Wai tunda aka fara ansamu wasu sunyi aure anan

Most Of The Girls here Crying Out To Find The Best Husband They Can Find. But The Question Here Is That All you Want ( Someone That Can Feed Them Cloth them and take Catre Of You Health To His Best Of Ability) ? When You think of it You and The Society are The Agent Stoping you From Marriage Most Of Our Parents Married in One Room Apartment Before Allah ya Bude Musu...Amma Yanxu Room color in Bai mata Ba Zata Pasa Auren...Most of Mazan Nan Nason Aure Wallahi But the Moment ya Fara lisafin Abunda Dole Ya Tara Before The Marriage sai Yaga He Won't be Ready For Three Years or More. Dole Yagan ki ya Chire Ido.. Or Shedan Ya Rijayeshi Ku Fada Zunubi. Women Make Life Easy For These men And Your Selfs. When You Look At It This Wealth You Are Looking For Wallahi it Was Writing for perior to your Birth. Arzikin da Zakichi A Duniyan nan Duk Allah ya Rubuta Miki.. So In kin Aure Mai Kudi And You Are Enjoying his wealth just Know Rabon ki ne Wanda Allah ya Riga Ya Rubuta miki Tun kina Chiki Fah... En Mata Nawa Suka auri The Rich man They Want but Arziki Da Nishidin Rayuwa da take Before the Marriage yafi wanda Take In his Home. So Be Calming Down And Look For Mai Addini Da Kyaun Hali And Support Him. Insha Allah Allah Will Open His Doors For You

it's pointless saying my problems but I can write what feel now I feel unwanted everywhere I don't know why I but is always me everyone have a problem me can't make decisions for myself cuz if I try to they tell I don't own myself. my parent do anything about it also just feed up sometimes i want to kill myself and everything should be free from the burden who know if I will be here to reply your messages I wanted write something before its comes to an end cuz I have been patient and when a person gone he /she will loved later on so I don't need an advice cuz I will not be hear heel to the advice maybe I will not be here to read it

I recently stumbled upon a post where the author stated that he can't marry the lady he is with and some people were bashing him without knowing his reasons . I made a post some days back regarding the grief I'm feeling for breaking up with my lover and some were accusing me of not loving her . First just because you like someone and have talks about marriage that doesn't Automatically mean you must marry . If I notice a behavior from you or any other thing that won't make us to be compatible then I have every right to call it off just as you . There's what's known as courtship stage in a relationship,it is in that stage that two potential partners tend to know more about themselves and investigate. If I notice the girl I'm to marry has something that I can't tolerate or will ruin our marriage in the long run , does that make me a bad person ? You can be with someone and along the way you lose interest and realize they were not who you thought they were in the first place , It doesn't mean you want to play them or anything like that. I broke up with my ex because I felt i can't give her what she's asking of,I've sacrificed a lot and done things I haven't even done to my mom but still it wasn't enough for her . Just because I decided to call it off just so both of us can have peace of mind . I was told that I never really loved her and all sort of things . I just laughed at it .

plsss mene ne matsalan auren namiji me mata the person am dating now has a wife and 1kid we met just recently amma matsalan shine yaya ta bata son na auri me mata, tace na manta d maganar sa i want to prove them wrong! so dan Allah mene ne matsalan auren me mata?????

My fiance tested Positive Hbs Ag, while I'm negative, what can he do first, hope dere s no problem if we get married, ND plss what can I tell him to calm down, he's panicking right now, it's urgent plssssss. Thank you

Please how can I respectfully tell a lady I can't marry her though I like her but not like like for marriage. we are okay with each other but I'm heavy to say NO

Let me start from the beggining, i met this Men(1)at the Airport in Nigeria (December 2021) when i was coming for Holidays, my mum comnected me to him b4 i came to Nigeria so he would pick me up (it was these covid time) so he picked me up did everything at the airport for me. Everytime I visit that airport I would call me he would do everything for me. As time Flys by it was time for me to go back and leave Nigeria. So I was at the Airport met him he does everything for me. he asked my cousin if I was married bcoz he never saw a Hausa Lady that nice as me even though I never lived in Nigeria was born and grown up abroad. that's there the story began. Ina dawo wa ya fara yi min text. she changed the story and asked me many questions about my life that his friend wants to marry me, no relationship just marriage and very fast. he is a very nice and religious person only bcoz of his Faith I have that much feelings for him. he has 2 wives and has 10 children. and is even though not that old only 40yrs. the problem is financial,I don't think he can marry somebody like me, I never had financial problems in my life, my father was a very popular Journalist worldwide and my life is just different. I never had a bf who sent me small money 10k or 20k so it was very difficult bcoz he tells me I have to change my life when I will marry him, he can't afford my expensive life. he promised to pay me 2 times a year going abroad & umrah. money is a very big issue for him, I never had those problems.i think he will change when we get married. pls I need advice for that. okay then I met 2022 January in my auntys house a very popular political rich person, I never heard about him bcoz I don't live in Nigeria. he wanted my abroad number I have gave him then he gave me like 1k$ na sallama first day I saw him. my aunty told him everything about my family and my life then he was so into me. after 2 weeks he searched for my nigerian number called me and asked me where am I, I told him kano he said he will come tomorrow to my house. the next day he came with his friend, I did different types of food and teas. and even gave them some gifts. they stayed for 2 hrs that's where our relationship starts money is never a problem for him. he is like 25years older as me but he is so nice and he did so much for me. I think I should just marry him. he will come in June then we will discuss and get married very fast. pls I need advice

My fiancé and I have being dating for more than a year now,we are getting married in four months Inn sha Allah 🙏 this guy loves me and my family with the whole of his heart like he dose everything for us,but I have a problem of jealousy i easily get jealous when I see him talking or chatting with his female friends on the phone🥹like ni wacece just because he is dating me can’t talk to his female friends?🤦‍♀️I always put the pressure on him and is really disturbing me Dan Allah ku taimaka min if there is any du’a I can do to stop me from being jealous I just want a happy home with him and yeah it’s not like I don’t trust him wllh I trust him 💯and you know what i don’t get jealous of his wife I swear to Allah I like that woman I take her more like a sister not kishiya I don’t even want to see her as kishiya she is just my sister because he showed the both of us that he loves us so much and we love him to the extent of liking what he loves so that made us like each other too❤️ I need a du’a🙏

Na dan jima ina ganin masu fama da matsalar saurin fushi wasu suce sun bi hanyoyi sun warke wasu Kuma su ce ba su warke ba. Ba a batun saurin fushi ba kadai, akan komai da yake lalura ce ta cikin jiki ko ta wajenshi; magani yakan bambanta Kuma ya ta'allaka da Imanin mai lalurar. Misali yawaita TA'AWIZI tabbas yana korar fushi, haka nan idan a tsaye ake sai a zauna..da dai sauran karashen shi ma magani ne sadidan. To amma sai mu tarar wani ya bi duk matakan amma shiru. A gaskiya rashin imaninmu na gaske da abin shi yafi zama sanadi da ba ma ganin tasirinshi. Haka nan ganin likitocin da abin ya shafar wanda da yawanmu a wannan zamanin mun fi yarda da ganin likitan asibiti sama da yin addu'a akan lalura (ba a hana neman magani ba) amma ni sai nake cewa; shi likitan asibiti sai yayi binkice nan-da-can, sannan ya bayarda maganin da yake da ran zai warke amma Allah da ake karanta sunayenShi da addu'a shi Yasan jikin domin shi Ya halicci jikin, kuma ciwon ikonShi ne, haka nan warakar, to na fi amince miShi. Allah Ya hore mana lafiya Ya hore mana Imani na gaskiya, amin

I was in a relationship with this guy. We clicked instantly and it was all roses without the thorns until he went back to their state. We chatted, talked on the phone, video called and everything for almost a month and half before he started changing haka kawai. I felt like I wasn't doing enough if I tell him that it's better to break up he'll say 'nothing is going to make me break-up with you yanzu' blah blah. I've never been in a relationship where I was so committed and ready to give my all sai a kanshi unfortunately enough he still didn't change after I talked, talked and talked. I later asked him if he needed space and he said yes, we'll talk maybe after a week and so talk on the phone may be once in a month. We almost started talking normally last month and I thought maybe he wants us back together amma ina after a few days I asked him whether I'm trying to fix a relationship with someone who doesn't even have feelings for me and he said that he's sorry I didn't deserve all this that we've to break-up komai ya baci. Ya ilahi! Why are guys like this after giving your all, being loyal for nothing kenan? If I was a guy and I found a girl who truly loved me I'll never hurt her wallahi. Guys please ku canza Hali

Have you ever been with someone who loves you with all her heart and will literally do anything for you, someone who doesn't want to see you hurt, someone who is possessive of you, someone who can sacrifice all she has just to see you smile ? You love her as much but you can't reciprocate the feelings,the efforts? You get so beat up by your daily struggle that you forget something she tells you just 5 minutes ago, you want to treat her like a queen but you are married to your job and its starting to turn into choosing the job or choosing her , you want to hang out with her but you are always at work,you want remember her birthday, anniversary, important things but you can't seem to do that no matter how much you try to ,not because you don't care but because you are drowning in your life problems. You keep on disappointing her , hurting her ,she's always understanding but now it has reach the point where her frustrations is starting to show . You feel it in you,you can't give her what she deserves,what she's asking for, you know she's worth every bit of it and more but you have to let her go ,you need to let her go , you can't keep on hurting her and claiming to love her . I lost a gem last week , I had to take the cowardly way out because I couldn't give her what she's expecting of me , I know I can never find someone like her . 😔🥀

I don't know what's wrong with me. I have serious anger issues. And whenever I get angry I end up doing something that I will later regret. please if anyone knows any prayer that I can say or maybe anger management classes please I'd appreciate.

A few months back i posted about finding it difficult to connect with people and battling with masturbation. Alhamdulillah i am making progress in getting rid of it and i have made a decent amount of trustworthy people. Still haven't been able to feel love though but someday i will get there. I would love to thank everyone who advised me and helped me on this platform, may Allah bless and reward you and your respective families abundantly ameen.

Inada Saurayi Wanda Munkai Wajen 1 year tare. So probably, sai kwana biyu yaga na chanza. Ya damu yasan maike damuna, naqi fadamai sabida abu ne wanda ya shafi gida. Yai ta matsamin sai nafadamishi, har yakai ga yayi fushi yadaina picking kirana duk sabida naqi fadamishi. Daga karshe na yanke shawaran fadi mai. "nafada mai baba akayi wa asiri aka koreshi wajen aiki, ga shi baida lafiya, gashi abubuwan gida duk yabi ya chanza, ga kudin haya ba mu biya ba, ga bamuda foodstuffs enough" haka dai nafadimai komi. Ya nunawa damuwa akan hakan. Bayan kwana biyu yazo ya gaishe da mama da zai tafi yabata 10k yace tayi hakuri ba yawa. After two days da zuwan shi gidanmu, sai naga ya chanza, ya daina kira, ya daina min magana a chat, idan nakirashi baya picking. Daga karshe sai ya kirani yake cemin "wai gaskiya yanzu shi bazai iya aure na ba, sabida yanzu idan ya aure ni responsibility din gidanmu zai dawo kanshi, sannan idan na amince na bashi hadhin kai muyi sex zai bani 100k" . Gabaki daya ranan jikina mutuwa yayi, kwana nayi da bakin ciki ina kuka. Ga problem din gida ga kuma wajen wanda nake sa rai zan aura. Yanzu yace yana jiran feedback dina idan na amincewa bukatansa. Pls kubani shawara yanda zan bullowa wannan lamari n nashi dan Allah. Gashi shi kadai ne saurayin danake tsayawa dashi banda wani saurayin bayan shi. 🤦😪

So i hqve 2 ladies am dating and having plans on settling before the year runs out inshallah. The issue is that i know know which one to settle with. Lady A is from a very well to do family, well educated employed and takes care of herself. Lady B from an average family, not as educated as A, not employed (stays with parent). We vibe more with lady A and i feel i love her more than lady B. My problem is the issue of class of both ladies in question. Myself am from an average family, well educated, employed with an NGO and i make 7 figures. I feel i will be better with since am assuming we are in same class so we wont have ome family looking down on the other or one family thinking you are marrying into their family because of there wealth and all. If not for the above, mo doubt lady A would have been the preferred choice. Again, some members of my family are not comfortable with lady A cause they assume that the family sue to their wealth might start influencing /controlling thw marriage with time. Your advice are needed. Thanks

Assalm,,i am the type that always gets disturbed by the wisper of shaidan especially during prayers..in most cases, its always when i'm in the act of salat that this air is willing to come out🙈 so when this happens i usually compress it as in i send it back😁🙈 n go ahead with my prayers... the question here is, is it permissible to do so??or i just have to let it out and renew my ablution..pls help this soul🙏

For the females how do y'all keep this, Like having a serious relationship which may lead to marriage(no specific date) but has this thinking of "na who ready you go marry" if it happens does that mean you cheated or what??😂

How do you ask a guy you love out

Salamalaikum warahmatullah everyone please,I’m still looking for help about the relocation please! I have an opportunity I wouldn’t want to miss please! thank you