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Am Confused To What I Should do... Am The Type that Loves & Care too Much. I know what i want in a Patner. so After years of Searching i meet this Girl that i come to like soo much She has Almost Anything That am Looking for Except for 1 Anger Issues 2 Trust issues. And because i love her I understand that I should make it Goal to Work on this things while we are dating before the time to marry. so Am doing my Best. She loves me soo much too. but then i have started seeing changes from the Way she treat me. i confronted her about it but she said its Nothing. so Few weeks back we Had A misunderstanding and as always she went on saying hurtful things. so as always i Ignore the massages to Avoid my self from Replying her when am Angry. i give it to days then i tryed calling her so that we sort things out. but she refused to pick after few days i tryed calling her Again but she refused to pick up this is about three weeks now. the mos annoying things is i was in an Accident nd she was informed by her friends but she Still didn't care to reach out.
Sep 12, 11:28 AM
is anyone here having same issue with mine?? as in if ure not involving yah self in that soyayyan shan minti or what ever they called it ure not wise enough as in baki waye ba i can't understand this pls dole ne en kuna soyayya da mutum sae ya nemi taba jikin ki in kinqi sae dae ku rabu🥺 this happens to me several times am just thinking i can't love again am tired
Sep 9, 04:56 PM
Ina neman friends both male/ female da zamu rinqa zumunci
Sep 9, 03:05 PM
salaam, i want to get public suggestions on Marriage preparations, i plan to settle next year as i just graduated and got a Job. i think within 1 year i can save and be able to afford. Things like Lefe how much averagely will it costs me for a middle class lady. i am the one to sponsor most of it thats why i am asking just to get an overview. i have not been in the country for long so i have lost touch with some of these realities. Thanks
Sep 9, 12:44 PM
why is it that most of this rich married especially thoses residing in Abuja, are not interested in you with a halal intentions but rather want to keep you as a side chick
Sep 8, 09:40 PM
I just need a lady from this platform with above mentioned quality.
Sep 8, 09:33 PM
Greetings everyone....i am a 22 year old girl seeking for a female best friend ... I wish for someone that is free spirited who we would be as close and sisters and share everything between each other.... If interested kindly write on abdulella01@gmail.com Have a beautiful morning.
Sep 6, 08:15 AM
Asssalama Alaikum Dan Allah mutane su tayani da Addua da kuma shawarwari nakasance ina aikata masturbation abin yana damuna sosai and is affecting my mental health gashi Ina son karatu sosai ina final year yanxu haka and kuma medical course nake nakan losing attention amma a hakan nake dagewa nake karatu Alhmdlh kuma Ina making amma wlh nakasa dainawa sai nace nabari sai na kara kumawa ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ gashi ni shekaruna 23 ne so ko nace zanyi aure ma gida zasu ce nayi yaro kuma ma ance har masters sai nayi wlh Ina iya kokari naga nadaina ina tsoron na mutu ina aikata abin nan har gashi ba gida ba I will in the comments section nagode sosai
Sep 5, 04:16 PM
men indirectly promote skin bleaching in Africa by showing too much attention to fair skin ladies...
Aug 24, 11:12 PM
Recently, a girl proposed to me, and i sent her a text "sorry, i am not interested in you" but i could sense the anger and dissapointment in her response. so i was thinking, these ladies outrightly reject men, sometimes they will even ignore you or boldly reject you with no remorse or peity on how you will feel but hate when the same is done to them? why? i'm expecting ladies to reply to this please.
Aug 18, 10:17 AM
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah pls brothers and sisters I need advice, I. H
Aug 12, 10:41 PM
I can see that nowadays relationships are so fragile and many people have unrealistic expectations when it comes to a relationship (either dating or marital), some of these unrealistic expectations include: 1. Believing that your partner will change without actually addressing the issue 2. Having thought that you should always feel the spark, deeply in love, or passionate 3. Believing that you should know what each other is thinking or feeling without asking 4. Thinking that you should always agree and never have conflicts 5. Believing that the relationship will grow on its own without actual mutual investment and effort 6. Believing that you should be part of every aspect of their lives or there should be no privacy 7. Believing that they should 'complete you' 8. Thinking every issue in the relationship is about them not you. And many more..... Such kind of unrealistic expectations tends to sabotage many relationships and create stress and resentfulness. A healthy relationship is a kind of relationship that let go of grudges and doesn't let any conflicts go unresolved, mistakes that many people used to made right from early stages of dating is avoiding conflicts resolution, many marital relationships begin with issues right from the dating phase which can't be or hard to be fixed in the long run. Avoiding communication and not trying to fix an issue will not let that issue fade, it will be there and even become bigger which will destroy the relationship entirely. If you're facing any issue with your partner, either by their behaviour, how they treat you, or any other issue, don't suppress it or lower your standards just to keep them, if you failed to stand up for yourself more especially at dating phase your partner will always keep treating you the way you showed up to them, you shouldn't be a passive, aggressive or passive-aggressive person, these kinds of behaviours will only make your relationship unhealthy and resentful, but rather, learn to be assertive person and easygoing. Finally, not every relationship is worth keeping and that's hard to believe, not every relationship is certain. Knowing when to leave a relationship that's draining your energy, and that's not serving you isn't an easy task, many of us have been suffering from low self-esteem and this let us put our partners on the pedestal and started to project a lot of fantasies of how this person could be, some have attachment issues that's why many people out there are accepting less than what they want in a relationship and keep convincing themselves that they're fine while they're not. Investment in a relationship should be a two-way stream, if you found yourself in a relationship where it feels like you're always giving then that could be unrequited love and it's pointless to keep trying in it. However, Istikhara will save you from wasting your time and energy on the wrong person, always ask Allah to guide you I guarantee you that you'll never regret that. Growth mindset is also very important to developed, just because your relationship with someone failed doesn't mean it's the end of the world, you'll feel the pain but it won't last forever and you'll have great opportunities in the future, don't rush the process and don't let social media and stereotype deceive you
Jul 24, 01:06 PM
Mostly during weekends he comes back 10pm - 11pm while i'm left at home alone, if i ask him he will say its his life and he will live it the way he wants, I dont even know where he is going. Should i report to my paretns or what please. Advice me like your sister. i don't want to do anything on the basis of my emotions Thank you
Jul 19, 11:16 PM
1. Gero 2. Agwaluma 3. Goruba 4. Kanwa Thanks
Jul 19, 10:54 PM
Would you rather have a male boss or a female boss & why?
Jul 19, 03:18 PM
Assalamu alaikum please like and comment on my post I want to win
Jun 24, 11:32 AM
after all the other partner is doing to ensure that hankalin daya bai karkata yaje somewhere else ba? and zakaga ma atimes abinda suke samu inside there houses yafi na wajen 💔
Jun 24, 06:52 AM
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