain Matchmaker

I am having a complain about does that will be filling out request without saying a word.Someone will send you a request or you send a request to someone after it has been accepted daga hlo Hy shikenan or something wslm shikenan,there will just be filling up ur request.If u r nt interested plsssss don't accept someone when u r nt ready plss

Jun 5, 06:31 PM
Observation from the male profile Matchmaker

Salam, my observation is that most of the male profile has not uploaded any picture and why is that? We need to see who we are requesting for and accepting please.. admin please if there is anything u can do to make it compulsory. Please go ahead (bismillah) from my own opinion.. thank you eid Mubarak to everyone on these platform

May 31, 07:47 AM
Masu Adduar miji na gari General

DEAR SINGLE SISTER WHO'S PRAYING FOR MIJI NA GARI... By Admin, Chamber Of Secrets Kina addu'ar miji na gari while your half naked pictures are there flaunting on social media, ba kya tunanin wasu sha'awa zata kawo su gareki ba aure ba? Kina addu'ar miji na gari while you're busy snapping nudes of yourself kina tura ma social media boyfriends, ba kya tunanin a wani lokaci na gaba za'a iya amfani da wannan hotunan aci mutuncin ki, 'ya 'yan ki, jikokin ki, mijin ki da dangin ku baki daya? A wani lokaci da kin manta ma kinyi? A wani lokaci da kin tuba kinyi nadama? What's wrong with covering your body and staying lowkey now? If anyone ever falls in love with you, you'd know it's for your character and personality. Those ladies you're seeing da suke kokarin suturta kansu and you're looking down on them they're human beings too. They have feelings too. They wished to be called beautiful and all sort of sweet names too. They wish to wear attractive dress and beautify themselves too. But they know exactly that this dunya is too cheap and jannah is too precious to be sold for some stupid likes and comments. Na taba ganin write-up na wani guy. The guy was saying it's up to a girl to dress decently and cover her body, all they can give you is likes and comments but not marriage. Why won't that sink in in your head? Kina addu'ar miji na gari while you're not building yourself to be mata ta gari. Karma is a very real phenomena my dear. What you give is truly what you'll get back in return. Kina addu'ar miji na gari while kece samari zasu na takaran throwing ma birthday parties here and there and at the end of the day kin gama sheke ayar ki kiyi fatar ki samu miji na gari. My dear miji na gari fa isn't something da zaki je ki saya a kasuwa. Kina addu'ar miji na gari while you're dating 10 other men, ke me wayo ko? "I'll chop this guy money, I'll chop this guy money" abi? Kina tunanin su kuma basu da wayo ko? Kina tunanin they won't find ways da zasu fanshe kudin su right? Or maybe karma doesn't have an eye. Issorait. Ana cikin haka if you're lucky enough haka miji na gari zai zo. Zai zo with pure intention na auren ki and there you'll start bringing up silly excuses. Maybe kice he's too cheap for you, bakauye ne, you're way out of his league, bla bla bla. Ko kuma kiga ke fa aure ba yanzu ba coz kina tsakiya da cin ganiyar lokacin ki so you can't let go of the party girl lifestyle da wuri haka. Kece wannan zai ma reservation wannan hotel wanchan ma haka. Kune baku wannan joint baku wanchan, da an hango ki a fasa ihu ana fadar miki "pepper them" kina jin kanki on top of the world with your nose in the air. Kina kallo haka maza na gari zasu dinga zuwa suna tafiyar su saboda kin kasa ma kanki fada and the world will continue its course with you. Do you know the most beautiful thing about this world? It will continue its course with you, without a pity or shedding a tear for you. Duk abunda ka yar anan da yardar Allah shi zaka tsinta a gaba. Do you know when sense will start hitting you? When your friends and your younger siblings started to settle down. There zaki ga gidan ku ma an fara damun ki da ki fiddo miji. There you'll start seeing wedding notifications na stupid boyfriends dinnan naki yana flashing akan screen dinki. Wadannan stupid boyfriends din dai da kika gama watsewa tare dasu. There duk wanda zaki nemo daga cikin su zai subule. There's a sister who slide in my dm tana kuka take bani labari she dated a guy for three good years ba abunda basa yi na haramci da tazo ta masa maganar aure yace sam bai san da wannan zance ba. She started yelling at him tana fadar ya cuce ta do you know what his reply was? He said she should worship the ground he walk on for what he has done for her. Ya showering nata da gifts, ya bata kudi, ya saya mata latest phones, he took her places, is that not enough da sai tayi seeking aure kuma? An gaya mata idan yana neman aure zai zo wurin ta ne? You see? There you'll know you've made the worst mistake of your life. Sai kuma me? Sai regrets. You'll regret every bit of what you've done. Sai dai me? It's not too late my dear. Sometimes the love of your life comes after the mistake of your life. After all this wani kuma zai zo yaso ki ya kuma overlooking duk wani flaws naki. Shiyasa a koda yaushe muke fatar Allah Ya hada mu da masu son mu na gaskiya. Coz masoyin ka na gaskiya ba ruwan sa da duk wani flaws naka, kai din yake so. Allah Kasa mufi karfin zukatan mu. Allah Ka hane mu da aikata ba daidai ba. Allah Ka tsare mu da rudin wannan rikitaccen zamanin, ameen. Admin, COS #copied

May 21, 09:06 AM
Dua for a sister General

I am a victim of an unfortunate marriage, I have been good to him and his family Alhamdulillah and i know Allah swt wil surely reward me for that. Kuma Allah zai saka min In Sha Allah. For the sake of Allah, who ever comes across this should say a prayer for me and my little daughter, its the last ten days of the Holy Ramadan, Someone’s sincere dua can be the beginning of something amazing for me, In Shaa Allah. Allah Ya tsare mu cikin tsarewarSa. Jarabawa/Kaddara ta Allah Ya bani ikon ci amin. Jazakumullahu khairan

May 13, 04:38 AM
Need an advice Advice

Actually i dont know where to start, but i need to give an insight, am a kind of lady who dont fall in love easily and actually dont believe in social media relationship. Their is this guy that i met on one of d sm/platform, we met at that time he was about to wed, he told me abt d marriage and i congratulate him sincerely, so after d wedding we were not in touch, actually i forgot abt him, a year later i got his message, kin manta ni so, so and so, and i said kayi hakuri, kai da ango ne, u dont need to borther about us, yace nooo am his dear frend, unfortunately d marriage did not work out, he gist me about what happened nace Allah kyauta, allah sa ba kaine da laifi ba, bcoz u men will creat problem sai ku dora ma mata, yace ba haka bane, i wont understand. Fast forward d relationship now about 4yrs kenan, we became close , chat, calls, video calls, we advice each other, in good and bad moment, but we have never met physically all this while. Just of recent d closeness was much and i realized am developing feelings for him, and i dont know to go about it and since we were free with each other i told him about my feelings!... The problem here is that after saying it he began to withdraw, less of chat and calls, and when i tried knowing our stand, bcoz i demanded to move d relationship further, but for long i know he kept saying shi yana tsoron halin mata saboda what he went through in his first marriage, i tried to encourage him... But yanzu house i dont know what to do, bcoz in his words.... He said ki bari bayan azumi sai mu san yanda zamuyi, without him clearifying anything to me whats his own feelings. Shine nake son house to help me see, shld i withdraw form this uncertainty or keep faith may b it will work out, pls help a sister

May 12, 11:41 PM
Depressed Advice

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters in this forum. Many ladies out their are fighting depression and some kind of addiction bcs of u. Am a chubby sister of 22yrs,I HV never been in a relationship lyk what is really called a relationship,the few men I HV met only want to HV Haram relationship (subhanallah).Uptil today I DNT knw what luv is(d relationship btw a opposite gender) bcs I HV never experienced it.That was d reason I joined d platform bt to me most of d men I met where not helping.And to me I think d main problem is my body size bcs even outside so many pple body shamed me.Even in d circle of my frnds they always bring d topic that am fat or sumtyn it's always bothers me very well.i HV tried so many sliming product always on diet bt am still d way I am.Even at home d same languages will b used.There was a tym I was dancing during my sister's wedding and on of my sister's was saying 'jiwan nan pattan' lyk it's rilly got to me bcs there pple around nd slowly I start slipping to depression.Bcs when ever a topic is been said or discuss abt body size only d slim ones get d credit lyk I didn't create myself but pple DNT c that if they c someone chubby they just concluded that u eat too much or something like that.my frnds think they r d most beautiful bcs they HV a moderate body size they are even d ones recommending sliming product for me.y I HV lost my self esteem.i DNT always feel comfortable around pple bcs I feel they will b looking at me or talking about me.There was a guy I once met nd he was lyk he lyks d body size d hips nd all bt I will have to do something abt my tummy that was d last day I chatted with him.And that got me thinking r they men that lyk chubby ladies??

May 12, 10:07 AM

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