Salaam, please hide my identity. My biggest problem is I'm actually into drugs, I've become addicted because I started that a decade ago. At this point, I don't take drugs just to get high but to survive. I tried embarking myself on withdrawal but whenever i try doing that, the process becomes very hectic and can never resist it. One thing i thank God with is the fact that ever since I started that, i never joke or play with academics and that's what made me what i am today. Moreover, I'm not trying to please myself but i don't take drugs during daytime but only at night. Atimes i sit down and cry whenever i think about my situation. I'm 27years old, a graduate, a lecturer and currently running my MSc. It happens I'm the youngest in the school I'm undergoing my postgraduate program and even in the institution I'm working. Ever since i started my undergraduate program, I don't give any priority to women. I've been asked out by lots of classy babes but i never find any of them attractive. It's not as if they're not worthy or my taste, they are. A week ago, i was sat down by my mum, dad and my grandma. They suggested i should definitely find someone and get married because it may likely make me change and become more responsible than I am. As for now, I'm not in any serious relationship. And I'm sure no parent will give his daughter to someone of my character. And the worst part is whenever someone hears drugs, It'll be exaggerated but wallahi the only thing i take is codiene and rephanol and wallahi Tallahi I don't get high any longer because my system have become used to it. And no body will even believe i smoke even an ordinary ciggerates because it doesn't show in me. Please help me out and suggest a positive measure to tackle and overcome this issue. Thanks

I'll would like to ask some of you guys that would refuse to respond to request for weeks! Do you feel so special because someone expresses their interest in you, so you treat them with such disdain. A lot of people here are dead serious about finding a spouse. You don't owe anyone any explanation weather you choose to decline or accept a request, but you sure owe the person that has shown interest in you the decency of response.

I don't know if true love still exists

Assalamu alaikum. i know there are alot of people on this matchmaker App both Men and Women, they all have what they are looking for. what i dont understand is why ive not received a single request from anyone one yet and the ones i send gets declined 😢. you see one most men profile they looking for Hausa or fulani or kanuri or shuwa. toh mu suran tribes din fha. aren't we desirable?

nidai na kasance mace ce mai zurfin ciki bana iya bayyana abinda ya dameni ko zai cutar dani saboda Ina ganin kamar na tonawa kai na asiri ne kuma mutane suna ce min na gyara halina saboda idan nayi aure zan sha wahala shin menenen illar yin zurfin ciki akan abinda Idan ka fadawa wani zai fadawa abokinsa kuma magana ya bi duniya 🙏😭😭😭

Salam I am a warrior I will just like people to know a little about us majority na lura we find it hard to have that special someone who is ready to spend the rest of his life with you mutane da sunji problem Dinka they will say ai ciwo ba mutuwa bane da kace if der ready they should meet ur parents sai su gudu sometime i feel depressed wasu kuma it's ur body they want,Wanda zai zo da gaskiya aure ka yake son yin shi yace he's ready you explain to him ur condition and He's genotype is perfect and his ready his family will be against it ace ai lalura yake son ya kwaso mu family they won't agree no matter what ya kamata mutane su sani fa Sickler (warrior)mu mafa mutane ne kamar kowa we have feeling too far muma fa diyan wasu ne fa and our parents and family love us too We have our difficulty yes and challenges but we still have our hearts desire muma mutane ne kamar kowa kowa nason ya ga Shima yayi aure. it very hard to see sickler dat is not hard working most of us duk da challenges da muke facing na pains no matter how you explain to people they won't understand the pain we go true wallahi we still work hard we keep pushing. Da addu'a da support of our family and love one's Allah ya bamu mazaje nagari Ameen Nagode

there's this guy I saw I started loving him I had pure love for him because if I get the chance with him I would love to marry him though he has a wife and a daughter I followed him on Instagram he followed back he then post his daughter's picture and I replied by saying mash Allah he just liked the message and didn't say anything from that I feared that if I force a conversation he might stop replying and I really love him honestly

How prepared are you to get married? What is the one thing that is stopping you?

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salaam and hope you all are having a beautiful weekend! This advice is directed to the Muslim brothers....The affairs of the heart is one which is very tricky and sometimes one can't be in control over. The interfaith marriage doesn't happen aseasy as it seems. Religiously i have come to understand it is permitted and seen as an okay thing but coming down to the societal, cultural and family's point of view it becomes really really discouraged. I have happen to seen people from different religious background fall inlove with eachother ..they both love eachother so much and wish to get married but at the end of the day the boy's parents in most cases kick againt their relationship. So my advice is to you dear Muslim men who may find or already found nterest in a Christian girl.... before you even ask her out or take her time, ensure the first thing you do is seek approval from your family...be sure there is a good understanding between you and your family before You go ahead and woo a Christian girl....and if you know at the end it won't lead to marriage or you are uncertain please do not woo a Christian girl. Have a beautiful weekend!

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There's this guy that I've been crushing on But I really don't know how to tell him like he clearly stated on his bio that girls should not DM him pls I need advice thank you

i met this girl some years back, from being jst friends to started dating like play like play, we really loved each other, we neva gt tired of each other we always joke, play, laugh, we became bst of friends while we still love each other, we had some misunderstandings along the way bt no one has ever came (as a third person) to settle us not even once all this while, we started talking serious abt our future, abt marriage and all, i neva thought in my life time she will ever leave me coz people will pay to have wat we had, if something hppn in our day to day life har Allah Allah mukeyi muzo mu bawa juna labari (thats the kinda r/ship we had) she became a part of me she bcme like my wife kawai time muke jira mu shiga gidan mu, har mun fara magana zan tura gidansu gaisuwa😁 But unfortunately last month she came from nowhere and told me dat nayi hakuri dat she chooses someone else not me😢is if she was possessed,i tot she was joking, since i found out dat she's serious, l lost myself, i don't know wat to think,am feeling empty inside me,am sick, i ddnt knw how i will coupe without her in my life,i dont knw how to start over. pls i need some advice. thank you

Half of your beauty comes from the way you speak which means your manners are your beauty. May Allah bless you with strong Imaan, taqwa, piety, purity of heart, good manners and good deeds... 🤲

Dear future husband ka bayyanamin kanka dan Allah 🙏😔

Assalamualaikum Good evening family please I need someone to put me through on how to start writing a love story letter ... it's urgent please Thanks alot.

can we pls talk about strict parent? they've done more harm than good to the society, Iam a victim. Iam 22 years old and Iam just about to start uni, I've got admission 2 times at Cotonou which I was denyed to go by my mom bcos of what people will say and what people have been saying, note- she was the one that brought the idea at first which I put my all in it to gain admission but latter changed her mind for only God knows why, yes I have lapses which every human being does, I can't be 100% but Iam 80% when it comes to obeying my mom bcos haka ta hani ne auren saurayina bcos Dan Niger 🇳🇪 ne, I grew up with a single mom, despite my dad being alive he was never there he's rich and from a very rich family which my mom is middle class, he never payed my fees my granddad from moms side did the everything since I was young (rip), mamata tasa Na shiga wani hali a yanzu haka... I use to be chubby but wallahi Iam slim now duk na lalace bcos Iam emotionally down, I have heart problem which she knows and I got it through being depressed and overthinking Iam the only child but I don't knw why my mental health doesn't matter to her....wallhi nayi kuka harna gaji💔,anytime I try talking to her she never listens Sai tace bana da hankali wai hakan ya kamata Dan Allah? what if Na shiga wani irin Hali zuciya ta kaine ga barin gida? 80% of girls that are outside wallahi is coz of parent, yanzu 1months kenan inata rokon ta to let me travel bcos Gaskia I wanna be away for sometime but taki yarda babu abunda banye ba, she even said nayi abunda zanyi ta gani💔😭, Iam emotionally drained subhanallah! pls pray for a sister, wallahi I've done my best dun kawai mutuwa ya rage mun a yanzu koh Yaya take so rayuwata ta kasance ban sane ba😭😭💔💔 I will be in the comment section, jzk🥺🤲🏻

I'm writing this piece of note on behalf of the males (Mata kuyi hakuri zanyi naku kuma🤗),Dan Allah mata duk wani expenses da ango zai kashe during the wedding preparations daga kan lefe,events na biki and so on kudaina sa musu pressure on what you know is beyond there financial capability,karkiga abinda akayiwa qawarki ko 'yaruwarki during her wedding kema kice sai anyi miki irinshi because all fingers are not equal sister,maybe they were opportuned to have a grand wedding ke kuma naki bai kai nasu arziki ba kizo ki sawa bawan Allah pressure las las kuma abin haushin kuzauna gidan haya instead of you to advice him to buy a plot of land no matter how it is yayi gini,kusani muhalli babban rufin asiri ne wallahi a zamanin nan,yammata murage buri Dan Allah dason abin duniya no matter how you strive dai rabonki kadai zaki samu,idan kinsamu yadda kikeso Alhamdulillah idan baki samu ba ki karba wanda kika samu da hamdala sai Allah ya qara miki,muringa tausayawa mazan nan at times please.Allah ya bamu dacewa da rabo na qwarai duniya da lahira,Ameen.

look for someone I can be talking to , jz need a friend I can be talking to I’m going through some hard time in my life and I jz need to be talking to someone before depression kills me we sharing talks together male to be precise if you’re interested please send a Dm

looking for a genuine love a guy that’s God fearing, financially stable (working or business man )and caring I don’t mind the language am a graduate not working yet but have a small business and ready for a serious relationship