So these brothers of nowadays be flirting with your friends and once one of their friends try to do so with you shikenan yakin basasa ya tashi lokacin zaa fara tada bombs kai har nuclear in akwai, they be forming over-protective brothers. Abeg talk sense into them.

Why cheat on someone you don't wanna lose, with someone you don't wanna keep?

Dear NB please i wanna know why most northern men are so against a ladies clocking 30,educated and working class without a husband ..they will be like she has depreciated,she can't be controlled,i need a fresh sweet 16 and so on... Base on my little knowledge on the life of our beloved prophet (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) he saw and fell in love with nana Khadija who was an already accomplished business woman and at the age 40 and she still bear him children....and i will like all those men that shout sunnah to please share there views

At my age i still don't know if sugarcane is a fruit ,vegetables ,grass, stick or soft drink Pls help me

Salam alaikum malam Ina wuni. Ni kam malam tambaya nake dashi ma mazan aji meyasa maza basu iya Apologizing ne wai wallahi 95% of maza especially northerners basu iya bada hakuri. It is pride or what?

Wai nikam haka maza suke ne? Ni matar shice tsawon shekara da aure, ba ruwanshi da ciwo na! Hasalima sedai ya ringa conplaining ni kullum ganinan cikin jaye jayen ciwo! Kuma fa ciwon nan se kace ya nemamun maganin nan, bare koda sannu ya gayamun! Its seems like kaman bayasan kashe mun kudi! Atleast koda kudin ne baya da se yamun bayani yanda zan fahimta ba wani abu bane koda nasan cewa dole ne fa wata rana mutum ya tashi baya da ko sisi! But abun ne ya fara isana, An bani test fiye da wata biyu ina mashi magana yana shareni idan ma nace ga abunda kemun ciwo expecially ciwon kai da nake kusan kullum kawai zai gayamun sha paracetamol cikin kakkausar murya! So kuma ko asibutin nan da nake zuwa da family file na gidan mu ne nake amfani! So daga baya ma da na koma likitan yake cewa wai ina test din da ya bani kwanan baya nace bacewa yayi naji naji sauki shi yasa, ya kara bani wani shima still ya shareni kusan 3weeks sannan naje da kaina nayi test din kuma in koma in maida ma likitan ya hanani wai ba zanje ba!!! Fisabilillahi anya wannan abokin zamane wlh abun yana damuna!

Salam NB barka dayau dan allah inaneman shawara ga mutanen gidanann inada wata girlfriend kumah munason junanmu sosai amma batada aiki sea tambayata kuddi, kumah idan tatanbayeni inabada but kumah yanxu jiya tatutomin message wea tanaso tasaya waya sabuwa wea dan allah idan inada kuddi nabata sea tacika dawanda agareta seatasaya. Dan allah abani shawara ?

Aslm Pls a taya ni tambayar Yan aji wai meyasa ba'a so a fada wa mai aljanu Yana da aljanu Hardai idan sun tashi suka lapa ace Kar a pada mashi/mata, ko Kar a bata labarin abin da tayi a lokacin? And dan Allah mutum yana iya rabuwa da aljanun gado ko ana wani magani ne da baza su dinga tashi ba? And is there anything wrong if namiji ya aura mai aljanu?

Na siya shinkafa na bar buhun bude a store ashe bera ya shiga duk yayi kashi ya bata shinkafar, can i wash it and cook it without any health risk? My mind is telling me the rice already has lasa fever. please i need your opinions kada inyi asarar shinkafa na. Thanks

My girlfriend got married recently, we had a misunderstanding while we were dating so she gave another person a chance and they are now married. But even before the marriage she never stopped loving me because she realized she over reacted and she regrets it. Now she’s calling me and constantly chatting me up that she misses me and she can’t even go a day without crying over me. It has gotten to a point where her husband complained that she was with him physically but her mind wasn’t. She still gets jealous over me, dramatic as if we’re dating. She told me she can’t even enjoy making love to her husband unless she thinks of me. Please how do i make her concentrate on her husband because I don’t want her to do anything she’ll regret. I can’t marry her now because she obviously didn’t think i was worth it the first time.

yanda mutane suka dauki aure especially a Arewa is too much, ni gaskiya be dame ni ba ko da na mutu banyi i would not care.

Problem with handing out judgemental views about peoples lives is that you might actually feel that you are right. You are married, nothing wrong with people that are single by choice or circumstance, even if they die single, marriage is not a measure of a life well lived. You are slim, none of the overweight people owe you a reason or time line as to when will they lose their weight, they have never asked you to carry their weight for them. You are well off financially, the poor people out there are not lazy. They didn't get all the chances you got with the talent you were born with. Affording yourself and wants is not a measure of happiness or fulfillment. You have a tertiary school qualification, this does not mean you are smart or understand any better than a person whom doesn't. People whom have not gone through this education system form 74% of the Worlds Billionaires. So it's safe to say they are doing "something" right. You own your own business, it does not mean everyone else who has a 9 to 5pm is an idiot. The risk appetite and stress of running your own business can never be for everyone. If you are born with this aptitude, you are part of a few. Let's learn to unlearn the nature of judging others according to what we do or find normal according to us ??.....our normal might be abnormal for many.

Hloe guys. What do you think about the issue of boarder closure in nigeria? Has it affect any one of you in any way?

I’m the type with particular taste when it comes to girls (mai tarbiya, fara, siririya, doguwa). Now that I’m looking for a serious relationship that’ll end up to marriage I’m finding it difficult meeting up with my taste. There’s this girl in my area and of which her Mom (late) is a friend to mine that fits perfectly to my taste, but she used to call me “Yaya ******” , currently studying and she doesn’t have any suitor on ground; sourced from her sister. The thing is my parents just of recent, suggested her for me. Now I don’t know where to start or how to confront her (clueless ). I called her once letting her know that i have her as contact and she said it’s okay, no problem.

I just want to hear you guys opinion. do you think its okay for a girl to approach a guy? what do you think about it?

Ina da boyfriends biyu amma they don't know about each other duk muna soyayya sosai Ina so kila zuwa nan da 3 month se jnyi breaking up da daya and remain with the one I have chosen. sometimes I feel guilty, is this considered cheating?

wata ce tayi aure satin ta daya da mijinta tatafi kasuwa tana dawuwa sai tayi kachibwal da wata mota a kufar gd shiganta ke da wuya sai taga wata tana kwance a katifarta sai ta nufu kici tana zuwa kici sai taga mai gd ta yana fama girki sai tace mai waye a daki kuma rai yace yawuce kawata wacce muka gama "ABU" tare yauwa ga ki din mota tace nabaki idan kindawo ki wanke mata mota daganan zaki tare a falour har sai tawuce kafu kikuma dakinki idan kece yaxaki yi da ita

wai meyasa yan mata arewa son cika son kudine ko tayaya

Menene maza suke dubawa kafin su auri mace, i was just thinking of it and want to get a public opinion. pls drop your honest answers, just list 3.

please i only want honest opinions, zanyi aure next month amma mijin da zan aure yayi accident last week kuma ya samu serious damage on his leg, ance ze kai 2-3 kafin ya dawo dede amma babu tabbas. please should i proceed or call off the marriage gaskiya bana so in zauna da disabled person at all.