A wife lied to her husband before married that she’s a virgin and after marriage he realized she’s not. And she also lied to him that she can read the Quran and he also found out it was also a lie after asking her after they were married. The man is not a virgin thou but even after finding out his wife is not a virgin he still sleeps with her till after sometime when she confronted his ex girlfriend he has been communicating with whiles he is still married to his wife so he started complaining and wanting a divorce. According to him his wife was the one who told him she was a virgin without him asking her and he also told her he only did it once and he is keeping himself. But later when they married he said he found out she is not a virgin because he has had sex with multiple women and the last one was a lady he met within two to three months and he had sex with her and she even bleed so he knows a virgin when he sees one. Please advice because the man is asking for a divorce after being with the woman for three months.

I fell in love with a narcissist 4years back,we started the relationship when I was 17years,I saw many red flags which I ignored,he's a critical womaniser,he ask almost all my classmates out and my close friends,they all told me but when I approach him he always deny it did I forget to mention he's a critical liar,never met anyone who anything that comes out of his mouth are lies,it was clear he charmed me,he was always stealing from me but I thought he needed it that why he did steal from me so I never bothered,he always give other girls money when he doesn't have he takes from me and give them,but I was too blind to notice,he told me he wants me to visit his family not knowing it's an empty house and he raped me,I'm sure guys know that stupid belief we have that when a girl is disvirgined no man would marry her so I thought my world has end,even though I wanted to leave I thought no man would want a lady that's not a virgin,ba goriba but I pay his transport fare anytime he comes to my place,he turned me into his sex toy,anytime he wants to have sex I'm just a call away,even in our area we do have sex outside,I can never tell him no.anytime he comes to see me zuciyana zaiyita bugawa,when our eyes meet zuciyana zaiyita bugawa,did I forget to mention my pocket money for school is for buying airtime to call him,he hardly calls I'm always the one calling,and he's also a woman beater,we hardly meet and leave in peace,I always go home injured from the beating,when my sisters ask me what happened I always tell them I hit myself by mistake,he always abusing me:zanci ubanki,zanci uwaki,Kina haukane.I was always told how pretty I'm and it got into my head,but since I met him he shattered that little confidence I was having,always telling me how ugly I'm nd that I think I'm beautiful he knows many ladies that I can't even stand close to.I lost my friends because of yahadamu fada dasu because of his lies and manipulations and I just believed him and block them,he always ask me for nudes,and I always sent it to him and ask him to delete it if he's done watching not knowing he was keeping them to manipulate me,anytime I tell him secrets he was always recording them to use it against me later on,I gave him my phone because he was job hunting and his phone had issues,not knowing I gave him access to my account and he hacked every account on my phone,messaging all my friends,taking there contact from my phone and asking all of them out,he activated 2 watsapp on my phone,one is his nd the other is mine,if they ignore him from his he then message from mine and tell them I gave him their contacts so he should get to know them.if any man calls my phone he collects the sim claiming ge seized it because another man called me not knowing he wanted access to my bank account,and he got access and transferred my school fees money to his account,all I had then was just the atm,the transfer and alert sim was with him,I asked him he said he's not the one,I kept begging him even though it was clear he's the one he told he's not he ended the call on me,I had to find other means to pay I didn't have anything to eat because my upkeep money was among,my mum has to pay a mallam for the jazz to be spoiled,he noticed and was rushing to give me things,perfume,rubutu.my mum always throw them away,ya hada munafinci tsakanin nida mamana,we did 2weeks without talking because of him,in the middle of it I got pregnant I wanted to keep the baby that would've been the biggest mistake I would've made,I thought I already made many sins I cannot add killing an innocent child to it,my stomach was always paining,we met and the stomach pain started,he told me let's go I told him my tummy was turning and I can't walk and this guy started beating me ended up breaking my mouth,then I knew I was into no play,still I couldn't leave,I had to call my friend to help me with abortion pills,the idiot couldn't even afford abortion pills and was telling me to abort it,the time I summon courage and told him I'm no more interested in the relationship we should end it cause I'm tired cause it's clear he won't change and it's who he's,he started threatening me with nudes I even forgot sending them to him,told me ban isa inbarshi ba if not he's going to send the nudes to the world,told me I'm useless to any man,because he already finished me,seriously I will die regretting why I didn't leave earlier,cause I had nothing to give any man,it's better I come back to him,he pleaded we meet so we talk or he leak the nude,I was so scared that I went out to see him,he said he can't leave me and he's sorry,he has changed 😂,I told him no I don't want him anymore,this guy started beating me and told me I dare not leave because I told him I'm leaving,ladies take notice never ignore any red flags,nobody changes,I had to send police to him because my mind was made up I couldn't even eat,to warn him cause anytime he sends me nude I'm taking him court and pressing charges on him for raping me that was when I had peace though until today he's still begging me,he confessed using jazz on me that why I couldn't say no to him,and scared of him than my own parents,I thought I forgave him during Ramadan but to be honest I can't I'm just lying to myself I can never forgive him for what he did to me,Allah has to judge between us,I hope this serves as a lesson to ladies,sorry for the long write up,that's not all I just had to summarize it

Dan Allah kubani shawara🙏🏿 akwai wani guy da aka hadamu cousin brother shine yahadamu, last week yazo garinmu Wllhi yana ganina yaji yafara sona bawai kyau yagani ko sura ba no. kawai ne macece mai walwala kuma ida sunyin dariya 😊 nidai inanan free dai, Toh the first day da muka fara communicating gaskia yace yanada emmata guda biyu daya cousin dinsa sane dayan kuma tana wajen aikinsu, saiyace min cousin dinsa har ansaka magana aure a najira su daidaita ne, amma yace shi Wllhi harga Allah namishi nd he loved everything about me toh dai muna dai communicate dashi always am trying to make sure he is happy, Wllhi kuma yanajin dadi yagadai caring din yayiwa shine yanzu kace min waifa za a samu mastala yanzu fa harya daina communicating da emmatansa tunda muka hadu, shifa Wllhi yana sona dayawa kar yazo yafasa cousin dinsa gaskia wai ni am too emotional 🥲 narinka yagewa yana confuse karkuma after some month naji yayi aure he don't want to hurt me. yace how he wish dani yafara hadu kuma gaskia idan naci gabada nunamai soyayya haka Wllhi nanda kwana kadan saidai muyi aure amma yanzu cousin dinsa da aka hadasu itace damuwar kuma ya amince wa iyaye, last night nace mishi gaskia toh saidai ni na hakuri kawai I was crying, hankalinsa yatashi yanata kirana awaya please l need a solution.🙏🏿

My first day on this platform, hope it goes well.

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Auren Namiji mai kyau ra'ayi ne,amma auren namiji mai tarbiyya da tsoron Allah babban arziki ne musamman namiji mai tausayi

Asslm pls tell me komai lokaci ne ina aure lokaci ne ? no matter how desperate and sad I'm in ga yau nayi aure, ina gidan miji na na farantawa mahaifiyata rai becus that's all she wants now taga nayi aure. amma besides all this sai lokaci yayi, it doesn't matter who I date how many I have dated sai lokacin da Allah yayi min zanyi. I'm tired and sad... pls tell me something to cool me down pls include me in your prayers dan girman Allah. ku neman min yafiya ah Gun Ubangiji kuma Allah ya futo mun da miji nagari.

please idan kana/kina chatting and you were send ''GIST ME'' what will be your respond duk yadda na sake jiki ina magana da naga gist me sae in rasa abin cewa

I'm writing exams next week and I think I'm depressed because I can't even read proper and I'm just feeling sick Need your duas and advices and motivations pls Thank you

I made a post days back regarding having issues with my girlfriend due to my unavailability as a result of my work schedule. I've listened to advice I've received and I've started finding a way to balance work with my relationship. Yesterday,we had a quarrel and I'm thinking of ending things. I want to know if I'm overreacting or not . Below is the conversation (She called and I didn't pick due to work ) [5/1, 4:40 PM] M: I can't make call right now [5/1, 4:40 PM] Princess: I didn't even call to talk 😕 i know you don't want to talk [5/1, 4:41 PM] M: Point of correction You know I'm at work [5/1, 4:41 PM] M: And We are talking now [5/1, 4:42 PM] Princess: Abeg Mr work 😒 i know you're the only one working and I'm not stop reminding me [5/1, 4:42 PM] M: Mmm inferiority complex [5/1, 4:43 PM] Princess: Thanks ok [5/1, 4:44 PM] Princess: anything you like you can talk i brought myself here so you can insult me all you can [5/1, 6:12 PM] M: When did I insult you ? [5/1, 6:13 PM] M: Why will you even say such [5/1, 6:14 PM] M: If your looking for talk abeg bad news not this time [5/1, 6:15 PM] M: You said you know I don't want to talk I replied you know I'm at work . Is that the insult ? Is inferiority complex insult? [5/1, 7:16 PM] Princess: It's an insult and you know it Honestly I think she was being over dramatic or probably looking for a quarrel .

I have noticed that these days everyone is commiting zina. I have few questions for the men: 1. can you marry a lady that has committed zina before even if she has repented? assuming you're a virgin and you're in love with her 2. Can you marry a lady that was raped? 3. is virginity a priority to you, assuming the lady has every other thing you want in a spouse but she is not a virgin any more. pls let's be sincere and civil about this conversation thanks

assalamualaikum, there's a lady that we connect here we love each other well alhamdulilah she's the one am praying and struggling to marry. yesterday she told me she'll go to hospital today for checkup because her eye's is paining that was my last call with her I promised to call her today and know her condition. I was so busy and forgot to her. she viewed my status on Whatsapp 3:00pm today 1 hour after that I called her someone picked that they're in hospital she got car accident. am so confused I called again nobody picked. my call. am so scared don't know her condition she's dead or alive. 😭😭

there's this guy I really love he's a final year student in the university. wataran muyita magana Muna hira sosai kusan kullum watarana kuma sai mu dan dade bamu yi magana ba but ina daga mishi kafa ne saboda hidimar school na san ku gane ai but woah ina son shi in asa rai idan ya gama zamu ci gaba sosai daga inda muka tsaya but I'm still doubtful should I continue 😥

Assalam, please I need help, so I've been struggling with mastubation for years, Alhamdulillah with prayers and patience I got my way out of it na daina gaba daya, Amman saida ya haifar mun da effect na mummunar chiwon baya, don Allah idan akwai wadda yasan maganin da zanyi amfani dashi ya taimaka mun koh wadda hakan ya taba faruwa dashi ku taimakeni don Allah. Nagode 🙏

where are the imams in this forum?? I know ramadan is over but sitta shawwal is still knocking.. So i have been having shakku on this thing i heard..that music is haram especially when you are fasting..does this mean when your fasting and you listen to music the fast is invalid??..sannan kuma ance in kana azumi and ka ga abinda ya tayar ma da sha'awa koda maziyi ka fitar azumi ya baci??wasu sunce azuminka na nan indai ba maniyi ka fitar ba,wasu kuma sunce se ka rama azumin musamman ma in na ramadan ne..malamai ina jira pls

karki bari kanin jahilci ya rudeki ki ki nunawa kulawa ga mijinki kanin jahilci shine (kasan abu aman ka kiyi). misali ko yana cin abinci a cikin AC dauko mafici rinka yi mai fifita. In yace meye haka? kece ai ka isa neh sweety. zakigani in mai hankali neh har wani dan murmusi na nuna kauna zai sakar miki. ba boka ba magani zaki rika juya mijinki har a rika tunanin da cecekuce kin mallakeshi,bayan kawai tsananin kulawa ceh tasa ya koma kamar Dan karamin yaro.😅 Mwaleey📖✏️

MATA MASU SANYA JIGIDA GAREKU 🥰😍 Mlm jigida A kugun mace Duniyane wllh😌 Barema kuma ace a kugun matarka ne idan Tana tafiya zakaji suna kara chass chass Barin mah ace Ta danyi tsalle sai dai kaji sunce chasss....😍 Musamman ma ace kana a zaune a falo tazo wuce ta gabanka tana rangwada tana juya kugu mai sanye da jigida sautin kadawarshi ya doki kunnenka take zakaji gaba daya kayi la'asar jijiyoyin jikinka sun daina kai sako kwakwalwanaka ruhinka da tunani Ka tsayawa zasuyi waje guda suna neman dauki......😄🤩🙈🙈 Mln jigida dukiyace muna miko gaisuwa mata masu adon jigida. Wacce kuma bata fara sakawa bah toh ta fara kar mu bude shafi akanta.yauwa😅 shawara ceh 🙏

SUNAN KI BUTA'ALATIHIT TEA * ** *** BUTA'ALATIHIT TEA shine sunan kofin shayi a larabcin bugaggu/yan maye,wannan suna bai dace da kowa ba sai: 1.wacce iyayen ta suke ciyar da ita,su Mata sutura amma in aka saka ta aiki saita zunbura baki. 2.wacce ta mayar da soyayya kasuwanci,mai bata shine mai son ta. 3.wacce take korafi ga saurayi/mijin ta Akan baya bata lokaci kullum yana busy amma ita bata kiran Shi a cikin busy time din dan ta masa sannu da aiki ba. 4.wacce take korafi ga saurayi/miji bai sai Mata Kati ba,ba zatayi amfani da nata wurin kiran Shi ba sai dai flashing,ko ya sa Mata ma ba zata yi godiya ba. 5.wacce take zaune Kamar kayan wanki,bata karatu,bata Sana'a(koda online ne). 6.wacce take tunanin kwalliya da iya girki kawai zasu mallake Mata saurayi/mijin ta ba kyan hali ba. 7.wacce ta dauki zafin kishi a matsayin akalar rayuwar ta,ita kadai ke da miji,in wata ta aure Shi,ita zata fita. Da sauransu Wallahi Allah ya halicci mace ne saboda su samarwa namiji natsuwa domin Shi nauyi da yawa ne a kanshi,hakan yasa Allah baya tsinewa matar da bata yiwa mijinta girki ko wanki ba,amma yana tsinewa matar da ta hana mijinta ya kusance ta saboda wulakanci,domin jima'i yana cikin abinda yake yayewa namiji damu da kasala. Yan Mata da matan aure kusani,duk namijin kwarai is always busy,sbd busy din nan shine duty din da Allah y daura masa ta yadda zai iya rike Iyalinsa da yan uwansa,ke kuma you are less busy,Allah bai daura miki nauyu ba sbd yanaso in Wanda yake busy yazo gareki,ki samar masa da nustuwa da Hutu,amma meye amfanin ke baki Samar masa da nustuwa ba sai dai ki daura masa naki damuwar bayan kina ji kina ganin uzururrukan sa? Abin takaicin,duk saurayin da ba busy yake ba,in kika bincika bashi da Sana'a ko kuma ciyar dashi Ake yi bai girma ba,mu da muja girma kam,muna ta neman duniya Kamar ba zamu mutu ba,muna neman lahira Kamar na za ayi anjima damu ba. Wake up oh you BUTA'ALATIHIT TEA ALKALAMIN SIDI SADAUKI✏♥

If you think of your partner/relationship and you automatically become sad and moody, Then you dating the wrong person. Move on!!! The more you delay, the more you kill your chances to meeting the right person.

Bawan Allahn nan tun Muna secondary school yake Sona,and ni a wurina i just take it as joke gaskiya,but he mean ni kuma sai inta kauce wa,he calls me time to time just to know how I'm doing,wtarana ma banaa dauka,gifts kuma Yana kawowa Alhamdulillah,but koya kawo b koyaushe nake karba b,sai ya nuna like ranshi ya bace nake answer coz i don't wanna hurt a heart that loves me... whatever I do to him baya fushi wlhi. I really do want him back now coz he's not as he is in the beginning. what should I do to get him back.. Coz i really need him nw😭💔.