My girlfriend is sick and in the hospital, I know my question sounds silly but I just want to know what you all think. I want to visit her so I'm thinking if I should take something along or just go empty handed. She likes ice cream and chicken, should I take it along ? Or something else would be better ?

Am I the only one that notice that this "manyan mata" series has started becoming something else? The started it kaman abun kirki but now they are turning it into something else. Gskya my advice to parent is that in har baza a iya hakura da kallon shi ba ma, Keep children away from it. Because what they are showing is against our culture and religion. Let's be cautious kar mu bari a gurɓata mana tarbiyyar yara.

Are you close to all your brother(s) and sister(s) ? For me, I'm much closer to my immediate younger brother, my younger we are not much close but we are still actively involved in each other's lives. My older brother is another different case, we rarely talk, we can go for months without talking to each other,we live in the same house and both of us are fine with it. We used to be close as kids but as we grew older things changed , seniority and all came into place, now both of us rarely stay at home till night due to work. I'd like us to be closer but I guess for now it is what it is. What is it like for you ? Are you close to all your siblings?

I have high libido (sex drive). please how can I reduce it that's will not effect me negative. because I don't have plans to marry soon. I want some medicine that I will be using. to reduce it for me. at same time I want the libido to come back after I married

Hello please mutanen gidan nan I need your advice. There is a girl I love so much, but I refuse to tell her because I thought she was too young. I waited till she finished her secondary school, when she started her undergraduate program, then I told her what is in my mind. But to my suprise she told me that she is with someone already. After investigating, I found out that it is true but the person is yet to reach out to her parents. Please should I continue trying to win heart, or I should just leave her. Amma fa ina son ta sosai

please any doctor in the house???? I need help.

I had a boyfriend who always try to prove all his possible best to show me how much he really loves me, I trust him and love him with everything,but the only concern I’m having about him is, he didn’t want to see me with any man except him,maybe chatting or joking with them,it is not allowed 🚫 I ’m not allow to give out my numbers to any male friends either old/new friend,he will said I’m flirting with them 😪and our relationship is just two years now,pls is dis love or jealousy???

Assalamu Aalaikum, dafatan na same ku lafiya. Wani dan labari ne daga cikin rayuwa na nikeson baku. As ladies always say ni mai kudi nikeso, kokuma kyakkyawa nike so, ko bai komai idan na kalla kyakyawar kuska hankalina zai kwanta😂😂 kokuma idan da naira akwai farin ciki. Ehh duk haka ne amman ba priorities bane. What matters here is hali mai kyau. Na hadu da maza kala kala( ba iskanci bafa, irin proposals haka) daga cikin su akwai wani kyakkyawa wallahi ajin farko ko inane idan yaje mata sai sun juya that is to show u how handsome he is, amman wallahi harga Allah bai burge ni ba sabi da me, tabiun shi basuyi ba, wallahi idan dai sone yana so na tsakanin shi da Allah sabida munkai kusan shekara uku yanzu ana magana daya nace mishi yayi hakuri. Na biyun shima ga kyau, ka kudi Mashaa Allah, kana ganin shi kaga cikakken namiji amman me, babu hakuri sai uban naci( yhh i know it might sound haka saboda bana son shi ne kohh amman still daace haka ne aii da kudin shi yajanyo hankali na naso shi) but no. Sai kuma akwai wani, rufin asiri dai iya gwargwado akwai amman babu aikin yi, halaye, natsuwa da tabiunsa ba'a magana idan za'ayi grading inshi A+ zai samu, Allah ne mai halitta amman dai kuma shi in wallahi ba wani kyau ne dashi ba, ana dai lallabawa amman duk da haka Alhamdulillah. So Abin da nikeso maza su fahimta anan shine cewa ba kudin ka ko kyawun halittan ka zai sa mutum ya so ka ba, hasali ma idan kana da tabiu masu kyau, shi zai janyo mutane gareka. Ba ko wasu mata ne suka damu da abin duniya ba amman ba wai ina nufin ku gyara bane saboda mata, no idan kun gyara, kun gyara ma kanku ne ba kowa ba. Dan haka, ina rokon mu gabaki daya da mu gyara tabi'un mu kuma gyara na tsakani da Allah ba don wata koh wani ba.

I know this is very long bcuz I didn't notice the length until I finished. I visited like four of my married friends and wallahi all their complaints idan muna hira is da sunsani da basuyi aure ba kuma the annoying fact is that one of them ma Malami ne fa ...ayi ma other two din uzuri, wannan malami ne kuma ma yana koyarda matan aure amman duk da haka yana musguna wa matan shi a gida. Wallahi banida mashinshini amman duk da haka sun tsoratani akan harkan aure. Nasan it's not pure happiness cause rayuwa zomu saba zomu sapa ne. Wallahi ni shaida ce lokacin dayazo mata da maganan soyyayya, Yabi duka kaidan which gaskiya abin burgewa ne cause only a few ask for permission at home daga haduwa, ya nuna mata tsantsan soyayya mu kuma muna can muna God whennnn amman yanzu abin ba'a magana. Mazaa wallahi kuji tsoron Allah, menene ke sawa ku canza idan anyi auren, mezai hana kanuna mata yanda kake instead of yaudara, wallahi akwai hakkin ta akanku kuma ranan gobe qiyama sai Allah Ya tambaye ku. Mata dazaran sunyi aure wlhii iya kokarin su suke kawai suga sun burge miji, komai da zasuyi saboda farin cikin ka ne amman sai kuga mazan suna wulakantardasu just because they feel they are the bosses now. On social media, y'all show cewa kunsan right and wrongs dinku, kunsan hakkin matarku akan ku amman a badini ba haka kuke aikatawa ba. We all need to work on ourselves!!! let it not be one sided, da zaran anyi aure mu saka a ranmu cewa mutukaraba ne let's try to correct ourselves instead of just going out. Maza karku manta, mu mata ku kadai ne damu amman ku fah kuna da ikon samu har kala hudu, wannan kadai bai isa ya sa ku tausaya muna ba, aii wlhi albarkacin kaikadai zamu zauna da yaci ace kun girmama wannan. The main reason why i came here to pour my heart out is because wallahi i want change😭😭😭. Alamarin Auren da tsoro wallahi, its not all about the instagram reels we see. Nasan mazan ma ana ce musu suyi hakuri amman wallahi the ratio of hakurin maza to that of mata is 1:4, sai kaji wasu matan nacewa wallahi zaman yayana nikeyi😭😭😭💔💔💔 wato abubuwan da yakeyimata ne yasa taji zaman ya fita ranta amman ya ta iya💔 shi kuma fahh, at anytime sai yazo yace shi aure zaiyi kuma bbu abin da ta isa tayi mishi💔 Kai Rayuwa, Allah Yasa mugama da rayuwarmu lafiya, mu rabu da iyayen mu lafiya, wadanda suka rigamu gidan gaskiya Allahu Rabbi Ya Kai Rahama garesu, muma idan namu yazo yasa mu cika da kyau da Imani Kuma yabamu masoyan da zasu kaunacemu su kuma somu, su daraja mu su kuma ji tausayin mu. Allahumma Ameen🤲🏻✨

Dan Allah Wanda yasan adduar damutum zeyi yasamu mijin aure ya taimakamin dashi.i seriously want to be among the first batch of 2024

Those of you, including me, myself and I whom want to be the first batch of 2024 wedding/Nikkah should pray the following daily; 24 of Surah Duha and Qasas Verse number 24 of Surah Qasas is a special dua made by Musa (AS) while he is in exile. Musa (AS) felt very lonely and depressed and then he said this dua to Allah swt. As per many Islamic scholars, if a boy recites this verse 100 times a day, soon he will find a better girl for him. I don't know as una won put am 😂 but I Dey first batch biquddratilah 🙏 wehther I have found her or not, in fact whereever she is and where ever she is kindly know how to make pounded yam because this coming big sallah na pounded yam we go chop 😂 therefore, those in first batch say I!!! 🙋‍♂️ while those in second say me!!! 💁‍♂️ and those in 2025 say nea!!! 🙅 Allah yayi mana Albarka A duniya da lahira ameen 😁😁😁

Assalamu alaikum a'hibbayi biqddratillah you are all doing well Alhamdulillah Ala kulli'hali wa'fi kulli'hali. 🤗 ❤️ 😎 To day a very close friend of mine, which hereby, will be referred on this context, as MD👳‍♂️. MD was ranting on my head all day because of what his wife has did to him... he was so firous that he was asking me for a pen to give her saki daya... of course I tried all my best to calm him down... this is a man with 4 kids oldest being 12 years old... when his calm, he told me that when I get married, I 😎 should be ready to hear shit, received shit, and accept shit like that from my wife sometimes but for the sake of peace I should always remain calm and pray when I'm upset... this got me wondering, are we not guys are girls really really ready both spiritually, emotionally, and mentally to get married??? mind you not everyone is capable of marrying you for the sake of Allah, such kind of love comes from Allah... most people will say I will do this or that to my wife/husband when I get married mind you the reality is totally different... imagine waking up with the same person every blessed day for months and years??? it's just like eating pounded yam day in and day out... can we (the singles ) ready to handle it??? think about it for a second, Allah SWT said marriage is to find peace... so what brings peace??? what she did was really annoying actually and I would have done worst and I'm still surprised how his living life but that has thaght me to work on my self even more to become a better husband... therefore, I will recommend we all (the singles) to look at marriage more as an act of ibadah and anything about is to please Allah SWT. let's pray and more more in becoming the best husband/wife possible Allah yasa mudace. May Almighty Allah give us (the singles) the iman to cope with our eventual marriage Affairs Ammen!!!

ya rabbi has answered my prayers...Arewaup family thanks for you guys people too really appreciate

Assalamu alaikuma Jama'a ga wata labari na kawo muku. there was a in my school I met her when I was in final year toh gaskiya yarinyan tamun sai na gayama wani abokina saiya hada mun toh muka fara magana a cikin last year December kenan sai nayi asking ita out sai yace mun tanada saurayi sai na barta na daina mata magana after one week Kawai sai naga ta fara kirana everyday da daddare in muka fara waya around 11 Ko 12 sai wajan 3am muke gawama sai rana daya kawai tace mun muyi dating sai nace mata shikenan kuma fara dating January 2023 normal ba fada kuma muna san junan mu sosai shikenan Ana tafi Ana tafi duma duk abunda nace Tayi shi takeyi bata gardama Ko musu zuwa daya kawai last month October kenan kawai tazo ta fara bani attitude in nace mata Maiya faru sai tace babu komai Inna tambaye ta sai tace babu Inna kirata bata dauka inna mata message sai taga dama zatayi reply kuma Gashi ba gari daya mukeba balle inje in ganta ina kaduna tana jigawa kawai ranan nan ta kirani tace mun bari taga yamun gaskiya nace mata ina jin ta sai ce mun wai wlh batasan Meke damun ta bah kawai ita taji she doesn't have any feelings for me anymore wai anjima zataji tana sona next minute kuma taji ba haka bane tace wlh batasan Meke damun taba kuma shine tace is better kawai ta gayamun gaskiya shine tace in allah yayi Zamu dawo toh in kuma allah bai so bah toh shikenan allah haka kowa da rabonsa haka tace ni kuma nace mata ameen. Kuma ina santa sosai wlh dan yanzu kusan two weeks kenan da mukayi maganan saina tambayeta Kodai Tayi sabon saurayi ne tace mun Aa wlh kuma na yarda ba Wanda yake mata magana kuma na yarda da maganan data gayamun. toh akwai wanda zai kara ganar dani ne

aslm plxx a bani shawara there is this guy dai muke dating since last 4-5 months haka so muna tafiya komai normal amma ba a same state muke ba last week anyi bikin sister na , so fun one week before the wedding muke maganan ze zo bikin, kullum se na tambaye shi ko ze zo and sae yayi assuring dina ze zo, har ranan bikin yazo mukai magana yace zezo d yamma shi da frnd insa, sae nace tohm nima frnd ina tazo se ku gaisa na ajiye mishi abubuwan biki fah, na dafa mishi abincin sa daban , komai na ajiye mishi kawai sae 4:30 ya min chat wai shi he was joking ba zuwa zeyi ba , infact bema dawo ba(remember i told u we r not in the same state) gashi na tsayar d frnd ina, tazo tun safe fah abin y bani haushi kawai nace masa hmmm, haka nace mata tayi hakuri yace baze zo ba , kawai t fara min dariya so ana haka kawai se ya kira ni, so se yaji tana dariya shine fah y fara min masifah wai nasa fnd ina tana masa dariya , kuma y gode, and he cut the call from then till date bai kuma min magana ba , nima ban masa ba kuna ganin in mishi magana in bashi hakuri ko kawai nima in share sa inyi deleting everything related to him?? and again na manta ban fada muku ba, ina so inje makeup, mutumin nan yace kar naje , wai yafi so ya ganni ba make up wallahi saboda shi naqi zuwa, gaba daya sauran sisters dina d cousins sunyi, ni kadai ce banyi ba saboda shi kum a na fada masa na fasa yi din tunda baya so

Assalamu alaikum So this is my story, I'm just 21 yrs and a final year student. Na gama secondary school 2018 and I was 17 then. Mun fara soyayya da shi tun in SS1 and I loved him so much saboda shi ne namiji na farko da ya fara gaya min kalmar soyayya a rayuwata. Munyi soyayya a boye saboda a gida ban isa a ce na fara soyayya ba sai muke yin komai a boye, no phone calls sai dai idan ba kira shi da wasu}wayanasu saboda ban fara rike waya a lokacin ba Lokacin da na kai SS3 na fara rike waya a lokacin ne aka fara sanin shi a gida. Nayi SSCE dina a June/July 2018 sai na fara zaman gida kafin in samu admission. Wata rana sai yace zai zo ya gaishe da Babana and I was so scared then saboda ban san ya zaa dauka maganan a gida ba saboda I was still young. Sai yaje ya samu babana da kan shi sai ya nema izini kuma aka amince and within a short period of time akayi komai aka gama akayi auren mu December 2019 a lokacin na samu admission kuma na fara karatu kenan sai aka samu Corona crisis. Ban yi tunanin haka aure yake ba saboda ina son auren da kuma wanda na aure din sosai kuma haka shi yasa na matsa sai anyi auren da wuri kafin in samu admission saboda nayi imani a lokacin ko da yace ba zanyi karatu ba zan amince da shi. A ranar farkon mu tare bayan an gama biki munyi duk abinda ya kamata munyi sallah sai da aka zo penetration sai aka samu matsala he was so weak sai ya kasa sai muka bar shi a kan cewa gajian biki ne same thing with 2nd day, 3rd day har dai aka gama satin sai nace mishi kodai harda tsoro ne yace min shima bai san me ya faru ba. Shiru dai har 3 weeks nace mashi muje asibiti mana saboda abun ya fara damun shi nima haka saboda duka ba wanda yake expecting haka cikin mu. Munje asibiti muka karba maganin infection da wasu abubuwa sai aka fara samun sauki da haka dai muka fara neman magani sosai ana cin gaba. Amman wannan matsalan na cigaba tsakanin mu wata rana a dace wata rana ba haka ba Ni kuma sai na fara rashin yarda da shi saboda ko kadan bana jin dadin tarayya da shi Sai shima kuma ya chanja min lokaci daya saboda shima baya samun abinda yake nema duk da ina yarda da shi wani lokaci amman wani lokacin bana yarda After 6 months sai ya chanza gaba daya fadan yau daban na gobe daban saboda he was almost 36 and he was desperate ya samu haihuwa ni kuma ban yi conceiving ba. Abin ya zama kaman tsana a tsakanin mu sai duka ya fara shiga alamun ya gaji da ni kenan meyasa ba zan yi ciki ba wanda ni kuma nafi tunanin matsalan daga wurin shi ne a karshe dai court ta raba auren mu last year kuma bana dana sanin rabuwa da shi a rayuwata

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbbayi ... it's been a while... I pray everyone is in a good condition Alhamdulillah.... even though I'm not fat 😁 I will like to make some changes in my food life... I need to taste new forms of food 🍱 🥘... so what's your favorite food? what's the type of food that when you eat you will fall in love or become happy? tell me your thoughts 🤗 please note: no body sound mention tuwon shinkafa da miyan kuka... especially sokoto people ⚠️ remind blessed 🙏

Perhaps with this I may be able to unburden my heavy heart and have a bit of relief. I do not have the guts to say what I wish to directly to you. I'm too ashamed. Ending it was never my wish. You were one of the best things to ever happen to me my entire life. If I had known it would end this way I would have never approached you. I regret ever meeting you. Not because I find you with any faults or our time together was bitter, but because of the hurt I inflicted on the both of us. Between my Lord and I, it was never my intention ending it. My wish was as you were my first love, so shall you be my last, ending up being my Mrs. But as fate would have it, it seems we were not meant to be. And who are we to fight what is beyond our control. Perhaps we aren't khair for each other on the long run as we thought and The All-Knowing The All-Wise knows best. We planned and He planned but He is The Best of planners. The way we clicked, vibed and understood each other within a very short time, I never for once doubted whether we were soulmates, still don't and never will. Though some people say not all soulmates end up together. I'm beginning to believe so as I've exhausted all in trying to see us back together. But all efforts proved abortive. I am drained. I no longer have any fight in me. For every futile attempt, my heart breaks multiple times over. I am just living the life of joylessness, everything is now in black and white. The sun no longer shines, it is always gloomy. Nothing is ever interesting. Get pissed off in the slightest of provocations. Just roaming around but dead inside as though nothing matters anymore. The energetic, carefree, lively, free of worries me is no longer there. I know you've said not to ask for your forgiveness again, believing I didn't wrong you at some point. But I can't help it. I can't help the guilt of breaking such a beautiful heart, dimming the shine of such a beaming soul full of life and excitement. So please here I am again seeking your forgiveness. I wish to atone for my misdeeds, but I have no way of doing so. I am clueless as to what to do. The only thing I can is to ask for your forgiveness. I don't mind being the villain of this our story. Please do not let my silly actions dull your shine and ruin your happiness. Nothing would make me happier than to see you live your life to the fullest as you've done before I came into your life and later on left it in shambles. Please let go of the hurt. If I had sense any chance to get back together with you nothing would stop me. I'll go to any length to see it happen as long as it's within jurisprudence. But all efforts yielded in negative results. It's on this note that I please urge you to give yourself another chance to life, live freely and happily. Give love another chance. Nothing would make me happier than to see you fall in love and be happy. If not with me then with someone gazillion times better than me. I'm so much desperate to see that happen. Maybe I too then will have little bit of relief knowing that you've moved on and found the happiness I could not afford to give you, the happiness best deserving of an amazing being such as yourself. The little time spent with you will forever be cherished. You've made me want to be a better person without even trying. In fact you've succeeded in making me better than I was before I met you, though still not deserving of a being such as yourself. You've been a great influence in my life and I thank my Lord for that. May Allah reward you with the best of this world and the next. May you forever be the coolness of your parents' eyes. When it's time for you to leave the world, may your soul depart when your Lord is most pleased with you. And may He admit you in the highest ranking of Jannah. It's on this not that I admonish you and I to not despair, for He is in control of all and in His infinite wisdom and mercy all shall be better. Ma'assalam.

ya rabbi🥹🥹🥹this single life want to kill me so lonely and bored no best friend no boyfriend me alone

I have told you times without number that I am not in a rush in any of my steps, if Allah has it with time it shall come to pass need advice