I'm at the point where I'm just tired of men, relationship and marriage. Nasan ba laifi su bane, na me fuck up, lose guard har na sa kai na cikin depression. At this point I just want to be happy again, and I can only allow myself, the happiness I have been deprived, by myself. Kana tar3 da shi , loyal, and loving, ko baza ki bada 100% at least you're giving him 85% but he'll go elsewhere to look for 15% as if that's not enough ,he will happily cheat on you. And to justify his dirty habits, ai shi na miji neh. Esp married men, kuji Tsoran Allah. If you don't love your wife's, then think about your kids, and how you're about to break your home.

ean uwa ku bani shawara Ina da wani saurayi ne wai shi nan aure na yike san yi amma innamishi magana yaxo gidan mu wajena Wai shi nan kunya yi ke ji ko kuma wai bai shirya ba amma idan yanason ganina sai yace mu hadu awani waje ko kuma in xan fita ya kai ni yakuke ganin xan yi handlin in shi

so I sent my BVN and NIN to a online friend I don't know pls don't ask me how, the deed has been done I just want to know if I am safe😂 are my other accounts safe too because omo...I can't sleep no one should criticise me for Allah sake, I just want to know if I'm safe...

why is divorce very Rampant in Arewa

there's something I've been wondering girls will be talking financial stable man, does it mean if am not stable financially I'll not be loved?

Assalam Alaikum family,please i need your help on this am a girl,and unmarried so here is something that is disturbing me,nakasance mace me karfin sha'awa but Alhamdulillah i know how to handle myself without committing any bad things,so this two days senake samun wani matsala,zan kwanta bacci lfy lao banji nayi mafarki bah kowanni abu yafaru dani bah sede kawai natashi najini ajike shne nakeson akara min ilmi wanka ya kamanine kobe kamani bah Cox the thing is really disturbing me and kuma sometimes ma ena xaune batare dayin tunani mara kyauba koh yin wani abun mara kyau shima senajini najike please shima xanyi wanka ne not,please help a sis🙏

As a Muslim I believe Allah SWT Has predestined everything but addu'a and good deeds use to help in reshaping it. When it comes to marriage; please what do we actually want? 1, The right person ( spouse). or 2, The perfect person ( spouse). I'm definitely sure that Allah SWT in His infinite mercy and wisdom Has brought us the right person at one stage of our lives or another, but we felt that's not as perfect (a person) as we want. We aren't perfect either, why do we then want the other to perfectly suit all we want/ desire? Why do we create an imagination and base our hopes on it? Many people have abused others due to the fact that they didn't match their expectations either physically or financially but not morally. Do you think Allah will let it go without consequences? He made a choice for you, but you abused it. We hypocritically say we want "zabin Allah" while in reality we're not sincere with it. You don't know the position of the person you mocked/looked down upon in the SIGHT of Allah SWT. Allah SWT knows what is in your heart even if you think the person doesn't know. Allah SWT will surely pay you back in His own way. Allah SWT gives all of us what we actually deserve. So if you're married to a monster ( husband or wife) note that you deserve it. If you doubt it go back history lane in your life and remember how many people have you mocked,looked down upon, abused , insulted, taken advantage of or taken for granted. Do you expect all that to go in vain? Allah is the Judge and He's THE MOST JUST OF THE JUDGES. Whatever you get , you deserve. May Almighty Allah pay everyone accordingly. So blame none but yourselves. You want a sincere and honest spouse;are you sincere and honest? You want a God fearing spouse; how God fearing are you? You want a respectful spouse; how respectful are you? You want a perfect spouse; how perfect are you? You're wasting your time and deceiving yourself by saying Allah's time is the best. When is Allah's time? When in reality you're suffering from a curse laid upon you by Allah for mocking/rejecting/abusing what He gave to you. Some of the delays or bad things that happen in our lives are actually due to a curse laid upon us for our evil doings. The mistake we make is, we think that the repercussions of our actions will only come in the hereafter. That's a lie. Whatever you are facing is well deserved because it's the result of your actions. Allah knows what is in your heart and He'll definitely give you what you deserve. Blame none but yourselves. If you want to live a good and peaceful life work on yourself. WHATEVER YOU SOW,YOU SHALL REAP. I'm waiting for comments.

why is that that yarinya duk kyawun ta kyawun hali koh ilimin ta indai har she’s from a poor background to baza a aure ta ba a baban gida koda koh shi yaron yana so za’a hadashi the fact that indai yarinya daga poor family kike to tabbas indai kinaso ki chanza background kema kidan ji dadi to saidai ki auri tsoho mai kudi koh yaron masu kudin amma mai shayeshaye amma on a normal bases basa bari. yaran talakawa suma mutane ne kaman kowa suna so sudan chanza abeg let them feel among too Haba. zakaga yara masu kyau da ilimin su amma saboda auren wahala sun tsufa da wuri, abeg whealth family u people una Dey mix mana consider the beautiful ladies in a poor background.

Assalamu Alaikum house Please how to move on after a breakup? I was served a very hot breakfast subhanallah😭 Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'una,am depressed I dnt even know what to do any word of encouragement please??😭 ya Salaam!!! ya zanyi na manta wannan abun? Please ku taimaka mun da shawara Please jazakumullahu khair as you do.

House wani irin preparation kuke mana na Christmas?

What do u know about jigida??? I never use it but yanzu ta fara burgeni Ina so how do u think about it a zamanin yanzu sannan kuma what's the benefit of using it?

Dear ladies I know many attimes after after a broken relationship or in a relationship clouded by misunderstanding and hurdles, you often ask yourselves "What do men actually want?" Well I'm gonna answer that question today. The truth is, there's no such thing as a "general want" for men, every man has his own desire. What men want is a fallacy and a scam to actually trick you into being what they want you to be. The truth is, every man has his needs. And want every man wants differs according to individual. Some men want ladies with big blossoms, with a heavy behind and some want slim ladies, some fair, some dark. Intellectually sound or even intellectually backward ladies. So stop killin.g yourselves over the whole idea of "what men want" after breakfast. There's no such thing like that. The sooner you learn this, the less hurt you'll be.

Still searching? may Allah bless us with مرأة صالحة

why is it that in har dan fulani ya auri wacca ba fulani ba there's problem, komin wayewan familin shi kuga ana treating dinta somehow, is it a crime to like a Fulani guy!!!

hey I'm coming into your life but,I have no intention of staying long,so don't get too attached.

I'm searching 🥺😂

Barkan mu yan uwa......bara nayi bayani dalla dalla yanda zaku gane😂a gidan su baban mu mata 3 nei so maman baban mu ta rasu tun yana 100lv kuma su 7 nei a wajan maman su so yanzun dai after 22yrs da maman su ta rasu babansu shima ya rasu yanzun dai a gidan kakannin namu gabilanci ake nuna mana anma sakayyan Allah kuma sai yan dakin su babban mu duk Allah ya musu Arziki Anma kuma ba isheshen lfy then my dad pass away last year(say a prayer plx)yanzun mai bin nashe mai kula damu bashi da lfy shima kanin nasa diabetics ya rige masa ido(idan yaran sa sun shigo family)sai sauran kakannin mu suta mugu hulakanci wlh banjin dadin abu.....Abun bama nan ya tsaya ba harta yaran kakannin namu da yayansu wulakanci sukeyiwa duk yan dakin su baban mu saboda sunga gida ya zama namu bayan gidan ma blood Kanin baban namu ke chiyar dasu anma duk basa gani idan zaayi family wedding na Dayan dakin idan yan dakin mu zasu shiga hota sai yaran suce iya yan dakin su nei to wlh Abun ya fara kaimu Bango. yanzun ya kuke gani zaayi mai shawaran ku

Dear Future husband I know you are out there. Someday I will see you when you will be here sitting right next to me. I will tell you how my day was, how it made me feel lonely, and how strongly I acted. I will tell you, how one day, I fought with myself just to trail along the world. Accept the bitter reality of people around me. Yet loving them compassionately, I learned how life can be. I will tell you ,how your gender toy with my emotion,how they shattered my heart,how they left me depressed .I just have to accept the bitter true that am not worthy of love for now and accept the fact that maybe am worthy only for your life till we meet I will continue to ask Allah to safe gruad you ,protect you and provide u with not both halal and also protect u from any form of zina as it destroy many of our youth nowadays. with love your future soul mate

I want to start a relationship what are the main abubuwan da zan kiyaye

Salam, As amarya how do you feel after your first night knowing fully your husband finds out you are not a virgin? As ango how do you feel finding your wife isn't a virgin?