so I met my boyfriend in uni so everything so fine so we didn't stay for long about 3 days he said he want to see my parents And I told him not yet we hardly know each other so after one month we we're back at school things were going normal sha after a month he said he will like to introduce himself to my parents and I told my parents will not allow it because my family will say I'm too young to make a decision to get married and he was okay oo with I told after I'm done with school I will talk to them about it he said fine he's going to wait and he usually have stomach pains and he told me about it and I felt somehow oo and because I don't want to be selfish In my own way so I told him to look for someone that is ready to get married so that he can satisfy his urge for sex so this girl started dating one girl like this let call A so the relationship didn't last so his friend introduce another girl to him that's in kasu this girl let call her B .so this B is a final year in kasu and she's from zaira o and him also too .i do encourage him to talk to her and understand her so that things can go well so this guy hardly have my time he doesn't even care about me anymore I use to be the one that check on him and sometimes when I call him he will tell that let him pick call of the lady B it kept happening and I'm tired of staying in the relationship now because I just feel he doesn't regards me now .I use to be Patience with him in everything I use to obey .the reason why I told him to get a girlfriend was that if he marries her and when I'm done with my school we will get married and I will be this second wife I don't mind but now I have made of my mind I'm not more doing again dama I never want live in zaira let me tell you his rule he told me that if we get married I will not go to work i will work as a full housewife it a compulsory to wear hijab visiting of family is when necessary only Important things kuma the maximum of my stay is one week fah kuma with time I will be wear niqab fah 🤧 kuma he want many children like 12🤧 for one wife kuma this guy hardly care about me now everything he mention his girlfriend name into my hear I don't like it and a day before yesterday I wanted to him to know how it feels so I told about a guy my friend introduced me to him he started reacting about it fah kuma it's a lie Wlh it pain when I told him about the guy I'm this type of a girl that I Don't double date no Matter what happens even to talk to guys I don't do that so men sha no Dey fear God

There's this girl I was dating some fews ago to the extent that I want to do formal introduction, I caught her going on a date with her so called Ex, I confronted her with the issue and make sure with talked things out. I was ready let that slide. Fast track everything, in this mixed of everything she moved to another state then later called off the relationship. But we remain cool, we talk once a while advice each other and so on. So recently as we are having our normal chit chat "sada zumun ci" she asked if we can accept her back and possibly continue with my initial intention. These are some of the things running through my head; 1- this girl doesn't really love me, she's just coming back after not getting her fantasy man. 2- "Trust issues " with the trend of married woman still involving with their so called ex and besties after even being married after all the major problem we had during our relationship is her going on date with her Ex. 3- Posibilty of having numerous body counts, I know it won't sound well with many girls on this platform, but it really do matters a lot. Imagine after being celibate for all your life and ending up wayyazubillah

aslm how r u all doing plxxx i want u to advice us my boyfriend lost his job and i adviced him to start a business but we both have no idea on which business to start plxxx suggest any good business he can do thank you

just because I asked my boyfriend for money he started showing me attitude..tho I never ask him for money this is my first time and we have been together for over 3 months...

Assalamu alaikum please I need you people advice my boyfriend and I started off cool har yaso ya shigo gida a daura mana aure in yaso daga baya ayi taro saboda ba mazauni nan bane but we have never met before so I suggested we meet first before everything,The thing is he doesn't call me or talk to me expect if I do,in zamuyi sati bamuyi magana ba he wnot tell me anything Sai na mai,ko magana ne bai wuce kawai gaisuwa ba,I talk to him several times ko akwai abinda na mai ko kuma he's no longer interested he said there's nothing wrong Please what should I do?

My girlfriend is sick and in the hospital, I know my question sounds silly but I just want to know what you all think. I want to visit her so I'm thinking if I should take something along or just go empty handed. She likes ice cream and chicken, should I take it along ? Or something else would be better ?

Am I the only one that notice that this "manyan mata" series has started becoming something else? The started it kaman abun kirki but now they are turning it into something else. Gskya my advice to parent is that in har baza a iya hakura da kallon shi ba ma, Keep children away from it. Because what they are showing is against our culture and religion. Let's be cautious kar mu bari a gurɓata mana tarbiyyar yara.

Are you close to all your brother(s) and sister(s) ? For me, I'm much closer to my immediate younger brother, my younger we are not much close but we are still actively involved in each other's lives. My older brother is another different case, we rarely talk, we can go for months without talking to each other,we live in the same house and both of us are fine with it. We used to be close as kids but as we grew older things changed , seniority and all came into place, now both of us rarely stay at home till night due to work. I'd like us to be closer but I guess for now it is what it is. What is it like for you ? Are you close to all your siblings?

I have high libido (sex drive). please how can I reduce it that's will not effect me negative. because I don't have plans to marry soon. I want some medicine that I will be using. to reduce it for me. at same time I want the libido to come back after I married

Hello please mutanen gidan nan I need your advice. There is a girl I love so much, but I refuse to tell her because I thought she was too young. I waited till she finished her secondary school, when she started her undergraduate program, then I told her what is in my mind. But to my suprise she told me that she is with someone already. After investigating, I found out that it is true but the person is yet to reach out to her parents. Please should I continue trying to win heart, or I should just leave her. Amma fa ina son ta sosai

please any doctor in the house???? I need help.

I had a boyfriend who always try to prove all his possible best to show me how much he really loves me, I trust him and love him with everything,but the only concern I’m having about him is, he didn’t want to see me with any man except him,maybe chatting or joking with them,it is not allowed 🚫 I ’m not allow to give out my numbers to any male friends either old/new friend,he will said I’m flirting with them 😪and our relationship is just two years now,pls is dis love or jealousy???

Assalamu Aalaikum, dafatan na same ku lafiya. Wani dan labari ne daga cikin rayuwa na nikeson baku. As ladies always say ni mai kudi nikeso, kokuma kyakkyawa nike so, ko bai komai idan na kalla kyakyawar kuska hankalina zai kwanta😂😂 kokuma idan da naira akwai farin ciki. Ehh duk haka ne amman ba priorities bane. What matters here is hali mai kyau. Na hadu da maza kala kala( ba iskanci bafa, irin proposals haka) daga cikin su akwai wani kyakkyawa wallahi ajin farko ko inane idan yaje mata sai sun juya that is to show u how handsome he is, amman wallahi harga Allah bai burge ni ba sabi da me, tabiun shi basuyi ba, wallahi idan dai sone yana so na tsakanin shi da Allah sabida munkai kusan shekara uku yanzu ana magana daya nace mishi yayi hakuri. Na biyun shima ga kyau, ka kudi Mashaa Allah, kana ganin shi kaga cikakken namiji amman me, babu hakuri sai uban naci( yhh i know it might sound haka saboda bana son shi ne kohh amman still daace haka ne aii da kudin shi yajanyo hankali na naso shi) but no. Sai kuma akwai wani, rufin asiri dai iya gwargwado akwai amman babu aikin yi, halaye, natsuwa da tabiunsa ba'a magana idan za'ayi grading inshi A+ zai samu, Allah ne mai halitta amman dai kuma shi in wallahi ba wani kyau ne dashi ba, ana dai lallabawa amman duk da haka Alhamdulillah. So Abin da nikeso maza su fahimta anan shine cewa ba kudin ka ko kyawun halittan ka zai sa mutum ya so ka ba, hasali ma idan kana da tabiu masu kyau, shi zai janyo mutane gareka. Ba ko wasu mata ne suka damu da abin duniya ba amman ba wai ina nufin ku gyara bane saboda mata, no idan kun gyara, kun gyara ma kanku ne ba kowa ba. Dan haka, ina rokon mu gabaki daya da mu gyara tabi'un mu kuma gyara na tsakani da Allah ba don wata koh wani ba.

I know this is very long bcuz I didn't notice the length until I finished. I visited like four of my married friends and wallahi all their complaints idan muna hira is da sunsani da basuyi aure ba kuma the annoying fact is that one of them ma Malami ne fa ...ayi ma other two din uzuri, wannan malami ne kuma ma yana koyarda matan aure amman duk da haka yana musguna wa matan shi a gida. Wallahi banida mashinshini amman duk da haka sun tsoratani akan harkan aure. Nasan it's not pure happiness cause rayuwa zomu saba zomu sapa ne. Wallahi ni shaida ce lokacin dayazo mata da maganan soyyayya, Yabi duka kaidan which gaskiya abin burgewa ne cause only a few ask for permission at home daga haduwa, ya nuna mata tsantsan soyayya mu kuma muna can muna God whennnn amman yanzu abin ba'a magana. Mazaa wallahi kuji tsoron Allah, menene ke sawa ku canza idan anyi auren, mezai hana kanuna mata yanda kake instead of yaudara, wallahi akwai hakkin ta akanku kuma ranan gobe qiyama sai Allah Ya tambaye ku. Mata dazaran sunyi aure wlhii iya kokarin su suke kawai suga sun burge miji, komai da zasuyi saboda farin cikin ka ne amman sai kuga mazan suna wulakantardasu just because they feel they are the bosses now. On social media, y'all show cewa kunsan right and wrongs dinku, kunsan hakkin matarku akan ku amman a badini ba haka kuke aikatawa ba. We all need to work on ourselves!!! let it not be one sided, da zaran anyi aure mu saka a ranmu cewa mutukaraba ne let's try to correct ourselves instead of just going out. Maza karku manta, mu mata ku kadai ne damu amman ku fah kuna da ikon samu har kala hudu, wannan kadai bai isa ya sa ku tausaya muna ba, aii wlhi albarkacin kaikadai zamu zauna da yaci ace kun girmama wannan. The main reason why i came here to pour my heart out is because wallahi i want change😭😭😭. Alamarin Auren da tsoro wallahi, its not all about the instagram reels we see. Nasan mazan ma ana ce musu suyi hakuri amman wallahi the ratio of hakurin maza to that of mata is 1:4, sai kaji wasu matan nacewa wallahi zaman yayana nikeyi😭😭😭💔💔💔 wato abubuwan da yakeyimata ne yasa taji zaman ya fita ranta amman ya ta iya💔 shi kuma fahh, at anytime sai yazo yace shi aure zaiyi kuma bbu abin da ta isa tayi mishi💔 Kai Rayuwa, Allah Yasa mugama da rayuwarmu lafiya, mu rabu da iyayen mu lafiya, wadanda suka rigamu gidan gaskiya Allahu Rabbi Ya Kai Rahama garesu, muma idan namu yazo yasa mu cika da kyau da Imani Kuma yabamu masoyan da zasu kaunacemu su kuma somu, su daraja mu su kuma ji tausayin mu. Allahumma Ameen🤲🏻✨

Dan Allah Wanda yasan adduar damutum zeyi yasamu mijin aure ya taimakamin dashi.i seriously want to be among the first batch of 2024

Those of you, including me, myself and I whom want to be the first batch of 2024 wedding/Nikkah should pray the following daily; 24 of Surah Duha and Qasas Verse number 24 of Surah Qasas is a special dua made by Musa (AS) while he is in exile. Musa (AS) felt very lonely and depressed and then he said this dua to Allah swt. As per many Islamic scholars, if a boy recites this verse 100 times a day, soon he will find a better girl for him. I don't know as una won put am 😂 but I Dey first batch biquddratilah 🙏 wehther I have found her or not, in fact whereever she is and where ever she is kindly know how to make pounded yam because this coming big sallah na pounded yam we go chop 😂 therefore, those in first batch say I!!! 🙋‍♂️ while those in second say me!!! 💁‍♂️ and those in 2025 say nea!!! 🙅 Allah yayi mana Albarka A duniya da lahira ameen 😁😁😁

Assalamu alaikum a'hibbayi biqddratillah you are all doing well Alhamdulillah Ala kulli'hali wa'fi kulli'hali. 🤗 ❤️ 😎 To day a very close friend of mine, which hereby, will be referred on this context, as MD👳‍♂️. MD was ranting on my head all day because of what his wife has did to him... he was so firous that he was asking me for a pen to give her saki daya... of course I tried all my best to calm him down... this is a man with 4 kids oldest being 12 years old... when his calm, he told me that when I get married, I 😎 should be ready to hear shit, received shit, and accept shit like that from my wife sometimes but for the sake of peace I should always remain calm and pray when I'm upset... this got me wondering, are we not guys are girls really really ready both spiritually, emotionally, and mentally to get married??? mind you not everyone is capable of marrying you for the sake of Allah, such kind of love comes from Allah... most people will say I will do this or that to my wife/husband when I get married mind you the reality is totally different... imagine waking up with the same person every blessed day for months and years??? it's just like eating pounded yam day in and day out... can we (the singles ) ready to handle it??? think about it for a second, Allah SWT said marriage is to find peace... so what brings peace??? what she did was really annoying actually and I would have done worst and I'm still surprised how his living life but that has thaght me to work on my self even more to become a better husband... therefore, I will recommend we all (the singles) to look at marriage more as an act of ibadah and anything about is to please Allah SWT. let's pray and more more in becoming the best husband/wife possible Allah yasa mudace. May Almighty Allah give us (the singles) the iman to cope with our eventual marriage Affairs Ammen!!!

ya rabbi has answered my prayers...Arewaup family thanks for you guys people too really appreciate

Assalamu alaikuma Jama'a ga wata labari na kawo muku. there was a in my school I met her when I was in final year toh gaskiya yarinyan tamun sai na gayama wani abokina saiya hada mun toh muka fara magana a cikin last year December kenan sai nayi asking ita out sai yace mun tanada saurayi sai na barta na daina mata magana after one week Kawai sai naga ta fara kirana everyday da daddare in muka fara waya around 11 Ko 12 sai wajan 3am muke gawama sai rana daya kawai tace mun muyi dating sai nace mata shikenan kuma fara dating January 2023 normal ba fada kuma muna san junan mu sosai shikenan Ana tafi Ana tafi duma duk abunda nace Tayi shi takeyi bata gardama Ko musu zuwa daya kawai last month October kenan kawai tazo ta fara bani attitude in nace mata Maiya faru sai tace babu komai Inna tambaye ta sai tace babu Inna kirata bata dauka inna mata message sai taga dama zatayi reply kuma Gashi ba gari daya mukeba balle inje in ganta ina kaduna tana jigawa kawai ranan nan ta kirani tace mun bari taga yamun gaskiya nace mata ina jin ta sai ce mun wai wlh batasan Meke damun ta bah kawai ita taji she doesn't have any feelings for me anymore wai anjima zataji tana sona next minute kuma taji ba haka bane tace wlh batasan Meke damun taba kuma shine tace is better kawai ta gayamun gaskiya shine tace in allah yayi Zamu dawo toh in kuma allah bai so bah toh shikenan allah haka kowa da rabonsa haka tace ni kuma nace mata ameen. Kuma ina santa sosai wlh dan yanzu kusan two weeks kenan da mukayi maganan saina tambayeta Kodai Tayi sabon saurayi ne tace mun Aa wlh kuma na yarda ba Wanda yake mata magana kuma na yarda da maganan data gayamun. toh akwai wanda zai kara ganar dani ne

aslm plxx a bani shawara there is this guy dai muke dating since last 4-5 months haka so muna tafiya komai normal amma ba a same state muke ba last week anyi bikin sister na , so fun one week before the wedding muke maganan ze zo bikin, kullum se na tambaye shi ko ze zo and sae yayi assuring dina ze zo, har ranan bikin yazo mukai magana yace zezo d yamma shi da frnd insa, sae nace tohm nima frnd ina tazo se ku gaisa na ajiye mishi abubuwan biki fah, na dafa mishi abincin sa daban , komai na ajiye mishi kawai sae 4:30 ya min chat wai shi he was joking ba zuwa zeyi ba , infact bema dawo ba(remember i told u we r not in the same state) gashi na tsayar d frnd ina, tazo tun safe fah abin y bani haushi kawai nace masa hmmm, haka nace mata tayi hakuri yace baze zo ba , kawai t fara min dariya so ana haka kawai se ya kira ni, so se yaji tana dariya shine fah y fara min masifah wai nasa fnd ina tana masa dariya , kuma y gode, and he cut the call from then till date bai kuma min magana ba , nima ban masa ba kuna ganin in mishi magana in bashi hakuri ko kawai nima in share sa inyi deleting everything related to him?? and again na manta ban fada muku ba, ina so inje makeup, mutumin nan yace kar naje , wai yafi so ya ganni ba make up wallahi saboda shi naqi zuwa, gaba daya sauran sisters dina d cousins sunyi, ni kadai ce banyi ba saboda shi kum a na fada masa na fasa yi din tunda baya so