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How do i introduce him to my family (for Marriage)? Marriage

Please how will someone introduce her boyfriend to her family, how will she start, telling them she loves him

Jun 16, 06:45 PM
How can I approach a lady I met through Bolt? Relationship

I’m almost 25yrs, as a man i have never date anyone, because I only concentrate on my studies. Just of recent I have finished my studies and luckily I started working as a civil servant, now I think is the right time to start searching for life partner. I do bolt as side hustle, earlier this week, I took a young lady that when i saw her i liked her. My question is, how can i approach her as if not of bolt i will not have her contact.

Jun 16, 06:33 PM
He loves me but i am not attracted to his looks. Advice

I know a few people will judge but i just need understanding and advice. The guy im dating loves me a lot. I don't have much complaints about his flaws har ga Allah. But wallahi he's not good looking. Don't get me wrong, im not after handsome and all that but for someone averagely okay atleast. I started dating him because of his good character and convinced myself that with time I may start seeing his handsomeness because of his good character but wallahi im not seeing it. I've prayed hard and scolded myself so many times that looks shouldn't matter because he didn't create himself but for whatever reason it's still on my mind. I'm finding it very hard to fall in love with him because I am not attracted to him wallahi. I'm so conflicted. some times I want to end it and then he does something nice and I say to myself but he's a good person. I keep going in circles like this. I need genuine advice wallahi.

Jun 16, 06:12 PM
I wish i can just say this but I need a partner. Marriage

Guys I am depressed, sometimes I feel like I don't need a guy or man in my life but sometimes that baby in me just come out and want someone to care, love and treat me like the Queen that I am. I don't want a king, a prince charming will suffice, I am beautiful, loving, caring, I am 7ft tall, I am 24, slim, ebony, extrovert, tech girl, educated, fun to be with. Haba na, all this package in one person and up till now I never see better human being, only dankalis disturbing my peace with unnecessary demands and story. Kash Allah mai iko

Jun 16, 04:42 PM
Just thinking out loud Lifestyle

Hi everyone, or Salam to y'all. It's been long since I posted on this platform, I have been in Rehab all this while. Trying to recuperate from a phase in my life. I am not here for long talks but rather just to let go of whatever I have in mind right now. I have been an extrovert all my life but what I went through made me to be an introvert myself. It's so painful loving someone dearly, sincerely, truthfully and soboda Allah and coming to know they never loved you. Why are men so wicked, why are you guys heartless, why is it that you find joy in playing with someones feelings. Guy, I was broken to pieces, I can't start saying what happen or how anything happen but what I want is your prayers every one, I just want peace, love and care, is that fucking too much to ask. Can't someone love me like they love themselves, hmmm. Shit happens in life..

Jun 16, 04:35 PM
this is love ko MUGUNTA? He doesn't want me to complete my school or work Relationship

Assalamu alaikum,hmm Is this love ko kiyayya,we have been dating for 3yrs yaso Muyi aure Ina gama secondary school sai wani aiki ya fita da shi kasar waje,be dawo ba Sai da na fara diploma bayan ya dawo he insist ayi aure my father was ok than he come up wai sai dai na bar school,i was like ai babu Transfer a health sai yace wai no aina gama school kenan,and by the other side familysa na fada sai mijin sister sa ya barta tayi master but me common diploma yanaso yayi stopping dina is that love?and he once's told me that macen da batayi boko ba ai ba macen zuwa unguwa bace infact shifa yana son mace mai zurfin karatu,I don't know ko nice bayaso da karatu,am done with my diploma da kyar yanxu anzo maganar aiki yace bazanyi ba and after auran da 5months zai tafi school na 3yrs he's stopping me from working kuma ya hanina karasa karatu wai business ma babu Amfani tunda nauyina yana Kansa,ga uban rules and regulations,wai sai dai na zauna gida,he was even saying wai babu namijin da zai yadda Hakan I told him akwai kuma in Allah ya yadda Allah zai bani supportive husband nasan akwai Su.

Jun 15, 11:51 PM
Is it Normal how my boyfriends reacts when I talk about financial matters? Relationship

Nighty Night People. I have a Question .DanAllah wai yan matan kano na tambaya ko amsar kudi a wajan saurayi ne πŸ˜‚ Dan ina fara maganar I will buy this, I ordered this,or maybe I asked at home for such amount and the reponse isn't favoring. Anything money in short sai naji tone din saurayi ya chanza πŸ˜‚ Kuma I'm not begging or going to ask him for anything wooo na gist🀣 Dan yau I was talking about learning a skill that costs around 300K Oga was like I have to do something I will call backπŸ˜‚ it's like he dated girls that were after his penny or I'm I wrong to talk about stuff like that

Jun 15, 11:04 PM
I am struggling with masturbation addiction Lifestyle

am highly addicted to pornography ND masturbation i try many times to stop but i fall back i will so ashamed of my self sometimes am losing confidents and the nature of my work need allot of confidences ND courage.i need your prayers plsss

Jun 15, 08:44 PM
Can you tell your spouse your salary? Marriage

As a married man is it advisable to disclose to your wife your monthly salary ? Please state with reasons.

Jun 15, 11:33 AM
Should a 17yr girl old marry a 23yr old who is ready? Marriage

Can't a 17 year old girl get married to someone who is 23, who is ready to take care of her and carry all the responsibility

Jun 15, 08:26 AM
please whats a remedy for halitosis? Health

please I need help. I have a brother who's suffering from halitosis for a very long time.he try so many remedies.but no good results. pls our dentist say smtng.or someone with idea about what to use for good result

Jun 15, 06:38 AM
MEN AND THEIR HOBBITS πŸ₯Ί Relationship

After gathering all the courage and energy to open up and tell him that I'm in love with him πŸ₯Ί he end up asking weird questions like(can you stop working and be a full housewife? ). please I need your advice, is this a sign of red flag?

Jun 14, 08:59 PM
Me yake fara zuwan ranka idan kayi tunanin Aure? Marriage

Aduk Lokacin Da Kayi Tunanin Yin Aure Me Yake Fara Zuwa Ranka?

Jun 14, 11:59 AM
managing the house and work Lifestyle

Assalamu alaikum Please to all those working women who are married please how do you tend to manage the household, children, food and still be able to work. like me I'm single my parents sometimes travel and leave me with my siblings but I use to go to school so I find it hard I'm thinking what if I get married and still go out to work? please share your tips to us πŸ₯Ί

Jun 13, 09:59 PM
My first time in the university General

I was 18, fresh out of secondary school When I got admitted to study Microbiology in a higher institution in Katsina. I was the first person amongst my brothers,sisters,cousins to enter the university . I became somewhat close to a celebrity in my family and even across the streets. I felt on top the world in that moment I believed I was destined for great things . The day I was to finally depart for school,I got equipped with a lot of things you'll think I'm going to spend 20 years . That morning,my mom sat with me and gave me the last advice before I leave and venture into a different world . As I packed my luggage , I felt like a thousand bricks was weighed on my head . There was tears in my eyes but I couldn't let anyone see it . My younger brother assisted me with my stuffs all the way down to the car park . He waved me good bye and that's when all the emotions I've held came crashing down on me . Tears started flowing out of my eyes, I used my sun glasses to conceal any sign of tears from onlookers. This is it ,my journey to becoming a man , a boy shouldering the expectations of many , a boy many looked up to it ,I need to man up and do it for my family, make everyone proud . The more I kept on motivating myself the more tears continued flowing out of my eyes . I was a brilliant student in secondary school, upon entering the university my sole aim was to hit first class and maintain it till I graduate 😁. That truly was my goal , until I wrote my first test ,that was chem101(general chemistry) . Normally in secondary school I don't study hard ,I just read for maybe 20 minutes a day before test or exam and I'll go and 'freestyle" on my answer booklet the next day , I always ended up getting high mark . Prior to the test I met a friend I knew back home ,he was in 200 level,he failed the general chemistry course and had to carry it over with us . He adviced me to study hard because the course it's challenging. In my mind I was like see this dundy, no matter how bad it reach I will score up to 40/100 which is the pass mark . I wrote the test ,when the results came out I nailed 5/20. It was a minor wake up call for me . Then the pressure set in,I was careless and wasteful with food and the money given to me from home. In 3 weeks I've finished most of my food stuffs and left with garri. In that moment I realized that I didn't just go to higher institution to read ,I am there to learn life . There was no one to cook for me ,no one to wake me up if I'm late for lectures,no one to tell me to go to class ,no one to tell me to read . I needed to sort myself out by myself. It was a life changing experience for me . Back to studies , I started to study harder but I wasn't getting the results I expected. Approaching my first semester exam,My targets changed from first class to 4 point ,from 4 point to second class upper. In the end ,I got second class second class lower . I had one carry over .... Guess which course ? Genera chemistry πŸ˜† I couldn't even tell my parents my result. I was greatly disappointed. That moment was a big wake up call for me . I learnt some things about life ,in secondary school,I was a proud person ,I never ask for help no matter how stuck I am . I always believed in myself to solve my problems . While that is a good thing ,I learnt life doesn't always work that way . I used to copy people who go to school at night to study till morning,but that never worked for me ,I stopped that and started doing things my own way . Lastly, I left something very important; God . I regularly missed prayers , I don't wake up at night to perform nafila . I never asked for His help,I wasn't connected to God at all,I was so confident in my abilities and God left me with my brains .

Jun 12, 04:11 PM
Please what local or home remedy can I use to treat hypocalcemia 😞 Health

Please what local medicine can I used to cure hypocalcemia, Wallahi I'm on drugs but the moment I skipped it for a day toh shkn na kwanta kenan bbu lfy

Jun 12, 02:51 PM
What business can I start and How? Business

I've been thinking very hard about how to start a business as a female. let's keep all this love and relationship thing aside, for a person from a middle-class family especially a lady, being in a relationship is not all that matters, at least you also want to get married just like your friends, but getting married might be difficult yanda komai na rayuwa yayi tsada, For the marriage to take place dole sai both sides sun shirya, yau kouh aure kikayi a matsayin ki na mace dole sai kin samu wasu iyan matsala in bakida sana'a kuma ba lallai ki auri mijin da xai iya dauke miki duk wasu bukatunki ba, so as for me I would like to give a helping hand to my parents in order to meet the demands of marriage especially this siyan kayan kitchen, At least nima Ina son nayi wani abu, ba sai komai anyi min ba. But whenever I think about it I can't have an answer coz the questions that comes to my mind is What business should I start and how? How can I get the customers? Or should I gather all my savings and Invest in some business? these are some of the questions that keeps popping in my brain. so please let's discuss this business issues cox I might not be the only one having this problem. suggestions and advice pls help a sister.

Jun 12, 10:20 AM
Is it okay to for a 26yr old lady to reject a 28yr old Man? Relationship

slm,pls what is wrong in saying as a 26yrs old that you won't or u don't want a 28 years old to marry,shin yin hakan ba dade bane?

Jun 12, 12:37 AM
Why some ladies may not be responsive in relationships Advice

Do not get upset if she doesn't respond. You don't know what kind of day she is having. Her reasons for not replying could have nothing to do with you.

Jun 11, 04:58 PM
My Opinion on Relationship Marriage

Assalamu alaikum ya A'hibbah'i I pray and hope you all doing great and blessed. Relationship is a very sensitive commitment that most both genders go into with a negative mindset which in turn they will come back to this platform to complain " this guys did that" or "that girl did this" which negatively catalyzes Division among us and allowing more negativity into our thoughts. however, it is noteworthy to realize that whoever you want to date or u are dating is it crucial to go into a relationship with a 100% positive mindset unless you don't believe or you are not sincere in daily your prayers to Allah SWT. whoever you want to date or are dating today did not grow of in the same house you did, while you like pounded yam and they like semo, and they have different upbringing from you. therefore, it is very important to look at how compatible both of you are. there is a phase that says " two good people cannot live in the same roof if they are n or compatible to each other" (@jattox et ul.) so not everyone can love a person for the sake of Allah but we can accept each other's nature. When you are committed to a relationship you should have a burning desire to upgrade that person to becoming a better person than they were before dating you... such things includes but not limited to; teach/ reminding them on religion, enhancing or persuading them to learn a commercial skill/handwork, encouraging at school to performance better, always saying good things about them e.g. you did well πŸ‘ , you are a good person 😊, I'm proud of you πŸ€—, you are the best πŸ’ͺ... not just I love you like most people do in a relationship. Finally, we should not be condemning each others as we are both Allah's creations. there is a Hadith that Messager of Allah pbum said man who insulted him Ram 🐏 should give it away or let is go... I can't remember the complete Hadith (someone should correct me please). talkless of condemning a gender. so my brothers and sister if you want good things then you have to be good yourself not because of people around you but for the sake of Allah because we don't know when we will take our last breath in duniya. to me, everyone in this platform is a good person may Almighty Allah with HIS infinite mercy guide us and may we all meet in Aljannatul Firdausi and start a platform named: "arewaup for Aljannah people" πŸ˜ƒ for you and me... with love ❀️ and kind regards have a blessed days ahead.

Jun 11, 10:26 AM


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