Most men I’ve come across have this criteria that if a girl isn’t slim, fair and has long hair then she’s not marriage material. I really don’t get why this stereotype is still in. Shikenan if you’re not slim, fair and have long hair you don’t qualify. It actually brings down self esteem and sense of self worth. No guy wants to date you the moment he finds out you’re not slim and fair, it actually hurts a lot. Why do men always want that??? My brothers please I need an answer to this

So I had a boyfriend in 2018, though we're strong at first before he changed and I broke up with him February 2019 then we got back together at November 2019 . I was very sick at that time that I was in a coma and he didn't even visit me when I was sick, I was discharged from the hospital and I called him that day so my mother checked through my phone and blocked him then I was surprised that he didn't called me back and at that same time another guy likes me but I was so blinded with the other guy's love and I don't like him back. Like my mum will start insulting me Wai ayanzu mutun yaganki Yana Sonki Amman kina Mai wulaqanci though muna Dan chatting dashi so Sai jiya daddare around 3 my mum came to my room and I was on twitter with my phone so she said Bani wayan nan, me kkeyi da waya at this hour and I said ba chatting nake ba though I talked to my friend about breaking up with the guy that I like Kuma ma already nayi but I was hurt so Sai tace Na bude Mata WhatsApp tagani tafara fada but ba fadan bane matsalan, the words that she throwed at me like yanzu Ke kke bin namiji, Toh gayamin kina zuwa wajeshi neh da Har kka Damu hka, Ni banga maraban ki da karuwa ba Wai Harda kinci amanata, Kuma ahakan takeso Na dinga gayamata me nake ciki. Harda cewa Ai Ina da rawan kai, Ni Idan namiji yagama min dadin baki toh shikenan nagama yadda, tsakani da Allah wace uwa ce zata Fara gayawa yarta haka Wai saboda Shi Na dinga wulaqanta me Sona, Wai Ai Daman masu Sona tsakani da Allah Wanda suke Sona da mutunci su nake wulaqanta wa. Abinda Bata gane ba I broke up with my boyfriend because nasan Babu inda relationship din zaije Amman she keeps on blaming me. Wai Kawai abinda ya rage in Bude Daki a Sabon gari??. Tsakani da Allah Meye Hakan. Nidai insha Allah Bazan tabayima yarana haka ba wlh. Right now I'm so depressed wlh??

Okay,So I have this cousin that is in a relationship with a guy. They started dating immediately after breakup with her Ex(that way she still doesn't know how she fell in love with the new guy) 70% of closest relatives dinmu doesn't want that relationship, but she still sticks to him. And he's giving her positive answers all the time. I'm very close to her and I feel like it's never going to work out the way she wants. But she's soo much into him ko mai aka fada bata ji, ko fada sukai and they spend not more than 24hrs ba suyi magana babse tayi fever. Nobody is praying for su rabu. But if they do, I'm sure zata samu matsala psychologicaly and emotionaly. So please NB,let's pray for her. Thanks And I know she's going to see this. Please hide my ID

Shin nima xan iya wuf da Baban classmate dina?

Asslm Dan Allah ina da damuwa,inada saurayi kuma aure na xeyi kullun mgnanshi asa rana amma kwata kwata bayason kirana a waya ko chatting dinma bayi muke ba sae muyi 2wks bamuji muryan juna ba.Abun daya sa abun ke damu na yanada budurwa wacce ya hadu da ita kafinni sae suka rabu shine ya hadu Dani bayan ya hadu Dani sun koma suna tare da ita, still muna tare dashi akaso asa mae Rana shida ex din tashi sae abu be yiwu ba amma kuma still suna tare,,,Dan Allah ku bani shawara na rabu dashine ko na tsaya? Wlh kullun hankalina baya kwantawa

Dan Allah neman shawari nake a'm 25yrs but single sannan ban taba aure ba,abun Yana damuna Maza da Mata da yawan su kallon matar sure suke min Koda kuwa an samu Mai son Sai yace wai shi kallon matar aure yake min, Allah abun Yana daure min Kai,mey yake kawowa ana maka wannan kallon?

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Slm yan aji Ina son wata cousin Dina ne amma na rasa yadda zanyi na fada Mata jam here for your advice's pls help

Assalam alaikum. There's this guy that I like but I don't know how to tell him that I like him without him humiliating me

Salam Alaikum Sisters n Brothers in Islam, please why is it that Divorcées are always not respected in a society and people will be looking at them as “whores” and Men don’t usually goes to them for marriage, they just wanna use them and dump? It hurts wallah cuz av been having this problem for almost 2yrs now!

Hello, really I'm not good at this kind of stuff, so my story started ending 2018, I met this handsome guy, and we started dating, I was 16 then, freshly out of secondary school and he was 9 years older, I was full of life then, young, I had everything a teenager my age would ever ask for, and being my first, we became deeply in love, everything was a fairytale for me wallahi, after some months everything changed, no more calls from him, I became the caller, the crier, my best friend started stalking him on snapchat, the dude was cheating, when I knew about it, I dehydrated myself. I cried my life out, and still I went cool with it, everytime I get ignored I just cry, we later came to the phase that I don't cry anymore because of this quote "if you take poison everyday, it won't kill you one day" I no longer felt pain, but I still loved him, even after all he did, 11 month later, another issue of him cheating came up, with a girl young enough to be my baby sister, I confronted him about the matter, he didn't deny, I was deeply hurt, but I didn't cry, because I had no tears left for him, I broke everything with him. Even though that wasn't my wish, I loved him so much, to the extent that I've been praying for him, for 2 years of the relationship, my life was all about him, I was stupid, I was crazily in love, and I can't forget him, he took advantage of my innocence and he broke me so much that love is just a word to me, I'd like to call this an unjust love of a teenager.

Salam please I don't know if I can get a therapists in Abuja that I can just talk too , I have just gone through a rough relationship, I was strong enough to let go but I can't move on, I have prayed alot but it's like am stuck on it . I feel sad and depressed. I invested my time my efforts into it I really thought we were going to work out. Now am just doubting myself like am not just good enough for anywhere. That why I just need to talk to someone maybe I can find myself again and see what might be really wrong with me when it comes to relationship.

today is 6th April already, i wanted to do a break up joke on my girl friend and see her reaction then joke about it later. but i want to hear your opinions first, is it too late? or should i just Not do it?

I am 21 years old, from Katsina State studying law in Sudan??. In my life tunda aka haife ni ban taba yin budurwa (girlfriend) ba, yan gidan har tambaya ta suke suna “wai kai baka da budurwa and I’ll say no ? I’m tired ? I want have my first date please ???.

Every guy I have ever come across has just been terrible. All they want is sex nikuma it’s one thing I can never give any of them unless after nikkah. I have tried dating several time but this always happens to. I don’t know if it’s the way I relate to them or I’m just unlucky. I always try my very best to guard my chastity from the predators and I always do istigfar. I really don’t know what’s wrong with me. I only ever come across those type of men in my life.

Aslm yan aji, Cousin namu ya kwanta da matar yaya na a lokacin da baya gari. Shin laifin matan ne, cousin koh kuma mijin?

We see it as a normal chat that we all laugh about. People commit sin and repent, of which they are ashamed of, maybe it was just once but we the society don’t seem to forgive them or accommodate their flaws. You pity, love and support them to be better.we all can be in a situation but we choose to just sit back and gossip and be happy that our friend fucked up WAIYAZUBILLAHI Ina musuluncin namu da tunanin mu yatafi, hakika karshen duniya ta karato.Yan mata da samari arage gulma da kana nan maganganu. DONT LET SOMEONES PAST SIN BE THE REASON OR CREATE AN AVENUE FOR YOU TO COMMIT SIN THAT MAY TAKE YOU TO JAHANNAM.

Assalamualaikum. Good day to you all. I am in need of an advise from you people.. In my secondary school I met with this girl. Who i was crushing on and this girl seem to like me also but we didn't met each other.. All of a sudden one of her friend get to know me are both crushing on each other and decided to join us.. we were together for the past 3 years and currently we were both in the university.. my biggest fear is, how can I get married to her when most of my Uncles and Aunties are not yet married.. I began to explain but she couldn't listen. And I wanted to quite not because I don't like her but for future sake.. pls what should I do?

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Well i need an advice please There’s this guy I’ve been dating for almost a year and half .we were the perfect couple goals and all ..infact i knew he had alot of female friends around since before he met me so i felt I cannot stop him since i met him with them One sunny day I mistakenly went through his phone and i saw what almos choked me to death?..I didn’t really leave him afterwards because i was so inlove with himm and during that period we were father apart because I don’t really stay in the same town with him. So fast forward to early this year i went back to school and we reconciled and alll.Then he travelled ,and he is a kind of person that whenever he travels , we wll talk on the phone from dusk till dawn(you understand)But this time it was different,I understood that he had a lot of things to do and alll but that doesn’t mean he wouldn’t calll me,he wouldn’t reply my texts or even call me back. He doesn’t even call me at night like he used to whenever i complain he’ll be like he has alot on his plate ?. I still understood his point and forgot the whole thing..Then one day ,i came across another while i was going somewhere,like we clicked and became friends..The new nigga kept on calling me, we’ll talk from night till morning (nothing attached as at then)..you know how our heart is..The more we kept on talking ,the more i began to feel something for him but i discarded that thoughts because i was already in another relationship..Then it seems my bf heard abt the guy from God know where ,then he started calling me,checking up one me,asking me who i was talking to and so on??..And by then the other had already told me how he felt abt me , so i had to do istikhara ,after the istikhara i felt that i really likes the new guy..So the whole thing is i really love the new guy but I can’t really leave my boyfriend because he has done alot for me,stood by me and my friends ??..but he has become so toxic..please advice your girl!