why is it hard to be loved the way you love

I loved a person and then after him I don't have any feelings, currently I am dating alot people but I am not feeling it ,I want to stop honestly but I can't 🥺

please yan'uwa am HIV positive na rasa yanda za'ayi in samu mijin aure and am 24 already dan Allah what should I do??

It is like I'm always meeting the wrong guys wlh😭 sai nake ganin yanzu duk ba tsakani da Allah ake son mutum bah

salam everyone...pls I'm so confused what does break means in a relationship???

i have Seen all the red flags.. I Want To End It And Move On.. but Am Scared Bcs Of The Love i Have For Her Runs Deep... i Have Tried Before But I Fail manytimes..I get Huet time after time.subhanallah. i don't Even know how to Explain my situation.. this girl love is the biggest Test Of my life soo far.. and blieve me i have been tested with so many hardship and difficulties before. but this Is the most difficult one for me Wallahi..

musulmai adawo yin auran musulunci yadda addini yace ba yadda al'adar hausa tace ba

regarding my ex I really miss him so much more than anything I really want things to work out but I don't think it's possible since he's dating someone else already Wlh I love him more than anything in this life .I really go back to our old chat everyday.I know a made a mistake but I was just been childish but I never pushing him . I find it Hard at Point Thats things weren't good on me and he might I was pushing him away Wlh but I love him more than anything 🤧🤧 pls I need your prayers 🤧🥺

me and my boyfriend been having issues like whenever he showed me attitude the next day I will show him too...so today we were talking on phone so I asked him does he use to include me in his prayers he said yes so I insisted what is the prayer about so he mentioned it so when he asked me too I told him I don't use to do but he knws I was kidding cos I use too...his first statement was Allah yasa kina sallah ma!!!it hurt me so much....pls advise me what should I do....I'm insisting I should just breakup with him

recently I have been coming across many post and comments regarding one's spec in choosing a partner or spouse. it's really good having a spec or desire partner whether busty, chubby, slim, tall, curvy, average, short, fair, dark and chocolate. what I will like to draw our attention to is that marriage is much more than having your desire spec. you might end up having your spec but not happy as you thought you should be, why because marriage is all about tolerance. your spec of partner might not have the attitude and characters you expect her to so what happened then is that you endure and tolerate some of his/ her negative behavior because no one is completely perfect and the sooner we realized that perfection is for the Almighty only then we will achieved the peace and tranquility for the rest of our lives

As a girl how would you feel if some people doesn't like something in you and they will be complaining about it and you don't have the right or power to change it

so confused so bored nothing is sweeting me at all...hope this would reduced when I get married??does anyone felt the way I do??

Salam. Don Allah ku bani shawara ko maganin warin baki. Mijina bakinsa yana wari sosai kuma se ya dinga sha'awar yin kiss dani. Nikuma gsky ina kyankyan hada baki dashi sam bana iyawa, mu'amalar aure ma kawai don ya zama dole ne nake yoshe hanci na muke amma ban samun wani jin dadi. Kuma Allah ma ya sani yana brush kullum sau biyu, kafin ya fita aiki da safe da kuma da dare in ze kwanta ni har tinani nake ko na hakura da auren ne😠 Mene shawarar ku?

My brother keeps smoking weed for sometime now in the house, he locks himself in a room and the smells comes out really strong. It smells awful and this has created some resentment from me towards him. I feel like he’s putting us in harm’s way. I’m asthmatic and some of my family members as well. I told my mom but she’s not doing anything.Should I tell my dad? He’s a bit strict so I’m kind of in a dilemma not to cause a rift between them.

Hello guys. Help yo boi out with an advice please, I wouldn't type long. So there's this friend of my junior sister that I've had a crush on for 3years now. At first sight wallahi. But the thing is, she's only 17 and I really really would feel ashamed to talk to someone that young. I'm 30 and a plus in size and she's too slim and small too. Sometimes, I'll think to wait a bit, then fomo will kick in (fear of missing out). initially I didn't like to date anyone until I was ready to commit to a serious relationship that would lead to marriage that was why I didn't give it much taught then. Now I'm willing and ready for marriage in 4 months ma.

i met someone on Wednesday we conversed for few minutes, same on Thursday... i didn't even see his face because he was on mask, i left and i can't get him off my head, i keep thinking about him, I'm aware this isn't love, but this is unlike me, i don't know what got over me, why is this happening to me? my heart beats fast ina fara tunanin shi, and i feel wani irin damuwa kaman in koma inda muka hadu ko zan sake ganin shi, ni tsoro nakeji kar dai aljani na hadu dashi, subhanallah please advice me on how to make this stop, i really have to get over this please

I am hiv positive and we have been dating with my boyfriend over 6years he loves me soo much and I love him too and ryt nw he is talking about or marriage I don't know what to do pls advice me should I tell him the condition of me

since when we started dating,,he use to show me some of his bad character only when we are having phone calls....pls what advice can you give me

In na manta banyi sallar Azahar ba, se nayi la'asar sannan na tina, ya zanyi? Zan yi iyaka ka azabar din dana manta ne, ko kuwa itama la'asar din se na sake ita bayan nayi asabar? Mutumin da yaje kasar waje karatu, zeyi wasu shekaru wanda shima be san adadin su ba. Ya halarta ya dinga yin kasaru, ko full ze dinga yi. Don Allah masu ilimin addini su bani amsa. Na gode!

Salam alaikum, Ina ma kowa da kowa fatan Alheri, Ina son inyi sharing abunda Ex tamin. I feel so bad wlh since the very first! that I no relationship I've never come across a trustful love woman at all wlh💔💔💔. The fact all that happen to me in the past, I still give love a chance because I believe not all woman Are the same. I met a woman which we fell in love together, hoping me and her will get married soon but unfortunately I never knew she will betrayal me or abandon me with no answer expect, the only word she said to me, she feels guilty that's why she don't want to see me. wlh everything was fine between me and her till she went home Nigeria for holidays💔💔💔 She changes complete, if I call her, she won't pick or if I text she won't reply me, Upon all the promise she did to me, still she didn't deliver she failed 💔💔💔 because she went home and met someone that is working and has money, she changes towards me 😊 and abandon me. she even came back to the country without even telling me or text me, still I went to look for her if we can try and talk things out💔 unfortunately she told me it over between us, at that very moment she was even flying the new phone in her hand so that I can see it,😊 and she said to me. she don't want to work with Nigeria state government, she prefer federal government work because it pays well and even if she finished school and go home. And she is not married on time, she will go to u.k and work😊. That's where I no the guy she follow has already finished her with no experience on what tomorrow holds. if I I'm laying on All I said she did, I beg her in the of Allah please she shouldn't forgive me🙏 and if she did I leave her with god wlh. it a day I will never forget she made me cry, tear's fall from my eyes that I don't even know when I call my mom & sisters and tell them what happens kuma an wulanka'ni because of work and money😊 😊😊to an extent someone is telling me federal government work pays well and u.k jobs. Oh my ex u abandon me because of another man that's has work and money 😊, I giver u my heart, I was loyal to you, give you all my secret codes, allow you to get access to my phone's all because i believe you and thinking u are there for me and you believe we would win together Inshallah, after u know all the years it took me before I completed my BSc 2023, u abandon and disgrace me in front of ur friends and public with confidence 😊😊😊 because of work and money, you even wrote the person you hurt, it deserves it😊, because you are enjoying new things now. their is health, sick, death, wealth, happiness and sad, wlh wlh wlh no condition is permanent. God time is the best and Inshallah I will see my tomorrow, gobe ya wuce wai. na gode sosai 🙏. Jazaakallah khair.