Assalamu alaikum So this is my story, I'm just 21 yrs and a final year student. Na gama secondary school 2018 and I was 17 then. Mun fara soyayya da shi tun in SS1 and I loved him so much saboda shi ne namiji na farko da ya fara gaya min kalmar soyayya a rayuwata. Munyi soyayya a boye saboda a gida ban isa a ce na fara soyayya ba sai muke yin komai a boye, no phone calls sai dai idan ba kira shi da wasu}wayanasu saboda ban fara rike waya a lokacin ba Lokacin da na kai SS3 na fara rike waya a lokacin ne aka fara sanin shi a gida. Nayi SSCE dina a June/July 2018 sai na fara zaman gida kafin in samu admission. Wata rana sai yace zai zo ya gaishe da Babana and I was so scared then saboda ban san ya zaa dauka maganan a gida ba saboda I was still young. Sai yaje ya samu babana da kan shi sai ya nema izini kuma aka amince and within a short period of time akayi komai aka gama akayi auren mu December 2019 a lokacin na samu admission kuma na fara karatu kenan sai aka samu Corona crisis. Ban yi tunanin haka aure yake ba saboda ina son auren da kuma wanda na aure din sosai kuma haka shi yasa na matsa sai anyi auren da wuri kafin in samu admission saboda nayi imani a lokacin ko da yace ba zanyi karatu ba zan amince da shi. A ranar farkon mu tare bayan an gama biki munyi duk abinda ya kamata munyi sallah sai da aka zo penetration sai aka samu matsala he was so weak sai ya kasa sai muka bar shi a kan cewa gajian biki ne same thing with 2nd day, 3rd day har dai aka gama satin sai nace mishi kodai harda tsoro ne yace min shima bai san me ya faru ba. Shiru dai har 3 weeks nace mashi muje asibiti mana saboda abun ya fara damun shi nima haka saboda duka ba wanda yake expecting haka cikin mu. Munje asibiti muka karba maganin infection da wasu abubuwa sai aka fara samun sauki da haka dai muka fara neman magani sosai ana cin gaba. Amman wannan matsalan na cigaba tsakanin mu wata rana a dace wata rana ba haka ba Ni kuma sai na fara rashin yarda da shi saboda ko kadan bana jin dadin tarayya da shi Sai shima kuma ya chanja min lokaci daya saboda shima baya samun abinda yake nema duk da ina yarda da shi wani lokaci amman wani lokacin bana yarda After 6 months sai ya chanza gaba daya fadan yau daban na gobe daban saboda he was almost 36 and he was desperate ya samu haihuwa ni kuma ban yi conceiving ba. Abin ya zama kaman tsana a tsakanin mu sai duka ya fara shiga alamun ya gaji da ni kenan meyasa ba zan yi ciki ba wanda ni kuma nafi tunanin matsalan daga wurin shi ne a karshe dai court ta raba auren mu last year kuma bana dana sanin rabuwa da shi a rayuwata

Assalamu alaikum ya a'hibbbayi ... it's been a while... I pray everyone is in a good condition Alhamdulillah.... even though I'm not fat 😁 I will like to make some changes in my food life... I need to taste new forms of food 🍱 🥘... so what's your favorite food? what's the type of food that when you eat you will fall in love or become happy? tell me your thoughts 🤗 please note: no body sound mention tuwon shinkafa da miyan kuka... especially sokoto people ⚠️ remind blessed 🙏

Perhaps with this I may be able to unburden my heavy heart and have a bit of relief. I do not have the guts to say what I wish to directly to you. I'm too ashamed. Ending it was never my wish. You were one of the best things to ever happen to me my entire life. If I had known it would end this way I would have never approached you. I regret ever meeting you. Not because I find you with any faults or our time together was bitter, but because of the hurt I inflicted on the both of us. Between my Lord and I, it was never my intention ending it. My wish was as you were my first love, so shall you be my last, ending up being my Mrs. But as fate would have it, it seems we were not meant to be. And who are we to fight what is beyond our control. Perhaps we aren't khair for each other on the long run as we thought and The All-Knowing The All-Wise knows best. We planned and He planned but He is The Best of planners. The way we clicked, vibed and understood each other within a very short time, I never for once doubted whether we were soulmates, still don't and never will. Though some people say not all soulmates end up together. I'm beginning to believe so as I've exhausted all in trying to see us back together. But all efforts proved abortive. I am drained. I no longer have any fight in me. For every futile attempt, my heart breaks multiple times over. I am just living the life of joylessness, everything is now in black and white. The sun no longer shines, it is always gloomy. Nothing is ever interesting. Get pissed off in the slightest of provocations. Just roaming around but dead inside as though nothing matters anymore. The energetic, carefree, lively, free of worries me is no longer there. I know you've said not to ask for your forgiveness again, believing I didn't wrong you at some point. But I can't help it. I can't help the guilt of breaking such a beautiful heart, dimming the shine of such a beaming soul full of life and excitement. So please here I am again seeking your forgiveness. I wish to atone for my misdeeds, but I have no way of doing so. I am clueless as to what to do. The only thing I can is to ask for your forgiveness. I don't mind being the villain of this our story. Please do not let my silly actions dull your shine and ruin your happiness. Nothing would make me happier than to see you live your life to the fullest as you've done before I came into your life and later on left it in shambles. Please let go of the hurt. If I had sense any chance to get back together with you nothing would stop me. I'll go to any length to see it happen as long as it's within jurisprudence. But all efforts yielded in negative results. It's on this note that I please urge you to give yourself another chance to life, live freely and happily. Give love another chance. Nothing would make me happier than to see you fall in love and be happy. If not with me then with someone gazillion times better than me. I'm so much desperate to see that happen. Maybe I too then will have little bit of relief knowing that you've moved on and found the happiness I could not afford to give you, the happiness best deserving of an amazing being such as yourself. The little time spent with you will forever be cherished. You've made me want to be a better person without even trying. In fact you've succeeded in making me better than I was before I met you, though still not deserving of a being such as yourself. You've been a great influence in my life and I thank my Lord for that. May Allah reward you with the best of this world and the next. May you forever be the coolness of your parents' eyes. When it's time for you to leave the world, may your soul depart when your Lord is most pleased with you. And may He admit you in the highest ranking of Jannah. It's on this not that I admonish you and I to not despair, for He is in control of all and in His infinite wisdom and mercy all shall be better. Ma'assalam.

ya rabbi🥹🥹🥹this single life want to kill me so lonely and bored no best friend no boyfriend me alone

I have told you times without number that I am not in a rush in any of my steps, if Allah has it with time it shall come to pass need advice

so the thing is that my boyfriend likes talking about sex how he want it to be done in how we are going to be playing as wife and husband a how he love sex and how he's going to treat me im bed

my man accused me lying to him after showing him my chat and asked me to leave him alone nd be with who ever o want to be with on my birthday he didn't wishe me he stpos calling me nd now he's having a Beaty

Kada ka yarda kayi kuskuren auro mace daga Nigeria ka kaita turai indai ba ka yarda da amincin ta, tarbiyyar ta da kuma dattijantakar iyayen ta ba. In ba haka ba walh kanajin kana gani in idon ta ya bude a turai se tafi karfin ka. Ko kuma ka dinga sharing dinta da wasu banzaye. Dayawa matan mu na Nigeria, In suka hadu da turawa se raini ya fara shiga tsakanin su da mazajen su bakake. Se sun dinga sha'awar tarayya da turawan. Se su manta kaine ka kawosu su nemi su bijire maka suna cin amanar ka. Abinda ya faru dani ban yiwa wani fatan haka. Seda jini na ya hau, da adduoi da komai na samu na dawo daidai. Zan auro wata matar amma dole a Nigeria zata zauna. Na dinga ziyartar ta. Ita kuma waccan Allah shine alkali zemin sakayya abinda tamin!

Muhammadurrasulillah Pls dn't pass without dropping S.A.W

Wai don Allah addini ne yazo da se an kashe fitila kafina ayi sha'anin aure ko kuwa al_ada ce? Gaskiya ni nafison na kwanta da mata ta cikin haske ina ganin komai da komai shine zan samu gamsuwa yanda ya kamata, amma ita bata son haka. Kullum in zamu kwanta se an kashe fitila, in na dage da fitila zanyi kuma ta bijiren. Abun ya isheni wallahi. Abokina ya bani shawara na samu iyayenta na fada musu amma kunya nake ji. Da rana in inajin sha'awa ban isa na neme ta ba，bazata yarda ba se lalle da dare cikin duhu. Wani lokaci in inayi ma se na dinga jin tsoro kar naje ko cikin ass dinta nake iyo. Sam bana samun wani cikakken jin dadi. Ina son wani lokaci na dinga wasa da breast dinta amma ba hali tace suna mata zafi in ana tabawa. Yau auren mu befi 4 months ba amma walh in na fita ina sha'awar wasu matan fiye da matata ta gida. Ku bani shawara

TALAUCI A SOYAYYA BEYI BA🤦 Larabawa Sukace الفقر عدو الحب Wai"Talauci Abokin Gabar Soyayya"😁 Bazan Manta ba Lokacin Ina Hadda(A Islamiyar Unguwarmu) muna Ainihin Ustazai Ba Ko Sisi Sai Tilawa, Wata Ustaza Mai Nacin Karatu😍 Ya'r Nan In Ban Ganta Ba Tilawa Bata Yiwuwa, Data Mun Hada Ido Tilawata Har Wani Shaking Take🙈 Amma Malamin Mu Karfi Da Yaji Ya Mayar ni Late Comer😢 Abun Takaici Da Bazan Mantaba, Ranar Ya Aiken Na Sayo masa Fruits Bayan An Tashi(A Islamiyya) Kawai Naga Yarinyar Nan Sunatashan Fruits din Da Kawayenta😭 ckn Karfin Hali A Fusace na Canki Qasa Na Bata Sauran Na Ckn Ledar😡 Washe Gari In Canza Makaranta😏 Yadda Na Samu Wata Malama😍 Acan, Ita In Ina Bata Karatu Nakai Karshe Sai Inji Shiruu Saina Dago Kai(inga Ta Qura Mun Ido) Malama?! Sai Tai Firgigit! Tace Harka Gama? 😉😂 🏃🏃 🖋️DATTIJO😂

MUHIMMIN SAƘO GA MATA DA AKE TSANGWAMA😢 DAN BASUYI AURE BA. Abu na Farko Ƴar Uwa Ki Sani, Kuskure Na Farko ckn Gina Rayuwarki Shine Yin aure dan Kwayenki duk Sunyi, ko dan Kannenki sun Samoki✋😔, Mafi Girman Kuskure kuwa Shine Auran Wanda baki tabbatar da dacewarsa wjn zaman abokin Rayuwarki ba, Munin Kuskure Biyewa maganar mutane dake tsegumi Gameda rayuwarki(Alhalin ba Rayuwarsu bace!). Ya Ƴar uwa, kar kiji Tsoron Zamani dan shekarunki sunja bakiy aure ba, Karki manta cewa Galibi "Kyawun yanayi yafi zuwa ta ƙarshe ƙarshe😍" Ki Tuna Sayyida Khadijah(r.a) shekarunta sunka kai na manyanta amma karshe Ta Auri Annabi(s.a.w), kar kusantar shekaru su Riƙa baki tsoro✋, Ina miki Albishir duk Ya'yan Annabi(s.a.w) daga Khadijan suke, kuma annabi bayan ya aure ta bai sake aure ba sanda ta rasu😍 رضي الله عنها وأرضاها Dan haka kar kiji Tsoron zamani✋ , Allah ne mai Ƙaddara komai kuma Zamani a Hannunsa yake mai rahma(Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) Sau da yawa, Jinkiri Ckn al'amura kara musu kyau yake, Wa ya sanar dake, ƙila ma Allah(s.w.a) na miki wani Kyakkyawan tanadi ne Ckn Rayuwarki🤗 A ƙarshe, Bayan Karfafa miki gwiwa✊, Ina so Ki Nutsu ki tara hankalinki, Ƴar uwa, Aure Shine gini mafi daraja a rayuwarki, Karkiy gaggawa Ckn gina rayuwarki da maganar wasu(masu tsegumi) ko su waye✋😔 رضا الناس غاية لا تدرك "Yardar mutane duka buri ne da ba'a cin masa(har abada" So... Kar tsegumi ko surutun Mutane ya Dameki, Tunda Allah ya halicci duniya mutane magana suke ba kuma ranar da zasuy shiru. Ina miki Fatan Alheri, mu Haɗu a Nasiha ta gaba Insha Allah. ✍🏼Daga Ɗan uwa, kuma Ƙaninki Abdullahi Madachi(SheikhulHub)

why do chubby girls Hardy find true love nowadays , kowa slim slim. it seems slim girls are more appreciated nw, ko Mai yasa?

there's this guy that I've been talking to for almost a year now. he's super religious, in fact I'm his first ever girlfriend because he believes he should only date to marry and now he feels ready. my only problem with him is he's doesn't show any affection and doesn't know how to be romantic, I spoke to him about it and he told me he's the shy type, on the other hand I'm frustrated because our chats are so boring, how do I make him start being romantic? and I don't mean dirty talks. even to express his feelings or tell me he loves me will suffice

we broke up with this girl bcuz she was cheating on me after weeks I went back only for her to tell me I'm too nice she can't continue 🤭😂😂

can someone be my friend or best friend that I can share my secret with!!!it's not easy for me🥹🥹🥹....

Life is a rollercoaster of unpredictability. Some days, it feels great, while on others, it can be quite the opposite. There are moments when your plans seem to crumble, and it feels like nothing is falling into place. Despite your relentless efforts, you might find yourself trapped in a seemingly endless loop. However, it's essential to keep your spirits high because, without a doubt, you can overcome these challenges. There comes a time when it's wise to recognize that if something isn't working for you, it's better to seek an alternative. Every disappointment can be viewed as a new opportunity. I understand that starting over can be daunting, but often, it's the most enduring solution. It's a reminder that in the midst of adversity, there is a chance for growth and transformation.

I'm a divorcee with a child, inason inyi aure Amma duk wanda yazo at the end saisu tafi.....kokuma mutum yazo dazancen banza.....I really want to get married sabida pressure da nake samu.... ni yanxu i want to know ko akwai masu idea abinda kesaka samari tafiya with out any reason?

I'm 17and my mum tana yawan zuwa gurin mallamai. Even today da yamma Wanda tage Bina wani Abu she didn't tell what it is she just told me she going to bury something. tundama I graduated from secondary School last year and both waec da neco da na ja I failed maths. I wrote GCE that Same and I failed maths. I wrote neco internal again this year and I still didn't pass. so she asked one of her mallamai and they told her that hannu wani mutum. that it's my step mother that doesn't want to excel. the man gave her a black soap that I should bath with it for three days outside in the night. today is the second day and I told her that I'm not comfortable bathing outside the house in the night and that I don't like and I won't do it because I know it's not right and that's it's shirk. Now she's guilt tripping me saying she's my mother she suffered with my pregnancy that is this the way I'm going to pay her back. I just want to know did do the right thing.

the pressure to get married is getting out of hand, to the extend I feel husband should just come from anywhere, as far as he's a good man and also possesses what I like in a man, even if the love is not there ni na yarda zan zauna and obey him, gradually I will love him. is this normal? does anyone else feel this way or is my desire to get married abnormal?