Assalamu alaykum people,, well lemme start from the very start, well I met this guy last year, Masha Allah he's everything a lady needs, and me being young girl I fell for him, (he's my first love) everything was going well, we started dating, our love was the purest, gradually the love kept on increasing that when I don't talk to him in a day I feel incomplete, before we started dating when I asked him about his birthday he gave me the date, January, so ana nan then January came in, I wished him and prayed for him, then we started having little problems, he was always busy that we hardly talk a day, and ni kuma I was starting to get upset cause I needed him every moment, so he later told me about his busy schedule and he made some adjustments for Me and we fixed everything, he's this guy that each time I get upset with him he says "baby you know I love you" for the past 8 months, he called my name just 4 times I think, he's always like I love you more and most each time I say I love you. So last month I saw some posts on Instagram of people who know him wishing him happy birthday , and I decided to confront him, when I asked him he swore to me wai January ne, it was hard believing but he still managed to cconvince me that it wasn't that day, a day later, my best friend (she has him on Snapchat) saw his post with a birthday cake and a gift and the caption was "thank you bae for the bday" so she sent me the video, when I saw it, I was broken, I've never felt that way in my whole life, I couldn't cry when I saw it, so she comforted me and advised me not to confront him, some hours ago by 1am I broke down, I cried for hours, even while praying tears were flowing freely, I even fell sick with an issue of dehydration , a day later he called me, he noticed the nature of the call cause I'm very jovial, he asked if he offended me but I said no, he later promise that he'll never leave my side, the next day he called again and said I make him happy and ended the call with I love you most.. And the most funniest part is I still love him despite all the things I saw, well should I confront him? Or should I forget about it and keep on with our relationship cause love is patience...

Salam Alaikum arewa people,we all know exams are starting soon so please let’s pray for each other ???Allah ya bamu sa’a ya rabamu da carry over Ameen

what pushed me to ask this question is i saw a post on northern blog a story that was posted on this website about a girl that seduced a guy and some people on the comment section were saying its a made up story. i am not here to say if THE STORY IS TRUE OR NOT. but what i noticed is several times when a story similar to this comes up se mutane su ce ai basu yadda, suna nufin girls are not capable of sexual behaviors towards men but i am sure if its a story about a man that invited a girl to his home and seduce her people will be quick to believe. the question is Why??? i personally have an experience during my school days there was this girl that likes to touch me haka nan infact there was a day she hugged me in public and i was speechless i didn't stop her because i liked it anyway i just want to know the reason why people think like that and wallahi girls are capable of even rape if they had physical power over men. a dinga yin adalci

Salamualykum ...anty ina da wani dan matsala... Nayi aure fyn alhmdulilah... I living well with my husband da dangin sa amma matsalata dayane His click of friends... They compromise of 4male and a female.. Banda Matsala da male friends dinsa amma that female friend dince banso.... A Girl suke ce mata... Sun dauketa kaman gold.. Basu son ranta ya bace... Kyautata mata sukayi ko ince their world revolves around her... Komai A girl... Komai A girl.... Duk da itace sannadiyan haduwar mu har mukayi aure though she's not my friend i don't just feel comfortable with her They are two that are married... Naso yi ma dayan matan magana amma naga ko a jikinta.... Every last Saturday of d month suke haduwa.... Ayi hira a ci abinci...just to have fun... kaman normal policy dinsu kenan.... She's a student... Idan zasu je dubata a school... Kanan wani biki zasu....the importance they show her is too much.... Rannan danaa masa magana akai ranann bamu kwana lfy a gidannan ba Cewa yayi ida ba dan ita ba... Bai kai matsaayin da yake ba....she means a lot to him...na kasa bacci ranan.... Sanda aka kawo ni Amarya duk hirar da zamiyi sai ya saka A girl a ciki....A Girl kaza, rana kaza A Girl ta mana kaza....ko shopping suke raka ta....rannannya dawo da kayan shoping na tambayeshi wannnan kayan fah wai nawa ne....sun raka A Girl shopping shine tace ya siya min nima Rannan sallah injinsu suna cewa idan A Girl tayi aure fah sun shiga uku dan mijinta zai hana su ganninta....akwai wanda yake sonta a cikin su amma bai gaya maata ba...har suna zugashi ya mata magana su dadaita at least zasu san taxo gida Abin haushin har danginsa sun san A girl...rannan sisters dinsan da sukazo suke tambayansa yaya ina A Girl dinka...yace tana lagos amma ta kusu dawowa suma sunyi missing dinta...ni kuma wallahi banaso....duk matsalaar sa...sai ya fada wa yan click dinnan nasa kuma sai a ce bari a jira A Girl zata kawo shawara mai kyau Kuma karamar yarinya ce she is 22 Wallahi auty ina son in rabasu....bata taba shiga hakkina ba bata taba min komai ba amma banaso Dayan matar friend dinsa ko a jikin ta....rannan mijinta ya siyo mata abu ya bata ...har tambaya taka ina na A Girl....sai yace ai bata nan ta tafi lagos....a lagos iyayen ta keda zama...taje hutu gida...dan Alllah ya kuka ga alamarin nan...isnt it strange Dan allah yan aji ku ban shawara...please hide my identity

last week i went to a prostitute for the first time to have sex, i didn't have a condom so we did everything but i did not penetrate her. amma tun the next day da safe nake ji kamar banda lafiya on and off haka, jiya da yamma ma bacci nayi cus i felt so tired kuma ban saba jin haka ba wata sa'i kuma in ji ciwon kai da kasala. ina so in je asibiti for test amma i am scared. i thought you can only contact disease if you have intercourse. please is it possible that i contacted a disease? i am so worried.

My problem started at my early age of puberty growing up in a male dominated family i noticed a problem in d grot of my P*nis tunda muna da B.Q ah gida inda we can move freely in our boxers, i noticed mine is below the normal growth rate at my age compare to that of my junior's,so sai nafara neman some of this male enhancement drugs da kuma maganin gargajiya lokacin i was 19yrs of age. Som of this medicine u need to be married before u take it to knw it effectiveness or otherwise toh nikuma bani da aure...@ dat tym i don't knw of anything masturbation sai da wani frnd dina yana min hirra dat this is wat he used to do duk lokacin da sha'awa ya dameshi so sai nima na fara...farawanda nayi kuma yasa na kara discovering wani bigger problem basan koh it wil be a permanent one koh zai canza ba...*the prob is dat i am A ONE MINUTES MAN*(HAVING PREMATURE EJACUALATION)* which means i can only w*nk myself OR HAVE S*X for a minutes or two since kuma i never had sex with a girl...wich is another big problem for me.. Toh yanzu babar damuwana shine i am now 25 five kuma all these problems haryanzu ina corping dasu, Kuma AURE NA SA' AH GABA ANY MOMENT FROM NOW TAMBAYA NA SHINNE 1-SHOULD I TELL MY PARTNER TO BE THE PROBLEM AM HAVING,IF YES HOW DO I TELL HER IF ""NO'" INAGA KAMAN NACI AMANA'NTA TUNDA NASAN DA WANAN DAMUWAN BANFADA MATA BA. KUMA NI WALHI KULUM ina GANIN MATA SUNA COMPLAIN CEWA MAZANSU BASA SATISFYING NASU SEXUALLY TO I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS TO SOMEONE DAUGHTER I DON'T WANT TO STARVE HER OF SEX...WHAT DO I DO PLEASE THANKS FOR UR TYM PLS UR ADVICE WILL GREATLY HELP ND IF ANY ONE NO HOW TO REMEDY OR CURE THOSE PROBLEMS SHOULD PLS HOOK ME TO THEM thnk u (Pls share this on N.B instapage too thnk)

Good morning brothers and sisters up North, my question is, HOW DO WE IMPROVE THE EDUCATIONAL STANDARD OF OUR PRIMARY AND SECONDARY SCHOOLS IN AREWA? I have observed that most primary school pupils and secondary school students in arewa can't compare with their counterparts down south not because they are not intelligent but what could be the reason making them lag behind? Later on, most of us find it hard to cope in tertiary institutions because of our poor educational background, you will a very intelligent person who knows a lot regarding a course but he won't make a good grade because he rarely understands English and at the end it affects our overall result. How do we tackle this issue? What are you suggestions? How do we improve the situation my fellow yan Arewa?

just kafin ramadan i met this girl that recently moved into my area. ranar da muka fara haduwa a shop zan yi siyayya she wanted to buy something and asked me which 1 will be better, i told her my opinion and left a lokacin banyi tunani wani abu ba kuma i had a belief that mata basu neman maza. From that day we use to meet time to time mu gaisa har na amshi number dinta muka fara chatting. we became friends. On Sallah day ta ce in bata goron sallah (jokingly nace ta zo ta karba ina gida) se tace tana Gida in kawo mata, she invited me. ashe parents dinta and all her siblings have gone out. as i arrived she invited inside i was like isn't there people in your house? she said no. i felt something wrong in my mind. At last she tried to seduce me i refused at first then she threatened me that if i don't do it she will shout that i came in to rape her. i never thought girls can behave in this way, haka tazo muka gama shafe shafe and i commited zina with her on sallah day. i feel very bad about it and i hate her. i have cut all communications with her now she later apologized to me but still i will never forgive her. Wallahi mata yan iska ne kuma wasu basu da Imani. i am worried about myself and the sin i have committed, i have been depressed since that day. please how can i overcome this issue ya tsaya min a rai sosai.

Life is a test,an exam. When you make a test in school, you always have a question which are easy but there are always a few which are too difficult. These questions are so difficult that they can help you fail your tests. That's where you have to open your eyes. Life is like that. Allah tests us continue, he gives us pain to ask him for help. He gives us happiness because we deserve it and be thankful for him. Each test in life has its price. The most important thing is to never turn your back to Allah. If you remember him, he will remember you. But if you turn back to him, he will do to you and you will only get hurt. Trust him and always put him in your mind, soul, and body.. He is always there to support you. Be patience! Patience is the weapon

I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago and since then I have been feeling empty inside me like there’s a part of me that’s missing I feel I need someone to be close to me to be able to share my life issues and problem with someone that will always be there for me I feel I just need someone to be with badly but I cannot go back to my ex girlfriend because of the complexity in the breakup and I these few months about a year have been so much difficult for me Finding another girlfriend is like an uphill impossible task finding someone I truly love I tell my friends finding a girlfriend is not easy they laugh and are like you are the one that doesn’t know what to do it’s all just soo depressing they are like no girl can reject you but I don’t even know how to explain it please what can I do

Malama ina cikin wata matsala gf dita tana boarding gashi ta dade ni kuma gaskiya na gaji zan iya yin wata gf din kafin ta dawo? Please help me out

Miji na yayi aure tun April this year since then he doesn't even touch me sexually idan ma ya zo gida na kwana se dai kawai muyi bacci mu tashi kuma on the same bed ni kuma abin ya ishe ni because i have my desires i once tried to start the act but he pushed me away wai ya gaji. it really hurt me and i felt unwanted. yanzu ban san me zanyi ba i started watching porn and masturbation to satisfy myself but i stopped after realizing its haram and i have a husband. i told my close friend about this, i can't discuss it with anyone in my family i feel very shy. so she advice me to drug my husband in a drink at night and i can get on him and do what i want, she even said she can help me get a powerful drug for that so yanzu i am confused, is this right? i don't have any choice and i don't wanna fall into sin tsakani da Allah. please i want to hear your suggestions/opinions.

How do we emancipate almajiris in arewa and give them a life they deserve, a better life. It pains me a lot seeing these children out of school, no proper care, no food, no good clothes etc. These children are been exploited and because they have no choice, they will do anything to survive. What's the solution, parents need to be enlightened, the present almajiri system is not like the one of those years past, the world has changed. What do we do about this issue? It's a time bomb, waiting to explode.

Malama I need your advice and yan aji abt our relationship with my cousin.. Muna soyayya dashi amma no any sign of care, affection or anything, in na mishi magana sai yace shi haka yake kuma b4 kafin mu fara soyayya mun fi shiri sosai amma yanzu I don't know why ya chanza yanzu abun ma ya zama worse cuz sometimes ma ce min yakeyi ya fasa daga bays kuma yazo yace wasa yake min but still babu any sign of care.. I'm confused Malama yana min wasa da hankali kuma abun yana damu na kuma ya fara affecting karatu na. Pls I need your advice and yan aji. Thank you

I was dating a guy ,irin lyk we met on Instagram, to be Frank he loves me and nima ina sonshiii buh we've never met and yanaso y aure niiii Kuma yanaso na hada shiii da parents Dina and idann nace yazo sae y banii uzuriii and gsky I really wants to see him in person sbd I'll take it more serious,is it okay mu cigaba da dating nd nabashiii no. Parents Dina ko kuma nayiii insisting yazo?pls help a sister and wat do u think any this?

i have this friend everything seems okay about him except he likse to be touching/holding my hand sometimes like when we will cross the streets and be putting his hands around my neck when we are sitting or walking. i really hate it i am even avoiding him now because what he is doing looks gay. he calls me sometimes to hang out or escort him somewhere even during Sallah amma se in bashi excuse kawai soboda abinda yake yi is irritating. is it normal that some guys are like this or am i taking it too far?

Few days back, while I was slaughtering some chickens at home, I felt remorseful full after the deed, watching those creatures grasping for oxygen, it was painful to the extent I couldn't continue, same thing happened when I saw some people slaughtering a ram, This is not my first time slaughtering animals but this time it felt different, Like I don't have power to give life but I was taking it from this creatures. It was a sad day for me.

I have porn addiction problem. Please I'm looking for someone who can help me out.

Assuming your Father say stand up and your Husband say sit down... As a wife who will you obey please be sincere??

my boyfriend that has promised to marry me asked me for nude pictures yesterday I don't feel comfortable to send but I don't want to offend him please what do you guys think? should I send or not? Thanks