Between women and men, who needs the other the most
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Anonymous Sep 29, 11:33 AM

Between women and men, who needs the other the most 4

Are women genuinely interested in men or its just based on circumstances like fitting into society norms or having a family as expected that make them want men, If there was gender and opportunities equality without any gender marginalization will women still want men as they do now? what do you think?
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Rabi suleiman Sep 29, 11:49 AM
Men will need women more in an unbiased environment with equality and no presumed gender roles. But mu a soceity din mu, ana ganin - Dole mace tayi aure ko kuma she is less of a human - A man must provide for her - she does not have equal opportunities of leadership or employment as men that is why females are indirectly shifted to want men for support and protection 1 thing about men is that when it comes to hmmmmm, they have no control :-) Men naturally have weakness for women, but women don't have any natural weakness for Men beyond what society pushes to them
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Anonymous #1 Sep 29, 01:27 PM
yes, cuz at the end of the day, I’ll want to share, experience everything with the man i love and to come back home to my loved one and spill the tea.
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Anonymous #1 Sep 29, 04:21 PM

yes.
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Amine Sep 29, 07:06 PM
Men
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Jidds Sep 29, 09:43 PM
we both need each other
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Boubar Sep 30, 10:20 PM
I guess if we lived in a situation where men and women are equal and one and the same, neither of them would need each other. The right perspective to view men and women is in a complementary way, men complement women and women complement men biologically and psychologically. Everything in this world comes in pairs and there is wisdom in that; each part of the pair is irrelevant or at least incomplete without the other. When we try to make men and women equal we are not doing any good because it just doesn't work as either of them is unique in their own way. Imagine this world comprised only of rich people, in that case no one would employ any one to work say for instance to build for them, as there won't be labourers because everyone is rich; there won't be anybody to do manual work or other mundane jobs. With this the world can't stand because everyone would have to do everything by themselves. The same thing applies to having a world where men and women are integrally the same - there won't be husband and wife, there won't be family structure, there won't be functional society. For me the key thing is to recognise men and women aren't the same but two parts that make one piece, and for us to really believe and understand the situation as it is naturally by design. As Sir Ahmadu Bello once replied to someone who said "let's forget our differences and work together" to which Sir Ahmadu Bello replied "no, let's understand our differences and work together". The whole existence of life is about give and take. You give what you have to get what you need. So, relationship between men and women is generally a transactional one with either of them having different preferences based on many factors and where neither of them can be absolved from being selfish in terms of what they look out for and seek in the opposite sex.
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Boubar Oct 1, 09:40 AM

Yea a man's greatest weakness is a woman. Women too have weakness although that might not have to totally come from a man. Women are emotionally stronger than men just as men are physically stronger; this is where the weakness of women lies. Women want to be loved and shown affection even if it's fake. Women are so affectionate and in need of affection that they can say to their fellow women 'I love you' and it's normal. It's so awkward when a fellow man says to his fellow man, even a best friend, that 'I love you'. This emotional apathy of men is the major reason why they can have more than one woman at the same time without guilt, confusion or regret, unlike women. Men desire women both physically and emotionally but much more physically than emotionally. On the other hand, women need men emotionally than physically. So here is where the issue of complementary situationship arises naturally - men and women need each other for different reasons because they are different.
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