I registered Matchmaking earlier this year amma akwai mutane dayawa that are available for just sometimes relationship they are not intending to move forward I met more than 5 guys the first guy I met was a good person actually but time djn dayaxo wajena for the first time I introduced him just to say Hello to my mum this guy just told me that am taking things fast imagine just to say Hi to my mom pah😂 because he's serious at least a aladar bahaushe dole iyayen mace susan wake neman 'yarsu bawai dole she must marry him within that time ba but let them feel secure that tana tare DA mutumin kirki or so understand this pls wai dan mace tayi introducing dinka to her parents does not mean she's taking things fast 😂 This guy I met later muna gari daya dashi but he dont chat until I chat to him so nima I ignored messaging him kuma yanxu its almost 3-4 weeks but koh yace Bari yaxo mugaisa he showed me he is not serious💔 Please you guys should be serious about a girl bawai ana sauri bane just for you to know each other more and discuss about yanda relationship dinku xa tafi but to just keep quiet and show u don't care is not good gaskiya I advice each an everyone on this platform to be serious akan relationship mu Mata basauri bane but at least let us know your plans for marriage maybe a year or 2yrs or more idan she can wait its normal pls let's be serious

Tohh...this is the second time I'm making a post about this. Dan Allah muyi hakuri mu jira right person. Dont just rush into a relationship because you want to feel among, even if you do, don't ignore the red flags because of material things or because you want to feel among. Prioritize your feelings, Prioritize your specs dont just jump into relationships saboda kinga wata friend dinki nayi. Good and fineee we all know that the pressure is getting wesser😂 buh still Ki sanya Allah a al'amuran ki kuma Inshaa Allahu, He'll provide you with the best. ❤️❤️❤️

Arewa-up pls rectify this problem of not being able to send requests directly from Forum.

Good Morning fellows.. I need an advice please, I am hepatitis reactive, and recently I met a lady which we understood each other and we have alot in common. We truly love each other and want to marry in the future. We were having a conversation recently and I told her that am hbv reactive but it's under control. She asked me that she wanted to inform her family and hear their opinions regarding that, and I agreed about that. What do you think or your advice ?

I got served hot breakfast my world is falling apart I'm crying babu abinda kemin dadi I want to end it all I'm in pain..I hate him so much but a part of me still loves him and that's making me to hate myself it eating me up pls help me for Allah sake..how do I overcome this

sbd Allah anyi sallah bbu kayan sallah, turare, hula ko links. ko Daya bata Siya mun bh, men wanna be taking care not only women. Gashi anyi sallah still bbu nama bbu snacks 😋 ku bni shawara🤣 My gender ku fito kada ku yarda ayi mun raddi over

ni bansan meyasa only married men ke ta asking dina out bah ,pls young guys me ya faru ne

Dan Allah how can I uncancel a friend I cancelled ?

Let on this Forum Alone, a day hardly passed by without a girl making a post about relationship, How she wants a husband blah blah blah or some boyfriend issues & how she wants a Man to love her.., haka dai zasuy ta yi. Earlier today i sat down and had a thought does it really bother them this much? Don't you have careers? Business? I am almost 30 & never been in a relationship because i don't know how it will add value to my life. Lets Discuss. Please ladies shift your aspiration to something more meaningful or productive. Getting a good husband is very rare these days, be okay with not being in a relationship or marriage, because there are more bad people than good humans out there.

have you ever dated someone and you think the person is the last bus stop,buh suddenly the person starts behaving like roundabout?

Am always into a serious relationship for months and years komai Lafiya qlw ,buh as soon as mazan nan suka ji maganar is serious (maganar elders) they run away,like I don't know why ....

assalam. Dan Allah shawara nake so ku bani... boyfriend Dina ne yace yanaso muje nawa mom din sa gaisuwar sallah... ba'a mana Engagement ba...Ni kuma gaskiya ina ganin hakan be dace ba...ku bani shawara ko nice fahimta ta kadan.nagode

Please I want to know the basic things da ake sakawa a cikin lefe.I know it depends on the number of boxes

Assalamualaikum Ina yini hide my ID please Tambaya nake Koh akwai wacce tasani katin mother's day anasaka sunnan amarya da ango Koh amarya kawaii please inda Mai sample ta turomin

Salam alaikum. I'm so glad to talk to you about this right now Allah. please I would like to know if you had an idea or why do I always feel so scary and worry if I see any ladies with (HENNA any type?). Since I was kid I don't like it, I thought is a matter of childhood💔 but no that dis like of Henna follow me to my Adulthood now I'm -28- The evil side of my dis like on Henna, if woman that has it on hands cook I don't eat, if she call me I won't come, I don't attend weddings💔💔 their was this time I'm coming back into the country at Ethiopia airport a woman was try to give me her babygirl to help her hold so she can arrange due to her babygirl has Henna I swear I didn't carry the baby, I moved no time. So sad💔 since I started working in Japan port authority here in Japan my mom want me to get married but she don't know what I'm afraid of. I've never seen in northern part of Nigeria we're a woman will get married and she is not going to do HENNA❤️ never. Is a promise Alfarman Annabi S.AW🤲 any lady I'm going to married to and she sacrifice HENNA even on wedding day she didn't do it, Allah Kareem Automatic Inshallah the following week of the marriage Saudi Arabia if her passport is ready. And she has direct ticket to control me Inshallah🤲. Maximum respect to All men's that follows woman with HENNA or not✊. Thank you for your time.

Can a guy of 23 get married to a girl of 17 who truly love each for the sake of Allah, and how would they try and convince there parents for agreement, but for sure the guy hasn't finished his uni, still in lvl 300 but the girl just finished her secondary, please how would they convince there parents

" I and My Bea Have Been Together For Years Now. But We Still have this Feelings of Excitement Stage .our love is so unique.it Is Agreed By All Around Us That There is No Greater Love Than Our Own. Am Sure If Am To Say more things about it So many members here Can Recognise Me instantly. So the thing us we Want to Secure A Future with Each other but am In My Final Year Right Now. So Any Advice Please ? "

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbayi Barkan ku da Sallah kuma Allah ya Kara maimaita mana Ameen 🙏 recently I noticed a growing number of ladies comparing and complaining that their boyfriends is miser/stingy/maku etc. I believe most of us went to islamiyya and our reason for going to islamiyya is to reflect the Islamic education into your lives right? good... Islamically, wehther you are a guy or a lady, it is good to give gifts to people babies 👶, elder 🧓 aunties 👩🏼 mother 👵 even a girlfriend 👧🏼 (with intention of marriage) boyfriend (with the intention of marriage) and shall receive lada/good deeds/ha'saanat... may Allah grant us good deed from our daily acts. Our focus is on guy giving a lady a gift right? firstly, let's talk about our culture, imagine yourself as a father or a mother which children, and one of your female child brought a gift to the house from someone you both don't know? is that part of our culture fisabilillah? we both know that some guys have evil intentions towards a lady and they will use gifts her to lower her down to his needs... Secondly, Let's talk about the Islamic ruling on gifting a lady... a gift is not giving a lady directly rather, through her parents and when her parents accepts such gifts then a lady should accept it, and they most already be in a courtship with a sole intention of marriage and nothing else, meaning engagement and both parents most know each other too . Thirdly, let's talking about the economy, I know, I have seen, and I understand that most/some ladies are finding life difficult due to financial and emotional stress in the country, especially those in schools, may Allah make it easy for you all and the guys too... I have no Islamic Hadith in gifting on this aspect ( please some should teach us the Islamic rulings here), but generally speaking a it is encouraged for a financially capable guy with good intentions to earn reward from Allah SWT to assist a lady who is in need of financial assistance to support her education, feeding, and other important things not Kayan sallah and other irrelevant things in order to avoid the lady (especially those in school) from falling a victim to the evil minded guys. by the way, I stand to be corrected 👨‍🎓 my personal advise to all ladies, Zamani ya chanxa the world is coming to an end please and please try as much as possible to start a business or learn a skill and perfect yourself on it because the more you ask a guy the more some of them will try to take advantage of you, by saying this, I will also like to advise the men, my guys, my able and capable gender 😎 instead of gifting a lady with cloth or shoe or whatever, let's try and support their businesses by patronizing them, by getting customers for them, or by financially adding the number of their products so that they can grow and we earn a growing reward from Allah SWT. So my brothers and sisters, my Sallah is not complete because I have not eaten pounded yam yet 🥹 and no body invited me to eat pounded yam with goat meat 🍖 but I surely hope your Eid was well spent, Allah has accepted your sacrifices and rewarded you all aboundantly and may see many more EID to come and may our deceased loved ones continue to rest under Allah's Rahma and light. I love you All ❤️ 😎 🙏 Taqabalallahu Minna Wa Minkum!

Assalamualaikum everyone Eid Mubarak to you all Shawara nake Nima....I don't know whether it's from me or not I have two grown up junior sisters...you know all of em have boyfriends,and not to brag, they're all trying to keep it halal in a relationship... My problem is I have a boyfriend too, I'm not a materialistic person,but my siblings used to make fun of me because of my boyfriend... they'll be like yaya kekam duk samarinki marowata ne...tell me among all of them Wanda ya taba samiki ko airtime din darine, baya damuna Amman yanxu yafara damuna tunda sukayi mgn ah gaban maman mu tayi backing dinsu up, Su harga Allah there bfs are showering them with gifts,money, airtime and the rest...i don't know ko ban iya soyayya bane sbd duk ex's Ina bb Wanda ya taba min kyauta,the annoying one is this particular one I'm dating now... Munkai 8months, ni I used to view things as normal but my sisters susuke sani damuwa, so whenever I called him he'll pick har saimun gamar da airtime dinna,then he'll call with his own card trying to conclude the conversation we're having ya hada da we'll talk later which is under probability,Kuma ko sau daya Bai taba samin airtime ba, sometimes I'll said bandashi Naga koxae tura Amma inaaa ko ah collar rigarsa ...he doesn't have much time for me self claiming he's busy all day,we used make call once in a day shima din da dare around 11:30 pm, and I'm a type of person that used to sleep early Amman haka nake hakuri najirashi,Kuma he doesn't even appreciate my waiting... sometimes ma zan Gama jiranshi idan ban Kira first ba he'll not call...like seriously they're alot that I don't want about him now,and he's not even willing to change... Infact I want to end the relationship but I don't know from where to start,and like seriously I loved him with all my heart 😭, which I hate myself for that. Pls help a sister with shawara how to end it up

1-A nemi ganyen mangoro guda bakwai (7) 2-danyen tumeric (kur-kur), za'a ganshi kamr danyar citta haka yake guda 6 3-kankana(water melon kamar ta N200 4-citta manya danye guda 2 ko 3. 5-tafarnuwa bunch(kusan cikin tafin hannu)guda daya 6-pure water 4litres Sai a tafasa gaba daya,a rika sha kullum (everyday).in ya kare a hada wani Yana maganin wanke mataccen maniyi wnda yake hana haihuwa yawanci,kuma yake saka saurin kawawo wa,yana taruwa ne baya fita. Yana maganin sanyi Yana wanke mara Yana maganin kankarcewar gaba sbd masturbation. aman bazai mah magani bah muddin baka daina masturbating bah.a dage ayi kokari a daina masrubation illa neh ga rayuwarmu Dan Allah.a dage a gwada wnn inshallah za'a dace.